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"I’m just after some constructive criticism or suggestions to improve my profile really...it could be the profile information or just he pictures "
Personal opinion, there's a lot of cock pics. Maybe try something a bit creative that leaves something to the imagination?
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You'll never please everyone, people are looking for different things so I'd suggest just doing what you want with it.
Do what pleases you.
Your profile is your initial first point of contact (in most cases) which will be the thing that decides whether someone will want to go further than a quick browse or not.
Just be yourself.
No point in changing your profile into making you someone you're not in an attempt to please or attract others. They'll soon realise.
Personality goes further than a lot of people think. |
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"Yeh I understand and thank you. It’s just that it’s kinda hard to get the right attention as a guy at times, that’s all "
It's hard to get the "right" attention as a woman too 
That's why I pretty much ignore everyone!
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"Yeh I understand and thank you. It’s just that it’s kinda hard to get the right attention as a guy at times, that’s all
It's hard to get the "right" attention as a woman too
That's why I pretty much ignore everyone!
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I'm impressed he used the term 'right'. Most blokes on here are glad of any attention, right or wrong! |
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"Thanks for the feedback but I think it’s more harder for men as we are the one who have to do the sliding in the dms, unfortunately haha "
I don't think anything on here is 'harder' for any one group - it's tricky for everyone, just for different reasons.
Everyone is coming at this from a different angle or dynamic, none of them right or wrong, just different. You gotta be thick skinned, and deal with the plethora of utter arseholes on here who make the site worse for everyone.
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"Thanks for the feedback but I think it’s more harder for men as we are the one who have to do the sliding in the dms, unfortunately haha "
Possibly harder to get a response, but definitely not harder to find people you may click with or want to meet.
I've been here almost 5 years and probably only met about 10 people for shenanigans via fab. Most of my veris come from clubs or socials.
Fab is a tiny part of the scene in reality. It can keep you informed about what's happening in the swinging world as far as socials, clubs, munches etc, but you're far better off making 'getting out there' effort when you're able to do so. I can't recommend becoming part of the community enough when it comes to making connections.
If your sole objective is sex, you'll probably have better "luck" on swipey apps, if it's to make friends, learn, expand and experience then yeah, fab is great. |
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