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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had a few msgs back and forth shared,
Then girl goes and fucks someone else, verification is up
Not nice,
How often does this happen???
Not getting much lucK here??
Any ideas to help me??
Lots of luck when I am out on town  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few msgs back and forth shared,
Then girl goes and fucks someone else, verification is up
Not nice,
How often does this happen???
Not getting much lucK here??
Any ideas to help me??
Lots of luck when I am out on town "
So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
And I guess it would have been fine if YOU had fucked someone else and put a verification up for her to see?
This is a Swinging site. It isn't a sex site and if you don't know the difference I think, with the greatest respect, you are in the wrong place. |
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She will almost certainly be messaging other people in the same way.
She presumably doesn't know either of you already, so it could be something as simple as them suggesting a meet at a time or location more convenient for her? In my limited experience, a lot of it is purely down to luck and timing!
If she likes the look of you and continue to be polite and interested/interesting, you're turn will probably come.
This does happen the other way round too!!. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not another rant......we all have choices and obviously she chose someone else....move on dont moan ,no one likes a moaner...well unless they are tied to the bed and bein.flogged or spanked and they see you with ya strap on ....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It probably happens 1001 times but that is because everyone has the choice of who they want to 'fuck' as you so delicately put it.
Fact is this: Just because you've exchanged a few messages doesn't mean you have an automatic right to sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message a number of people but its not a first come first served basis 
What if she had already arranged something and had to cancel so the meet was rescheduled and has just been completed? I also fancy something different on different days so some days I want a lady and if a lady and I can make time, then I will play with her, it doesnt mean any of my other messages are of less importance
but this is one of the reasons I dont get involved in veri's |
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By *icboyMan
over a year ago
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Girls/women have the choice of many likely lads...something to remember.
And sometimes its all about timing...on this occasion you may have been a bit off.
Also it is a swing site...means that we are all here for the same reason...mostly.
That means multiple partners not just the one you are talking to at any given time...just chill...play the long game...you will find that you will be rewarded in some way.
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I have conversations going with a variety of men at any one time.
Who I actually meet depends on so many factors. My list of guys I intend to meet at some point is very long - I know I'm fortunate as a single female, but I'm not going to apologise for it!
So yes, I will be flirty and chatty and trying to meet people. But if he has time when I do and you have to work/look after the kids/the car's in the garage then he gets the meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont see the problem....
happens all the time. just keep messaging her and maybe she will see you too. she has that right.....
if you think its 'not nice', as you put it, then if i was her i would be a little worried that you may have a little green monster hiding in your head somewhere... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have been talking to a lady now for about 2 months and she has fucked other guys in that time and i have met others too. we are planning to meet, in fact we are really eager to meet each other. it just that it hasnt happened yet because of work and family ties we havent had a mutually convenient time yet. it doesnt bother me at all.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the lady in question was a single fem, then she probably gets upwards of 50 messages a day from guys wanting to meet. So lots of choice.
Its not a personal slight against you, its just she is chatting to lots of guys on here.
I agree with the poster above, its sounding like the green eyed monster is showing his head.....not good if ya swinging!!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take the positive out of this. So often we see threads along the lines of multiple messages and then blocked! At least you haven't been blocked so there is still hope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She my have made arrangements with the other guy a while ago
She may still be uncertain whether or not she wants to meet you and wants to chat further to make sure shes feels comfortable with you
Sometimes I can be chatting to someone for ages and still not meet them due to bad timing and others I can make arrangements with pretty quickly,it depends on so many different things
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"Take the positive out of this. So often we see threads along the lines of multiple messages and then blocked! At least you haven't been blocked so there is still hope. "
Added to which it proves she's female and actually meets and plays! Win win. 
Keep chatting and ask her for coffee  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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as others have said, just because you are talking to people doesn't mean that is an in to meeting.... I speak to more than one person at a time as I am sure most people do...
I don't see where this person strung you along at all... they didn't make any arrangements with you and then cancel.. they met someone else and had a bloody good time.. and good on them!!!!
maybe they will now read and see another side to you, and it will have put them off.... thats an opinion you are not going to like, but I can definately see it happening.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"as others have said, just because you are talking to people doesn't mean that is an in to meeting.... I speak to more than one person at a time as I am sure most people do..."
Don't you hate the men that brag! |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ..."
