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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they think it's going to send me on some mission to prove I'm great or something they are mistaken.
As much as I enjoy it, sometimes in those situations it becomes a bit of a chore rather than something pleasurable.
Usually there's a pressure they are putting on themselves or the women which is likely making them over think it. |
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol 
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
This backfires when they try it on me. I'm not a performing monkey |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they think it's going to send me on some mission to prove I'm great or something they are mistaken.
As much as I enjoy it, sometimes in those situations it becomes a bit of a chore rather than something pleasurable.
Usually there's a pressure they are putting on themselves or the women which is likely making them over think it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
Frankly, I don't believe it for a second. |
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Nope, I've never come from receiving oral and not bothered in the slightest about it either.
It would be nice to experience it sometime but its definitely not a challenge to anyone to try and make me come that way thats for sure. |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
Maybe they’re not lying?
I’ve only cum a couple of times from oral my whole life. Do I want anyone to try harder? Not really. For me it seems to be a disappointment to women went I’m asked if I cum from oral. Not across the board but a decent percentage. |
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I've never cum from oral.
But I don't tell women that as a form of challenge or to get her to try harder, I tell her so she doesn't think she's doing something wrong or I'm not enjoying it.
I've loved oral every time I've recieved it, it's just that no matter wish the act, it takes a long time for me to cum, if I even cum at all.  |
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"I've never cum from oral.
But I don't tell women that as a form of challenge or to get her to try harder, I tell her so she doesn't think she's doing something wrong or I'm not enjoying it.
I've loved oral every time I've recieved it, it's just that no matter wish the act, it takes a long time for me to cum, if I even cum at all. "
... and before anyone says anything, it's 'not' down to much wanking (as that doesn't do it easily either), or too much porn.
It's actually a condition referred to as delayed ejaculation, and is a similar issue to premature ejaculation... but has more benefits. It's still bloody annoying sometimes though. |
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To be totally honest, unless it’s done right, blowjobs can be totally sh*t and a waste of time.
I went through my whole teens and early twenties turning them down cause I thought they were pointless and had never cum from one. But there is always a first time, and yeah, Ill confirm. It was good 
I only ever tend to ask for it when I’m feeling lazy as I hate not being a sole receiver and always like to be doing my bit to please. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
Often the opposite.... like a way of saying it’s perfectly ok to stop when your jaw aches, it’s rare to come from oral and some women take it personally or see it as a mission. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I only cum when I feel some tongue action involved, especially when they look up at me when they're sucking me off. If our body temperature is the same I sometimes don't even feel anything at all and lose my erection in their mouth. It happened only once, but several times it happened during regular sex when I felt my cock go limp inside her because our body heat was the same and without any pubes between us it was hard to distinguish her body from mine, and occassionally I've had to open a window and let some cold air in, or blow cold air on my own cock, ask her to spit on it, and I've poured a glass of cold water over my body, just to get my body temperature to change so that I could feel her body against mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've yet to meet a guy who hasn't cum from me giving oral... 
But I have seen a few statuses of late on here...guys saying they have never cum from oral. .. well something is amiss
for sure |
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By *andVCouple
over a year ago
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
I've never legit cum from a blow job, have cum when they have wanked it with there hand while sucking but never from the sucking alone. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Any time you feel the need to telegraph that you cant cum from X it feels like they are trying to set up a challenge. If you dislike an activiry fair enough, but if you feel you cant cum from oral mention it in the meet to help manage the expectations of your partner.
I don't measure success by the number of times, the amount or how I cum nor that of my partners.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
I have, but only once |
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I *have* cum from oral sex, but you could count the number of occasions on one hand. Might actually be as few as one.
It feels nice, sure, and I always appreciate it when a lady wants to do it.
I definitely do *not* want anyone to “try harder”. If anything, I want them to stop, because otherwise we’ll be stuck at the foreplay stage all night!
