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"As it was probably 25 years ago what’s the issue? I thought you must be 18 or very young when I saw the thread."
We went to middle school and Upper school together i fancied her back then and still think she's fit she's on my Facebook lives very local she has split from her relationship and am married |
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over a year ago
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"As it was probably 25 years ago what’s the issue? I thought you must be 18 or very young when I saw the thread.
We went to middle school and Upper school together i fancied her back then and still think she's fit she's on my Facebook lives very local she has split from her relationship and am married "
Ask her for a 3some with the wife.  |
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"As it was probably 25 years ago what’s the issue? I thought you must be 18 or very young when I saw the thread.
We went to middle school and Upper school together i fancied her back then and still think she's fit she's on my Facebook lives very local she has split from her relationship and am married "
so you’re not 100% honest then as you state in you’re profile or does the wife know you’re slinking about on fab ? |
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"As it was probably 25 years ago what’s the issue? I thought you must be 18 or very young when I saw the thread.
We went to middle school and Upper school together i fancied her back then and still think she's fit she's on my Facebook lives very local she has split from her relationship and am married so you’re not 100% honest then as you state in you’re profile or does the wife know you’re slinking about on fab ? "
Of course wife doesn't know as he cannot accommodate and needs to be discreet  |
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"As it was probably 25 years ago what’s the issue? I thought you must be 18 or very young when I saw the thread.
We went to middle school and Upper school together i fancied her back then and still think she's fit she's on my Facebook lives very local she has split from her relationship and am married "
has this school person indicated she wants some in the last 25 or so years or is she grieving a lost relationship do u talk regular? |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?"
I would not be happy if someone i knew on here messaged me. If she was interested in you then she would message through facebook. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Ignore the unwarranted rude responses.
OP, just send a message saying hello. Don’t bang on about knowing her or make a big thing out of it, that just creeps women out. Just send a message like she was anyone else. Think with your head, not your dick, when composing said message.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you fit what she is looking for then go for it. If not then block and forget, don't message her saying I know who you are, you'll really freak her out. |
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"As it was probably 25 years ago what’s the issue? I thought you must be 18 or very young when I saw the thread.
We went to middle school and Upper school together i fancied her back then and still think she's fit she's on my Facebook lives very local she has split from her relationship and am married "
So you are definitely a shoe in so what are you waiting for.
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"He asked for advice and was given it along with a little leg pulling
As well as some unnecessarily rude retorts."
well let’s face it he was always going to get a bit of stick especially when he says he’s honest and reliable I wonder what his wife would say as I said he asked for advice and got it it’s up to him how he takes it as a regular on the forums you often know how these type of posts go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah, I remember you! . The short, chubby kid at the back of my maths class, with the runny nose and the funny smell emanating from your PE bag! "
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?"
The same way as you would handle any other grown woman.
If she does not respond then she probably does not want to get involved, but on the other hand she might be hoping you are on here and read her post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
Advice is grow up OP. "
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?"
Probably not starting a thread about her would be a start? |
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Its amazing how some people can think they so perfect to cast judgements on mine or others situations when it's all guess work. This site is for all married, single, singles in relationships, bi, tv's ect ect and it's straight forward you don't have to interact with people you don't like the looks of or they beliefs. While also very happy not respecting people's mental state. |
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"Its amazing how some people can think they so perfect to cast judgements on mine or others situations when it's all guess work. This site is for all married, single, singles in relationships, bi, tv's ect ect and it's straight forward you don't have to interact with people you don't like the looks of or they beliefs. While also very happy not respecting people's mental state."
You also can't get offended when you ask for advice and get advice |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?"
You are assuming she is interested she more then likely isn't. |
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"Its amazing how some people can think they so perfect to cast judgements on mine or others situations when it's all guess work. This site is for all married, single, singles in relationships, bi, tv's ect ect and it's straight forward you don't have to interact with people you don't like the looks of or they beliefs. While also very happy not respecting people's mental state."
no body is pretending to be perfect yes some including me can be a bit judgemental but you asked for advice and got it probably not what you expected but welcome to the forums and I pointed out you had honest and reliable but you’re married but you don’t mention that in you’re profile so expect to get people picking you up on it I don’t know you’re situation at home perhaps the wife is happy with you on here I don’t know and tbh don’t care really
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"Its amazing how some people can think they so perfect to cast judgements on mine or others situations when it's all guess work. This site is for all married, single, singles in relationships, bi, tv's ect ect and it's straight forward you don't have to interact with people you don't like the looks of or they beliefs. While also very happy not respecting people's mental state.