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few msgs back and forth shared,
Then girl goes and fucks someone else, verification is up
Not nice,
How often does this happen???
Not getting much lucK here??
Any ideas to help me??
Lots of luck when I am out on town "
None of us know what was in the message exchange between you both, we can only assume it was 'small talk'. The chances are that most women you interact with on here are having sex with someone else, it's basically for most what the site is about.
If you found her actions to be 'not nice' maybe reconsider what your expectations of the site are?
It is very different to meeting people on a night out, supply and demand change the rules of attraction for many.
Don't take it personally and good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was messaging someone last year and then went on holiday. I stayed at a hotel on my return as I had a wedding to go to the next day. So I ended up making very good use of the hotel room on a spur of a moment meet.
The original guy I had been messaging saw the veri and asked if he had been put at the back of the queue. Cheeky git. I will meet who I want when I want and I don't like to be questioned about it. I also don't operate a queue system! I decided because of his attitude I would never meet him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few msgs back and forth shared,
Then girl goes and fucks someone else, verification is up
Not nice,
How often does this happen???
Not getting much lucK here??
Any ideas to help me??
Lots of luck when I am out on town "
is being exclusive in the rule book. - ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a few msgs back and forth shared,
Then girl goes and fucks someone else, verification is up
Not nice,
How often does this happen???
Not getting much lucK here??
Any ideas to help me??
Lots of luck when I am out on town "
People get better offers, that or you are doing something wrong to put them of. Look back at your messages, try and be objective on your attitude. Only you can look at what you are doing to put people off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand why it was 'not nice'. It's a swinging site and as people have said above, people who are looking to meet will often have more than one conversation going at the same time. It's not like the queue at the supermarket deli where you take your turn and nor is chatting to someone a guarantee of getting a meet. Honest advice is that you need to get your head round that. Keep chatting to the lady in question and hope you meet up with her. |
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I speak to more than one person at a time. One of my playmates we met for a social meet three years ago and it's only in the last year we've met a couple of times to play and we live about two miles from each other! He works all over the country and lives with his mum, we meet if she's out or my family are out - it's a logistical nightmare. Thankfully, there are people that don't have family at home who can accommodate more readily.
During that time we've both met other people.
I must admit to finding this thread rather strange. It implies, and apologies if I've misinterpreted the OP, that because the two of you are exchanging messages you thought you'd be in like Flyn but some how someone has got in there before you and you've taken offense to that.
Shocking behaviour on her part if that's the case. Fancy shagging more than one person on a swinging site...tart!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!! "
Yes interesting distinction, probably one for it's own thread. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Then girl goes and fucks someone else, verification is up
Not nice,"
How very dare she!!!
I am afraid this is one of the things about this site that you'll just have to get useed to. I've had many message exchanges where it has just petered out because we've founed out that we've got nothing in common. Or the guy has said something that is one of my no-nos (wanting to invite another woman along on the first meet, starting to get all 'dom' on me with no warning etc) so that will strike him off my 'to do' list. Or we've made a definitely some time arrangement and I've never heard from him again (that happens a lot). They are all just one of those things, and it really is a case of being available at the right time for me, and possibly other women. I travel a lot for work and so can't be available when others are, so it takes work. Make yourself attractive and you never know your luck.
PS, she may well have made the arrangement to meet the other guy before she started talking to you. There are many reasons that people arrange to meet people, and its not all because we are meanies trying to make you feel bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I'm in utter shock at finding out someone on a swinging site has slept with more then one person, I would report and get her band. I hope this hussy hasn't knocked you back too much, don't worry you'll soon find "the one."
Chin up mate.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see what's wrong with the question, myself...........
So if I have read the question correctly, you think that because this woman has gone on a meet with someone else that you are no longer in with a chance of meeting her. That seems like a fundamental misunderstanding of what this site is all about.
You don't mention it, but if you had aranged a meet for, say, Thursday night and she had not turned up and gone with someone else, you wuold have a point in being upset.
If, instead, you were only at the stage of aranging a meet, she is as entitled to arange a meet with someone else as you are. That she has aranged something with someone else does not mean that you can't carry on your pursuit of her............
O, as someone else says, stick to town if you are verry successfull in the pub/club scene......... |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!!
Yes interesting distinction, probably one for it's own thread. "
It may be, but I just saw a load of pidgeons and had a loaded cat..... Still, perhaps if I take my medication?  |
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"Or stick to pof where at least you won't know if there have been others...
plenty of fucks, is a terrible website...I've had nothing from it!"
