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Why don’t you like me?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’m all for personal growth and this year I’ve done a lot of reflecting, a lot of soul searching and taking responsibility for my actions but there’s always room for improvement.

So from my online presence and the way I converse and come across, what don’t you like about me?

Mods I’m asking for this so don’t worry about moderating the thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m all for personal growth and this year I’ve done a lot of reflecting, a lot of soul searching and taking responsibility for my actions but there’s always room for improvement.

So from my online presence and the way I converse and come across, what don’t you like about me?

Mods I’m asking for this so don’t worry about moderating the thread. "
believe it pr not annie I actually quite like you I think you can be alittle blunt at times but maybe that's not a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like you, but you’re hard work and self absorbed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I can be blunt yes but that comes from projecting how I wish to be treated. It’s something I have tried to work on but I believe in transparency and everybody knowing where they stand so they don’t have to second guess anything.

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok, not sure what to say, honestly, here.

As most adults are taught "if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing".

So either this is a plea for all those "awww noooo, we all lurrrrve you" posts, or you'll not get the full truth from everyone due to comeback from people that DO like you!

Not sure this is going to work out as you want, to be honest. Not even sure why you felt the need to post it!

Personally, I feel like it's a shitstorm waiting to happen so I'll grab my popcorn and await out!

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By *oncupiscence73Woman over a year ago

South

"I can be blunt yes but that comes from projecting how I wish to be treated. It’s something I have tried to work on but I believe in transparency and everybody knowing where they stand so they don’t have to second guess anything.

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples. "

I think a constant need for external validation is how I see you. In my mind I think ‘wow can you imagine how needy in real life’ ......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

I think a constant need for external validation is how I see you. In my mind I think ‘wow can you imagine how needy in real life’ ...... "

This too ^^^ ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples. "

Your reply and quote button not working ?

You constantly talk about yourself and it’s exhausting and I haven’t even met you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do actually quite like you, you have got better.

Blunt I can deal with.

You used to bug me with all the self absorbed threads though as there is a fine line between self love and arrogance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, not sure what to say, honestly, here.

As most adults are taught "if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing".

So either this is a plea for all those "awww noooo, we all lurrrrve you" posts, or you'll not get the full truth from everyone due to comeback from people that DO like you!

Not sure this is going to work out as you want, to be honest. Not even sure why you felt the need to post it!

Personally, I feel like it's a shitstorm waiting to happen so I'll grab my popcorn and await out! "
can I sit with you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

I think a constant need for external validation is how I see you. In my mind I think ‘wow can you imagine how needy in real life’ ...... "

Lately or more in the past with my need for external validation?

I don’t want to be needy. I definitely think I’ve given off that vibe in the past. Good point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You think you are gods gift and that all guys fancy you and think you a better then others Erm No.

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

Knowing you from two other places and the exit from one of them I think you may be a little insecure and you like the spotlight.

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

But I also think you have a top sense of humour.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman over a year ago

South

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

I think a constant need for external validation is how I see you. In my mind I think ‘wow can you imagine how needy in real life’ ......

Lately or more in the past with my need for external validation?

I don’t want to be needy. I definitely think I’ve given off that vibe in the past. Good point. "

To be honest I have no clue about lately or in the past I don’t really track you if that makes sense. The last few threads you posted are all about you - that’s not attractive. You’re obviously an attractive woman but you post as if you need to be told this constantly while your posts literally say that you know it. I was surprised at your age as you come across as teenage-ish. My 17 year old neice is similar.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m all for personal growth and this year I’ve done a lot of reflecting, a lot of soul searching and taking responsibility for my actions but there’s always room for improvement.

So from my online presence and the way I converse and come across, what don’t you like about me?

Mods I’m asking for this so don’t worry about moderating the thread. "

I dont know anything about you so cant really comment, you a very attractive though in my opinion of course and in a previous thread made nice comments about my cock so all good from here lol

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By *ig1gaz1Man over a year ago

bradford

"I’m all for personal growth and this year I’ve done a lot of reflecting, a lot of soul searching and taking responsibility for my actions but there’s always room for improvement.

So from my online presence and the way I converse and come across, what don’t you like about me?

