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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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so I'm curious....
Are you a flirt?
Do you flirt with everyone and anyone and just see it as a little fun?
Will you only flirt with those you really fancy?
Is flirtation a prelude to more for you?
If someone flirts outrageously with you, do you assume they want you? Or do you get all shy?
If you're straight do you flirt with those of the same sex?
If you're bi/gay and someone of the same sex flirts with you does that make you think they fancy you?
How do you flirt?
Lu 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm an flirt and flirt with most people I will gonhat extra step further with people I'd wanna take it further with but I know I'm a terrible flirt. It's all just fun to me but as I've said if wanna take it further I'd let he person know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a huge flirt, always have been. I tend to flirt with everyone but it does vary depending on if I fancy them or not (it's also got me in to trouble a few times) I'm quite blunt when it comes to telling people I fancy them though so generally there's not too much confusion. If someone flirts with me, I take it as nothing more than them being friendly unless I know otherwise.
What was the rest of the questions? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Me?!?! 
Flirt!!
No...... I don't do that!! 
*lies obviously! 
Jo.Xx "
I think your being flirtatious is one of the many things I find appealing about you....I like playful women |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a huge flirt, always have been. I tend to flirt with everyone but it does vary depending on if I fancy them or not (it's also got me in to trouble a few times) I'm quite blunt when it comes to telling people I fancy them though so generally there's not too much confusion. If someone flirts with me, I take it as nothing more than them being friendly unless I know otherwise.
What was the rest of the questions? "
I don't remember....I was busy remembering our in person flirtation |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Right I'm going to try and answer these questions in less than 1000 words. I don't think I'm a flirt nor that I'm particularly flirty. If I am it's in a dorky Richard Ayoade style most probably, full of self deprecation and geek jokes. So I guess that leads on to, no I don't flirt with everyone because that's not really my personality. My dorkflirt comes out when I think someone is hot, sure but it doesn't mean I'm doing it to get their genitalia in my mouth, sometimes I just enjoy the mental masturbation for what it is and the smile it brings to my face. I'm really particular about the flirting style I like as well.
If someone flirts with me I assume they are either a) doing it for attention b) not serious in the slightest c) horny d) the sort who would flirt with a leaf that blew across their path or e) maybe doing it because my meness works for them. On here I don't really take it seriously either from the forum or in my inbox, I know too many who do it to pass the time/use the same lines on poor sods. Flirting with women is always more... erm complex? Like a lot do it with O meaning behind it and so I automatically think they are doing it for their reasons, not ones concerning me.
Tl; dr
Bit of an uppity twunt who doesn't really flirt and doesn't think people flirt because they are interested in her.
And I did it under 1000 words! |
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"Right I'm going to try and answer these questions in less than 1000 words. I don't think I'm a flirt nor that I'm particularly flirty. If I am it's in a dorky Richard Ayoade style most probably, full of self deprecation and geek jokes. So I guess that leads on to, no I don't flirt with everyone because that's not really my personality. My dorkflirt comes out when I think someone is hot, sure but it doesn't mean I'm doing it to get their genitalia in my mouth, sometimes I just enjoy the mental masturbation for what it is and the smile it brings to my face. I'm really particular about the flirting style I like as well.
If someone flirts with me I assume they are either a) doing it for attention b) not serious in the slightest c) horny d) the sort who would flirt with a leaf that blew across their path or e) maybe doing it because my meness works for them. On here I don't really take it seriously either from the forum or in my inbox, I know too many who do it to pass the time/use the same lines on poor sods. Flirting with women is always more... erm complex? Like a lot do it with O meaning behind it and so I automatically think they are doing it for their reasons, not ones concerning me.
Tl; dr
Bit of an uppity twunt who doesn't really flirt and doesn't think people flirt because they are interested in her.
And I did it under 1000 words!"
Only just  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Right I'm going to try and answer these questions in less than 1000 words. I don't think I'm a flirt nor that I'm particularly flirty. If I am it's in a dorky Richard Ayoade style most probably, full of self deprecation and geek jokes. So I guess that leads on to, no I don't flirt with everyone because that's not really my personality. My dorkflirt comes out when I think someone is hot, sure but it doesn't mean I'm doing it to get their genitalia in my mouth, sometimes I just enjoy the mental masturbation for what it is and the smile it brings to my face. I'm really particular about the flirting style I like as well.