Sadly, when told that I won’t be able to cum from their oral attentions, a lot of women take it personally. Another joy of living in such a misogynistic society – too many women have been conditioned to believe that if anything deviates from a certain expected it path, it’s somehow their fault. It can be hard work to reassure someone that they’re not doing anything wrong, and the “issue” (even though I don’t see it as one) is entirely at my end.
This thread has made me more consciously aware of needing to communicate all this to partners early on.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Sometimes it can be a way of making a woman think it's a challenge, sure. When I was younger and slightly more naive a few men said that to me and lo and behold, they'd orgasm in less than a minute when my lips were around them. And these weren't young men either, men in their thirties/forties. I'd like to think I'm just that amazing I blew their minds but... no, probably not.
I've had two men say that to me in the past five years and it hasn't been a case of saying it because they want oral sex, more a way of reassuring me it's not them, which is sweet but not something I focus on. They've orgasmed quite quickly through other forms of sex so maybe there was something more they need. I tend to think of it now as, well I can count on a couple of fingers the amount of men who have made me cum from oral and one was once. Sometimes you know your own body well and you don't want people to feel guilty and like they're not doing it for you - nothing could be further from the truth. But sex is quite fraught with potential misunderstandings, hurt and all sorts of emotions.
There's such a myriad of reasons as to why men can't cum from oral and I think it's a shame the male orgasm is held up as being so crucial to sex/it finishing.
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
Well if thats what they say, then tell them that you won't bother trying then. Why waste everyone's time.
I bet they soon change their tune... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like a lot have said above, I have cum from oral though it is rare. If I mention the fact it is never as a challenge, it is simply to let the lady know she's not somehow failing to give pleasure.
No one questions her motives when a woman says she can't come from x or y - though the reation is often the same 'you obviously haven't tried me' Personally I find that attitude harder to understand. That someone (male or female) has such a high opinion of themselves that they believe that they will always be a better lover than any other person their partner has been with 
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I dont want them to cum thro a bj unless they can go again very quickly i enjoy sucking cock slow and sensual but my aim is never to make them cum, "
I don’t think porn helps, you don’t see many slow and sensual teasing blow jobs in porn. |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont want them to cum thro a bj unless they can go again very quickly i enjoy sucking cock slow and sensual but my aim is never to make them cum,
I don’t think porn helps, you don’t see many slow and sensual teasing blow jobs in porn."
maybe but I do it my way haha |
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"Like a lot have said above, I have cum from oral though it is rare. If I mention the fact it is never as a challenge, it is simply to let the lady know she's not somehow failing to give pleasure.
No one questions her motives when a woman says she can't come from x or y - though the reation is often the same 'you obviously haven't tried me' Personally I find that attitude harder to understand. That someone (male or female) has such a high opinion of themselves that they believe that they will always be a better lover than any other person their partner has been with
Mr"
Exactly this. If I say it, it’s just good communication about what makes me cum. That’s a good thing
It means don’t try harder, just don’t stress if it doesn’t make me cum. Still feels nice though, otherwise I’d say “no thanks, I don’t like it” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont from oral..oh hell I love it but I just don t cum from it, unless......you play with my nipples at same time. I know, strange, but thats the way of it for me. My nipples are my downfall...touch them and Im all yours. And am more likely to cum from nipple play than bj  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a real thing. I know a man that said he had never cum from just a hand job... I made it a challenge... I wouldn’t let him put his cock anywhere else until I achieved it sometimes it’s a mental challenge for them that needs getting over |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