Mods I’m asking for this so don’t worry about moderating the thread. "

Theres nothing wrong with you like many more on here that get ignored.

Like you im blunt and straight to the point and many dont like this.

Id rather be me than something im not, and if that means some dont like me im really fine with it.

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By *imon_hydeMan over a year ago

Stockport

I don't know you so this is purely based upon forum posts. You come across as being blunt but witty. I'd say the ability to not care what people think about you would be a goal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gets the popcorn

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

I certainly think your posts are much more positive these days and you really do appear to have grown emotionally...you have in the past definitely came accross as arrogant and self obsessed, though i know youve had a lot of shit to deal with so its totally understandable.

I think the book you are writing will be great and its clearly cathartic, so keep up the good work doll.

PS: I do hope that you can one day see that physically you are absolutely stunning...a lot of women on here im sure would do anything to have a body like yours x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honestly annie I hope that this thread doesmt knock your confidence at all and i hope people arnt to judgemental on you. People may day or post threads for all different reasons and I think a positive being nice thread would be a much better thing for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

Your reply and quote button not working ?

You constantly talk about yourself and it’s exhausting and I haven’t even met you!

Was trying to address the room and answer two comments in one.

I’ll try and answer more in one rather than individually.

Self absorbed a bit I agree.

Don’t think every guy fancies me and I’m better than everyone else, don’t agree with that point.

Twisted I didn’t exit that place I was pushed, exiled, banned, nobody was allowed to speak of me again

Jusy has a quick scan of me green arrow and my last few threads are about gut feelings and letting go and forgiveness. Specifically asking other people to give their views on a subject not about me personally. Oh and one asking where another member has gone so again not about myself.

But it’s all good feedback.

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By *ememberTheNameMan over a year ago

barnsley

"I’m all for personal growth and this year I’ve done a lot of reflecting, a lot of soul searching and taking responsibility for my actions but there’s always room for improvement.

So from my online presence and the way I converse and come across, what don’t you like about me?

Mods I’m asking for this so don’t worry about moderating the thread. "

Who told you I don’t like you ?

I don’t like that you live miles away

How dare you !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've not really done anything to aggravate me, personally. You can say stuff that seems to have the intention to seek confrontation and this thread doesn't really help because it allows others to attack what may be existing insecurities.

I'd say just be yourself for better or worse and see what comes of it

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By *viatrixWoman over a year ago

Redhill

I like you.

I think I’d actually enjoy a social with you very much!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman over a year ago

Wirral.

I don't know you Annie, and I've not long been on the forums so my view is based on recent threads.

You asked for honesty, here goes.

You can be a bit of a killjoy to the lighter threads, and try to make others feel silly, or lacking in character, for enjoying them. I can't help but think "why comment & put a downer on the thread".

You do seem to court controversy, which is fine, as long as you realise you have to take what you dish out.

You have a stunningly attractive body, but that's not what every guy is looking for on here. You need to remember that.

I've noticed some harsh criticism of you on recent threads - most justified - some not so justified. So I think if you're going to continue to try to raise the hackles, you gotta get a thicker skin as you seem to be very polarising

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I certainly think your posts are much more positive these days and you really do appear to have grown emotionally...you have in the past definitely came accross as arrogant and self obsessed, though i know youve had a lot of shit to deal with so its totally understandable.

I think the book you are writing will be great and its clearly cathartic, so keep up the good work doll.

PS: I do hope that you can one day see that physically you are absolutely stunning...a lot of women on here im sure would do anything to have a body like yours x"

Thank you. Yeah writing has helped massively. The whole year has, it’s been really weird for loads of people. I know a lot of people have had time to reflect things. The last guy I had dealings with was the straw that broke the camels back. Made me think right not every single guy I meet is emotionally unavailable. I’ve got to be the common denominator. I’ve read and I’ve asked and I’ve researched and I’ve meditated and read some more. Made me think hmm yeah I did that, and that, oh and that, but it’s sunk in now. Like I don’t have any guys on the cards, won’t even think about them till after Xmas is out the way but excited to do things differently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

Your reply and quote button not working ?

You constantly talk about yourself and it’s exhausting and I haven’t even met you!