If someone flirts with me I assume they are either a) doing it for attention b) not serious in the slightest c) horny d) the sort who would flirt with a leaf that blew across their path or e) maybe doing it because my meness works for them. On here I don't really take it seriously either from the forum or in my inbox, I know too many who do it to pass the time/use the same lines on poor sods. Flirting with women is always more... erm complex? Like a lot do it with O meaning behind it and so I automatically think they are doing it for their reasons, not ones concerning me.
Tl; dr
Bit of an uppity twunt who doesn't really flirt and doesn't think people flirt because they are interested in her.
And I did it under 1000 words!"
JUst to be clear....I am totally interested  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a huge flirt, always have been. I tend to flirt with everyone but it does vary depending on if I fancy them or not (it's also got me in to trouble a few times) I'm quite blunt when it comes to telling people I fancy them though so generally there's not too much confusion. If someone flirts with me, I take it as nothing more than them being friendly unless I know otherwise.
What was the rest of the questions?
I don't remember....I was busy remembering our in person flirtation "
Now that was flirty and I think we were quite upfront with eachother Fancy a snog? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a huge flirt, always have been. I tend to flirt with everyone but it does vary depending on if I fancy them or not (it's also got me in to trouble a few times) I'm quite blunt when it comes to telling people I fancy them though so generally there's not too much confusion. If someone flirts with me, I take it as nothing more than them being friendly unless I know otherwise.
What was the rest of the questions?
I don't remember....I was busy remembering our in person flirtation
Now that was flirty and I think we were quite upfront with eachother Fancy a snog? "
In my head we're already kissing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a huge flirt, always have been. I tend to flirt with everyone but it does vary depending on if I fancy them or not (it's also got me in to trouble a few times) I'm quite blunt when it comes to telling people I fancy them though so generally there's not too much confusion. If someone flirts with me, I take it as nothing more than them being friendly unless I know otherwise.
What was the rest of the questions?
I don't remember....I was busy remembering our in person flirtation
Now that was flirty and I think we were quite upfront with eachother Fancy a snog?
In my head we're already kissing "
Ooo...can I be in your head please? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a huge flirt, always have been. I tend to flirt with everyone but it does vary depending on if I fancy them or not (it's also got me in to trouble a few times) I'm quite blunt when it comes to telling people I fancy them though so generally there's not too much confusion. If someone flirts with me, I take it as nothing more than them being friendly unless I know otherwise.
What was the rest of the questions?
I don't remember....I was busy remembering our in person flirtation
Now that was flirty and I think we were quite upfront with eachother Fancy a snog?
In my head we're already kissing
Ooo...can I be in your head please? "
watch your step...it's dark in there |
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"I'm a huge flirt, always have been. I tend to flirt with everyone but it does vary depending on if I fancy them or not (it's also got me in to trouble a few times) I'm quite blunt when it comes to telling people I fancy them though so generally there's not too much confusion. If someone flirts with me, I take it as nothing more than them being friendly unless I know otherwise.
What was the rest of the questions?
I don't remember....I was busy remembering our in person flirtation
Now that was flirty and I think we were quite upfront with eachother Fancy a snog?
In my head we're already kissing
Ooo...can I be in your head please? "
You're brave |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guess i could be classed as a flirt but i do not do it on purpose it just happens naturally. I laugh, i smile, i play with my hair, i lick my lips, wiggle my bum and adore eye contact.x "
do you ever do it on purpose or is it always a natural thing? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a huge flirt, always have been. I tend to flirt with everyone but it does vary depending on if I fancy them or not (it's also got me in to trouble a few times) I'm quite blunt when it comes to telling people I fancy them though so generally there's not too much confusion. If someone flirts with me, I take it as nothing more than them being friendly unless I know otherwise.
What was the rest of the questions?
I don't remember....I was busy remembering our in person flirtation
Now that was flirty and I think we were quite upfront with eachother Fancy a snog?
In my head we're already kissing
Ooo...can I be in your head please?
You're brave "
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"Guess i could be classed as a flirt but i do not do it on purpose it just happens naturally. I laugh, i smile, i play with my hair, i lick my lips, wiggle my bum and adore eye contact.x
do you ever do it on purpose or is it always a natural thing?"
That is just me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guess i could be classed as a flirt but i do not do it on purpose it just happens naturally. I laugh, i smile, i play with my hair, i lick my lips, wiggle my bum and adore eye contact.x
do you ever do it on purpose or is it always a natural thing?
