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The Mental & Physical health benefits of swinging
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In all honesty I think the benefits are only there if you have the right psychological mindset to deal with swinging. Whilst it’s a whole new, wonderful world for many like myself - I’ve seen it tear other couples and singles apart mentally!
It takes a certain mindset to have amazing sex with someone one week and be totally fine with the concept of them fucking someone else the next!
For me the benefits are immense - I’ve met some wonderful friends and had by far the best sex of my life. It’s not for everyone though.  |
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"In all honesty I think the benefits are only there if you have the right psychological mindset to deal with swinging. Whilst it’s a whole new, wonderful world for many like myself - I’ve seen it tear other couples and singles apart mentally!
It takes a certain mindset to have amazing sex with someone one week and be totally fine with the concept of them fucking someone else the next!
For me the benefits are immense - I’ve met some wonderful friends and had by far the best sex of my life. It’s not for everyone though. "
True. We’ve found that even without the sex the social side can be great fun too. Some people stay around never to play but just to watch and it’s all good.
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There’s a beautiful sense of freedom when you are able to express your deepest desires mentally and physically. Also to watch others doing this is joyful. |
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Mentally being desired, being part of a community and expressing yourself without the burden of judgment is huge. On the physical side 1 or 2 good, long play sessions does more for me than going the gym ever would. When clubs were open a little star on the calander always gave you something to look forward too. |
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"Mentally being desired, being part of a community and expressing yourself without the burden of judgment is huge. On the physical side 1 or 2 good, long play sessions does more for me than going the gym ever would. When clubs were open a little star on the calander always gave you something to look forward too."
Ha yes a good long session is much more fun than tha the gym! |
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"Mentally being desired, being part of a community and expressing yourself without the burden of judgment is huge. On the physical side 1 or 2 good, long play sessions does more for me than going the gym ever would. When clubs were open a little star on the calander always gave you something to look forward too.
Ha yes a good long session is much more fun than tha the gym! "
Also being part of a supportive community is soooo Important for mental health and well being during tough times! |
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"Confidence definitely and confident to show off body to us it was like walking through a door and leaving the stress behind...which was /is needed"
Yes! Yes! Yes! This confidence can spread into other areas of your life too! |
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It can also teach you patience, tolerance And understanding. As well as learning to focus and control the things you can control YOUR thinking & emotions and not other peoples. |
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"Better body confidence
Better understanding of others
Improved communication skills
Confidence to step out of your own comfort zone
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Yes!
Yes!
Yes!
Yes!
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My god based on this swingers will save the bloody world
What about stds bullying abusive behaviour jealousy overly handsy people manipulation illegal things that cant be talked about just to name a few its not all sweetness and light yes there are some good things but like most things theres bad too and before someone says thats not what swinging is about it does still happen im not after a row im just saying there are things that effect people mentally and physically thats not so good about swinging as a lifestyle |
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It hasn't changed anything for me - but
it's made some fun, delicious, scary, cringeworthy and sometimes educational memories.
It is a tool to take me away from my boring life and have sex with people I wouldn't usually meet in day to day life.
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"My god based on this swingers will save the bloody world
What about stds bullying abusive behaviour jealousy overly handsy people manipulation illegal things that cant be talked about just to name a few its not all sweetness and light yes there are some good things but like most things theres bad too and before someone says thats not what swinging is about it does still happen im not after a row im just saying there are things that effect people mentally and physically thats not so good about swinging as a lifestyle"
I guess unless you see stds etc.. as a benefit the clues is in the title |
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"It hasn't changed anything for me - but
it's made some fun, delicious, scary, cringeworthy and sometimes educational memories.
It is a tool to take me away from my boring life and have sex with people I wouldn't usually meet in day to day life.
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Haha love it! Absolutely! X |
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