But you don't get mardy when your friends play elsewhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe she got bored... I've started to chat to guys on here and after a few pm's been bored shitless with their dull unimaginative messages... it kinda takes the excitement out of it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!! "
I share my time lol-I share my respect knowing I have limits within a meet(especially if its a couple)..yes share. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because a few messages have been exchanged does not mean you are guaranteed sex.
You may not be the only one this person is messaging.
The person could have been messaging the other person longer.
There is umpteen reasons but the main one this is a swinging site and no one is exculsive to another unless that is what they have agreed to. |
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"Maybe she got bored... I've started to chat to guys on here and after a few pm's been bored shitless with their dull unimaginative messages... it kinda takes the excitement out of it.
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Think we've all been there! Thsoe are the ones that then post about women being rude in ignoring them after they've sent polite messages.
Polite maybe, but dull as dishwater! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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....don't be too discouraged .... there's so many offers, she may have been chatting to someone else first and had something lined up with them and felt she had to make good on that promise before she moved on, kind of first come first served.
If you were the first guy wouldn't you wish she did the same for you instead of moving onto number two?
Don't be too precious ... just ask her how it went and chat about that and then persue your original arrangement.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"....don't be too discouraged .... there's so many offers, she may have been chatting to someone else first and had something lined up with them and felt she had to make good on that promise before she moved on, kind of first come first served.
If you were the first guy wouldn't you wish she did the same for you instead of moving onto number two?
Don't be too precious ... just ask her how it went and chat about that and then persue your original arrangement.
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maybe not start asking for details about how his hard cock pumped her good etc...might be a little invasive lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I share my time lol-I share my respect knowing I have limits within a meet(especially if its a couple)..yes share.
I share my bits. Would be rude not to!"
do u do anal and are u shaved |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I share my time lol-I share my respect knowing I have limits within a meet(especially if its a couple)..yes share.
I share my bits. Would be rude not to!
do u do anal and are u shaved"
Yes and no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I share my time lol-I share my respect knowing I have limits within a meet(especially if its a couple)..yes share.
I share my bits. Would be rude not to!
do u do anal and are u shaved
Yes and no. "
U've had far too many meets for my liking.I'm gonna cancel. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I share my time lol-I share my respect knowing I have limits within a meet(especially if its a couple)..yes share.
I share my bits. Would be rude not to!
do u do anal and are u shaved
Yes and no.
U've had far too many meets for my liking.I'm gonna cancel. "
NooooOOOOOoooooOOOOO!!! |
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Cba to read the whole thing lol
So...is the problem that you had arranged a time and date etc but she didint turn up and.met someone else? If so that's out of order
If its just that during the time she has Ben chatting she met someone else, you hadn't arranged anything etc then that's fair game.
You have no right to expect her to fuck you first if you haven't arranged to meet her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont see it as a problem, girls are not personal property they are free to do what they want. I for one have never had the slightest problem with any girl I have met or chatted fucking who ever she wants when she wants. It's a swinging Site not a dating sites.
So many of my male friends would in a heart beat fuck another woman but openly admit they wouldn't be able to watch their wife or girlfriend with another guy. What's all that about |
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"Had a few msgs back and forth shared,
Then girl goes and fucks someone else, verification is up
Not nice, "
Did the messages include her saying "yes I'd like to meet you" followed by the two of you agreeing a time and place?
If it did and she still went off to fuck someone else, then yes I agree, it's not nice.
If it didn't involve agreeing a time and a place, then I am concerned as to why you think her meeting someone else is 'not nice'.
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How often does this happen???
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As I am still not sure what 'this' is, I'll give two replies:
If it is the situation I agreed was not nice the answer is sometimes.
If however you mean how often might a person you have exchanged a few messages with be planning to fuck someone else, answer is - you'd better get use to it.
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Not getting much lucK here??
Any ideas to help me??
Lots of luck when I am out on town "
This is not the town.
Women are not d*unk.... well not all of them.
Re-think your expectations of what you think you will get from this site and how you think women should behave.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How far away from the fem in question are you? Could it be the other guy was closer at the time and she was after a spur of the moment meet? It happens m8!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!! "
we share our cock!! Wouldn't dream of just keeping it to myself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"she was probably chatting to a few keeping her options open....and chose one out a few....
choice...woman have the choice of hundreds"
in erotic fiction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a few guys read my verifications and message to say that they were free on that night, why didn't I message them.