That is just me."
I'm also a very natural flirt...but i am very flirty on purpose at times |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Ok, so..... are you sitting comfortably? Got a brew? Because you know I babble when it is just one question and this is a million or so.
Yes. Apparently I'm a flirt. Have been all my life and it works wonders when you work behind a bar or run a pub. Also when you're a doorperson. And I've done all that lol.
I'll flirt with anyone, it is a fine way to get along with people and it can make them feel good. Saying that, if it makes them uncomfortable I'll not do it, or if I think they will take it too seriously and the situation will end up problematic I'll stop.
In the real world, I flirt a lot less with those I really fancy because I get shy. But online, world is my oyster and no one can see me blush 
Flirtation for me is often not a prelude to more, mainly because of the answer to the next question. I assume that no one is flirting 'with intent', because I can't believe that anyone actually fancies me. And if I find out they mean it, I get all shy and blushing and kinda stupid. But it's always really nice to know
I do flirt with members of the same sex. As I said, it's a good way to break the ice, and a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves. That being said, in the same way as I don't fancy every man I flirt with, I don't fancy the women (as a rule. Sexuality is a spectrum after all).
I do honest flirting. There is something flirtable about everyone I flirt with. And if there is intent I do it in private. To me, forum flirting is fun and lighthearted and a way of finding out if you want to take it privately. Private messages are the next step. If I flirt with intent I usually tell the person (on here anyway, I'm not that brave in real life) and sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised.
One thing I don't like is when people then lie about intent once they've taken it into private. That's just cruel and I don't understand the need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a huge flirt, always have been. I tend to flirt with everyone but it does vary depending on if I fancy them or not (it's also got me in to trouble a few times) I'm quite blunt when it comes to telling people I fancy them though so generally there's not too much confusion. If someone flirts with me, I take it as nothing more than them being friendly unless I know otherwise.
What was the rest of the questions?
I don't remember....I was busy remembering our in person flirtation
Now that was flirty and I think we were quite upfront with eachother Fancy a snog?
In my head we're already kissing
Ooo...can I be in your head please?
watch your step...it's dark in there "
I like dark |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't know how, horribly worried about embarrassing myself and overstepping the line. Assume people aren't interested.
I do on the forum but it's never serious."
Wait, what?!
You mean you're not a sure thing if we meet? |
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"Ok, so..... are you sitting comfortably? Got a brew? Because you know I babble when it is just one question and this is a million or so.
Yes. Apparently I'm a flirt. Have been all my life and it works wonders when you work behind a bar or run a pub. Also when you're a doorperson. And I've done all that lol.
I'll flirt with anyone, it is a fine way to get along with people and it can make them feel good. Saying that, if it makes them uncomfortable I'll not do it, or if I think they will take it too seriously and the situation will end up problematic I'll stop.
In the real world, I flirt a lot less with those I really fancy because I get shy. But online, world is my oyster and no one can see me blush
Flirtation for me is often not a prelude to more, mainly because of the answer to the next question. I assume that no one is flirting 'with intent', because I can't believe that anyone actually fancies me. And if I find out they mean it, I get all shy and blushing and kinda stupid. But it's always really nice to know
I do flirt with members of the same sex. As I said, it's a good way to break the ice, and a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves. That being said, in the same way as I don't fancy every man I flirt with, I don't fancy the women (as a rule. Sexuality is a spectrum after all).
I do honest flirting. There is something flirtable about everyone I flirt with. And if there is intent I do it in private. To me, forum flirting is fun and lighthearted and a way of finding out if you want to take it privately. Private messages are the next step. If I flirt with intent I usually tell the person (on here anyway, I'm not that brave in real life) and sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised.
One thing I don't like is when people then lie about intent once they've taken it into private. That's just cruel and I don't understand the need."
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Right I'm going to try and answer these questions in less than 1000 words. I don't think I'm a flirt nor that I'm particularly flirty. If I am it's in a dorky Richard Ayoade style most probably, full of self deprecation and geek jokes. So I guess that leads on to, no I don't flirt with everyone because that's not really my personality. My dorkflirt comes out when I think someone is hot, sure but it doesn't mean I'm doing it to get their genitalia in my mouth, sometimes I just enjoy the mental masturbation for what it is and the smile it brings to my face. I'm really particular about the flirting style I like as well.
