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Name something besides cheating that can destroy a relationship
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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
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"Name something besides cheating that can destroy a relationship "
Mismatched sex drive |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Disagreements regarding finances. A classic. |
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over a year ago
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Money |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poor communication |
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She kneed me in the groin once, so the next time that's it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Emotional detachment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Working long hours both of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No touch rule. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lack of commitment |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
Lack of intimacy |
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Control freak.
Over Nagging/ Nitpicking. |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
one party becoming indifferent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Falling out of love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Family or friends |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
alcohol or drug dependancy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hairy feet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Imbalance /unfair division of chores |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
Widely differing careers which clashed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lack of shared activities /interests /hobbies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Snoring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Name something besides cheating that can destroy a relationship
Mismatched sex drive "
Agree!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having a child |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She wanted a diamond ring so I duly obliged with a Henry fukkin hoover  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Sadly...having kids can often lead to a break up especially if one half takes more responsibility for them than the other (or perceives to) |
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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
Supporting rival sporting teams? |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
Snoring.
When one half doesn't make an effort with appearance or with the relationship. I guess that amounts to taking the other person for granted. |
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"Name something besides cheating that can destroy a relationship "
Uzi 9mm  |
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Manipulation and realising you have been manipulated |
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By *aptain V OP Man
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
"Covid19"
Indeed tough times with covid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Psychological torture |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Marrying into terrible families |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging  |
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By *educerMan
over a year ago
Brentwood |
"Eating all the biscuits "
Keep it light FFS |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lack of honesty |
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"Name something besides cheating that can destroy a relationship "
constantly taking my minstrels from a sharing pack when I have said not to take any.. They're mine! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The dishes |
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Not leaving enough money on the bedside table in the morning. |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
Working for MI5 and living a secret life |
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Secrecy
Not telling the whole truth
Emotional distance
Poor communication
Mismatched on some aspects that are really important to 1 or both
Jealousy and lack of trust
Gambling or addictions
Loss of love
Being unsupportive
Growing apart or growing to be less compatible
Not wanting sexual intimacy
Lack of affection
Not being able to share |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being a friend with your ex even tho you split up on good terms
After 10 yrs we still good friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Physical mental or emotional abuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mothers in law. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lack of sex
Being friend zoned
Changing physically in looks
No shared interests |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Smelly Bottom.
Kids 100%  |
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Them going to the shop for milk and never coming back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Demonic possession
Hogging all the duvet
Not sharing their Maltesers
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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
Toilet seat left up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Becoming vegan  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Putting milk in their tea first would not only end the relationship, but I was also seek to have them locked up and the given the electric chair  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In laws interfering when uncalled for.
Males working away from home can put added pressure on a relationship.
Simply falling out of love it happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looking better in my lingerie than I do |
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Controlling behaviour and possessiveness. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
Not liking my santas grotto like Christmas decorations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Monopoly |
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Many marriages were saved with the invention of flip top toothpaste tubes. |
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"Looking better in my lingerie than I do "
They have to get to wear your lingerie first  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Becoming a lesbian |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being controlled |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Booze
Lies
Different aspirations |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you start a series together and they watch an episode without you. Worse than cheating to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Poor communication about everything. |
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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago
Serendipity |
Alcohol or gambling addiction
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way the twanny puts the toilet roll on the wrong way round  |
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Taking the other for granted
Smothering
Illness
Withdrawal of rose tinted glasses
Family members/friends
Laziness
Loss of desire or effort to create desire
Work
Reluctance to acknowledge own issues/couple issues. Refusal to seek help via counselling
Trauma
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Boredom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Selfishness
Lack of integrity
Lack of ambition |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alcohol or gambling addiction
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I’ll second that |
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"Alcohol or gambling addiction
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Yes. Any addiction really. They all lead to deceit and the addict puts the addiction before anything else. |
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"Alcohol or gambling addiction
Yes. Any addiction really. They all lead to deceit and the addict puts the addiction before anything else."
Addiction can be worse than cheating. It destroys the individual, the relationship and sometimes members of the family around them. All the while the addict will plead how much they love them. Cheating is simple by comparison.  |
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"Eating all the biscuits "
Or running out of Digestives |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alcohol or gambling addiction
Yes. Any addiction really. They all lead to deceit and the addict puts the addiction before anything else.
Addiction can be worse than cheating. It destroys the individual, the relationship and sometimes members of the family around them. All the while the addict will plead how much they love them. Cheating is simple by comparison. "
I can speak from experience. It turns everything stale. |
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"Alcohol or gambling addiction
Yes. Any addiction really. They all lead to deceit and the addict puts the addiction before anything else.
Addiction can be worse than cheating. It destroys the individual, the relationship and sometimes members of the family around them. All the while the addict will plead how much they love them. Cheating is simple by comparison. "
I know that addiction is an illness etc but having experienced a brief and disastrous marriage to a gambling addict who couldn't tell the truth about the simplest thing I struggle to sympathise. I've also witnessed the havoc alcoholic partners and parents wreaks on their families lives and my sympathies lie mostly with the family. |
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Emotional conflict
Dishonesty
Controlling behaviour
A tendency to be verbally abusive
Mental health issues
Jealousy
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One or more of the above but fundamentally communication..
Most things can be sorted by being open, honest and listening properly.. |
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"One or more of the above but fundamentally communication..
