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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If I refuse to block single men from contacting me , but complain about the amount of messages I get from men.... or should single men just grow up and stop messaging me? |
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I think it's less about the volume and more about the content.
Example: if you state quite clearly that you only want to speak to those who support Arsenal, yet supporters of other teams were messaging you, the supporters of other teams are being disrespectful by ignoring your specific request. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And now putting a thread up on how you don't like men but don't block I cant help feeling its cock you are really after all along. "
You sound like my Barbara. Bless her x |
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"If I refuse to block single men from contacting me , but complain about the amount of messages I get from men.... or should single men just grow up and stop messaging me?"
Sure, they SHOULD stop messaging you, just like smokers SHOULD stop messaging me (for example). But this is Fab, and 90% of the people on here don’t care if they fit your stated preferences. Plus all the “Fab straight” guys probably don’t help, because it gives the general impression that straight men can be persuaded. And so many straight men on here take the “try enough car doors and eventually one will open” approach, so I imagine the bi and gay ones do as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well a gay guy once told me. "If he hasn't blocked makes he is up for some cock" I am not sure if its true but I guess a lot of bi/gay males think that way. "
They might wanna chat about football  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I say block. I block all women from messaging, and MF couples. I have nothing against women and couples, but I'm not looking to meet either so the block helps them not waste their time.
Why wouldn't you block? |
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"I say block. I block all women from messaging, and MF couples. I have nothing against women and couples, but I'm not looking to meet either so the block helps them not waste their time.
Why wouldn't you block?"
Block those you're not looking for.
Those you are looking for, manage as you see fit.
Schrödinger's single female: too stupid to work out how filters work but also too bitchy to let interested people message her.
I'm glad some guys get the struggle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I say block. I block all women from messaging, and MF couples. I have nothing against women and couples, but I'm not looking to meet either so the block helps them not waste their time.
Why wouldn't you block?
Block those you're not looking for.
Those you are looking for, manage as you see fit.
Schrödinger's single female: too stupid to work out how filters work but also too bitchy to let interested people message her.
I'm glad some guys get the struggle "
I literally can't work out if you're calling me bitchy and stupid  I must be stupid haha |
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"I say block. I block all women from messaging, and MF couples. I have nothing against women and couples, but I'm not looking to meet either so the block helps them not waste their time.
Why wouldn't you block?
Block those you're not looking for.
Those you are looking for, manage as you see fit.
Schrödinger's single female: too stupid to work out how filters work but also too bitchy to let interested people message her.
I'm glad some guys get the struggle
I literally can't work out if you're calling me bitchy and stupid I must be stupid haha"
Neither. I'm speaking to the general issue. Apologies |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Not a victim OP and in an ideal world those guys would read your profile and not message you, but utopia doesn't exist and in the realistic world there has to come a level of acceptance (regardless of gender) that you will get messages from people you aren't looking for - the key is how you deal with that.
You either set filters accordingly to minimise that, or you accept that you'll get those messages and just delete them if they're of no interest - it's what I do and works perfectly well for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just ignore what u dont want to receive? X"
No that’s to easy. The way is to use your status to purposely offend anyone that’s not your preference so they don’t send anymore messages  |
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"Just ignore what u dont want to receive? X
No that’s to easy. The way is to use your status to purposely offend anyone that’s not your preference so they don’t send anymore messages "
Maybe don't be so easily offended? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just ignore what u dont want to receive? X
No that’s to easy. The way is to use your status to purposely offend anyone that’s not your preference so they don’t send anymore messages
Maybe don't be so easily offended?"
Who said I was |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a victim OP and in an ideal world those guys would read your profile and not message you, but utopia doesn't exist and in the realistic world there has to come a level of acceptance (regardless of gender) that you will get messages from people you aren't looking for - the key is how you deal with that.
You either set filters accordingly to minimise that, or you accept that you'll get those messages and just delete them if they're of no interest - it's what I do and works perfectly well for me."
You honestly are the most consistent poster on this forum... I may not agree with everything you post... But you have earned my respect for being true to your ideals... I tip my hat to you. |
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"Just ignore what u dont want to receive? X
No that’s to easy. The way is to use your status to purposely offend anyone that’s not your preference so they don’t send anymore messages
Maybe don't be so easily offended?
Who said I was "
Shrug. That's the way these things go isn't it? People are too easily offended, freeze peach?
What's good for the goose is good for the gander, surely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just ignore what u dont want to receive? X
No that’s to easy. The way is to use your status to purposely offend anyone that’s not your preference so they don’t send anymore messages
Maybe don't be so easily offended?
Who said I was
Shrug. That's the way these things go isn't it? People are too easily offended, freeze peach?
What's good for the goose is good for the gander, surely."
I see the local updates daily. I search and see certain status updates. It don’t in anyway offend me. It’s just words on the tinternet and I’m happy in my skin. Was just saying what I see  |
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"Just ignore what u dont want to receive? X
No that’s to easy. The way is to use your status to purposely offend anyone that’s not your preference so they don’t send anymore messages
Maybe don't be so easily offended?
Who said I was
Shrug. That's the way these things go isn't it? People are too easily offended, freeze peach?
What's good for the goose is good for the gander, surely.
I see the local updates daily. I search and see certain status updates. It don’t in anyway offend me. It’s just words on the tinternet and I’m happy in my skin. Was just saying what I see "
Ok. No worries. I'm talking in general terms. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I refuse to block single men from contacting me , but complain about the amount of messages I get from men.... or should single men just grow up and stop messaging me?
Sure, they SHOULD stop messaging you, just like smokers SHOULD stop messaging me (for example). But this is Fab, and 90% of the people on here don’t care if they fit your stated preferences. Plus all the “Fab straight” guys probably don’t help, because it gives the general impression that straight men can be persuaded.
**And so many straight men on here take the “try enough car doors and eventually one will open” approach, so I imagine the bi and gay ones do as well. "
** Brilliant analogy! |
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"If I refuse to block single men from contacting me , but complain about the amount of messages I get from men.... or should single men just grow up and stop messaging me?
Sure, they SHOULD stop messaging you, just like smokers SHOULD stop messaging me (for example). But this is Fab, and 90% of the people on here don’t care if they fit your stated preferences. Plus all the “Fab straight” guys probably don’t help, because it gives the general impression that straight men can be persuaded.
**And so many straight men on here take the “try enough car doors and eventually one will open” approach, so I imagine the bi and gay ones do as well.
** Brilliant analogy! "
I can’t take credit for it, a man actually said that to me about a friend’s pulling technique many years ago and it stayed with me. Seems very appropriate for Fab. |
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"The hypocrisy on here is astonishing.......
What hypocrisy?
My green arrow will be the key to the truth you seek......"
I’m sorry but I’m not reading through 35 threads to find out, I’m genuinely in the dark as to what you mean and was hoping you’d explain. |
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