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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Honest answers please, do you have sex to please yourself or to please your sexual partner? And any other grey area that might be between that.
For me personally I try to give women a very good and different type of sexual experience (in a good way of course) I aim to please her and introduce her body to new things, different techniques whether orally or via penetration. Maybe it's an ego boost for me which is why I give it my all, but yea I love to keep a woman cumming back for more tbh xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Both the gratification of giving pleasure and receiving. Has to be reciprocal. I get a lot of men wanting to be my sub on here or wanting to explore their fetishes. When I ask “will i climax in return?” I find that is not usually a given. It is too one say. I like the idea of toying with men emotionally, psychologically etc but because of so many other life commitments I don’t have the time. So mutual satisfaction is needed for fab meets is my current attitude. That other kind of one way giving I reserve for longer term relationships |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don’t have a partner  but when I did I used to do it because it was lush for me!
Now when I have sex with guys I still do it cos it feels lush.
I’m giver when it comes to all things foreplay but when it comes to penetration I’m kinda lazy and like to be fucked  |
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When I was younger, to feel wanted. I was kinda messed up due to lack of feeling parental love and worth.
Pre-last relationship for physical enjoyment, stress release, making other people feel good, making myself feel good.
Last relationship it was part of the love I had, plus the fun side, the trust side, the experiment side.
It's an ever evolving road I'm on.
I don't see myself as a sexual being for the now tho, my mojo disappeared when my heart got broken, so who knows what the next path will be. |
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"I only have sex if I want to. Unenthusiastic partners make for crap sex."
I should clarify that I have sex for my pleasure and for my partner /partners.
Surely it should be enjoyable both/all parties. |
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