Is this a “does my bum look big in this” kind of thread? No matter what gets said... the opposite is always taken. Next time a women tell me she doesn’t squirt she obviously lying! ...and all her previous partners have been amateurs!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found it hard in my teens but that's because BJ were not in fashion.but now we have a new bread of Linda love laces . so my opinion any man that can not cum from a BJ .maybe it's time he batts for the other team |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Squirting is rear not every women can do it however if you can keep a women in cum state were her eyes roll back in her head .it is possible to make her squirt. But some girls just naturally do it .and it's like they have wet the bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest the age means nothing it's experience.I was lucky when was young you moved to Japan and whole new sex seen opened up ,spending my 20s in japan was mind blowing . and I spent my 30s in Italia again a whole new seen anal was on the menue the Latin girls love it.Brazilian more so they are hot. So I guess I was lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
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To be honest the age means nothing it's experience.I was lucky when I was young moved to Japan and whole new sex seen opened up ,spending my 20s in japan was mind blowing . and I spent my 30s in Italia again a whole new seen anal was on the menue the Latin girls love it.Brazilian more so they are hot. So I guess I was lucky |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once or twice from oral but I see it as part of the foreplay so it's not important to orgasm that way. Certainly wouldn't want anyone seeing it as a challenge |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually don't cum from oral either, and I don't try to. It's usually stressfull for the lady anyway so I put a stop to it after a while and move onto other things.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t see it as a challenge, just like when I tell someone it’s rare I reach orgasm from oral, I don’t say it because I want them to try harder... more that if you’re going to insist on trying for ages then I might take a nap while you do  |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
"Squirting is rear not every women can do it however if you can keep a women in cum state were her eyes roll back in her head .it is possible to make her squirt. But some girls just naturally do it .and it's like they have wet the bed. "
NO SHIT!! |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I don’t see it as a challenge, just like when I tell someone it’s rare I reach orgasm from oral, I don’t say it because I want them to try harder... more that if you’re going to insist on trying for ages then I might take a nap while you do "
I'll pull your nightie down when I'm finished. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stressfull it gets better like I've said it's all about experience try it with a pokey bum wank , come guys don't be shy I'm not in to men but a finger up the bum while she doing the old sailer a favor OMG is all I can say . and yes men do have a G spot |
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I have, but it's rare as I just feel under pressure. I've never learnt to purely receive, my mind wanders, I start thinking about woodwork or something. Staying hard without being the one making the moves is really tough for me, whatever is going on. |
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing
so true "
Not a bloke thing, probably just some chancer who thinks it would work. |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
It would be fairer to say that its only been a minority of women that have made me climax from a bj. Nevertheless, I still appreciate them trying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try you might like it . I thought this was swinger site chat forum women like men that know what they want .and believe me they are no different to men they like there bits licked just as much as we do however men in genurel are not very good at it . its art form to get women to multiply but when she dose when you can see the eyes roll then you know you have her . it's not an ice scream you have to take your time know her soft spot a lot of women masturbate with out touching the clit . presure in the right spot is all you need find her G spot .do that and believe me she will let you duck her like a rag doll |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well that's it for me I'm of to my shop Borris can off if he thinks I'm sitting hope twiddling bum thumbs , have fun and be adventures have a poky bum wank ?? |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire |
"Well that's it for me I'm of to my shop Borris can off if he thinks I'm sitting hope twiddling bum thumbs , have fun and be adventures have a poky bum wank ??"
It’s been emotional mate!
Cheers for brightening up our day with your fabulous insights |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well that's it for me I'm of to my shop Borris can off if he thinks I'm sitting hope twiddling bum thumbs , have fun and be adventures have a poky bum wank ??"
You OK hun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
I usually don’t cum from BJ, however on occasions and depends who’s doing it I can... and i think many blocks will have the same thing!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well that's it for me I'm of to my shop Borris can off if he thinks I'm sitting hope twiddling bum thumbs , have fun and be adventures have a poky bum wank ??
You OK hun?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well that's it for me I'm of to my shop Borris can off if he thinks I'm sitting hope twiddling bum thumbs , have fun and be adventures have a poky bum wank ??
It’s been emotional mate!
