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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love to give (no lockjaw here!) and gutted if a lady doesn't like to receive. For a one off I guess it wouldn't be an issue but not sure I could have a FWB/partner who didn't love sitting on my face!  |
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"Sometimes...just sometimes, oral can be better than sex (obvs depending who you’re having sex with). I do enjoy giving though  "
I agree deffo !!
Older i get pounding sex im finding boring the longer it goes on . Needs some kind of spicing up ! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Sometimes...just sometimes, oral can be better than sex (obvs depending who you’re having sex with). I do enjoy giving though
I agree deffo !!
Older i get pounding sex im finding boring the longer it goes on . Needs some kind of spicing up !"
I'll be honest and say penetrative sex would be one thing I could do without if I had to - don't get me wrong, it can be pleasurable but if I had to take away one element of my sex life I could happily do without it |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
I love giving and receiving oral sex but have in the past lost interest at times. It changes for me and is never the same.. Always a journey of new sensations.
Yesterday my lover was sitting on the floor as I walked past in my nightie. He pulled me gently over to him so that I stood over him and he gave me oral while I was standing there until my legs were shaking and we were both totally aroused. It led us into an amazing zone. I'd forgotten about that angle!
Like kissing, penetrative sex and any other form of intimacy, if it gets predictable and samey, it can be boring. Try new angles and situations. Like all things sensual and sexual, it takes a little exploring or just the right person to revive lost or forgotten or even never found pleasures. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Love to give.
If receiving then I like a quick lick and crack on to something else 
But what about coming back to the licking afterwards? X
Only if they are licking up their cum  "
I was thinking more like licking your's up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love giving and receiving oral sex but have in the past lost interest at times. It changes for me and is never the same.. Always a journey of new sensations.
Yesterday my lover was sitting on the floor as I walked past in my nightie. He pulled me gently over to him so that I stood over him and he gave me oral while I was standing there until my legs were shaking and we were both totally aroused. It led us into an amazing zone. I'd forgotten about that angle!
Like kissing, penetrative sex and any other form of intimacy, if it gets predictable and samey, it can be boring. Try new angles and situations. Like all things sensual and sexual, it takes a little exploring or just the right person to revive lost or forgotten or even never found pleasures. Right on lady .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the scenario.. if we've been spooning a while and she's been grinding on me I'm not too interested in oral I'm just gonna want to slip inside  |
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We joke about this as sometimes when we haven’t seen each other for a few days, you just want the ‘I need you now’ urgency and so you go from kissing to sex...
But yes, we both adore giving and receiving oral and it’s an absolute must!
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"I don’t like rules. No oral, no kissing, no condoms, it doesn’t do it for me. X
I dont like rules then give three rules?
Irony."
What she said was 'i dont like rules' and then proceeded to give some examples of ones she doesn't like loooool how did you manage to understand that differently? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate it . Doesnt arouse me at all without a play before during n after .
Anyone else the same that cant do fuck cum go meets
this is a genuine question, is oral the only foreplay you like? "
Not the only one, but it is the major one
Nipple play does nothing to me or for me
Even with a wank / being played with, I'd kinda be thinking a blowjob would be in order before the main event
I don't derive any pleasure from 'toys' being used by me or on me
I can't do 'sexy talk' - infact, it makes me cringe
I'm not into being obviously seduced, again I find it kinda cringey and me smirking at someone whilst they do their best to turn me on is rarely sexy
I don't find underwear or other clothing perceived to be 'sexy' a turn on in the slightest
So, whilst I am aware that there are two people in this, I wouldn't personally derive much pleasure from them and wouldn't be very likely to be aroused by them
I think, for me, the biggest turn on that can lead to direct penetration is kisses and cuddles
Go figure, we're a complex breed us humans |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a meet in a club a few years ago and the woman wasn't interested in either giving or receiving oral but we still had plenty of fun fucking and using toys on each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the partner. If it’s long term then a build of of some sorts is great. If it’s a hook up, then I’ll take what comes. If they are dropping their draws I’m not complaining about what’s not happened. |
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"Sex without receiving oral sounds the best kind of sex ever. Means I don't have to lie there and pretend to enjoy myself 
I'd change special friends "
It just doesn't do it for me, never has, no special friend as you like to say could change that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends. If sex comes from spooning, I wouldn’t break that to get into oral.
But if starts and other way, then not including oral would feel like an element was missing; I love going down on a woman. |
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However if its mutual oral then there's no better way if you both get there together 
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and waiting for the squirt to hit your face 
