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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

well I need advice people, if you have sexy hot men and women visiting your profile and no wink or message has been left how would you respond if anything?

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

If someone interests you then go for it...introduce yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wink sent!

I'm neither hot nor female though so feel free to ignore

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By *merican HoneyWoman over a year ago

Miami

If I liked I would say hello what's the worst that can happen?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just say hello , lots of chaps don't message as they know lots of ladies recieve so many messages .

Lots of people ignore winks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wink sent!

I'm neither hot nor female though so feel free to ignore

.x"

Lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take it as not interested. Could just be looking from a forum comment or having a look at you’re profile

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By *iss LovelyWoman over a year ago

Here and There

If someone visits my profile but doesn’t get in touch I assume they didn’t like that they saw.

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By *rownhotnessMan over a year ago

Cheshire/London/Midlands

I always wink but always reply to a wink otherwise you feel ignored lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They’re probably the ones who will wink at anyone with a pulse ...not meant as detrimental to you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn’t message someone just for looking at my profile. Comes across as pestering

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

Some people visit profiles and don't go further because they don't think you'd be interested in them.

You'll never know unless you ask.

Others may not be interested but hey, what you got to lose.

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By *hom01Man over a year ago

Rugby

"Some people visit profiles and don't go further because they don't think you'd be interested in them.

You'll never know unless you ask.

Others may not be interested but hey, what you got to lose.

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This is a valid point.

If I visit a profile & after reading I don't fit with the requirements I don't trouble the person with an unwanted message.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

if someone looks at us and then doesn't message or wink we assume that they aren't interested in what they saw. We wouldn't contact them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have looked at lots of profiles but haven’t messaged as I believed they are out of my league. But in hindsight why not, nothing to loose and everything to gain

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Take it as not interested. Could just be looking from a forum comment or having a look at you’re profile "

Well I did reply after asking the good folks here and he responded warmly

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Some people visit profiles and don't go further because they don't think you'd be interested in them.

You'll never know unless you ask.

Others may not be interested but hey, what you got to lose.

Thanks lovely x he did respond

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take it as not interested. Could just be looking from a forum comment or having a look at you’re profile

Well I did reply after asking the good folks here and he responded warmly

Happy days then.

I’ll have to change my thinking and be more confident

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I always wink but always reply to a wink otherwise you feel ignored lol x"

Will do

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If someone interests you then go for it...introduce yourself "

It worked

thanks beauty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Message FAF

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well I need advice people, if you have sexy hot men and women visiting your profile and no wink or message has been left how would you respond if anything?

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break the ice and message them, il definitely leave a wink when I visit yours in a minute

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By *nabelle21Woman over a year ago

B38

"If someone interests you then go for it...introduce yourself

It worked

thanks beauty "

Nice one..so pleaaed to hear that. Go you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why on earth would I respond? If they wanted to speak to me, they would have messaged. Simple as.

I never check who’s viewed me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If someone visits my profile but doesn’t get in touch I assume they didn’t like that they saw. "
ohh im sure all us red blooded men like what we see on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have looked at lots of profiles but haven’t messaged as I believed they are out of my league. But in hindsight why not, nothing to loose and everything to gain "
thats what I usually think aswell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have looked at lots of profiles but haven’t messaged as I believed they are out of my league. But in hindsight why not, nothing to loose and everything to gain thats what I usually think aswell"

It’s what I practice but it’s not a good one lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Leave them be, would be my advice.

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By *andy KTV/TS over a year ago

somewhere

well I need advice people, if you have sexy hot men and women visiting your profile and no wink or message has been left how would you respond if anything?

I visit profiles to get ideas of my next photo session Im also a lover of lingerie and if I can I would leave a message but because of filters I can’t always ...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS over a year ago

Cheshire

Some I wish would indicate they’d like to meet, quite a few I’m glad they don’t

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Leave them be, would be my advice."

Why? What’s the crime being committed? He responded favourably just so you know.

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"Why on earth would I respond? If they wanted to speak to me, they would have messaged. Simple as.

I never check who’s viewed me anyway "

I looked at your profile...so ner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry I will message you when I get through all my other messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn’t message someone just for looking at my profile. Comes across as pestering "

Exactly this

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By *edeWoman over a year ago

the abyss

I genuinely don't look at who's viewed me or winked at all so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I genuinely don't look at who's viewed me or winked at all so

Or sent friend requests

Or who fabbed my pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I often look out of intrigue. And am usually interested, but sometimes don’t message. Just depends.

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By *rHotNottsMan over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"If someone visits my profile but doesn’t get in touch I assume they didn’t like that they saw. "

Well I must be the minority as I often repeatedly look and read but won’t wink or fab on profiles I’m interested in but don’t have the time or headspace to pursue yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn’t respond, nothing worse view a profile and 2 minutes later you get hit with ‘ you like what you see.’

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Personally, I think it's important for the man to initiate conversation but I'm old fashion like that

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I genuinely don't look at who's viewed me or winked at all so

Or sent friend requests

Or who fabbed my pics"

I just look at who message me, if their message or profile intrigued me then I reply back

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By *hat BlokeMan over a year ago

Harrogate

If you like them, send a quick hello message to try and strike up a conversation. There is never any harm in making contact. This is a social site for communication after all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would never know who visited my profile

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By *ntrigued32Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"I would never know who visited my profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Follow your heart.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I ignore. If they want to meet me, they would message. Also, a "hot" body viewing your profile doesn't mean you will want sex with them after seeing their face or chatting?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont want to bang ya sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I dont want to bang ya sorry "

That’s not what he said once we got chatting

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why on earth would I respond? If they wanted to speak to me, they would have messaged. Simple as.

I never check who’s viewed me anyway

I looked at your profile...so ner

If you say so mate

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

well I need advice people, if you have sexy hot men and women visiting your profile and no wink or message has been left how would you respond if anything?

I'd be flattered they bothered to look, but wouldn't assume anything apart from that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes in looking I’d like to make a move. But what they want, I think I can’t match. For that reason I don’t message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The freedom of perving profiles op.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

I wouldnt read too much in to it.

Sometimes people look and it doesn't feel like the right fit

Sometimes they're just being nosey

Sometimes they might be interested but a 1001 things get in the way and no contact is made.

Plus as others have said you can always initiate contact

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By *umstibleMan over a year ago

Colindale

"Some people visit profiles and don't go further because they don't think you'd be interested in them.

You'll never know unless you ask.

Others may not be interested but hey, what you got to lose.

This is a valid point.

If I visit a profile & after reading I don't fit with the requirements I don't trouble the person with an unwanted message."

Such an underrated quality to have. If i had a pound for every profile i read and opted out I'd be up a few hundred quid lol

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