Cheers for brightening up our day with your fabulous insights "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found it hard in my teens but that's because BJ were not in fashion.but now we have a new bread of Linda love laces . so my opinion any man that can not cum from a BJ .maybe it's time he batts for the other team "
Dear lord - not sure how some people manage to navigate the world every day. Is it just me or has no one else noticed than in all this discussion of who can or can't orgasm from oral sex, nobody has suggested the problem has only been with women? Maybe we should all ask a guy for a BJ just as a quick check, you know, I've always preferred women, never really looked at guys but damn, I'm struggling to come with a BJ, perhaps I'm just gay and never knew ...
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"I found it hard in my teens but that's because BJ were not in fashion.but now we have a new bread of Linda love laces . so my opinion any man that can not cum from a BJ .maybe it's time he batts for the other team
Dear lord - not sure how some people manage to navigate the world every day. Is it just me or has no one else noticed than in all this discussion of who can or can't orgasm from oral sex, nobody has suggested the problem has only been with women? Maybe we should all ask a guy for a BJ just as a quick check, you know, I've always preferred women, never really looked at guys but damn, I'm struggling to come with a BJ, perhaps I'm just gay and never knew ...
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
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"I found it hard in my teens but that's because BJ were not in fashion.but now we have a new bread of Linda love laces . so my opinion any man that can not cum from a BJ .maybe it's time he batts for the other team
Dear lord - not sure how some people manage to navigate the world every day. Is it just me or has no one else noticed than in all this discussion of who can or can't orgasm from oral sex, nobody has suggested the problem has only been with women? Maybe we should all ask a guy for a BJ just as a quick check, you know, I've always preferred women, never really looked at guys but damn, I'm struggling to come with a BJ, perhaps I'm just gay and never knew ...
Mr"
I don’t think which side I batted on would make a blind bit of difference. The 30 plus years of working around with no foreskin might be the big stumbling block
...and not a lot Linda love laces and a french baguette up the backside can do about that! |
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I came from a bj for the first time about 3 months ago. Was a hell of a shock for both of us. We have been together 12 years and although I've always enjoyed it it just never happened. Plus even with previous partners I never even came close. It's happened twice since and it's addictive lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is rare I cum from oral so don't expect men to differ. However it doesn't mean they don't enjoy it, so I would still give a bj as foreplay but just not for the endgame.
Besides, sometimes it is nice to give knowing there won't be any CIM or on the face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's what I've been saying women find it hard , that because guys don't really have a clue the amount of women that have told me they have never cum during oral I would run out of finger and toes I've met women that don't bum from penetration .unless up the bum. That I can understand because the G spot is more in line and its I my thin wall of skin that separate them ,so it's comon for women but maybe I've been lucky .but it's all experience technique.you either like it or you don't .it's like sipping a fine wine .take you time get to know it and it will be
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's what I've been saying women find it hard , that because guys don't really have a clue the amount of women that have told me they have never cum during oral I would run out of finger and toes I've met women that don't bum from penetration .unless up the bum. That I can understand because the G spot is more in line and its I my thin wall of skin that separate them ,so it's comon for women but maybe I've been lucky .but it's all experience technique.you either like it or you don't .it's like sipping a fine wine .take you time get to know it and it will be
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry that don't do it for me I need a bit of interaction top of a tounge a lick on the Old ball sack a nice rimming.why the he'll not if in the menue full your boots. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a guy says that I just get him to wank into my mouth, job done!"
Warrington
Sorry that don't do it for me I need a bit of interaction top of a tounge a lick on the Old ball sack a nice rimming.why the he'll not if in the menue full your boots.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was at the shop yesterday and around 3pm I had a massive bonner come out of nowhere . anyway I nursed it for about an hour .I'd call Ro she was in school she's a teacher told her .as you do lay down the seed . anyway I thought come 4 I'm out of there she be back. 430 . I get to sink my rod happy days, so I got home .came in I knew it was game on she has a skirt on . so I just grabed her bent her over the kitchen table, pushed all the shit of it to the floor ramed my cock in her and put the pedal to the metal I drove her like I was Nicki louder .anyway moral of the story is the satifaction . and the best part was I got to mess up the kitchen without getting moned at
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Girl after my own heart love being on the edge . I'm like a baby all I want to do is go into the fitus position so I can go for hours drible hear and There but I feel it's the only way I can experience
an orgasum same as a woman can
But love to edge ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The dunning kruger effect
That sounds like some kind of war manover?