You also can't get offended when you ask for advice and get advice"
So true but some comments contain zero advice and this is the same regarding many post's from various people |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
You are assuming she is interested she more then likely isn't. "
I never said she was interested that was all me about her, just the fact she's registered on here is what I was on about |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?"
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
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"Chances are she won't respond anyway. If she's as attractive as you say then her inbox will overflowing  and is unlikely to pick you out. I wouldn't go there either way"
I'm assuming if they're Facebook friends she also knows he is married.
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"Its amazing how some people can think they so perfect to cast judgements on mine or others situations when it's all guess work. This site is for all married, single, singles in relationships, bi, tv's ect ect and it's straight forward you don't have to interact with people you don't like the looks of or they beliefs. While also very happy not respecting people's mental state. no body is pretending to be perfect yes some including me can be a bit judgemental but you asked for advice and got it probably not what you expected but welcome to the forums and I pointed out you had honest and reliable but you’re married but you don’t mention that in you’re profile so expect to get people picking you up on it I don’t know you’re situation at home perhaps the wife is happy with you on here I don’t know and tbh don’t care really "
Advice good or bad is advice trying to predict me as a person isn't advice and that's what is sometimes frustrating on various post's going away from the post topic or questions ect ect too many people looking for negatives to show people up if possible looking for medles |
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"Its amazing how some people can think they so perfect to cast judgements on mine or others situations when it's all guess work. This site is for all married, single, singles in relationships, bi, tv's ect ect and it's straight forward you don't have to interact with people you don't like the looks of or they beliefs. While also very happy not respecting people's mental state. no body is pretending to be perfect yes some including me can be a bit judgemental but you asked for advice and got it probably not what you expected but welcome to the forums and I pointed out you had honest and reliable but you’re married but you don’t mention that in you’re profile so expect to get people picking you up on it I don’t know you’re situation at home perhaps the wife is happy with you on here I don’t know and tbh don’t care really
Advice good or bad is advice trying to predict me as a person isn't advice and that's what is sometimes frustrating on various post's going away from the post topic or questions ect ect too many people looking for negatives to show people up if possible looking for medles "
well for the record I’m not after showing people up some do that themselves I’m not having a go I gave you advice in my first post then I had a look at you’re profile and pointed something out that’s all and I’m after no medals |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?"
If you recognise he then she must have photos up so are you going to put some up and send a face picture to her then? |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
If you recognise he then she must have photos up so are you going to put some up and send a face picture to her then?"
I've not messaged her and I've decided not to, however if she's message's me I will reply honestly revelling myself and for her not to worry about her being on here northing will go any further away from this site as like northing would regarding my pervious meets |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
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So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
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"Is this an example of discrete 
At what point have I mentioned anything about the person in question to reveille her identity? "
Well by using simple deduction I'm pretty sure I've worked out who you're talking about... |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
If you recognise he then she must have photos up so are you going to put some up and send a face picture to her then?
I've not messaged her and I've decided not to, however if she's message's me I will reply honestly revelling myself and for her not to worry about her being on here northing will go any further away from this site as like northing would regarding my pervious meets "
Just message her saying you missed the change to finger bang her behind the bike sheds, what you doing on Thursday  |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
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That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
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As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!! |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!!"
You'll only have half a house if that .if the wife catches up with you  |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!!"
Of course I have. I say no thanks as I don't like to date cheats.
What I am saying is that no matter what site it is on.. If I knew the man was married who approached me and knew his wife also I would tell her.
I'm obviously assuming that as this lady is on Facebook she knows you're married... |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!!
Of course I have. I say no thanks as I don't like to date cheats.
What I am saying is that no matter what site it is on.. If I knew the man was married who approached me and knew his wife also I would tell her.
