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I have been having a number of conversations regarding pics, and we'll I have come to the conclusion pics can be placed into three different styles of pics,...you have the classy sexy erotic pic, the pic which oozes sex appeal and then there's the pic which actually makes you think about sex...I'm starting to fear non of my pics are actually allowing those viewing to actually imagine sex of any sort,...or am I wrong, love to know your views, oh and add comments to others within the thread,...though always remember to remain respectful  |
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Everyone’s Brian works differently so what works for one will not necessarily for another..it’s the alluding to creating the I wonder...again as others mentioned I particularly like the black and white..hand sliding behind the towel... different angles and lighting are good if you can too! Play around and enjoy taking the pics...  |
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"Everyone’s Brian works differently so what works for one will not necessarily for another..it’s the alluding to creating the I wonder...again as others mentioned I particularly like the black and white..hand sliding behind the towel... different angles and lighting are good if you can too! Play around and enjoy taking the pics... "
My Brian is quite adaptable |
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The art of putting together a good pic and placing that sexual imagination into a viewers thoughts is certainly one which totally fascinates me,...all you ladies seem to be able to do it with such ease |
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over a year ago
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I find nowadays none of the photos make me think of sex unless they are of someone I've been 'sexting' messaging with.
I appreciate the aesthetic quality but intentionally erotic photos don't particularly do much for me.
Something a bit different and with imagination and flair is more likely to catch my eye and a photo which captures the personality of the person appeals more. |
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There is one pic of a man on here that gets my dusty minge trembling.
I'm not a pic kind of person though, they don't turn me on usually. Which is odd because in person I'm a voyeur.  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"There is one pic of a man on here that gets my dusty minge trembling.
I'm not a pic kind of person though, they don't turn me on usually. Which is odd because in person I'm a voyeur. "
I'm just eating a banana for gawd's sake |
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"I have been having a number of conversations regarding pics, and we'll I have come to the conclusion pics can be placed into three different styles of pics,...you have the classy sexy erotic pic, the pic which oozes sex appeal and then there's the pic which actually makes you think about sex...I'm starting to fear non of my pics are actually allowing those viewing to actually imagine sex of any sort,...or am I wrong, love to know your views, oh and add comments to others within the thread,...though always remember to remain respectful "
I like your pics but alot are very similar and focus on your chest whereas i am a lover of legs.x |
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"There is one pic of a man on here that gets my dusty minge trembling.
I'm not a pic kind of person though, they don't turn me on usually. Which is odd because in person I'm a voyeur.
I'm just eating a banana for gawd's sake "
2 pics now...
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"I have been having a number of conversations regarding pics, and we'll I have come to the conclusion pics can be placed into three different styles of pics,...you have the classy sexy erotic pic, the pic which oozes sex appeal and then there's the pic which actually makes you think about sex...I'm starting to fear non of my pics are actually allowing those viewing to actually imagine sex of any sort,...or am I wrong, love to know your views, oh and add comments to others within the thread,...though always remember to remain respectful
I like your pics but alot are very similar and focus on your chest whereas i am a lover of legs.x"
This is totally what I am talking about, I totally understand different women have a desire and imagination in the image they are viewing,...comments here will allow me to develope further images for different tastes, keep the comments flowing ladies |
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I'd suggest you play around with different angles OP...you have a great body, but virtually all of your pictures are of the same body part taken from the same angle. Perhaps where the camera is above you and looking down, or even just further away so we can see you in all your glory for example. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"There is one pic of a man on here that gets my dusty minge trembling.
I'm not a pic kind of person though, they don't turn me on usually. Which is odd because in person I'm a voyeur.
I'm just eating a banana for gawd's sake
2 pics now...
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If that's all it takes...dust is the least of your problems |
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"It's hard to take nice selfies and you have only got your phone to do this black and white are very classy #  "
My best pic was phone camera just on the timer, propped on a chair, bedroom lamp placed on the floor for mood lighting then use normal phone photo editing to turn b&w...
You don't need anything fancy... Give it a whizz |
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"It's hard to take nice selfies and you have only got your phone to do this black and white are very classy #
My best pic was phone camera just on the timer, propped on a chair, bedroom lamp placed on the floor for mood lighting then use normal phone photo editing to turn b&w...
You don't need anything fancy... Give it a whizz"
Yup. Phone stand, DIY phone stand. Wall to prop phone up with. Video to still apps to reduce blooper frustration. |
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I don't tend to see a picture and instantly think sex unless it's someone I'm talking to.
Though I think pictures that show personality are the most interesting. Of your own pictures OP maybe have them in a different order. Some are a bit repetitive, says the woman with the her boobs out in most of them I know lol |
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I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.
I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.