If someone flirts with me I assume they are either a) doing it for attention b) not serious in the slightest c) horny d) the sort who would flirt with a leaf that blew across their path or e) maybe doing it because my meness works for them. On here I don't really take it seriously either from the forum or in my inbox, I know too many who do it to pass the time/use the same lines on poor sods. Flirting with women is always more... erm complex? Like a lot do it with O meaning behind it and so I automatically think they are doing it for their reasons, not ones concerning me.
Tl; dr
Bit of an uppity twunt who doesn't really flirt and doesn't think people flirt because they are interested in her.
And I did it under 1000 words!"
I should have set myself a word limit.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok, so..... are you sitting comfortably? Got a brew? Because you know I babble when it is just one question and this is a million or so.
Yes. Apparently I'm a flirt. Have been all my life and it works wonders when you work behind a bar or run a pub. Also when you're a doorperson. And I've done all that lol.
I'll flirt with anyone, it is a fine way to get along with people and it can make them feel good. Saying that, if it makes them uncomfortable I'll not do it, or if I think they will take it too seriously and the situation will end up problematic I'll stop.
In the real world, I flirt a lot less with those I really fancy because I get shy. But online, world is my oyster and no one can see me blush
Flirtation for me is often not a prelude to more, mainly because of the answer to the next question. I assume that no one is flirting 'with intent', because I can't believe that anyone actually fancies me. And if I find out they mean it, I get all shy and blushing and kinda stupid. But it's always really nice to know
I do flirt with members of the same sex. As I said, it's a good way to break the ice, and a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves. That being said, in the same way as I don't fancy every man I flirt with, I don't fancy the women (as a rule. Sexuality is a spectrum after all).
I do honest flirting. There is something flirtable about everyone I flirt with. And if there is intent I do it in private. To me, forum flirting is fun and lighthearted and a way of finding out if you want to take it privately. Private messages are the next step. If I flirt with intent I usually tell the person (on here anyway, I'm not that brave in real life) and sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised.
One thing I don't like is when people then lie about intent once they've taken it into private. That's just cruel and I don't understand the need."
Sexuality IS a spectrum!
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok, so..... are you sitting comfortably? Got a brew? Because you know I babble when it is just one question and this is a million or so.
Yes. Apparently I'm a flirt. Have been all my life and it works wonders when you work behind a bar or run a pub. Also when you're a doorperson. And I've done all that lol.
I'll flirt with anyone, it is a fine way to get along with people and it can make them feel good. Saying that, if it makes them uncomfortable I'll not do it, or if I think they will take it too seriously and the situation will end up problematic I'll stop.
In the real world, I flirt a lot less with those I really fancy because I get shy. But online, world is my oyster and no one can see me blush
Flirtation for me is often not a prelude to more, mainly because of the answer to the next question. I assume that no one is flirting 'with intent', because I can't believe that anyone actually fancies me. And if I find out they mean it, I get all shy and blushing and kinda stupid. But it's always really nice to know
I do flirt with members of the same sex. As I said, it's a good way to break the ice, and a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves. That being said, in the same way as I don't fancy every man I flirt with, I don't fancy the women (as a rule. Sexuality is a spectrum after all).
I do honest flirting. There is something flirtable about everyone I flirt with. And if there is intent I do it in private. To me, forum flirting is fun and lighthearted and a way of finding out if you want to take it privately. Private messages are the next step. If I flirt with intent I usually tell the person (on here anyway, I'm not that brave in real life) and sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised.
One thing I don't like is when people then lie about intent once they've taken it into private. That's just cruel and I don't understand the need.
Hang on , you were a bouncer "
True story..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a huge flirt, always have been. I tend to flirt with everyone but it does vary depending on if I fancy them or not (it's also got me in to trouble a few times) I'm quite blunt when it comes to telling people I fancy them though so generally there's not too much confusion. If someone flirts with me, I take it as nothing more than them being friendly unless I know otherwise.
What was the rest of the questions?
I don't remember....I was busy remembering our in person flirtation
Now that was flirty and I think we were quite upfront with eachother Fancy a snog?
In my head we're already kissing
Ooo...can I be in your head please?
watch your step...it's dark in there
I like dark "
I've heard that about you... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok, so..... are you sitting comfortably? Got a brew? Because you know I babble when it is just one question and this is a million or so.