Was trying to address the room and answer two comments in one.

I’ll try and answer more in one rather than individually.

Self absorbed a bit I agree.

Don’t think every guy fancies me and I’m better than everyone else, don’t agree with that point.

Twisted I didn’t exit that place I was pushed, exiled, banned, nobody was allowed to speak of me again

But it’s all good feedback. "

Glad you agree with the self absorbed bit, it’s a big turn off for a lot of people, would you fancy a bloke who constantly talked about himself and never asked you how you’re doing, wouldn’t matter how hot he was, I’m sure most women wouldn’t put up with that. Any who, peace out, I’m going for a run. Oh and the people making popcorn comments at least make a constructive comment instead of stirring it up without actually saying anything.

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By *uliaChrisCouple over a year ago

westerham

Really bizarre thread. At no point would a starting point for self improvement be asking a bunch of strangers on a forum who haven’t met you to judge your internet persona.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This will not end well

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By *omino51Man over a year ago

loughborough

Never read your posts. But reading this thread, you sound hard work. I dont like work let alone hard work ?? but hay none of us are perfect and atleast you have the body to be proud of so i guess you can get away with more than a grumpy old bugga like me. All i can advise is enjoy this life it goes by so quick. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

Your reply and quote button not working ?

You constantly talk about yourself and it’s exhausting and I haven’t even met you!

Was trying to address the room and answer two comments in one.

I’ll try and answer more in one rather than individually.

Self absorbed a bit I agree.

Don’t think every guy fancies me and I’m better than everyone else, don’t agree with that point.

Twisted I didn’t exit that place I was pushed, exiled, banned, nobody was allowed to speak of me again

But it’s all good feedback. "

I’ll add to my comment aswell you come across as aggressive and with anger issues. Only the other day you thought a thread was about you when it wasn’t. That’s vein. And then took to personal insults on my thread when you don’t know anything about me even though I wouldn’t change a thing about me. But since that I avoid. Seen this thread and as you asked id give my humble opinion.

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By *ustJohnnoMan over a year ago

Rowlands Castle

I’d always liked you but you rarely give me the time of day. Do you have any idea how hard that makes me like you more!!!

lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like that you haven't had the decency to shag me yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't like that you haven't had the decency to shag me yet

Otherwise, just perfect as you are and a shit load nicer and less self absorbed than half of the ppl commenting (why are they commenting, why am I commenting?). I think you're improving yourself and curious about the world and I like that about you

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

I was reading a thread yesterday and you did help the Op out, when he was getting angry and frustrated. He annoyed me and quite obviously a few others so I did admire that you tried to cool

the situation down.

There’s a few women on here I really like, so much so I’ll look out for them, as we obviously share the same values and beliefs. I’ve seen your posts but non have made me like or dislike you.

As a Woman on this site your voice (forums posts) will be heard and commented on. Yesterday post showed me you do use it for good and being helpful. I don’t follow you enough to know if this is a regular thing or not. But I certainly haven’t had any issues with you personally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's nothing I specifically dislike about you

In fact, I'd go so far as to say that when I open one of your threads I know I'm likely to be entertained/amused

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

Your reply and quote button not working ?

You constantly talk about yourself and it’s exhausting and I haven’t even met you!

Was trying to address the room and answer two comments in one.

I’ll try and answer more in one rather than individually.

Self absorbed a bit I agree.

Don’t think every guy fancies me and I’m better than everyone else, don’t agree with that point.

Twisted I didn’t exit that place I was pushed, exiled, banned, nobody was allowed to speak of me again

But it’s all good feedback.

What about the people that commented before me saying it was about me are they vein as well? For those who don’t know what he’s on about, someone started a thread the other night saying where’s that girl that always used to talk about men’s bum holes. A few people said me and I also thought it was me because I do care a lot about men’s bum holes and I’ve been vocal about it for years. If someone said name a woman on the site that likes men’s bum holes I bet many people would name me. It wasn’t vein to assume he was on about me when many others thought the same.

