I was wondering if any of you have ever been snubbed or blocked by someone on here but when you met them on a different platform or in person through other means (e.g. club) and you got on amazingly well with them?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been snubbed by many even been blocked and not met or sent them a message
Don’t mind being blocked for a reason
Fair enough
It’s costs nothing to be polite
A reply saying thank you but no thank you
That’s enough
That’s fab for you folks
Carry on and hope for the best |
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over a year ago
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Yes when I first joined fab I had a profile for about 2 3 weeks that wasnt very good which I deleted and started again but I messaged a woman who blocked me without reply then when I rejoined and changed things up she actually messaged me and we met it was very pleasant but I never mentioned that she blocked me at first lol |
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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago
Kettering |
I changed my user name for fab so anyone who knew me from another site might not know me. I have been blocked on here lots most I have never ever spoken to but one I know of blocked me cos I didn't send her a message quick enough.  |
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"Yes when I first joined fab I had a profile for about 2 3 weeks that wasnt very good which I deleted and started again but I messaged a woman who blocked me without reply then when I rejoined and changed things up she actually messaged me and we met it was very pleasant but I never mentioned that she blocked me at first lol"
Yeah, that's what I was thinking that sometimes first judgement is not the best...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve chatted to people at socials and clubs who have told me they have messaged me and I’ve not replied. I often mass delete so explains it.
Face to face is always a better way to interact |
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"I’ve chatted to people at socials and clubs who have told me they have messaged me and I’ve not replied. I often mass delete so explains it.
Face to face is always a better way to interact "
I agree on the face to face... |
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I met and played with a lovely looking guy at chams one night. Afterwards when we where chatting he laughed and said he had messaged me a few times on here and id always ignore him. Another time i met and played with the most perfect gentleman at a club after when we where chatting he asked if i was on fab. When he gave me his usernsme it was a guy (long gone now) that used the forum and i thought was a twat |
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"I met and played with a lovely looking guy at chams one night. Afterwards when we where chatting he laughed and said he had messaged me a few times on here and id always ignore him. Another time i met and played with the most perfect gentleman at a club after when we where chatting he asked if i was on fab. When he gave me his usernsme it was a guy (long gone now) that used the forum and i thought was a twat "
Hahaha that's what I mean. Sometimes, people have off days or have a bad online personality but could be awesome in real life |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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But that is ultimately the difference between on-line and in person interaction for you - on-line all you have to go on is the text you are presented with and it's not always easy to make a judgement call, especially when you don't have the context of facial expressions and demeanour to guide you.
And more especially if you have to make a snap judgement where you've not been able to get to know a personality on-line over time.
It's one reason I have pretty much exclusively met forumites, because you can build a picture of their character by seeing how they interact there too.
That said it *can* work both ways round - there are people here who present a sweetness and light facade, who when I've met them, or got to know them better over time on-line are quite the opposite of what they present |
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"But that is ultimately the difference between on-line and in person interaction for you - on-line all you have to go on is the text you are presented with and it's not always easy to make a judgement call, especially when you don't have the context of facial expressions and demeanour to guide you.
And more especially if you have to make a snap judgement where you've not been able to get to know a personality on-line over time.
It's one reason I have pretty much exclusively met forumites, because you can build a picture of their character by seeing how they interact there too.
That said it *can* work both ways round - there are people here who present a sweetness and light facade, who when I've met them, or got to know them better over time on-line are quite the opposite of what they present "
I agree on building the picture from interactions... |
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