Yes. Apparently I'm a flirt. Have been all my life and it works wonders when you work behind a bar or run a pub. Also when you're a doorperson. And I've done all that lol.
I'll flirt with anyone, it is a fine way to get along with people and it can make them feel good. Saying that, if it makes them uncomfortable I'll not do it, or if I think they will take it too seriously and the situation will end up problematic I'll stop.
In the real world, I flirt a lot less with those I really fancy because I get shy. But online, world is my oyster and no one can see me blush
Flirtation for me is often not a prelude to more, mainly because of the answer to the next question. I assume that no one is flirting 'with intent', because I can't believe that anyone actually fancies me. And if I find out they mean it, I get all shy and blushing and kinda stupid. But it's always really nice to know
I do flirt with members of the same sex. As I said, it's a good way to break the ice, and a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves. That being said, in the same way as I don't fancy every man I flirt with, I don't fancy the women (as a rule. Sexuality is a spectrum after all).
I do honest flirting. There is something flirtable about everyone I flirt with. And if there is intent I do it in private. To me, forum flirting is fun and lighthearted and a way of finding out if you want to take it privately. Private messages are the next step. If I flirt with intent I usually tell the person (on here anyway, I'm not that brave in real life) and sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised.
One thing I don't like is when people then lie about intent once they've taken it into private. That's just cruel and I don't understand the need.
Hang on , you were a bouncer "
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"Ok, so..... are you sitting comfortably? Got a brew? Because you know I babble when it is just one question and this is a million or so.
Yes. Apparently I'm a flirt. Have been all my life and it works wonders when you work behind a bar or run a pub. Also when you're a doorperson. And I've done all that lol.
I'll flirt with anyone, it is a fine way to get along with people and it can make them feel good. Saying that, if it makes them uncomfortable I'll not do it, or if I think they will take it too seriously and the situation will end up problematic I'll stop.
In the real world, I flirt a lot less with those I really fancy because I get shy. But online, world is my oyster and no one can see me blush
Flirtation for me is often not a prelude to more, mainly because of the answer to the next question. I assume that no one is flirting 'with intent', because I can't believe that anyone actually fancies me. And if I find out they mean it, I get all shy and blushing and kinda stupid. But it's always really nice to know
I do flirt with members of the same sex. As I said, it's a good way to break the ice, and a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves. That being said, in the same way as I don't fancy every man I flirt with, I don't fancy the women (as a rule. Sexuality is a spectrum after all).
I do honest flirting. There is something flirtable about everyone I flirt with. And if there is intent I do it in private. To me, forum flirting is fun and lighthearted and a way of finding out if you want to take it privately. Private messages are the next step. If I flirt with intent I usually tell the person (on here anyway, I'm not that brave in real life) and sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised.
One thing I don't like is when people then lie about intent once they've taken it into private. That's just cruel and I don't understand the need.
Hang on , you were a bouncer
True story..... "
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"Ok, so..... are you sitting comfortably? Got a brew? Because you know I babble when it is just one question and this is a million or so.
Yes. Apparently I'm a flirt. Have been all my life and it works wonders when you work behind a bar or run a pub. Also when you're a doorperson. And I've done all that lol.
I'll flirt with anyone, it is a fine way to get along with people and it can make them feel good. Saying that, if it makes them uncomfortable I'll not do it, or if I think they will take it too seriously and the situation will end up problematic I'll stop.
In the real world, I flirt a lot less with those I really fancy because I get shy. But online, world is my oyster and no one can see me blush
Flirtation for me is often not a prelude to more, mainly because of the answer to the next question. I assume that no one is flirting 'with intent', because I can't believe that anyone actually fancies me. And if I find out they mean it, I get all shy and blushing and kinda stupid. But it's always really nice to know
I do flirt with members of the same sex. As I said, it's a good way to break the ice, and a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves. That being said, in the same way as I don't fancy every man I flirt with, I don't fancy the women (as a rule. Sexuality is a spectrum after all).
I do honest flirting. There is something flirtable about everyone I flirt with. And if there is intent I do it in private. To me, forum flirting is fun and lighthearted and a way of finding out if you want to take it privately. Private messages are the next step. If I flirt with intent I usually tell the person (on here anyway, I'm not that brave in real life) and sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised.
One thing I don't like is when people then lie about intent once they've taken it into private. That's just cruel and I don't understand the need.