The personal insult you’re referring to is when YOU started a thread saying what do people prefer real boobs or fake plastic tits, knowing full well it was a dig towards me. Another member said I bet this thread makes people who have had reconstructive surgery feel great why would you do it? I said it’s to have a pop at me for having a breast implants, I said he’s sensitive about his height and sure he if there was a cosmetic procedure to increase his height then he’d take it. It’s nothing more than what you did to me. I’m all for abuse and like you say I am aggressive I’ve got to be for my job. But own your shit I don’t like thinly veiled stuff or people saying things to subtly have a dig. It’s cowardice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your funny

You drink your own bathwater

Blow your own trumpet

You don’t beat about the bush

You can scream and shout in words

Your very articulate in your posts

You got a gorgeous figure

You can be needy

And you can be quite kind

Other than that I have no opinion on you

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I don't dislike you OP.

In the days of forum past, around the Ruby era, we definitely clashed a fair few times but that's because we were both quite hot headed, arrogant, self absorbed, twattish (and I can't be arsed listing more accurate adjectives). I think now you've softened, you're far more likely to actually listen to what others say and engage with them. I like the bluntness, there's no doubt you're saying what you mean/feel and that leaves no ambiguity in your threads and I'd much rather that than a saccharine to the face, cuntish to the back poster.

Do I think you're needy at times? Sure. I think you like feeling seen and there have been occasions recently where you've been less than amused when your comment goes unreplied to. I think sometimes you need to be more careful with wording - you might appreciate a particular way of handling things but it's highly unlikely Average Bob on here will. I do think you can (well clearly going by this thread!) rub others up the wrong way but that's possibly because you have a strong personality and your perceived flaws are less avoidable than other people's.

I think with men you repeat the same patterns of behaviour and it's frustrating to read at times. You're very much dependent on mens approval and that shouldn't be the case. I also think you have a general dislike of fat people (from posts over the years) but all the aforementioned don't make me dislike you.

Anyway, I still think you'd be the sort of woman I'd like as a friend, you're clearly loyal and caring to those who you care about. I think being your enemy would be hell on earth because you can be quite mean... well I'll leave it on a positive note. I like you Annie as far as it goes.

Fucking hell this has been long. I thought I'd be balanced and work is quiet af at the moment.

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By *stroboy78Man over a year ago

Abergavenny

From our short conversation last week I thought you came across very nice with a decent personality. We only talked about the Garden Festival and the Big clock when we were kids. I think it all depends on the subject matter and looking how you do, the men to women ratio on here its understandable why some replies can be a little short. Plus a lot of guys on here punch way to high across as crass or vulger. I'd be a little short with people as well if I could have my pick hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

Your reply and quote button not working ?

You constantly talk about yourself and it’s exhausting and I haven’t even met you!

Was trying to address the room and answer two comments in one.

I’ll try and answer more in one rather than individually.

Self absorbed a bit I agree.

Don’t think every guy fancies me and I’m better than everyone else, don’t agree with that point.

Twisted I didn’t exit that place I was pushed, exiled, banned, nobody was allowed to speak of me again

But it’s all good feedback.

The thread wasn’t about you

. And I wouldn’t pay 4grand as you put it for a extra 5 or 6 inches. I’m fine as I am thanks. You like big cock. I’m sure you have commented on threads regarding do you prefer small or big in the past. I prefer natural boobs to implants. It was a positive thread untill 1 poster then you jumped on it and it got stopped by a mod because you are so vein. You asked for feedback. I’ve gave it. But trust me not everyone or everything on the forums is about you. Good luck with your mindset change

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

I like you Annie x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Self affirmation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This will not end well"

Told ya

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

I don't dislike you. There are times I worry about you.

I see a fair amount of the emotional turmoil in you that I have/had in me.

That causes me concern.

I think we feel on a deeper level and struggle to deal with injustice.

We try to be open and honest, lay ourselves on the line, wear our hearts on the sleeve kinda folks and others can use that to their advantage and abuse it.

That's my biggest worry for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Annie of much rather you did a post asking g what people like about you surly that would be a nice read so I've done one for you

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I do actually quite like you, you have got better.

Blunt I can deal with.

You used to bug me with all the self absorbed threads though as there is a fine line between self love and arrogance

This!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
Forum Mod

My Own Little World

Mods I’m asking for this so don’t worry about moderating the thread. "

The rules still apply though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mods I’m asking for this so don’t worry about moderating the thread.