I love taking pics and I take them first and foremost for me and it gets me all hot and turned on (not looking at myself, just the outfits and things) and if someone else enjoys them then that’s great but just do it for what you like. (Still not made it to page 1 mind you haha) |
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"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.
I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.
I love taking pics and I take them first and foremost for me and it gets me all hot and turned on (not looking at myself, just the outfits and things) and if someone else enjoys them then that’s great but just do it for what you like. (Still not made it to page 1 mind you haha) "
Interestingly, I find taking photos to be a distinctly clinical experience |
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"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.
I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.
I love taking pics and I take them first and foremost for me and it gets me all hot and turned on (not looking at myself, just the outfits and things) and if someone else enjoys them then that’s great but just do it for what you like. (Still not made it to page 1 mind you haha) "
This is me! I enjoy taking the pics and mostly gets me quite horny! Not always but I guess I don’t see the point if I don’t enjoy it! And it’s what I like...sometimes I do pics with someone in mind... |
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"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.
I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.
I love taking pics and I take them first and foremost for me and it gets me all hot and turned on (not looking at myself, just the outfits and things) and if someone else enjoys them then that’s great but just do it for what you like. (Still not made it to page 1 mind you haha)
This is me! I enjoy taking the pics and mostly gets me quite horny! Not always but I guess I don’t see the point if I don’t enjoy it! And it’s what I like...sometimes I do pics with someone in mind..."
I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)
I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me  |
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What about the pics that make you wish you hadn’t looked at the new photo section will eating a ham baguette and no matter how hard you try you can’t get the image out of your head, what about them ones ?! |
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What about the unintentionally hilarious ones, ones that are made to look like they’re spontaneous or trying to be nonchalant, but you know they’ve taken 500 photos trying to capture it, but gave up, what about them ones ?! |
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"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.
I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.
I love taking pics and I take them first and foremost for me and it gets me all hot and turned on (not looking at myself, just the outfits and things) and if someone else enjoys them then that’s great but just do it for what you like. (Still not made it to page 1 mind you haha)
This is me! I enjoy taking the pics and mostly gets me quite horny! Not always but I guess I don’t see the point if I don’t enjoy it! And it’s what I like...sometimes I do pics with someone in mind...
I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)
I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me "
Oh ha I know - sometimes my face looks ridiculous in them - like straining and things and there’s ones where I tried to do a pose and it does not come across well. And hey, call it art - it takes skill to make pics look the part. |
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"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.
I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.
I love taking pics and I take them first and foremost for me and it gets me all hot and turned on (not looking at myself, just the outfits and things) and if someone else enjoys them then that’s great but just do it for what you like. (Still not made it to page 1 mind you haha)
This is me! I enjoy taking the pics and mostly gets me quite horny! Not always but I guess I don’t see the point if I don’t enjoy it! And it’s what I like...sometimes I do pics with someone in mind...
I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)
I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me
Oh ha I know - sometimes my face looks ridiculous in them - like straining and things and there’s ones where I tried to do a pose and it does not come across well. And hey, call it art - it takes skill to make pics look the part. "
I laugh when it gets called narcissism. Oh no, it takes a degree of resilience and introspection to get something workable out of the raw material I'm working with. It's awful |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"It's all a very interesting learning curve,...men should take note  "
I have for quite some time now. Pic taking sessions are an entertaining and creative experience |
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There's some thing very fun and sexy about taking a pic, and being rewarded with the efforts,...I do occasionally look at other males profiles to give me thoughts and inspiration, though alot of males really need to take a good close look at their pics, their are a few though who really do obviously put in the effort,....like the forumites have said, it's about having fun with it |
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"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.
I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.
I love taking pics and I take them first and foremost for me and it gets me all hot and turned on (not looking at myself, just the outfits and things) and if someone else enjoys them then that’s great but just do it for what you like. (Still not made it to page 1 mind you haha)
This is me! I enjoy taking the pics and mostly gets me quite horny! Not always but I guess I don’t see the point if I don’t enjoy it! And it’s what I like...sometimes I do pics with someone in mind...
I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)
I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me
Oh ha I know - sometimes my face looks ridiculous in them - like straining and things and there’s ones where I tried to do a pose and it does not come across well. And hey, call it art - it takes skill to make pics look the part.
I laugh when it gets called narcissism. Oh no, it takes a degree of resilience and introspection to get something workable out of the raw material I'm working with. It's awful "
Nothing wrong with a little light narcissism to get the creative juices flowing |
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"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.
I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.