I'm obviously assuming that as this lady is on Facebook she knows you're married... "
In that case you should of joined a dating site and not a swinging site then.
I've started a forum questioning people that are against seeing people in any form of relationship should they of joined a dating site instead of a swinging site |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!!
Of course I have. I say no thanks as I don't like to date cheats.
What I am saying is that no matter what site it is on.. If I knew the man was married who approached me and knew his wife also I would tell her.
I'm obviously assuming that as this lady is on Facebook she knows you're married...
In that case you should of joined a dating site and not a swinging site then.
I've started a forum questioning people that are against seeing people in any form of relationship should they of joined a dating site instead of a swinging site "
Swinging isn’t cheating .... if your wife doesn’t know you shouldn’t on here. Simple .... |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!!
Of course I have. I say no thanks as I don't like to date cheats.
What I am saying is that no matter what site it is on.. If I knew the man was married who approached me and knew his wife also I would tell her.
I'm obviously assuming that as this lady is on Facebook she knows you're married...
In that case you should of joined a dating site and not a swinging site then.
I've started a forum questioning people that are against seeing people in any form of relationship should they of joined a dating site instead of a swinging site
Swinging isn’t cheating .... if your wife doesn’t know you shouldn’t on here. Simple .... "
Thank you and also may I add they may not be able to accommodate due to having children or have no face pictures public due to wanting to keep things a little more private |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!!
Of course I have. I say no thanks as I don't like to date cheats.
What I am saying is that no matter what site it is on.. If I knew the man was married who approached me and knew his wife also I would tell her.
I'm obviously assuming that as this lady is on Facebook she knows you're married...
In that case you should of joined a dating site and not a swinging site then.
I've started a forum questioning people that are against seeing people in any form of relationship should they of joined a dating site instead of a swinging site
Swinging isn’t cheating .... if your wife doesn’t know you shouldn’t on here. Simple ....
Thank you and also may I add they may not be able to accommodate due to having children or have no face pictures public due to wanting to keep things a little more private "
I have no face picture ...... nor explicit photos. If you can’t accommodate due to children at home it’s quite easy to state that in your profile. The default assumption is - however - married. It’s the married and cheating that are spoiling it for others tbh. |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!!
Of course I have. I say no thanks as I don't like to date cheats.
What I am saying is that no matter what site it is on.. If I knew the man was married who approached me and knew his wife also I would tell her.
I'm obviously assuming that as this lady is on Facebook she knows you're married...
In that case you should of joined a dating site and not a swinging site then.
I've started a forum questioning people that are against seeing people in any form of relationship should they of joined a dating site instead of a swinging site "
You do realise you've just said swinging, and fab is for cheats.
I'm perfectly entitled to be on fab which is a "swinging" site and still refuse to meet cheats (MARRIED PEOPLE WHO ARE LOOKING FOR SEX BEHIND THEIR PARTNERS BACK - WITHOUT THEM KNOWING).. Capitals for emphasis...
And as I've said which you don't seem to understand..
" if a married man approached me for sex, and I knew his wife.. Then I would tell her her husband asked me for sex.. From an online site. Doesnt matter if its a swinging, fetish, Jewish, Christian, sugar daddy, or normals dating site - He is asking me for sex. So as I knew his wife and felt she deserves to know her husband was cheating on her..
What that has to do with me being on a swinging site I am not sure..
You know she won't want you don't you. If she's known your married.. And you're both on Facebook - if she had wanted you that much she wod have made a move. |
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"If you fit what she is looking for then go for it. If not then block and forget, don't message her saying I know who you are, you'll really freak her out. "
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!!
Of course I have. I say no thanks as I don't like to date cheats.
What I am saying is that no matter what site it is on.. If I knew the man was married who approached me and knew his wife also I would tell her.
I'm obviously assuming that as this lady is on Facebook she knows you're married...
In that case you should of joined a dating site and not a swinging site then.
I've started a forum questioning people that are against seeing people in any form of relationship should they of joined a dating site instead of a swinging site
You do realise you've just said swinging, and fab is for cheats.
I'm perfectly entitled to be on fab which is a "swinging" site and still refuse to meet cheats (MARRIED PEOPLE WHO ARE LOOKING FOR SEX BEHIND THEIR PARTNERS BACK - WITHOUT THEM KNOWING).. Capitals for emphasis...