The rules still apply though."

Can't argue with that

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

I think the book you are writing will be great and its clearly cathartic, so keep up the good work doll.

PS: I do hope that you can one day see that physically you are absolutely stunning...a lot of women on here im sure would do anything to have a body like yours x

Good for you Annie. We need to love ourselves before anyone else can (so im often told). Im glad you are doing that x

Ive personally identified with some of the struggles you have shared in the past, particularly in your previous profile incarnations (but minus the super hot body

) and often thought my god if a girl who looks like that cant find someone to treat her right then how the hell will I x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From what I've seen in the forums I like you, you call bullshit and tbf, the bluntness is needed 99% of the time IMHO. Think taking some time out to work on you can only be a good thing for anyone. You'll never be everyone's cup of tea, but I'd rather be one person's shot of tequila than 100 people's cup of tea

wishing you all the best for the the future sweet. Be the best you you can be, but don't change yourself to suit others, I spent years trying to fit into others "boxes" xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know you,but from your forums posts I admire your guts,your downright gorgeous but I think you like to be told that but who doesn't ,we are who we are,some will like us,some won't,so concentrate on thoughs who do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't dislike you OP.

Fucking hell this has been long. I thought I'd be balanced and work is quiet af at the moment."

Fucking amazing.

That was so nice to read. I can do something with this, and it’s nice to know that other people can see that I’ve grown. Thank you Meli

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mods I’m asking for this so don’t worry about moderating the thread.

The rules still apply though."

Probably best to just delete the thread then. Unfair on anyone getting a forum ban on a thread that’s asking for negative feedback

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By *ookie46Woman over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Sometimes I find you hilarious, interesting and enjoy reading what you have to say then other times not so much, but I don’t dislike you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I was reading a thread yesterday and you did help the Op out, when he was getting angry and frustrated. He annoyed me and quite obviously a few others so I did admire that you tried to cool

the situation down.

There’s a few women on here I really like, so much so I’ll look out for them, as we obviously share the same values and beliefs. I’ve seen your posts but non have made me like or dislike you.

appreciated.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan over a year ago

Redditch

I think the book you are writing will be great and its clearly cathartic, so keep up the good work doll.

PS: I do hope that you can one day see that physically you are absolutely stunning...a lot of women on here im sure would do anything to have a body like yours x

What kinds of behaviour? I think I'm in the same boat, and need to rethink my whole approach, but am not sure where to start

PM me if you'd prefer

And I think it's good that there's people like you, and Swingy, willing to put themselves out there for the benefit of others. But in the interest of balance, you can clearly run people up the wrong way too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Mods I’m asking for this so don’t worry about moderating the thread.

The rules still apply though.

Probably best to just delete the thread then. Unfair on anyone getting a forum ban on a thread that’s asking for negative feedback "

I take no offence to anything that’s been posted and there’s a lot of useful stuff so I’d like the thread to stay.

" The thread wasn’t about you . And I wouldn’t pay 4grand as you put it for a extra 5 or 6 inches. I’m fine as I am thanks. You like big cock. I’m sure you have commented on threads regarding do you prefer small or big in the past. I prefer natural boobs to implants. It was a positive thread untill 1 poster then you jumped on it and it got stopped by a mod because you are so vein. You asked for feedback. I’ve gave it. But trust me not everyone or everything on the forums is about you. Good luck with your mindset change "

On any thread I make, regardless of the topic, you will randomly comment saying who prefers natural boobs and then you put this emoji

so you know what you’re doing. Then you made that thread asking what people prefer real or fake plastic tits. You can express a preference without putting the other group down. You know you were doing it to have a dig, own it.

Also I have never started a thread saying what’s better small or large cock. I’d never put the other category down and for the last 2 years I’ve said I don’t care about dick size anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love you annie

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman over a year ago

Fck what anyone thinks, I’ve been a people pleaser majority of my life and it’s worsened my anxiety.

