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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's amazing sometimes you think that you've got a connection with someone and it's non-stop talking non-stop messaging and then it goes tits up and then the quietness happens  |
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You've gotta keep people engaged. You've got to give them a reason to continue messaging you because they're probably getting loads of messaging from people that make more of an effort to send engaging messages. Otherwise they'll just get bored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can interest people or put them off by what you say if they go quiet its more than likley down to putting them off in some way. But its not worth dwelling on best to put it behind you and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes we can say too much
I know I put people off by the things I say
Simple way of looking at it 'Those are not my people'
Gimme longer with those that 'get me' and less with those that don't |
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"It's amazing sometimes you think that you've got a connection with someone and it's non-stop talking non-stop messaging and then it goes tits up and then the quietness happens "
The answer is there OP
- non stop talking, non stop messaging.
thinking about that is already tiring. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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No why I'm saying is that they are the ones that are messaging you non-stop ringing you non-stop so at that present time you think to yourself that you've got a chance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's amazing sometimes you think that you've got a connection with someone and it's non-stop talking non-stop messaging and then it goes tits up and then the quietness happens
The answer is there OP
- non stop talking, non stop messaging.
thinking about that is already tiring."
In a nutshell, this 
Strings of messages can feel like a bombardment
Never feel guilty for not replying to a message straight away
Leave it, do something else, pick it up later
A pause between messages can be a blessed relief for both parties
I want to chat with someone carefree and easily and not leave the conversation exhausted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it because they have gone to work OP ?  "
Yeah, they like don’t reply for 8 hours, then in the evening they’re chatting again, I mean what’s that all about, it’s like they’ve got other things going on in their lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No why I'm saying is that they are the ones that are messaging you non-stop ringing you non-stop so at that present time you think to yourself that you've got a chance "
Some people just like the chase.  |
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