Most things can be sorted by being open, honest and listening properly.."
That's very true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being the only one to put effort in when the other has no idea your in a relationship. Its like come on do you not see me woth my binoculars in the tree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lack of respect...I often disagree with Mr's views on things, but he stands by what he says so I respect him for it. I find that very attractive in a person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Transition.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zombie apocalypse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Putting their safety before your children x Viv x |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Insecurity, addictions, very different beliefs or goals |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
One of you simply outgrows the other. |
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Lack of communication has been said before so I'm going for golf and/or fishing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Weak tea. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Weak tea."
That’s like the toilet seat, it’s annoying but if they are good in bed the relationship cam survive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not buying cake.
Buying the wrong cake.
Eating all the cake.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Weak tea.
That’s like the toilet seat, it’s annoying but if they are good in bed the relationship cam survive "
Nah.
Weak toilet seats can be replaced.
Weak tea is unforgivable. |
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Saying that she didn't want any chips, and then taking chips from my portion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Domestic violence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mental illness 
Fuzz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Manopoly or hangman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manopoly or hangman"
let the wookie win |
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"Domestic violence. "
Your pics wow lol could look at them all day lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Name something besides cheating that can destroy a relationship "
Standing in the kitchen doorway criticizing my washing up technique..... that'll do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Manipulation/ controlling behaviour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Abuse of partner/children.
Loss of trust
Lies
Stealing
Lack of intimacy
Manipulation
Lone parenting
Having to parent the partner |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
Has anybody mentioned lack of listening skills?
I do not mean being able to repeat verbatim what the partner said, I am talking about really listening and checking out that we understood what they just said before jumping in with our (usually already prepared while they were talking) answer.
This would help so many relationships either improve dramatically or identify the mismatch, in which case people go their separate ways and find a new, better suited partner.
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"Has anybody mentioned lack of listening skills?
I do not mean being able to repeat verbatim what the partner said, I am talking about really listening and checking out that we understood what they just said before jumping in with our (usually already prepared while they were talking) answer.
This would help so many relationships either improve dramatically or identify the mismatch, in which case people go their separate ways and find a new, better suited partner.
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I did but not as concisely..
Spot on with what you say.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Silence"
Depends if it's comfortable or not, no?
Fuzz |
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"alcohol or drug dependancy "
Deffo this! x |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Has anybody mentioned lack of listening skills?
I do not mean being able to repeat verbatim what the partner said, I am talking about really listening and checking out that we understood what they just said before jumping in with our (usually already prepared while they were talking) answer.
This would help so many relationships either improve dramatically or identify the mismatch, in which case people go their separate ways and find a new, better suited partner.
I did but not as concisely..
Spot on with what you say.."
Sorry, I did not read the entire thread in detail. |
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"Lack of intimacy "
Definitely this x |
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one doing all the giving a the other all the taking.
Selfishness.
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Lack of trust..especially when it's unfounded |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The TV clicker |
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Not being honest about your sexuality |
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"Has anybody mentioned lack of listening skills?
I do not mean being able to repeat verbatim what the partner said, I am talking about really listening and checking out that we understood what they just said before jumping in with our (usually already prepared while they were talking) answer.
This would help so many relationships either improve dramatically or identify the mismatch, in which case people go their separate ways and find a new, better suited partner.
I did but not as concisely..
Spot on with what you say..Sorry, I did not read the entire thread in detail. "
No need to but cheers.. |
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In laws,
But not my sister in law,
Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Politics! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No Sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anybody mentioned lack of listening skills?"
Well if you’d been listening...... |
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"Has anybody mentioned lack of listening skills?
Well if you’d been listening...... "
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Not setting personal boundaries Of what your prepared to accept and not accept in a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your partner dieing. |
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"Alcohol or gambling addiction
Yes. Any addiction really. They all lead to deceit and the addict puts the addiction before anything else.
Addiction can be worse than cheating. It destroys the individual, the relationship and sometimes members of the family around them. All the while the addict will plead how much they love them. Cheating is simple by comparison.
I know that addiction is an illness etc but having experienced a brief and disastrous marriage to a gambling addict who couldn't tell the truth about the simplest thing I struggle to sympathise. I've also witnessed the havoc alcoholic partners and parents wreaks on their families lives and my sympathies lie mostly with the family."
Agreed. Made worse as addicts can use "addiction as illness" to hide the responsibility of their choice. Like a cheater saying they can't help it as they take off their underpants... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading this makes me so happy I don't have to put up with any this anymore
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading this makes me so happy I don't have to put up with any this anymore
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Isn't that a blessing, loving life now and do what and who I want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say low self esteem/being insecure as there is a direct correlation to that and cheating.
But outside of cheating, I'd say addictions (drugs, alcohol, gambling) and also stealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gay friends who embrace the stereotype, everything a fucking drama and on the phone 24/7. 6am until 2am always messaging and phoning. The wife became a chameleon even getting the same breed of puppy. Wish they were straight so the (soon to be ex) wife could just fuck them and get it done. End of rant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Snoring! |
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ALCOHOL AND DRUGS GAMBLING AND LIES |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Workin away all week and not seeing each other and so you just fall out of love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 of you dieing lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Goin to jail for a long spell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The Mrs having too much work on her face and looking like a twat |
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"1 of you dieing lol"
or dying
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