I’m not saying be purposefully mean, but you’ll feel a hell of a lot happier when you don’t give a damn what people think of you. It’s taken me a good while to get to that place

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By *livers barberMan over a year ago

Grimsby

TL;DR: Attention seeker seeks attention

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By *ookie46Woman over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"Love you annie

I find this comment unnecessary

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By *amie HantsWoman over a year ago

Atlantis

I think you’re pretty funny.

Yeah you can be blunt, but it’s never rude for the sake of being rude. It’s only when you’re stating your opinion.

You strike as the type of person that would have a screaming row with you one minute, get it out the system and make you a cup of tea afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Love you annie

I find this comment unnecessary "

Same. So is the whole thread he started about me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think you’re pretty funny.

Yeah you can be blunt, but it’s never rude for the sake of being rude. It’s only when you’re stating your opinion.

You strike as the type of person that would have a screaming row with you one minute, get it out the system and make you a cup of tea afterwards. "

Accurate. But I blame my Gemini star sign for that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mods I’m asking for this so don’t worry about moderating the thread.

The rules still apply though.

Probably best to just delete the thread then. Unfair on anyone getting a forum ban on a thread that’s asking for negative feedback

I take no offence to anything that’s been posted and there’s a lot of useful stuff so I’d like the thread to stay.

The thread wasn’t about you . And I wouldn’t pay 4grand as you put it for a extra 5 or 6 inches. I’m fine as I am thanks. You like big cock. I’m sure you have commented on threads regarding do you prefer small or big in the past. I prefer natural boobs to implants. It was a positive thread untill 1 poster then you jumped on it and it got stopped by a mod because you are so vein. You asked for feedback. I’ve gave it. But trust me not everyone or everything on the forums is about you. Good luck with your mindset change

On any thread I make, regardless of the topic, you will randomly comment saying who prefers natural boobs and then you put this emoji

Also I have never started a thread saying what’s better small or large cock. I’d never put the other category down and for the last 2 years I’ve said I don’t care about dick size anyway.

I wasn’t putting anyone down. Prefer, preference. And I’ve been on 5 weeks. Only been able to comment on the forums 3 weeks. If I commented on a thread about who prefers natural boobs then what was the thread about. That might be a clue. Anyway even with a thread like this you have your army of fans that are hoping for a fuck and there having there sly digs so I’ll leave it at that and like I say after my last thread got stopped because of your input and I noted you was still able to comment on the forums after the comment and the laughing face about the little boy comment I’ll be sure to avoid anymore interaction on the forums with you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love you annie

I find this comment unnecessary

Same. So is the whole thread he started about me. "
I was trying to be nice annie sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t dislike you. Your posts used to irritate me but not so much these days, mostly I just find you brutally honest, unfairly judged by others and your bum comments have me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're Welsh so whats not to like cariad

. We Taffs have to stick together

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

You look lovely but your obsession with 99 year old men is worrying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seeing as you asked...

I don't dislike you...i don't care enough, I don't know you.

However, if we're talking about your forum persona and how you come across to me personally, I'm happy to share an opinion.

Tbh, I'd never noticed you until recently, purely due to our interactions but based on those and the few posts I have seen from you, you appear extremely insecure, and very vain. I don't see any point listing examples of why this is as I'd just be parroting others.

You clearly are fatphobic. I think you can be arrogant, judgemental, rude and mean and you try to justify it by claiming to just be blunt. There's a difference.

You come across very closed minded and unable to understand that not everyone agrees with your idea of what's attractive. Just because you say so, doesn't make it fact.

I'd like to balance these points with some positives, but honestly, possibly purely due to the fact that I haven't noticed you past our brief interactions, which were fairly negative, I don't have any positive opinions . (That's obviously not to say that you don't have many positive qualities and moments, I'm sure you do).

I'll end by saying, I hope you aren't hurt by anything said here, I hope you're able to use some of everyone's points to maybe become a more positive force within the forums...and hopefully lead a generally happier existence.

Good luck to you.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

I agree with many of what being said here.

However I never dislike you.

I try to think hard whether I did, but no, never.

I think because, although your opinion and posts can be seen bluntly honest or self absorbed sometimes, to me, they are never offensive.

So, no, Annie. I don't dislike you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont like the fact you live in Wales. It's too far away for having my bumhole licked while I sleep!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Seeing as you asked...

