I think it has fuck all to do with orientation and "success" is about who you are as a human being.
You can get more sex than hot dinners, but if you're behaving in a manner that isn't kind to others, being deceptive or manipulative, then that's not success... it's being a grade A cunt. |
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"I think it has fuck all to do with orientation and "success" is about who you are as a human being.
You can get more sex than hot dinners, but if you're behaving in a manner that isn't kind to others, being deceptive or manipulative, then that's not success... it's being a grade A cunt."
Gotcha and thanks. |
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"I think it has fuck all to do with orientation and "success" is about who you are as a human being.
You can get more sex than hot dinners, but if you're behaving in a manner that isn't kind to others, being deceptive or manipulative, then that's not success... it's being a grade A cunt."
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"As a bi guy I get far more action with guys than girls. "
Yeah I reckon gay and bi guys get more action than straight men. 
I don't think the same works for women.. |
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"I think it has fuck all to do with orientation and "success" is about who you are as a human being.
You can get more sex than hot dinners, but if you're behaving in a manner that isn't kind to others, being deceptive or manipulative, then that's not success... it's being a grade A cunt."
Yep ^^^^^^^^ I’m down with that.
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I guess I get more messages because I dress and bisexual than if I was on here in my male mode.
When it comes to women they’re a third choice meet for me, as I’m here to tick off a few sexual fantasies. So I’d prefer a couple to message me over a single woman on here, because as much as I enjoy sex with women I do like a guy involved as well.
On the guys site I can be inundated with messages even with only a couple of photos up, so I understand what it’s like for the women on here I’m no longer on that site as a couple of guys I work with are on the site, so prefer my private escapades to remain private.
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I think part of it is online activity.
Over on Fabguys (swingers partner site for gays+ bisexuals) my profile hits over 3,000 daily views and endless messages. And their online people at any one time peaks at 17,000.
If I made an account here in male mode (which has a much bigger membership) would I get that much attention?
Me thinks not |
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(under normal circumstances) It's easier to meet guys here than it is on fabguys
It is also way easier to meet men here than it is women and much less hassle
One thing I have noticed in the 10+ years since I first joined Fab is that there are more couples where the guy is bi / curious / playful |
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"(under normal circumstances) It's easier to meet guys here than it is on fabguys
It is also way easier to meet men here than it is women and much less hassle
One thing I have noticed in the 10+ years since I first joined Fab is that there are more couples where the guy is bi / curious / playful"
I find the opposite for me lol.
My profile is quieter here which I why I like to chill out here from time to time when the other is too busy.
But that's because there's more straight guys here so not as many messages (but some do try bless them) |
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over a year ago
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"I think it has fuck all to do with orientation and "success" is about who you are as a human being.
You can get more sex than hot dinners, but if you're behaving in a manner that isn't kind to others, being deceptive or manipulative, then that's not success... it's being a grade A cunt."
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I definitely get more attention from all genders on here as a crossdresser than I do as a normal single male.
That could have a lot to do with how much crap I can get away with on here being a bloke in a dress when compared to what a guy can though soas Peach says above, it has a lot to do with how you come across on the forums rather than just your LGBTQ status.
Thats my experience of it anyway. |
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"I think it has fuck all to do with orientation and "success" is about who you are as a human being.
You can get more sex than hot dinners, but if you're behaving in a manner that isn't kind to others, being deceptive or manipulative, then that's not success... it's being a grade A cunt."
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"I think it has fuck all to do with orientation and "success" is about who you are as a human being.
You can get more sex than hot dinners, but if you're behaving in a manner that isn't kind to others, being deceptive or manipulative, then that's not success... it's being a grade A cunt."
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"I've had way more offers from men than women and my profile says straight. I can only imagine how much gay guys get to hook up on here.
Seems to be a lot of bi curious couple's on here at the moment
Really wish I was bi. "
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I suppose it depends what you mean by “the LGBTQ community” and/or which parts of it. For example, asexual people are part of the community but I imagine they’re very much in the minority on here. It’s a bit meaningless to lump us all together for a question like this.
If you mean do gay and bi men get more action than straight men, yes probably, but for bi men probably with other men not women. In fact, hypocritical and unfair as it is, being bi can harm men’s chances with women. For women, I don’t know - I imagine for lesbians it’s not all that easy on here, but I might be wrong. For bi women, we probably have more options available to us than anyone else, but that doesn’t always mean we’ll be successful.
Also, it depends what success means to you. Does it mean a string of one-off bedpost notches, or sleeping with more people than anyone else? Or does it mean finding a few good friends you have fantastic chemistry with and mostly just meeting them? I think we probably all have our own definitions of success. |
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"I've had way more offers from men than women and my profile says straight. I can only imagine how much gay guys get to hook up on here.
Really wish I was bi. "
Surprisingly, gay guys don't do too well
Saying you are bi is a much better way of getting offers of cock
A lot of bi & curious guys here are gay anyway
They just don't say it because of the above |
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"I think it has fuck all to do with orientation and "success" is about who you are as a human being.
You can get more sex than hot dinners, but if you're behaving in a manner that isn't kind to others, being deceptive or manipulative, then that's not success... it's being a grade A cunt."
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As a female attracted trans woman i seem to readily make friends online. Occasionally i find couples with a woman for whom the "trans woman experience" has a curiosity factor.
Very rare though to find women who have a primary sexual attraction to those like me. |
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"As a bi guy I get far more action with guys than girls. "
I'm not bi, but I get a lot of pics fabbed by gay and bi guys. When I just came on the site there was a plethora of gay and bi guys who would msg me, until I had to block them lol.
So if I was on that side of the fence, I definitely would have played more on fab |
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I think Peach answered it perfectly. 