Hang on , you were a bouncer
I think I can hear both your erection and you shitting your pants from here "
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"Don't know how, horribly worried about embarrassing myself and overstepping the line. Assume people aren't interested.
I do on the forum but it's never serious.
Wait, what?!
You mean you're not a sure thing if we meet? "
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok, so..... are you sitting comfortably? Got a brew? Because you know I babble when it is just one question and this is a million or so.
Yes. Apparently I'm a flirt. Have been all my life and it works wonders when you work behind a bar or run a pub. Also when you're a doorperson. And I've done all that lol.
I'll flirt with anyone, it is a fine way to get along with people and it can make them feel good. Saying that, if it makes them uncomfortable I'll not do it, or if I think they will take it too seriously and the situation will end up problematic I'll stop.
In the real world, I flirt a lot less with those I really fancy because I get shy. But online, world is my oyster and no one can see me blush
Flirtation for me is often not a prelude to more, mainly because of the answer to the next question. I assume that no one is flirting 'with intent', because I can't believe that anyone actually fancies me. And if I find out they mean it, I get all shy and blushing and kinda stupid. But it's always really nice to know
I do flirt with members of the same sex. As I said, it's a good way to break the ice, and a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves. That being said, in the same way as I don't fancy every man I flirt with, I don't fancy the women (as a rule. Sexuality is a spectrum after all).
I do honest flirting. There is something flirtable about everyone I flirt with. And if there is intent I do it in private. To me, forum flirting is fun and lighthearted and a way of finding out if you want to take it privately. Private messages are the next step. If I flirt with intent I usually tell the person (on here anyway, I'm not that brave in real life) and sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised.
One thing I don't like is when people then lie about intent once they've taken it into private. That's just cruel and I don't understand the need.
Hang on , you were a bouncer
I think I can hear both your erection and you shitting your pants from here "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sexuality IS a spectrum!
And you ARE fab straight
Up your butt
What do you want to put up her butt? Can I help? "
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Ok, so..... are you sitting comfortably? Got a brew? Because you know I babble when it is just one question and this is a million or so.
Yes. Apparently I'm a flirt. Have been all my life and it works wonders when you work behind a bar or run a pub. Also when you're a doorperson. And I've done all that lol.
I'll flirt with anyone, it is a fine way to get along with people and it can make them feel good. Saying that, if it makes them uncomfortable I'll not do it, or if I think they will take it too seriously and the situation will end up problematic I'll stop.
In the real world, I flirt a lot less with those I really fancy because I get shy. But online, world is my oyster and no one can see me blush
Flirtation for me is often not a prelude to more, mainly because of the answer to the next question. I assume that no one is flirting 'with intent', because I can't believe that anyone actually fancies me. And if I find out they mean it, I get all shy and blushing and kinda stupid. But it's always really nice to know
I do flirt with members of the same sex. As I said, it's a good way to break the ice, and a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves. That being said, in the same way as I don't fancy every man I flirt with, I don't fancy the women (as a rule. Sexuality is a spectrum after all).
I do honest flirting. There is something flirtable about everyone I flirt with. And if there is intent I do it in private. To me, forum flirting is fun and lighthearted and a way of finding out if you want to take it privately. Private messages are the next step. If I flirt with intent I usually tell the person (on here anyway, I'm not that brave in real life) and sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised.
One thing I don't like is when people then lie about intent once they've taken it into private. That's just cruel and I don't understand the need.
Hang on , you were a bouncer
I think I can hear both your erection and you shitting your pants from here
My boxers are bursting both ends "
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Oh wait. I don't need to see the back end |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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And I did it under 1000 words!
I should have set myself a word limit.. "
There is one question I have - flirting is
" "a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves "
What happens if it doesn't make them feel good/doesn't warm them to you? I think flirting with people who have a flirty disposition works (for whatever reason) but (and no this isn't about you Notso!), I can't say I've warmed to some who flirt with everyone. I also can safely say in my professional life it's not a good tactic, it makes people appear unprofessional and they don't tend to do that well. It's more for the person doing it or those reading than the receiver quite often when done on here in public, or I think so anyway.
I think maybe I should get a lighter, fluffier disposition. |
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"Ok, so..... are you sitting comfortably? Got a brew? Because you know I babble when it is just one question and this is a million or so.
