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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just married men looking for fun on the side so to speak
Or are there married woman looking too
Without there other half knowing
Just curious so know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It gets even more complicated than that. You get one half of swinging couples on Fab meeting without the knowledge of the other. Rarely ends well "
I know about complicated
That why am here
Without much luck I might add
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It gets even more complicated than that. You get one half of swinging couples on Fab meeting without the knowledge of the other. Rarely ends well "
Too true! But it's always the couples on here that put down the married people "playing away" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've already spoken to a fair number of women who are on without partners knowledge. Surprised at how many to be honest, but maybe we were just a bit naieve
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Yes but they don't get nearly as much "abuse" and condemnation as men do on here! |
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"Is it just married men looking for fun on the side so to speak
Or are there married woman looking too
Without there other half knowing
Just curious so know "
~They are great till hubbie returns home early and you have to climb out of the bedroom window. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives
Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events
I know exactly how you feel "
Mine tells me every time he can how unattractive I am.
He didn’t know until recently. Now we are in an open marriage...
I never judge either. |
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"Being a piece of shit has no gender
That’s a nice open minded non-judgemental opinion. "
If you are cheating you are not giving your partner a chance to react as you are lying....why am I not open minded being truthful?
Lying hurts everyone eventually |
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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago
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"Being a piece of shit has no gender
That’s a nice open minded non-judgemental opinion.
If you are cheating you are not giving your partner a chance to react as you are lying....why am I not open minded being truthful?
Lying hurts everyone eventually"
Yes cheating is cheating and lying. Read above and look at life. There are sometimes good reason for it. And it does not however make the cheater “a piece of shit” by default. |
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Some do it because they are unhappy and feel the need to, others do it because they can and are greedy. If having discreet sex with another holds your marriage together, because that's what's missing, and no one is the wiser, then that must be a good thing.....while it lasts. |
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My FB knows, the only time he comes on here is when we are away on holidays, I entertain regulars whilst he at work before covid off course, he asks about my day which ends up sexual, we are never going to marry it just works for us, xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some do it because they are unhappy and feel the need to, others do it because they can and are greedy. If having discreet sex with another holds your marriage together, because that's what's missing, and no one is the wiser, then that must be a good thing.....while it lasts."
You would like to think so but that is not how we are viewed on here. The reality is you are classed as a cheater by most. I found trying to explain that my wife and I have an agreement as long as I was discreet was falling on mostly deaf ears and I have had a few that don’t read my profile and get miffed when you read theirs and point out they specify ‘no attached males’. Plus joining just as Covid started is viewed a suspect.
But I have met some really lovely people on here and because of that I choose to stay in here. As one I the ladies told me once, swinging is about friendships, not hook ups and she was right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just married men looking for fun on the side so to speak
Or are there married woman looking too
Without there other half knowing
Just curious so know "
My wife is married and looking for fun but I know and help in her orgasm search as fab can be a bit wank at times for ladies.!!!!
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"I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives
Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events
I know exactly how you feel
Mine tells me every time he can how unattractive I am.
He didn’t know until recently. Now we are in an open marriage...
I never judge either. "
Telling you how unattractive you are is just horrible. Wouldn't sink that low regardless of what has happened. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loads married males / females play away but that’s down to what’s happening in there own private life and upto them to decide so just help them enjoy it and to be fair I think married women want it more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You just never know people's circumstances and reasons. I do however think if you're still having sex with your spouse/partner, then you're just being greedy by being on a site like this..unless you're on as a couple of course! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives
Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events
I know exactly how you feel
Mine tells me every time he can how unattractive I am.
He didn’t know until recently. Now we are in an open marriage...
I never judge either. "
He’s obviously blind as well as daft .. good luck to you x |
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I tend not to judge as everyone has unique circumstances as to why they’re on here.
That being said there are plenty of married women on here playing away from home. As long as I’m aware of it then I don’t have as problem with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend not to judge as everyone has unique circumstances as to why they’re on here.
That being said there are plenty of married women on here playing away from home. As long as I’m aware of it then I don’t have as problem with it. "
Exactly this. Don’t see a problem as long as people are honest about it. Then it’s up to that person to make an informed decision. Don’t have a problem at all with attached people being on here. I do have a problem with them pretending they’re single and lying about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of my best meets were with married women.
They always showed, got down to business and always made the effort.
No if bits or maybes like you get from flakey singles.
They want to fuck.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You just never know people's circumstances and reasons. I do however think if you're still having sex with your spouse/partner, then you're just being greedy by being on a site like this..unless you're on as a couple of course!"
Am in a sexless marriage that’s way am here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You just never know people's circumstances and reasons. I do however think if you're still having sex with your spouse/partner, then you're just being greedy by being on a site like this..unless you're on as a couple of course!
Am in a sexless marriage that’s way am here
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Me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You just never know people's circumstances and reasons. I do however think if you're still having sex with your spouse/partner, then you're just being greedy by being on a site like this..unless you're on as a couple of course!
Am in a sexless marriage that’s way am here
Me too"
Me too |
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"You just never know people's circumstances and reasons. I do however think if you're still having sex with your spouse/partner, then you're just being greedy by being on a site like this..unless you're on as a couple of course!
Am in a sexless marriage that’s way am here
Me too
Me too "
There’s a lot of it about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Married women cheat as much as men do.
Lots of couples cheat on each other without consent.
I've seen a few couple profiles where it's just the male on the profile
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