I've also had guys on my friends list message asking how meets went when they've obviously read a veri.
I block them. I have no patience for needy men and I certainly don't have to answer to anyone on here, no matter if I've been chatting to them for years.
I suspect if another woman had messaged you asking to meet, you would have turned them down and said, no sorry I'm chatting to a really nice girl so I can't.
You are no doubt under the impression that all ladies on swinging sites are basically lying there, open and ready all hours. To give pleasure to men. That is not the case.
I suggest you stick to your nights out on the town |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The same way you message more than one person, so will everyone else. Like people have said its down to availability. Just because they meet someone else doesn't mean they won't meet you at some point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message loads of people and meet up with folk and I will eventually get round to a person if I like them. I can chat to someone for a month before i finally sleep with them or I could just meet someone that day.
Please get a grip of yourself she is a woman who has needs just like yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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err this is a swingers site not a dating site..people can fuck who they like when they like..deal with it if you can't. your on the wrong site..not having much luck hey join the club..the ratio of women to men on here is so high be thankfull for a reply..also things happen when you least expect them too..it may take time but hey this is a free site so its costing you nothing to hang around on here..chill .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!! "
I am sorry you have such a negative attitude towards single guys. So according to your outlook we have no use at all and are just selfish and have no concept of sharing ..or have I misunderstood your post?
I can't speak for other guys but let me share (oops!) a little gem or two with you:
I normally PAY for the hotel bills.
I SHARE me, my humour, my personality and my sexual experience.
I GIVE sexual pleasure to single ladies however they like it.
I SHARE a husbands wife with him by ADDING something to their realtionship.
I AM respectful of others' preferences.
I am NOT after quck shags.
I am GIVE more than I take.
Not all singles USE this site'just for a quick shag'.
So with respect I believe we singles DO share and have a rightful place in the Swinging environment. And I have to observe most of us seem to have more respect for others than you show towards us singles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!!
I am sorry you have such a negative attitude towards single guys. So according to your outlook we have no use at all and are just selfish and have no concept of sharing ..or have I misunderstood your post?
I can't speak for other guys but let me share (oops!) a little gem or two with you:
I normally PAY for the hotel bills.
I SHARE me, my humour, my personality and my sexual experience.
I GIVE sexual pleasure to single ladies however they like it.
I SHARE a husbands wife with him by ADDING something to their realtionship.
I AM respectful of others' preferences.
I am NOT after quck shags.
I am GIVE more than I take.
Not all singles USE this site'just for a quick shag'.
So with respect I believe we singles DO share and have a rightful place in the Swinging environment. And I have to observe most of us seem to have more respect for others than you show towards us singles."
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!!
I am sorry you have such a negative attitude towards single guys. So according to your outlook we have no use at all and are just selfish and have no concept of sharing ..or have I misunderstood your post?
I can't speak for other guys but let me share (oops!) a little gem or two with you:
I normally PAY for the hotel bills.
I SHARE me, my humour, my personality and my sexual experience.
I GIVE sexual pleasure to single ladies however they like it.
I SHARE a husbands wife with him by ADDING something to their realtionship.
I AM respectful of others' preferences.
I am NOT after quck shags.
I am GIVE more than I take.
Not all singles USE this site'just for a quick shag'.
So with respect I believe we singles DO share and have a rightful place in the Swinging environment. And I have to observe most of us seem to have more respect for others than you show towards us singles."
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!!
I am sorry you have such a negative attitude towards single guys. So according to your outlook we have no use at all and are just selfish and have no concept of sharing ..or have I misunderstood your post?
I can't speak for other guys but let me share (oops!) a little gem or two with you:
I normally PAY for the hotel bills.
I SHARE me, my humour, my personality and my sexual experience.
I GIVE sexual pleasure to single ladies however they like it.
I SHARE a husbands wife with him by ADDING something to their realtionship.
I AM respectful of others' preferences.
I am NOT after quck shags.
I am GIVE more than I take.
Not all singles USE this site'just for a quick shag'.
So with respect I believe we singles DO share and have a rightful place in the Swinging environment. And I have to observe most of us seem to have more respect for others than you show towards us singles. "
I think i said all that much earlier on the thread, I should be getting those thumbs up..meanwhile..am off to the jealousy thread.. |
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!!