It a highly specialised Japanese Kinbaku rope pattern. Only true “masters” know it’s secrets! "
You’re on form on this thread! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
I only came once from a BJ...so far. Not sure why, think I just like more tightness and friction, but it might be psychological and I'm trying self consciously not to cum because I want sex! |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
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The dunning kruger effect
That sounds like some kind of war manover?
It a highly specialised Japanese Kinbaku rope pattern. Only true “masters” know it’s secrets!
You’re on form on this thread!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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The dunning kruger effect
That sounds like some kind of war manover?
It a highly specialised Japanese Kinbaku rope pattern. Only true “masters” know it’s secrets!
You’re on form on this thread!"
Thank you lol |
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"I found it hard in my teens but that's because BJ were not in fashion.but now we have a new bread of Linda love laces . so my opinion any man that can not cum from a BJ .maybe it's time he batts for the other team
Dear lord - not sure how some people manage to navigate the world every day. Is it just me or has no one else noticed than in all this discussion of who can or can't orgasm from oral sex, nobody has suggested the problem has only been with women? Maybe we should all ask a guy for a BJ just as a quick check, you know, I've always preferred women, never really looked at guys but damn, I'm struggling to come with a BJ, perhaps I'm just gay and never knew ...
Mr
Oh, and who doesn't love a bread Linda?"
Not for me carnt think of anything worst men do Jack for me .I won't even play with a couple if he batts on the other side . I respect them but it's just not my cup of tea |
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I can confirm this can be a very true phenomenon, my husband loves a BJ but in 20+ years has never cum with one!
Personally I wouldn't want a guy to cum while I'm giving one, I really enjoy giving them with it being a re cursor to foreplay.
For me I want to enjoy it as much as the man receiving it...its just as erotic for me to see him moan and lose himself in the act. |
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over a year ago
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It probably means he's wanking too much and can't get the necessary stimulation in other ways.
I can generally cum from a blowjob, by the way. Just saying. |
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over a year ago
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In my experience, the vast majority of blow jobs are awful. The old joke is always about men not being able to find a clitoris, but seriously, most head is just pointless and awful.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It must be thst some guys are to shy to tel the person how to suck there cock .my girl is upset if I don't cum in her mouth . as she said real girls don't spit they swallow.I have had some really boring blow jobs in my time, so I can understand, but then on the flip I've had some out of this world blow jobs. I know a girl she is like a Kirby vacuum she won't let you go .she can suck cock pat her head and rub her belly all at the same time . |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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Totally puts me off I love to give oral and a challenge but I think if they genuinely can’t they wouldn’t say that the mind can be very powerful and if you get something like that into it it’s very hard to change it |
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"Totally puts me off I love to give oral and a challenge but I think if they genuinely can’t they wouldn’t say that the mind can be very powerful and if you get something like that into it it’s very hard to change it "
I see where you are coming from here. As being in that situation it would be kind of off putting. Being young and overly keen, I would make it my mission to be the first. (But more than likely join the long list of failures) |
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
Not try harder but just be a bit more ‘enthusiastic’ about it |
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Take my advice and don't try harder.
I once had a bloke come back time n time n time again and beg ...... the reason ?
He said it was the ONLY time he'd ever come from a hand job......
He was being honest , I could tell by his reaction at the time.
I was underwhelmed with him and never had him back but I kid you not I was like his ThrapQueen for life.
