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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just read something sad yet funny so do forgive and don’t claw my eyes out please lol. I saw a couple in my locality had been checking my profile on inspection I recognised the males pics.
I read the couple profile and was surprised to read we only play as a couple... erm no he doesn’t lol
The male has messaged me a few times from his single profile so he plays behind her back.
I felt sorry for her thinking she doesn’t realise who she’s in a relationship with. A liar cheater dear oh dear. 
Do you think this is common amongst some couples who profess to only play together??? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Or maybe they both have single profiles and choose not to advertise they do on their couples one from which they do only meet as a couple and out that to stave off single male messages to asm to just meet her.
While the scenario you suggest is of course possible, jumping to conclusions about how others choose to run their profiles doesn't always provide the expected answer - if I saw something like that I'd either ask the person concerned (if it bothered me enough to do so) or just move on without making assumptions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't know how common it is but we have had this. We met a couple years ago and when they were at ours they were saying how they only play as a couple and they don't kiss because that is for them. It's written all over their profile they only meet as a couple but recently the guy from the couple has messaged asking if he could meet us alone. She clearly has no idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had it happen to me twice
On both occasions, the wife didn't know her hubby was bi
Both were verfified via meets as a couple
I thought that was kinda sad, that a couple could have enough trust to swing together yet they couldn't be totally open about their sexual selves |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Or maybe they both have single profiles and choose not to advertise they do on their couples one from which they do only meet as a couple and out that to stave off single male messages to asm to just meet her.
While the scenario you suggest is of course possible, jumping to conclusions about how others choose to run their profiles doesn't always provide the expected answer - if I saw something like that I'd either ask the person concerned (if it bothered me enough to do so) or just move on without making assumptions."
I’m not assuming anything as I stated it said clearly at the bottom of their profile we only play TOGETHER actually. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't know how common it is but we have had this. We met a couple years ago and when they were at ours they were saying how they only play as a couple and they don't kiss because that is for them. It's written all over their profile they only meet as a couple but recently the guy from the couple has messaged asking if he could meet us alone. She clearly has no idea. "
Exactly my point it’s probably quite common
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some do, many don’t I suppose. Don’t see what’s funny about it tbh."
It’s funny that they only play as a couple which obviously they don’t. Guess you don’t get the humour love |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Or maybe they both have single profiles and choose not to advertise they do on their couples one from which they do only meet as a couple and out that to stave off single male messages to asm to just meet her.
While the scenario you suggest is of course possible, jumping to conclusions about how others choose to run their profiles doesn't always provide the expected answer - if I saw something like that I'd either ask the person concerned (if it bothered me enough to do so) or just move on without making assumptions.
I’m not assuming anything as I stated it said clearly at the bottom of their profile we only play TOGETHER actually."
And I made it very clear you *could* be right but also simply laid out a scenario where you *could* be wrong - the point being you don't necessarily *know* for sure without talking to him/them about it.
I just find that people jump to all kinds of conclusions and judgements on these forums without actually knowing the situation for sure - when they could be any number of possible answers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some do, many don’t I suppose. Don’t see what’s funny about it tbh.
It’s funny that they only play as a couple which obviously they don’t. Guess you don’t get the humour love "
Obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Or maybe they both have single profiles and choose not to advertise they do on their couples one from which they do only meet as a couple and out that to stave off single male messages to asm to just meet her.
While the scenario you suggest is of course possible, jumping to conclusions about how others choose to run their profiles doesn't always provide the expected answer - if I saw something like that I'd either ask the person concerned (if it bothered me enough to do so) or just move on without making assumptions.
I’m not assuming anything as I stated it said clearly at the bottom of their profile we only play TOGETHER actually.
And I made it very clear you *could* be right but also simply laid out a scenario where you *could* be wrong - the point being you don't necessarily *know* for sure without talking to him/them about it.
I just find that people jump to all kinds of conclusions and judgements on these forums without actually knowing the situation for sure - when they could be any number of possible answers."
Trust me I’m not jumping to no conclusion he made out he was single to me. Ok? You get it now? Or you want to keep harping on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just read something sad yet funny so do forgive and don’t claw my eyes out please lol. I saw a couple in my locality had been checking my profile on inspection I recognised the males pics.
I read the couple profile and was surprised to read we only play as a couple... erm no he doesn’t lol
The male has messaged me a few times from his single profile so he plays behind her back.
I felt sorry for her thinking she doesn’t realise who she’s in a relationship with. A liar cheater dear oh dear.
Do you think this is common amongst some couples who profess to only play together???"
I don't know about common, or if that's what's happening in the situation you described, you never know how people have agreed to run their couples or singles profiles. But sure, it happens sometimes. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Or maybe they both have single profiles and choose not to advertise they do on their couples one from which they do only meet as a couple and out that to stave off single male messages to asm to just meet her.
While the scenario you suggest is of course possible, jumping to conclusions about how others choose to run their profiles doesn't always provide the expected answer - if I saw something like that I'd either ask the person concerned (if it bothered me enough to do so) or just move on without making assumptions.
I’m not assuming anything as I stated it said clearly at the bottom of their profile we only play TOGETHER actually.
And I made it very clear you *could* be right but also simply laid out a scenario where you *could* be wrong - the point being you don't necessarily *know* for sure without talking to him/them about it.
I just find that people jump to all kinds of conclusions and judgements on these forums without actually knowing the situation for sure - when they could be any number of possible answers.
Trust me I’m not jumping to no conclusion he made out he was single to me. Ok? You get it now? Or you want to keep harping on?"
With that initially missing piece of the jigsaw then nothing more needs to be said - although the point I made still stands generally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some do, many don’t I suppose. Don’t see what’s funny about it tbh.
It’s funny that they only play as a couple which obviously they don’t. Guess you don’t get the humour love "
Yeah, this is hilarious, but getting turnips instead of garlic is very serious indeed. |
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"Or maybe they both have single profiles and choose not to advertise they do on their couples one from which they do only meet as a couple and out that to stave off single male messages to asm to just meet her.
While the scenario you suggest is of course possible, jumping to conclusions about how others choose to run their profiles doesn't always provide the expected answer - if I saw something like that I'd either ask the person concerned (if it bothered me enough to do so) or just move on without making assumptions.
I’m not assuming anything as I stated it said clearly at the bottom of their profile we only play TOGETHER actually.
And I made it very clear you *could* be right but also simply laid out a scenario where you *could* be wrong - the point being you don't necessarily *know* for sure without talking to him/them about it.
I just find that people jump to all kinds of conclusions and judgements on these forums without actually knowing the situation for sure - when they could be any number of possible answers."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some do, many don’t I suppose. Don’t see what’s funny about it tbh.
It’s funny that they only play as a couple which obviously they don’t. Guess you don’t get the humour love
Yeah, this is hilarious, but getting turnips instead of garlic is very serious indeed."
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