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Safe way to get into cuckolding?
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By *am_brown OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi all, met the girl of my dreams, absolutely stunning and I love her to pieces and her company.
Only thing, i don't seem to satisfy her much in the bedroom (nothing has been said by her to suggest this) i know she's very adventurous and doesn't shy away when i jokingly suggest her getting off with lots of other guys.
She has previously had boyfriends and fuck buddies at the same time, I'm wondering if this comes up, how do I be ok with her having other partners (ideally while I'm there with her) and not feel insecure and feel they'll replace me?
Sam x |
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By *am_brown OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
"How do you know she's had boyfriends and fb before?
Does the idea of her fucking other men turn you on or horrify you?"
Hi,
She mentioned it over drinks that she's had fuck buddies before whilst in a relationship.
Yes, the idea of her fucking other men does turn me on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try and fix what's wrong with your relationship before bringing others in. Speak to her, see if your feelings about her sexual fulfilment are correct and work on that if they are, you may find she's happy and it's in your imagination. She may also not be interested in seeing others for the time being; if it's a fairly new relationship you need time to nurture it and set a decent foundation.
IMO, swinging/cuckholding/hotwife etc won't help an already faltering relationship.
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By *am_brown OP Man
over a year ago
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"Try and fix what's wrong with your relationship before bringing others in. Speak to her, see if your feelings about her sexual fulfilment are correct and work on that if they are, you may find she's happy and it's in your imagination. She may also not be interested in seeing others for the time being; if it's a fairly new relationship you need time to nurture it and set a decent foundation.
IMO, swinging/cuckholding/hotwife etc won't help an already faltering relationship.
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That's actually really good advice, the company part is beautiful and chats e.t.c, maybe communicating in the bedroom might be right, I'm just anxious and possibly feeling a little insecure |
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I never thought I would want to share her, but I get off on it so much, and the feeling of her being with somebody hotter, bigger better but still comes back to me blows my mind. Reclaiming her is the best sex ever. |
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It's not neccersarily a case of you not fulfilling her but maybe she likes the extra thrill of having an another guy. It's something you need to have an open and honest discussion about but you shouldn't enter anything unless you are fully into it too. You can't do it to keep her happy. Good luck OP 
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"Hi all, met the girl of my dreams, absolutely stunning and I love her to pieces and her company.
Only thing, i don't seem to satisfy her much in the bedroom (nothing has been said by her to suggest this) i know she's very adventurous and doesn't shy away when i jokingly suggest her getting off with lots of other guys.
She has previously had boyfriends and fuck buddies at the same time, I'm wondering if this comes up, how do I be ok with her having other partners (ideally while I'm there with her) and not feel insecure and feel they'll replace me?
Sam x"
Show her your fab profile and see what she says ?
If she doesn't hit you with a frying pan I'd say she's game and open minded |
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By *am_brown OP Man
over a year ago
birmingham |
"Hi all, met the girl of my dreams, absolutely stunning and I love her to pieces and her company.
Only thing, i don't seem to satisfy her much in the bedroom (nothing has been said by her to suggest this) i know she's very adventurous and doesn't shy away when i jokingly suggest her getting off with lots of other guys.
She has previously had boyfriends and fuck buddies at the same time, I'm wondering if this comes up, how do I be ok with her having other partners (ideally while I'm there with her) and not feel insecure and feel they'll replace me?
Sam x
Show her your fab profile and see what she says ?
If she doesn't hit you with a frying pan I'd say she's game and open minded "
lol, you're funny
I like this site and it's good for keeping social life active during difficult times, it's gets lonely during lockdown. It's also good for advice as there's so many likemided people out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just discuss it and be honest about whether you want this or not, if it's a turn on then you could always arrange for her to chat to a few guys and take it a stage at a time. My only cuckolding experience progressed from online chat to meeting and worked out really well.
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Definitely speak to her first, she may not want you to be there and you both will have to come up with equal boundaries, communication is key whether its good or bad, speak to each other or you may risk the relationship ending |
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Think you really really need to have a good and honest conversation with her. You are presuming so much, she may have had bf and fwb at the same time before but your relationship may mean exclusivity to her, you don't know.
If you want to give cuckolding a shot, it requires honesty and the ability to talk to each other, else jealousy can be an issue. Good luck op |
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maybe cuckoldry would have saved it before it was too late!