It was as if i'd saved his life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
No it’s not a bloke thing my man very rarely cums from a blow job each guy is different |
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing
No it’s not a bloke thing my man very rarely cums from a blow job each guy is different "
Unless you're not doing it right!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Communication!
If oral doesn't make him come, just ask if he'd still like you to do it... or if there's something else that's more of a turn on.
Until telepathy is a gift standard to all humans, we need to talk to each other more about what we enjoy. |
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over a year ago
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I like receiving a blow job very much, but I have never come from a blow job alone. I get close, or it feels close, but it never happens. I wish it would. Hand jobs are even worse. |
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
I have only had 3 women make me cum via oral. It just does not work for me. Sometimes i do not cum from fucking either but as long as the female has had loads of orgasams i will get my kick from that. Sometimes the planets align and other times they dont. But oral would be the hardest way to definately make me cum.being sucked off has never been high on my list,To get turned on to fuck yes but not necessarily the way to make me cum. We are all different. Just except that as are all women are different what gets them off and works for them personally. John. |
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"Personally I haven’t? But then I’ve rarely been made to cum at all - so id believe it?
There’s then the problem of a woman not willing to give up because they don’t believe you... "
Totally agree bud. |
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing "
I don't even like blowjobs. That is a hand on heart thing.
I would much rather go down on a girl than have a girl go down on me.
Way too sensitive. |
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over a year ago
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"I like receiving a blow job very much, but I have never come from a blow job alone. I get close, or it feels close, but it never happens. I wish it would. Hand jobs are even worse."
The hand jobs where it gets to the point it feels like they are wanking you with 60 grit sand paper as they been wanking you so long as they want you to come that way are the worst. |
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over a year ago
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I find that a lot of women have learnt how to do blowjobs from porn. And that is not what I want. It's not comfortable. If I was that rough with your clit with you like it? |
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"Maybe, or they have spent so much time wanking to porn that they have become insensitive?"
Desensatisation i do believe by wanking to much. I will put my hand up and say i do wank to much when jenny is not around due to work. But she new i was a massive wanker when she met me . I know you will read that two different ways so i will say i am a nice guy not a wanker |
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"I find that a lot of women have learnt how to do blowjobs from porn. And that is not what I want. It's not comfortable. If I was that rough with your clit with you like it? "
Very true. Some are way to rough wanking you as they nearly snap your banjo string |
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"I find that a lot of women have learnt how to do blowjobs from porn. And that is not what I want. It's not comfortable. If I was that rough with your clit with you like it?
Very true. Some are way to rough wanking you as they nearly snap your banjo string "
Exactly. As I said, I would much rather go down on a girl and make sure I'm doing things right than risk being turned off by someone try and pull it off. |
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing
I don't even like blowjobs. That is a hand on heart thing.
I would much rather go down on a girl than have a girl go down on me.
Way too sensitive. "
Blow jobs to get me going yeah but blow jobs where they want the olympic gold medel for making you cum id pass on. Id use that time fucking. |
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"I find that a lot of women have learnt how to do blowjobs from porn. And that is not what I want. It's not comfortable. If I was that rough with your clit with you like it?
Very true. Some are way to rough wanking you as they nearly snap your banjo string
Exactly. As I said, I would much rather go down on a girl and make sure I'm doing things right than risk being turned off by someone try and pull it off. "
True. Had a few very hard tuggers in my time. Feels like a one sided tug of war lol |
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing
I don't even like blowjobs. That is a hand on heart thing.
I would much rather go down on a girl than have a girl go down on me.
Way too sensitive.
Blow jobs to get me going yeah but blow jobs where they want the olympic gold medel for making you cum id pass on. Id use that time fucking. "
Perfect. But I suppose everyone is different. Lots of men like blowjobs for ages. It's never been my thing. |
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing
I don't even like blowjobs. That is a hand on heart thing.
I would much rather go down on a girl than have a girl go down on me.