I love taking pics and I take them first and foremost for me and it gets me all hot and turned on (not looking at myself, just the outfits and things) and if someone else enjoys them then that’s great but just do it for what you like. (Still not made it to page 1 mind you haha)
This is me! I enjoy taking the pics and mostly gets me quite horny! Not always but I guess I don’t see the point if I don’t enjoy it! And it’s what I like...sometimes I do pics with someone in mind...
I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)
I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me
Oh ha I know - sometimes my face looks ridiculous in them - like straining and things and there’s ones where I tried to do a pose and it does not come across well. And hey, call it art - it takes skill to make pics look the part.
I laugh when it gets called narcissism. Oh no, it takes a degree of resilience and introspection to get something workable out of the raw material I'm working with. It's awful
Nothing wrong with a little light narcissism to get the creative juices flowing "
According to my now ex therapist, I'm almost pathologically non-narcissist. Ha. It's challenging to work with the norms set by normal people. |
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"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.
I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.
I love taking pics and I take them first and foremost for me and it gets me all hot and turned on (not looking at myself, just the outfits and things) and if someone else enjoys them then that’s great but just do it for what you like. (Still not made it to page 1 mind you haha)
This is me! I enjoy taking the pics and mostly gets me quite horny! Not always but I guess I don’t see the point if I don’t enjoy it! And it’s what I like...sometimes I do pics with someone in mind...
I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)
I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me
Oh ha I know - sometimes my face looks ridiculous in them - like straining and things and there’s ones where I tried to do a pose and it does not come across well. And hey, call it art - it takes skill to make pics look the part.
I laugh when it gets called narcissism. Oh no, it takes a degree of resilience and introspection to get something workable out of the raw material I'm working with. It's awful
Nothing wrong with a little light narcissism to get the creative juices flowing
According to my now ex therapist, I'm almost pathologically non-narcissist. Ha. It's challenging to work with the norms set by normal people."
blimey! |
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"According to my now ex therapist, I'm almost pathologically non-narcissist. Ha. It's challenging to work with the norms set by normal people.
blimey! "
I cringe, do it, cringe some more.
Some might say I'm wired wrong |
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"According to my now ex therapist, I'm almost pathologically non-narcissist. Ha. It's challenging to work with the norms set by normal people.
blimey!
I cringe, do it, cringe some more.
Some might say I'm wired wrong "
Cringing is my spirit totem. |
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"According to my now ex therapist, I'm almost pathologically non-narcissist. Ha. It's challenging to work with the norms set by normal people.
blimey!
I cringe, do it, cringe some more.
Some might say I'm wired wrong
Cringing is my spirit totem. "
Sister?  |
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Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos   |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos "
Your pics are great !! X |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos "
I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...) |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
Your pics are great !! X"
Why thank you very much... I'm also a fan of yours |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
Your pics are great !! X
Why thank you very much... I'm also a fan of yours "
Thank you !! Fan girling over here!!!! |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...)"
Love those red white and blue contrast ones - rep lips are gorgeous! |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...)
Love those red white and blue contrast ones - rep lips are gorgeous! "
Thank you! A Photoshop express filter. |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...)"
Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then |
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That's one thing I find women in here are better at is use of colour. Maybe it's easier for women due to clothing or lingerie choices etc. But some of the ladies pictures on here pop out the screen in a way B&W rarely does |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...)
Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then "
The majority of my pictures are self taken. I've recently discovered that the cardboard my subscription coffee comes in helps prop my phone up for pictures on my bed. |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...)
Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then "
I actually struggle to take pics with others - I take them on my own and can be all bendy and stuff. But with my partner we still haven’t taken pics for our couples page together. We are just having too much fun and I think I’d feel really silly pulling faces and stuff plus he’s a major perfectionist. Could be an interesting combo!!! How do you even ask?? |
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"That's one thing I find women in here are better at is use of colour. Maybe it's easier for women due to clothing or lingerie choices etc. But some of the ladies pictures on here pop out the screen in a way B&W rarely does "
Definitely. But shirts, ties, scarves... guys have options. |
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It's been fantastic the maturity by which this thread has been explored, I was partially expecting some very juvenile and immature comments, so it's been fantastic that people havnt small talked the subject and actually given their true views and opinions |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...)
Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then
The majority of my pictures are self taken. I've recently discovered that the cardboard my subscription coffee comes in helps prop my phone up for pictures on my bed."
I got a free tripod from somewhere... I love it! |
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"That's one thing I find women in here are better at is use of colour. Maybe it's easier for women due to clothing or lingerie choices etc. But some of the ladies pictures on here pop out the screen in a way B&W rarely does
Definitely. But shirts, ties, scarves... guys have options."
They do have options but I can't think of any particular male who utilises colour. Where I can name several women. |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...)
Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then
The majority of my pictures are self taken. I've recently discovered that the cardboard my subscription coffee comes in helps prop my phone up for pictures on my bed.
