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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If the rules of online dating /swinging changed.. figured this could be interesting
Would you continue to use online sites and apps like fab and tinder, pof, tagged etc. if -
1. You must message every profile you view
2. Reply to every message you receive
3. Your account gets deleted for leaving unread messages longer than 7 days or violating rule 1
Or.. would you stop using them entirely and go back to the old fashion way of dating/swinging?
Note: you can only block ppl for valid reasons such as abusive behaviour, harassment (causing drama) or criminal activity |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wait are we still working full time in this new utopian world? "
Well thats the point.. would you quit these kinds of online social sites or go back to the old fashion way.. i.e. meeting ppl at a bar or hooking up through a friend.. etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wait are we still working full time in this new utopian world?
Yeah. Do we still have to do grown up stuff? "
Thats the point... give up these sites as it would be too much hassle of it interferes with your commitments or personal preferences or carry on.. as for some ppl it wouldnt be a big deal to follow those rules.
Also i wouldnt call it utopian as there are both pros and cons to this method |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are we still aloud to send “fancy a fuck” messages?  "
If its not a rule.. crack on 
Though i could imagine that if there are no grounds for a valid blocking and the person you said that to wasnt interested.. would certainly turn out to be an interesting convo.. well for a 3rd party reader that is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait are we still working full time in this new utopian world?
Yeah. Do we still have to do grown up stuff?
Thats the point... give up these sites as it would be too much hassle of it interferes with your commitments or personal preferences or carry on.. as for some ppl it wouldnt be a big deal to follow those rules.
Also i wouldnt call it utopian as there are both pros and cons to this method"
So in your new little world, peeps would have to devote 24/ 7 to 'dating' sites and interact with everyone and his wife?
Or not have them at all? |
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By *igmaMan
over a year ago
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"Are we still aloud to send “fancy a fuck” messages?
If its not a rule.. crack on
Though i could imagine that if there are no grounds for a valid blocking and the person you said that to wasnt interested.. would certainly turn out to be an interesting convo.. well for a 3rd party reader that is "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" So in your new little world, peeps would have to devote 24/ 7 to 'dating' sites and interact with everyone and his wife?
Or not have them at all?"
No offence but dont make this personal with your assumption... i wouldnt consider it utopia for me either.. it may come as a shock to you but even i get messages from ppl id rather i didnt so dont assume ive made this thread from some fantasy of mine. Dont bring a negative attitude to this thread please
Also not everyone would be spending 24/7 on these sites.. not everyone is as 'lucky' as you to receive so much attention.. ofc i say 'lucky' ironically |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" So in your new little world, peeps would have to devote 24/ 7 to 'dating' sites and interact with everyone and his wife?
Or not have them at all?
No offence but dont make this personal with your assumption... i wouldnt consider it utopia for me either.. it may come as a shock to you but even i get messages from ppl id rather i didnt so dont assume ive made this thread from some fantasy of mine. Dont bring a negative attitude to this thread please
Also not everyone would be spending 24/7 on these sites.. not everyone is as 'lucky' as you to receive so much attention.. ofc i say 'lucky' ironically"
Erm, I wasnt being negative my friend
I was trying to clarify what you actually mean!!
Personal? Who was being personal?
Your OP was about a fictitious scenario
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It just wouldn't be practical to write to everybody we view. People would have to reply to messages nobody wants to send with messages they don't want to send either. The whole site would cease to work. |
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