Way too sensitive. "
I rather lick pussy than get blown personally. |
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing
I don't even like blowjobs. That is a hand on heart thing.
I would much rather go down on a girl than have a girl go down on me.
Way too sensitive.
Blow jobs to get me going yeah but blow jobs where they want the olympic gold medel for making you cum id pass on. Id use that time fucking.
Perfect. But I suppose everyone is different. Lots of men like blowjobs for ages. It's never been my thing. "
Nor mine. 15mins in to it and i get bored. |
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Personally from my perspective I’ve never came from oral but not all guys are like that and with me personally I get turned on by the feedback I get from the women as well as sex feeling great a large part of sex for me is the noises you make, the faces you pull, and feeling your body tremble etc...
Maybe because we don’t get that from oral it doesn’t do much apart from stop my cock from going soft because of course it feels nice but it’s nothing to compare with good sex
But not all guys are the same so I can’t speak for all men |
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"I find that a lot of women have learnt how to do blowjobs from porn. And that is not what I want. It's not comfortable. If I was that rough with your clit with you like it?
Very true. Some are way to rough wanking you as they nearly snap your banjo string
Exactly. As I said, I would much rather go down on a girl and make sure I'm doing things right than risk being turned off by someone try and pull it off.
True. Had a few very hard tuggers in my time. Feels like a one sided tug of war lol "
Oooh no you always start gently and then tug harder judging by a man's reaction how much is perfect and how hard is too hard |
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"If they tell me they can’t I’d say it wouldn’t be worth my effort to try....
Somehow that seems to change their fib lol "
Not really as if i got blown or not would not make any difference to me. Satisfying the lady is the chief aim. |
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"I find that a lot of women have learnt how to do blowjobs from porn. And that is not what I want. It's not comfortable. If I was that rough with your clit with you like it?
Very true. Some are way to rough wanking you as they nearly snap your banjo string
Exactly. As I said, I would much rather go down on a girl and make sure I'm doing things right than risk being turned off by someone try and pull it off.
True. Had a few very hard tuggers in my time. Feels like a one sided tug of war lol
Oooh no you always start gently and then tug harder judging by a man's reaction how much is perfect and how hard is too hard "
See now if everyone thought the way you do we would not have a problem here. |
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"Personally from my perspective I’ve never came from oral but not all guys are like that and with me personally I get turned on by the feedback I get from the women as well as sex feeling great a large part of sex for me is the noises you make, the faces you pull, and feeling your body tremble etc...
Maybe because we don’t get that from oral it doesn’t do much apart from stop my cock from going soft because of course it feels nice but it’s nothing to compare with good sex
But not all guys are the same so I can’t speak for all men "
I feel exactly how you wrote it. I could not have put it better myself. |
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"I find that a lot of women have learnt how to do blowjobs from porn. And that is not what I want. It's not comfortable. If I was that rough with your clit with you like it?
Very true. Some are way to rough wanking you as they nearly snap your banjo string
Exactly. As I said, I would much rather go down on a girl and make sure I'm doing things right than risk being turned off by someone try and pull it off.
True. Had a few very hard tuggers in my time. Feels like a one sided tug of war lol "
I tug hard and use my teeth. They don't ask for a bj ever again. |
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"I find that a lot of women have learnt how to do blowjobs from porn. And that is not what I want. It's not comfortable. If I was that rough with your clit with you like it?
Very true. Some are way to rough wanking you as they nearly snap your banjo string
Exactly. As I said, I would much rather go down on a girl and make sure I'm doing things right than risk being turned off by someone try and pull it off.
True. Had a few very hard tuggers in my time. Feels like a one sided tug of war lol
I tug hard and use my teeth. They don't ask for a bj ever again. "
Suites me just fine |
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"Personally from my perspective I’ve never came from oral but not all guys are like that and with me personally I get turned on by the feedback I get from the women as well as sex feeling great a large part of sex for me is the noises you make, the faces you pull, and feeling your body tremble etc...