I am sorry you have such a negative attitude towards single guys. So according to your outlook we have no use at all and are just selfish and have no concept of sharing ..or have I misunderstood your post?
I can't speak for other guys but let me share (oops!) a little gem or two with you:
I normally PAY for the hotel bills.
I SHARE me, my humour, my personality and my sexual experience.
I GIVE sexual pleasure to single ladies however they like it.
I SHARE a husbands wife with him by ADDING something to their realtionship.
I AM respectful of others' preferences.
I am NOT after quck shags.
I am GIVE more than I take.
Not all singles USE this site'just for a quick shag'.
So with respect I believe we singles DO share and have a rightful place in the Swinging environment. And I have to observe most of us seem to have more respect for others than you show towards us singles.
I think i said all that much earlier on the thread, I should be getting those thumbs up..meanwhile..am off to the jealousy thread.."
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!!
I am sorry you have such a negative attitude towards single guys. So according to your outlook we have no use at all and are just selfish and have no concept of sharing ..or have I misunderstood your post?
I can't speak for other guys but let me share (oops!) a little gem or two with you:
I normally PAY for the hotel bills.
I SHARE me, my humour, my personality and my sexual experience.
I GIVE sexual pleasure to single ladies however they like it.
I SHARE a husbands wife with him by ADDING something to their realtionship.
I AM respectful of others' preferences.
I am NOT after quck shags.
I am GIVE more than I take.
Not all singles USE this site'just for a quick shag'.
So with respect I believe we singles DO share and have a rightful place in the Swinging environment. And I have to observe most of us seem to have more respect for others than you show towards us singles.
I think i said all that much earlier on the thread, I should be getting those thumbs up..meanwhile..am off to the jealousy thread..
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!!
I am sorry you have such a negative attitude towards single guys. So according to your outlook we have no use at all and are just selfish and have no concept of sharing ..or have I misunderstood your post?
I can't speak for other guys but let me share (oops!) a little gem or two with you:
I normally PAY for the hotel bills.
I SHARE me, my humour, my personality and my sexual experience.
I GIVE sexual pleasure to single ladies however they like it.
I SHARE a husbands wife with him by ADDING something to their realtionship.
I AM respectful of others' preferences.
I am NOT after quck shags.
I am GIVE more than I take.
Not all singles USE this site'just for a quick shag'.
So with respect I believe we singles DO share and have a rightful place in the Swinging environment. And I have to observe most of us seem to have more respect for others than you show towards us singles.
I think i said all that much earlier on the thread, I should be getting those thumbs up..meanwhile..am off to the jealousy thread..
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I was more wanting a shag from u purring than the thumbs up...altho it will help with my constipation x |
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"I think the attitude comes because there are singles out there that give the rest of us a bad name."
There are couples with bad attitudes too!
There are people who think their way of doing things is the blueprint for everyone else to follow. My response to them is "whatever!" and continue doing what pleases me.
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"There are couples with bad attitudes too!
There are people who think their way of doing things is the blueprint for everyone else to follow. My response to them is "whatever!" and continue doing what pleases me.
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Well said you ... |
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"Take the positive out of this. So often we see threads along the lines of multiple messages and then blocked! At least you haven't been blocked so there is still hope. "
Good point here, instead of whining on here About it, why didn't you just message the lady in question and ask if there was any chance of sloppy seconds? |
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"I think the attitude comes because there are singles out there that give the rest of us a bad name.
There are couples with bad attitudes too!
There are people who think their way of doing things is the blueprint for everyone else to follow. My response to them is "whatever!" and continue doing what pleases me.
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Nail on the head right there. I know couples have to be picky the same as singles but being aggressive to people doesn't exactly do anything to make someone feel welcome enough to want to go around and feel comfortable. While they are obviously welcoming a third party into their love life they surely have to think of how comfortable said third party is in entering somebody else's love life when it's being put across that they aren't that wanted by at least one of them. It kind of implies that the threesome is only one of their ideas and that the other is being forced to do it and feels resentment. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Had a few msgs back and forth shared,
Then girl goes and fucks someone else, verification is up
Not nice,
How often does this happen???
Not getting much lucK here??
Any ideas to help me??
Lots of luck when I am out on town "
*sirens sound the bunny alert* take cover folks |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!!