I don't dislike you...i don't care enough, I don't know you.

However, if we're talking about your forum persona and how you come across to me personally, I'm happy to share an opinion.

You clearly are fatphobic. I think you can be arrogant, judgemental, rude and mean and you try to justify it by claiming to just be blunt. There's a difference.

You come across very closed minded and unable to understand that not everyone agrees with your idea of what's attractive. Just because you say so, doesn't make it fact.

Good luck to you.

I’m not fatphobic. I’ve got fat on me myself. Just because my frame is small doesn’t mean I’m immune to fat.

I wouldn’t say I was anymore vein than anyone else. Wasn’t you encouraging people to feel good about themselves and to love their body yet when you’re presented with someone that is happy and loves their body you’re calling them vein. Or is it only certain body shapes that are allowed to love themselves?

But noted. I’ll try and improve

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By *irty desireWoman over a year ago

newcatle

Why do you care? I like you are blunt and smell bs from a mile off.. do you really care what a bunch of strangers that you will probably never meet think about you!

Maybe time to take a break if you letting the people of fab run how you’re feeling during the day!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seeing as you asked...

I don't dislike you...i don't care enough, I don't know you.

However, if we're talking about your forum persona and how you come across to me personally, I'm happy to share an opinion.

You clearly are fatphobic. I think you can be arrogant, judgemental, rude and mean and you try to justify it by claiming to just be blunt. There's a difference.

You come across very closed minded and unable to understand that not everyone agrees with your idea of what's attractive. Just because you say so, doesn't make it fact.

Good luck to you.

You are literally quite epic, Lu! Perfect and fantastic reply!! Xx

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By *iger-NWMan over a year ago

Preston

As long as you like you, that's all that matters.

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By *oggoneMan over a year ago

Derry

Fuck, that's a loaded question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples. "

I don't like or dislike you. You are probably not my type (physically and personality wise) and I am probably not your type.

I'll have a look at your threads (or at least your initial post) and, depending on mood, post a comment or not.

But then that is how I feel about most of the forum(ites). But you are part of the melting pot of the forum and all the different personalities, ideas and posting styles there are the more interesting the forum is.

As for hard work I would say someone who is very demanding can be hard work and I sometimes imagine the people who have a 'shopping list' type profile are possibly hard work. That is what I would find hard work.

But I've been called hard work in the past by ex-girlfriends for being the opposite and not opening up and saying what I want.

One person's hard work is another person's ideal. Keep being you and if that is self-absorbed, blunt and spiky so be it.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman over a year ago

South

"Love you annie

I find this comment unnecessary

Same. So is the whole thread he started about me. I was trying to be nice annie sorry"

For the love of god man just stop.

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love you annie

I find this comment unnecessary

Same. So is the whole thread he started about me. I was trying to be nice annie sorry

For the love of god man just stop. "

I wish he would,he obviously fancies Annie though,he should have just pm her

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

I don't like or dislike you. You are probably not my type (physically and personality wise) and I am probably not your type.

I'll have a look at your threads (or at least your initial post) and, depending on mood, post a comment or not.

But I've been called hard work in the past by ex-girlfriends for being the opposite and not opening up and saying what I want.

One person's hard work is another person's ideal. Keep being you and if that is self-absorbed, blunt and spiky so be it."

I don’t have a shopping list profile. Have you seen my profile

All I demand is respect, love, good communication and a smooth bum hole.

But in my next venture with a man I’m gonna be breezy. Not a pushover but just have healthy boundaries.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I don’t know you enough to say whether I dislike you or like you.

Your, seemingly, constant seeking of others approval is something I find unattractive, in any person. I know we all like a pat on the head from time to time.

Your more recent threads have been interesting to read, but some of your comments on others have been less so.

If these were the worst things some complete stranger on an Internet forum had to say about me, I wouldn’t be too worried.

More importantly OP I hope you know what it is about you, that you dislike.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seeing as you asked...

I don't dislike you...i don't care enough, I don't know you.

However, if we're talking about your forum persona and how you come across to me personally, I'm happy to share an opinion.

You clearly are fatphobic. I think you can be arrogant, judgemental, rude and mean and you try to justify it by claiming to just be blunt. There's a difference.