Yes. Apparently I'm a flirt. Have been all my life and it works wonders when you work behind a bar or run a pub. Also when you're a doorperson. And I've done all that lol.
I'll flirt with anyone, it is a fine way to get along with people and it can make them feel good. Saying that, if it makes them uncomfortable I'll not do it, or if I think they will take it too seriously and the situation will end up problematic I'll stop.
In the real world, I flirt a lot less with those I really fancy because I get shy. But online, world is my oyster and no one can see me blush
Flirtation for me is often not a prelude to more, mainly because of the answer to the next question. I assume that no one is flirting 'with intent', because I can't believe that anyone actually fancies me. And if I find out they mean it, I get all shy and blushing and kinda stupid. But it's always really nice to know
I do flirt with members of the same sex. As I said, it's a good way to break the ice, and a great way to get along with people and make them feel good about themselves. That being said, in the same way as I don't fancy every man I flirt with, I don't fancy the women (as a rule. Sexuality is a spectrum after all).
I do honest flirting. There is something flirtable about everyone I flirt with. And if there is intent I do it in private. To me, forum flirting is fun and lighthearted and a way of finding out if you want to take it privately. Private messages are the next step. If I flirt with intent I usually tell the person (on here anyway, I'm not that brave in real life) and sometimes I'm pleasantly surprised.
One thing I don't like is when people then lie about intent once they've taken it into private. That's just cruel and I don't understand the need.
Hang on , you were a bouncer
I think I can hear both your erection and you shitting your pants from here
My boxers are bursting both ends
Pictures or it didn't.....
Oh wait. I don't need to see the back end "
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M says I'm a massive flirt in the flesh. But I'm not the biggest flirt via messages or online.
I don't presume anyone flirts with me regardless of gender, I'll just presume they are being nice. God it's surprising I've ever had any relationships lol |
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"Me?!?!
Flirt!!
No...... I don't do that!!
*lies obviously!
Jo.Xx
I think your being flirtatious is one of the many things I find appealing about you....I like playful women "
Thank you for finding me appealing at all.
I am a people pleaser that is for sure and I will always do my best to make someone feel good about themselves. But like you know Lu. And others I have spoken to in private I do have genuine intentions towards you.
This year was supposed to be our year for making things happen. But Like so many millions of people our plans have been cancelled. That left so many people hanging. Relationships dropped even, because life has got in the way.
I personally think flirting is good for you. Unless like Meli Said and it's not for you. That's also fair enough...And wouldn't flirt with someone who it offended.
Oh gosh, I never type anything!! 
This is almost an essay for me! .
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over a year ago
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I can be a flirt on Fab and have been in the flesh - it's all dependent on mood (and sometimes alcohol intake).
If I think someone is flirting with me (either Fab or flesh) I'm usually slightly unsure if they are or aren't and probably overthink it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am very outgoing and sociable and am happy chatting to anyone.
This sometimes backfires in a swingers club setting as guys may think they are in with a chance of playing with me just because I have happily socialised with them & shared a few laughs.
Trust me however, if I do fancy someone I will actively flirt with them. And have even been known to be the one to instigate play on several occasions in the past. |
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I'm a massive flirt. I'll flirt with most that grab my attention, usually their personality over looks.
I flirt for fun, not because I want to touch everyone's genitalia.
I tend to assume that I'm just approachable and as good a conversation as any and that peoples interest is generic rather than that I'm particularly lusted after.
I don't flirt with many women, so if I do, it's because I'm genuinely attracted.
Forum flirting I take with a pinch of salt and dependant on my mood I can go on a massive flirting rampage sometimes
I THINK that covers that multitude of questions |
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"so I'm curious....
Are you a flirt?
Do you flirt with everyone and anyone and just see it as a little fun?
Will you only flirt with those you really fancy?
Is flirtation a prelude to more for you?
If someone flirts outrageously with you, do you assume they want you? Or do you get all shy?
If you're straight do you flirt with those of the same sex?
If you're bi/gay and someone of the same sex flirts with you does that make you think they fancy you?
How do you flirt?
Lu
(happy hump day you sexy fuckers )"
Oh I flirt with anyone who will play along, beyond flirting there has to be a spark |
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I tend to flirt more in person than online...probably because it's more physical flirting than words. It's generally unc*nscious and just kind of happens naturally.
I don't generally take anyone flirting with me seriously, especially on here. And if I like someone I'm a hell of a lot more direct than some subtle flirting. |
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