I am sorry you have such a negative attitude towards single guys. So according to your outlook we have no use at all and are just selfish and have no concept of sharing ..or have I misunderstood your post?
I can't speak for other guys but let me share (oops!) a little gem or two with you:
I normally PAY for the hotel bills.
I SHARE me, my humour, my personality and my sexual experience.
I GIVE sexual pleasure to single ladies however they like it.
I SHARE a husbands wife with him by ADDING something to their realtionship.
I AM respectful of others' preferences.
I am NOT after quck shags.
I am GIVE more than I take.
Not all singles USE this site'just for a quick shag'.
So with respect I believe we singles DO share and have a rightful place in the Swinging environment. And I have to observe most of us seem to have more respect for others than you show towards us singles.
hear hear "
You obviously haven't read the comments a little lower befor blundering in?
"Yes interesting distinction, probably one for it's own thread."
Then I said:
"It may be, but I just saw a load of pidgeons and had a loaded cat..... Still, perhaps if I take my medication? "
See? It was light hearted banter and if you looked at the profile, you would see that of the validations showing, one is a guy! We do meet single guys, but are taking a break from them at the moment!
Sheesh! You get some right hard nosed riff-raff on these free sites!! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"So why do you think its wrong that a lady fucks someone else? So she belongs to only you after a few messages? That is what Swinging is about. We share ...
I found that interesting! Apart from time, what exactly do you "share"? What does any single share?
Couples share, fuckbuddies share.. Singles take! (as do couples and fuckbuddies, as well as sharing because they are here to have what they want too!) I have no problem with singles using sites to get a quick shag, but you certainly don't share!!
I am sorry you have such a negative attitude towards single guys. So according to your outlook we have no use at all and are just selfish and have no concept of sharing ..or have I misunderstood your post?
I can't speak for other guys but let me share (oops!) a little gem or two with you:
I normally PAY for the hotel bills.
I SHARE me, my humour, my personality and my sexual experience.
I GIVE sexual pleasure to single ladies however they like it.
I SHARE a husbands wife with him by ADDING something to their realtionship.
I AM respectful of others' preferences.
I am NOT after quck shags.
I am GIVE more than I take.
Not all singles USE this site'just for a quick shag'.
So with respect I believe we singles DO share and have a rightful place in the Swinging environment. And I have to observe most of us seem to have more respect for others than you show towards us singles.
hear hear
You obviously haven't read the comments a little lower befor blundering in?
Yes interesting distinction, probably one for it's own thread.
Then I said:
It may be, but I just saw a load of pidgeons and had a loaded cat..... Still, perhaps if I take my medication?
See? It was light hearted banter and if you looked at the profile, you would see that of the validations showing, one is a guy! We do meet single guys, but are taking a break from them at the moment!
Sheesh! You get some right hard nosed riff-raff on these free sites!! "
Bugger, I bloody hate having to quote reams of crap off of here, but such is life......
Above quotes kinda give me a whiff of back-pedalling.....something said then there are comments which might mean the couple doing the commenting won't get another single who reads the forums to join them seeing as they can't possibly be a swinger/sharer, as only the almighty couples and fuck buds can possibly ever share (and the couple only meet couples yet are verified by single males, females and couples)
I'd offer apologies if anyone thought I'd misread the posts (and I read this one a while ago, had almost forgot about it until I noticed the poster protesting too much about it being light hearted banter!), so will satisfy myself with saying that the poster can say it was banter as much as they want, I still detect a complete reversal (fire up the Quattro, let's do a j-turn so's we can still get a shag!) |
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"Bugger, I bloody hate having to quote reams of crap off of here, but such is life......
Above quotes kinda give me a whiff of back-pedalling.....something said then there are comments which might mean the couple doing the commenting won't get another single who reads the forums to join them seeing as they can't possibly be a swinger/sharer, as only the almighty couples and fuck buds can possibly ever share (and the couple only meet couples yet are verified by single males, females and couples)
I'd offer apologies if anyone thought I'd misread the posts (and I read this one a while ago, had almost forgot about it until I noticed the poster protesting too much about it being light hearted banter!), so will satisfy myself with saying that the poster can say it was banter as much as they want, I still detect a complete reversal (fire up the Quattro, let's do a j-turn so's we can still get a shag!) "
Well I am gald someone else, especially a lady, whiffed it as well... |
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