You come across very closed minded and unable to understand that not everyone agrees with your idea of what's attractive. Just because you say so, doesn't make it fact.

Good luck to you.

I’m not fatphobic. I’ve got fat on me myself. Just because my frame is small doesn’t mean I’m immune to fat.

But noted. I’ll try and improve

Plenty of fat people are fatphobic. It seems you are so in fear of being fat yourself that you project that onto others and don't get how anyone can be ok with being overweight.

I don't think you're vein because you like how you look, the two are different. The main reason I think you're vein is down to your insistence that someone was talking about you even after they'd assured you they definitely weren't. The initial wondering, not vein, the persistent "it must be me", vein.

I don't believe you do love the way you look. You wouldn't be so desperate for others to agree if you were truly happy. (My opinion, I could be wrong, I'm not in your brain).

You've been more gracious about my response than I expected tbf, so that's a positive

, just wanted to clarify where I wasn't clear on those points

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Seeing as you asked...

I don't dislike you...i don't care enough, I don't know you.

However, if we're talking about your forum persona and how you come across to me personally, I'm happy to share an opinion.

You clearly are fatphobic. I think you can be arrogant, judgemental, rude and mean and you try to justify it by claiming to just be blunt. There's a difference.

You come across very closed minded and unable to understand that not everyone agrees with your idea of what's attractive. Just because you say so, doesn't make it fact.

Good luck to you.

You are literally quite epic, Lu! Perfect and fantastic reply!! Xx"

Literally say the same thing about you, every time you post

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Love you annie

I find this comment unnecessary

Same. So is the whole thread he started about me. I was trying to be nice annie sorry

For the love of god man just stop.

I wish he would,he obviously fancies Annie though,he should have just pm her"

He has stopped, let's leave it now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love you annie

I find this comment unnecessary

Same. So is the whole thread he started about me. I was trying to be nice annie sorry

For the love of god man just stop.

I wish he would,he obviously fancies Annie though,he should have just pm her"
you couldnt be more wrong

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

We still have to moderate the thread. However, you have to accept the comments if they are honest and within forum rules as you are asking for them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hard work, I have been called hard work many times. How do you pin point what hard work is? Nobody ever gives examples.

I don't like or dislike you. You are probably not my type (physically and personality wise) and I am probably not your type.

I'll have a look at your threads (or at least your initial post) and, depending on mood, post a comment or not.

But I've been called hard work in the past by ex-girlfriends for being the opposite and not opening up and saying what I want.

One person's hard work is another person's ideal. Keep being you and if that is self-absorbed, blunt and spiky so be it.

I don’t have a shopping list profile. Have you seen my profile

All I demand is respect, love, good communication and a smooth bum hole.

But in my next venture with a man I’m gonna be breezy. Not a pushover but just have healthy boundaries. "

I have read your profile. I actually like your profile and profile title

And I just read your status and, even though I vape, I could go for a cigarette now

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By *razy-88Man over a year ago

Belfast-carlingford

Don’t actually know you but I’ve been entertained reading this thread, from others comments and the fact you have made a thread to discuss yourself you seem to come across self absorbed.

I wouldn’t worry about what everyone thinks of you and worry more about what you think off yourself.

Can’t please everyone so please yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don’t know you enough to say whether I dislike you or like you.

Your, seemingly, constant seeking of others approval is something I find unattractive, in any person. I know we all like a pat on the head from time to time.

Your more recent threads have been interesting to read, but some of your comments on others have been less so.

If these were the worst things some complete stranger on an Internet forum had to say about me, I wouldn’t be too worried.

More importantly OP I hope you know what it is about you, that you dislike. "

This thread has helped. In person I don’t talk about myself I do ask about the other person but I have been too open in the past. Like moving forward unless I’m actually in a relationship with the guy then I’ll be a closed book, not rude just anybody I’m dating doesn’t need to know huge details of my life. Just keep convo light and relevant.

Hard work, I’ve already decided I’m not going to initiate anything, a date, a movie night, nothing. I’ll wait till I’m asked.

Vein, I don’t think I am vein because it’s only external stuff I’m happy with, I’ve got too many issues to be vein.