I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).
Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)
Or do I say nothing |
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"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).
Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)
Or do I say nothing "
Just out of interest - what would you hope to achieve by saying something?
Assuming she hasn't already found your profile... |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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Understand the mothering side but at the end of the day she'll do what she wants. You wouldn't want her to be annoyed at you or start avoiding talking/being around you out of embarrassment etc. Definitely block and don't think about it  |
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"Understand the mothering side but at the end of the day she'll do what she wants. You wouldn't want her to be annoyed at you or start avoiding talking/being around you out of embarrassment etc. Definitely block and don't think about it "
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"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).
Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)
My instinct is to keep her safe
Or do I say nothing
Just out of interest - what would you hope to achieve by saying something?
Assuming she hasn't already found your profile..."
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"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).
Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)
Or do I say nothing "
how do you know she hasn't seen your profile and clicked on ? Id say something at least your conscious is clear. She can't say anythin bad cos she's doing exactly the same |
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"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).
Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)
Or do I say nothing "
Why on earth would you want to say anything? You value your privacy as you say so why not value hers? |
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"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).
Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)
Or do I say nothing "
As long as your paths don’t meet keep quiet but if you check her out and she’s a gold member she will will know u are to let her make the first move not you but your aware she is here maybe private any naughty pics |
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"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).
Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)
Or do I say nothing
Why on earth would you want to say anything? You value your privacy as you say so why not value hers?"
Excactly totally agree with you x  |
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As you have wanted to keep your situation very confidential for years, you'd probably need to reassess whether there is anything different now and specifically with this 1 person. If there's not, you could block her, knowing that you could always change that in future.
It's probably more likely that those of us who have been here for years are likely to stay longer than a new user, who may find the site less to her liking. She may be gone in the blink of an eye, saving you from the issue of disclosure |
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Personally if she hasn't seen your profile on here or even spoken to you off the site my advice would be just leave it and ifucking she does say anything im sure you are both adult enough to discuss it .Good luck |
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Not judging but wouldnt have started a forum thread that she could stumble on if worried about her discovering you. If not worried dont really see the problem, you can advise her better than anyone.
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