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Could use help in a tricky situation
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey first time posting in a long time so bear with me
So my situation is (I’ve put myself in this) I have a gf of 5 years she used to have this friend we’ll call her kiki for this
So my gf and Kiki used to be best friends from the age of 14 to about 24/25 so a long friendship nothing bad happened they just drifted apart as you do in life
So when I started going out with my gf the first 3 years of our relationship Kiki was there a lot being her best friend at the time so there was d*unk nights party’s etc etc
But I always thought she (Kiki) wanted to fuck me and so did my gf obviously she wasn’t happy I loved it because Kiki is stunning but I was always scared to act upon anything just incase I came close one night we were d*unk and at a party and took a cigarette out of her tits with my mouth my gf saw and wasn’t happy as you could imagine then later on that night I said I would fuck her and she said she couldn’t do that to her best friend
So fast forward Kiki gets a bf and settles down a bit but I still wanna fuck the brains outta kiki so I made a fake fb too message her on to see if she was still going with her bf because he stopped likening pics and posts and she started to put up pics of her tits basically hanging out so I messaged her saying
“This might sound weird but I’ve always wanted to fuck you but I’m too scared to tell you incase you tell my gf”and she said she doesn’t really care about a gf just wants to know who I am
So should I say and maybe she’s like oh yea it’s you damn right I wanna fuck cause she isn’t really friends with my gf anymore
But at the same time I’m scared incase she says to my gf
Anyone ever been in this situation before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, I don't think you'd be asking this question if you were properly committed to your gf. Sounds like you still like 'playing the field' as if you were single.
Of course, if you have both discussed it and are happy to have a more open relationship then fine. But even then, I can see having a liaison with the other's best friend might be a boundary not many would cross. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It’s not a case of “playing the field” or not being committed I’ve never cheated on my gf before it’s just at the time they were friends Kiki was a tease and they haven’t been friends for 2 years now and I still think about wanting to fuck her I was wondering weather to keep it a sort of fantasy or pursue it and my gf is completely unaware about this hence why I messaged her on another fb account and no she wouldn’t be happy but as I said that’s been 2 years and I still wanna fuck her |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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In my opinion, the moment you messaged 'kiki' from a secret FB is the moment you stopped being committed to your girlfriend.
Maybe time to take stock of what you want from life - in reality she may be a great shag but then you have no relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The question you have to ask yourself is this... would you be pissed off if your gf did what you are doing with one of your mates. Perspective is essential here.
I think you’re being selfish, Kiki has a bf, you have a gf. Either break up with your lass before you pursue Kiki or leave her alone.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s not a case of “playing the field” or not being committed I’ve never cheated on my gf before it’s just at the time they were friends Kiki was a tease and they haven’t been friends for 2 years now and I still think about wanting to fuck her I was wondering weather to keep it a sort of fantasy or pursue it and my gf is completely unaware about this hence why I messaged her on another fb account and no she wouldn’t be happy but as I said that’s been 2 years and I still wanna fuck her "
But its deeper than just fucking Kiki..you've a GF.. reverse the situation and see how' d you'd feel if your GF wanted to fuck your friend from earlier in life that you haven't talked to in 2 years ?...the bravado of fucking " Kiki " just cause you always wanted to is very small to the potential fallout... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've made a dodgy account to message this woman on to try and cheat with her? She's probably creeped out about it all.
Sounds like something kids in school would do. Or Coronation Street.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the gf doesn't mind the 3 verifications then she won't mind you playing with Kiki.
Alternatively...considering the fact that one verification is 5 years old and you've kept it from your gf then you can probably keep kiki a secret
Or ... neither Kiki or gf exist and in which case go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's consentual cheating (hotwifing/cuckolding essentially) and then there's just straight up betraying someone's confidence and trust in you. If you don't appreciate how this might hurt someone, and you wouldn't this happening to yourself, you shouldn't be in a relationship.
There are ways to satisfy some of these urges by simply talking to your gf. It's better not to hide it since you seem to feel strongly about this kink. Roleplay and cuckolding are always alternatives, but your gf has to consent. You have to communicate. |
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