Maybe because we don’t get that from oral it doesn’t do much apart from stop my cock from going soft because of course it feels nice but it’s nothing to compare with good sex
But not all guys are the same so I can’t speak for all men
I feel exactly how you wrote it. I could not have put it better myself. "
Thanks good I’m not on my own on that one |
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"Personally from my perspective I’ve never came from oral but not all guys are like that and with me personally I get turned on by the feedback I get from the women as well as sex feeling great a large part of sex for me is the noises you make, the faces you pull, and feeling your body tremble etc...
Maybe because we don’t get that from oral it doesn’t do much apart from stop my cock from going soft because of course it feels nice but it’s nothing to compare with good sex
But not all guys are the same so I can’t speak for all men
I feel exactly how you wrote it. I could not have put it better myself.
Thanks good I’m not on my own on that one "
But I feel like that too |
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"Personally from my perspective I’ve never came from oral but not all guys are like that and with me personally I get turned on by the feedback I get from the women as well as sex feeling great a large part of sex for me is the noises you make, the faces you pull, and feeling your body tremble etc...
Maybe because we don’t get that from oral it doesn’t do much apart from stop my cock from going soft because of course it feels nice but it’s nothing to compare with good sex
But not all guys are the same so I can’t speak for all men
I feel exactly how you wrote it. I could not have put it better myself.
Thanks good I’m not on my own on that one
But I feel like that too "
But you don’t have a cock haha
But I get it you don’t want your pussy sucked just fucked  |
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"Personally from my perspective I’ve never came from oral but not all guys are like that and with me personally I get turned on by the feedback I get from the women as well as sex feeling great a large part of sex for me is the noises you make, the faces you pull, and feeling your body tremble etc...
Maybe because we don’t get that from oral it doesn’t do much apart from stop my cock from going soft because of course it feels nice but it’s nothing to compare with good sex
But not all guys are the same so I can’t speak for all men
I feel exactly how you wrote it. I could not have put it better myself.
Thanks good I’m not on my own on that one "
Pretty sure I fall in this bracket too. I get off on seeing a woman in the throes of passion and orgasm, and always come strongest when fucking. |
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"Personally from my perspective I’ve never came from oral but not all guys are like that and with me personally I get turned on by the feedback I get from the women as well as sex feeling great a large part of sex for me is the noises you make, the faces you pull, and feeling your body tremble etc...
Maybe because we don’t get that from oral it doesn’t do much apart from stop my cock from going soft because of course it feels nice but it’s nothing to compare with good sex
But not all guys are the same so I can’t speak for all men
I feel exactly how you wrote it. I could not have put it better myself.
Thanks good I’m not on my own on that one
But I feel like that too
But you don’t have a cock haha
But I get it you don’t want your pussy sucked just fucked "
No. I meant turning someone else on and hearing them etc is the biggest turn on for me. |
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over a year ago
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"He’s never cum from a blowjob is it a way of making the woman try harder? Lol
So many men say it and I now think it’s a bloke thing
I don't even like blowjobs. That is a hand on heart thing.
I would much rather go down on a girl than have a girl go down on me.
Way too sensitive.
Blow jobs to get me going yeah but blow jobs where they want the olympic gold medel for making you cum id pass on. Id use that time fucking.
Perfect. But I suppose everyone is different. Lots of men like blowjobs for ages. It's never been my thing.
Nor mine. 15mins in to it and i get bored. "
Snap, don't get me wrong I love giving them but if I don't feel I'm getting and response from it I get bored and switch off |
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A significant number of men have never or rarely come from a blow job..but pride will often deter them from admitting this...I dont think it has much to do with skills or how good you are at blowing...I can really enjoy a blow job without cumming or without the suckee coming...
I always say the same thing as I do to premature ejaculators...and that is, don't worry about it..
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