I got a free tripod from somewhere... I love it! "
We got a tripod and a little light. Taking things to the next level. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"That's one thing I find women in here are better at is use of colour. Maybe it's easier for women due to clothing or lingerie choices etc. But some of the ladies pictures on here pop out the screen in a way B&W rarely does
Definitely. But shirts, ties, scarves... guys have options.
They do have options but I can't think of any particular male who utilises colour. Where I can name several women. "
I look far better in B&W plus the licence is cheaper |
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"That's one thing I find women in here are better at is use of colour. Maybe it's easier for women due to clothing or lingerie choices etc. But some of the ladies pictures on here pop out the screen in a way B&W rarely does
Definitely. But shirts, ties, scarves... guys have options.
They do have options but I can't think of any particular male who utilises colour. Where I can name several women. "
It's definitely true. |
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...)
Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then
I actually struggle to take pics with others - I take them on my own and can be all bendy and stuff. But with my partner we still haven’t taken pics for our couples page together. We are just having too much fun and I think I’d feel really silly pulling faces and stuff plus he’s a major perfectionist. Could be an interesting combo!!! How do you even ask??"
Yeah we also get carried away and forget... So its usually right at the end haha as we are contemplating leaving... Initially i took a few from video stills and it took off from there.. I never include faces which makes us both more comfortable
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"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)
I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)
I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search
Lately i working my way through videos
I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...)
Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then
I actually struggle to take pics with others - I take them on my own and can be all bendy and stuff. But with my partner we still haven’t taken pics for our couples page together. We are just having too much fun and I think I’d feel really silly pulling faces and stuff plus he’s a major perfectionist. Could be an interesting combo!!! How do you even ask??
Yeah we also get carried away and forget... So its usually right at the end haha as we are contemplating leaving... Initially i took a few from video stills and it took off from there.. I never include faces which makes us both more comfortable
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Ooh must check these out for some inspiration!!! |
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"That's one thing I find women in here are better at is use of colour. Maybe it's easier for women due to clothing or lingerie choices etc. But some of the ladies pictures on here pop out the screen in a way B&W rarely does
Definitely. But shirts, ties, scarves... guys have options.
They do have options but I can't think of any particular male who utilises colour. Where I can name several women.
It's definitely true."
And I think possibly that women are far comfier with their creativity for photography on here. Thinking especially with forum challenges, some of the ideas are amazing and again the stand out ones are female. Think this is probably why the majority of the pictures I fab are female. |
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At times I do men become easily deflated because our images don't get fabbed that much, from my personal view it takes quite alot of strength to keep posting pics even when they are not fabbed,...women get fabs constantly on their pics and I know that's an amazing buzz,....so I can totally understand alot of men get deflated from adding pics |
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"At times I do men become easily deflated because our images don't get fabbed that much, from my personal view it takes quite alot of strength to keep posting pics even when they are not fabbed,...women get fabs constantly on their pics and I know that's an amazing buzz,....so I can totally understand alot of men get deflated from adding pics"
I can see what you mean, but try not to think of it like that. It's not like I'm going to be on page one of hot pics. And sometimes you can question why do I bother. But your profile is your shop window, so it's definitely worth it, I wouldn't speak to a shadow. Guess it depends what function you want from your photos |
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over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"At times I do men become easily deflated because our images don't get fabbed that much, from my personal view it takes quite alot of strength to keep posting pics even when they are not fabbed,...women get fabs constantly on their pics and I know that's an amazing buzz,....so I can totally understand alot of men get deflated from adding pics"
Thing is though and what a lot of men seem to miss - there's two distinct opposites at play when it comes to Fabs on pics.
Men are in the majority of users so logic dictates that women will get more - it also dictates that men will do so because they believe it will get them noticed by the recipient.
Women are in the minority so by comparison the number of Fabs they give will always be proportionally less and they don't tend to Fab pics of guys so readily as they don't need to attract the attention and because by doing so they risk being bombarded with "you fabbed me therefore you must want to fuck me" messages.
So in summary men not getting as many Fabs makes perfectly logical sense |
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"At times I do men become easily deflated because our images don't get fabbed that much, from my personal view it takes quite alot of strength to keep posting pics even when they are not fabbed,...women get fabs constantly on their pics and I know that's an amazing buzz,....so I can totally understand alot of men get deflated from adding pics"
I don’t post pics to get to top spot or to achieve fabs. I post them across a few different platforms and it’s just a lot of fun. Don’t give it much else thought. |
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From my previous set of pics (lost when I flounced off here in a man huff in July), my b&w pics almost always did better in terms of Fabs.
Although it seems a boing/helicopter vid is an inexplicable gateway to success recently.... |
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