And as I've said which you don't seem to understand..
" if a married man approached me for sex, and I knew his wife.. Then I would tell her her husband asked me for sex.. From an online site. Doesnt matter if its a swinging, fetish, Jewish, Christian, sugar daddy, or normals dating site - He is asking me for sex. So as I knew his wife and felt she deserves to know her husband was cheating on her..
What that has to do with me being on a swinging site I am not sure..
You know she won't want you don't you. If she's known your married.. And you're both on Facebook - if she had wanted you that much she wod have made a move. "
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!!
Of course I have. I say no thanks as I don't like to date cheats.
What I am saying is that no matter what site it is on.. If I knew the man was married who approached me and knew his wife also I would tell her.
I'm obviously assuming that as this lady is on Facebook she knows you're married...
In that case you should of joined a dating site and not a swinging site then.
I've started a forum questioning people that are against seeing people in any form of relationship should they of joined a dating site instead of a swinging site
You do realise you've just said swinging, and fab is for cheats.
I'm perfectly entitled to be on fab which is a "swinging" site and still refuse to meet cheats (MARRIED PEOPLE WHO ARE LOOKING FOR SEX BEHIND THEIR PARTNERS BACK - WITHOUT THEM KNOWING).. Capitals for emphasis...
And as I've said which you don't seem to understand..
" if a married man approached me for sex, and I knew his wife.. Then I would tell her her husband asked me for sex.. From an online site. Doesnt matter if its a swinging, fetish, Jewish, Christian, sugar daddy, or normals dating site - He is asking me for sex. So as I knew his wife and felt she deserves to know her husband was cheating on her..
What that has to do with me being on a swinging site I am not sure..
You know she won't want you don't you. If she's known your married.. And you're both on Facebook - if she had wanted you that much she wod have made a move. "
Could you point me in the direction of the Jewish swinging site please |
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"Advice needed i girl I went to school with has signed up on here and she's still unbelievably fit, obviously 100% discretion, but how should I handle it?
I wod be absolutely mortified if someone I knew contacted on here. Have you thought that you could contact her on here... Then she goes straight to your wife.
Because I would...
So you’d understand if someone who knows you in real life spotted you on here and told your manager at work?
That is not even comparable...
If a married man messaged me on any form of dating site and I knew his wife/that he was married, yes I would tell her. I'd rather risk getting a mouthful of abuse than not saying anything. Nothing to do with fab.. It's the being married and approaching me that I'm talking about.
And so what if someone went to tell my boss at work I was on a swinging site? The type of person I am I could imagine then saying "not surprised"... They would be more embarrassed than me tbh.
As seeing your on a swinging site and not a standard dating site I would put my house on you having been messaged by a profile that is married or in a relationship at some stage!!!!!
Of course I have. I say no thanks as I don't like to date cheats.
What I am saying is that no matter what site it is on.. If I knew the man was married who approached me and knew his wife also I would tell her.
I'm obviously assuming that as this lady is on Facebook she knows you're married...
In that case you should of joined a dating site and not a swinging site then.
I've started a forum questioning people that are against seeing people in any form of relationship should they of joined a dating site instead of a swinging site
You do realise you've just said swinging, and fab is for cheats.
I'm perfectly entitled to be on fab which is a "swinging" site and still refuse to meet cheats (MARRIED PEOPLE WHO ARE LOOKING FOR SEX BEHIND THEIR PARTNERS BACK - WITHOUT THEM KNOWING).. Capitals for emphasis...
And as I've said which you don't seem to understand..
" if a married man approached me for sex, and I knew his wife.. Then I would tell her her husband asked me for sex.. From an online site. Doesnt matter if its a swinging, fetish, Jewish, Christian, sugar daddy, or normals dating site - He is asking me for sex. So as I knew his wife and felt she deserves to know her husband was cheating on her..
What that has to do with me being on a swinging site I am not sure..
You know she won't want you don't you. If she's known your married.. And you're both on Facebook - if she had wanted you that much she wod have made a move.
Could you point me in the direction of the Jewish swinging site please "
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