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Advice you'd give your 18 year old self
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Yaaaaaaas!!!!! Look at you! 10 years later and you’re going to be even more fabulous so keep doing what you’re doing. Also, those girls who are by your side through every up and down are still going to be by your side so get used to them. You’ve made the best friends for life |
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"Yaaaaaaas!!!!! Look at you! 10 years later and you’re going to be even more fabulous so keep doing what you’re doing. Also, those girls who are by your side through every up and down are still going to be by your side so get used to them. You’ve made the best friends for life "
But in a serious note. Lay off the double wear covering the lips. That look didnt age well |
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over a year ago
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Don’t worry about things you have no control of. Don’t worry about things that have already happened.
Don’t worry about financial problems, money comes & goes. |
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Non serious....
Your birthday present is going to be her offering herself to you... so don’t be an idiot and go over with your third wheel mate!
Serious.... put some of your wages in a savings account instead of behind the bar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I've changed much in 7 years 
Probably open yourself up a bit more around new people and lighten up a bit and take part in the banter instead of getting defensive  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't compare yourself to others especially your eleder brother however marvellous he may be. Belive in yourself- You are good enough.
Spend more time with your parents and not just with your friends. |
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"Yaaaaaaas!!!!! Look at you! 10 years later and you’re going to be even more fabulous so keep doing what you’re doing. Also, those girls who are by your side through every up and down are still going to be by your side so get used to them. You’ve made the best friends for life
But in a serious note. Lay off the double wear covering the lips. That look didnt age well "
Lord 
I got mocked for my attempts at eyeshadow at that age, gave it up because the fuck would I know.
Matte brown at the lashline, fading just above the crease.
I was fucking blending, ish, with no guidance and back when harsh lines at the end of your eyeshadow was still a thing.
Girl you know what you're doing FFS  Haters gonna hate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Revenge will ruin your twenties...
leave it be & Forgive & live your life.  "
Whatever it was you were just a Kid. It takes a very strong person to admit a mistake and then grow from it. Everything I see from you on here tells Me you are one Hell of a Guy. You deserve every bit of happiness that comes your way !! |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
I was living in a pub When i was 18 and had lots of guys giving me advice on what i should/shouldn't do. Some i listened to, some i didn't.
I've made mistakes, but I also have some amazing memories.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont join the army, make sure your future wife likes to swing. Not one who closes her legs for ever when you suggest it would be fun to swing. Once the kids are out of the way. Make sure the lady is bi so you can have bi times with other bi people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Learn to sleep without holding it.
Stop pulling it out in public.
Not all women think it's cute.
Don't show it off in interviews.
Stop rubbing it's head off strangers on the bus.
...and don't be a man in his forties still calling it 'Mr Fury' !!!....a grown man should have grownup relationships, especially with his teddy bear  |
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Enjoy being dressed up as a woman is not wrong or something to hide, enjoy the feeling of being dressed in lingerie, skirts and dresses. Try and get out to a club, or TV weekend.
Watch out riding your mates honda, the crash will add an interesting bit to your life.
Get the R6 back on the road,as quick as you can.
Stop being too shy, to stand up for yourself. |
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Build a brick wall, being shy will get you nowhere. Stop writing about it and get off your arse and do it. The world is your oyster so go out and live it. Love, laugh, make mistakes and be happy but never, ever look back.
p.s., if anyone called M or P comes alone - run fast - in the opposite direction. get yourself a girlfriend, it's easier! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Considering you fucked up school due to ill health and messing about, concentrate on college. Maths isn't your string point, but you will to brush up on for electrical & the electronic courses.
Be careful of one particular girl, she only wants to get pregnant to get a ciuncil house.
Carry on with the sailing it will come in handy later on.
Be wary of some so call friends, once your cash has gone they will drop you.
Your mum will need you soon, make sure you are there for her.
Don't work too hard with your brother, it was a waste of time and effort. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
I d say do not worry about things not happening in the way you thought they would.
Do not try to fix everything and everybody - it comes at a cost.
Other than that - look at life as one big adventure, embrace everything and try not to worry! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Never wait or hesitate get in kid before its too late you may never get another chance cause years amass but it dont last live it long and live it fast "....Georgie was a friend of mine. |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
Stay with the first one, the second one might be more exciting but hes a cheating abusive cunty sociopath whos going to ruin the majority of your adult life and mentally scar you forever! Listen to your Mamma, she knew best |
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By *assy69Man
over a year ago
West Sussex and Wales |
"Interested to see what people would tell their 18 year old self
Don’t sweat it, you will walk again, so stay away from the fridge!! "
Perhaps I should qualify that totally random advice..... I broke my back when I was 27. Took three years to recuperate and get my movement back. Once I was back at home, and able to hobble a bit, the fridge and the food cupboards became my best friends ....... but I put on 6 stone in as many months while I worried about whether I’d ever have a normal, or fairly normal, life again  |
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