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It’s not too bad in terms of text. The ‘I don’t bite..’ thing is a bit cringe worthy.
The pics are a little bizarre - it looks like you are taking a dump in an office garden 
Maybe more that show you in a natural standing position rather than squatting  |
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"It’s not too bad in terms of text. The ‘I don’t bite..’ thing is a bit cringe worthy.
The pics are a little bizarre - it looks like you are taking a dump in an office garden
Maybe more that show you in a natural standing position rather than squatting "
Thank you I will take you’re advice |
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"I’m curious "
Definitely lose the ‘I don’t bite’ line...but hasn’t that already been bought up in the other 4 ‘review my profile’ threads you’ve started in the past few weeks? |
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"I’m curious
Definitely lose the ‘I don’t bite’ line...but hasn’t that already been bought up in the other 4 ‘review my profile’ threads you’ve started in the past few weeks?"
I finally took it out lol |
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Thanks for the advice, I’m still thinking about the whole thing about swapping the two squatting pictures, those are my face but I do have some standing up but they don’t look as cool but will consider it though |
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"Thanks for the advice, I’m still thinking about the whole thing about swapping the two squatting pictures, those are my face but I do have some standing up but they don’t look as cool but will consider it though "
Maybe crop it from like your waist up. Sorry but the squatting does look a bit odd.  |
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"What do you see when you view your own profile?
What bits would draw you in?
Good question"
I know 
Makes you look at it a different way.
You'll never please everyone, people are looking for different things so I'd suggest just doing what you want with it.
Do what pleases you.
Your profile is your initial first point of contact (in most cases) which will be the thing that decides whether someone will want to go further than a quick browse or not.
Just be yourself.
No point in changing your profile into making you someone you're not in an attempt to please or attract others. They'll soon realise.
Personality goes further than a lot of people think. Personality can be expressed in many different ways. Words, pictures, videos. The tools are there to be utilised, just needs a smidge of effort to do so. |
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"What do you see when you view your own profile?
What bits would draw you in?
Good question
I know
Makes you look at it a different way.
You'll never please everyone, people are looking for different things so I'd suggest just doing what you want with it.
Do what pleases you.
Your profile is your initial first point of contact (in most cases) which will be the thing that decides whether someone will want to go further than a quick browse or not.
Just be yourself.
No point in changing your profile into making you someone you're not in an attempt to please or attract others. They'll soon realise.
Personality goes further than a lot of people think. Personality can be expressed in many different ways. Words, pictures, videos. The tools are there to be utilised, just needs a smidge of effort to do so."
Thank you very much I think this is the most helpful piece of advice tbh |
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"What do you see when you view your own profile?
What bits would draw you in?
Good question
I know
Makes you look at it a different way.
You'll never please everyone, people are looking for different things so I'd suggest just doing what you want with it.
Do what pleases you.
Your profile is your initial first point of contact (in most cases) which will be the thing that decides whether someone will want to go further than a quick browse or not.
Just be yourself.
No point in changing your profile into making you someone you're not in an attempt to please or attract others. They'll soon realise.
Personality goes further than a lot of people think. Personality can be expressed in many different ways. Words, pictures, videos. The tools are there to be utilised, just needs a smidge of effort to do so.
Thank you very much I think this is the most helpful piece of advice tbh "
You're welcome.
Something else...
Fab is a tiny part of the scene in reality. It can keep you informed about what's happening in the swinging world as far as socials, clubs, munches etc, but you're far better off making 'getting out there' effort when you're able to do so. I can't recommend becoming part of the community enough when it comes to making connections.
If your sole objective is sex, you'll probably have better "luck" on swipey apps, if it's to make friends, learn, expand and experience then yeah, fab is great. |
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"What do you see when you view your own profile?
What bits would draw you in?
Good question
I know
Makes you look at it a different way.
You'll never please everyone, people are looking for different things so I'd suggest just doing what you want with it.
Do what pleases you.
Your profile is your initial first point of contact (in most cases) which will be the thing that decides whether someone will want to go further than a quick browse or not.
Just be yourself.
No point in changing your profile into making you someone you're not in an attempt to please or attract others. They'll soon realise.
Personality goes further than a lot of people think. Personality can be expressed in many different ways. Words, pictures, videos. The tools are there to be utilised, just needs a smidge of effort to do so.
Thank you very much I think this is the most helpful piece of advice tbh
You're welcome.
Something else...
Fab is a tiny part of the scene in reality. It can keep you informed about what's happening in the swinging world as far as socials, clubs, munches etc, but you're far better off making 'getting out there' effort when you're able to do so. I can't recommend becoming part of the community enough when it comes to making connections.
If your sole objective is sex, you'll probably have better "luck" on swipey apps, if it's to make friends, learn, expand and experience then yeah, fab is great."
I plan on doing a bit of both tbh, and when things were open sex wasn’t a problem tbh because in real life and going to regular vanilla clubs that would be easy to come by but everything you said is 100 percent right! |
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