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Do dominant women really exist?
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Well I’ve looked high and low and can honestly say I don’t think dominant women actually exist especially in the midlands area!
Any other men looking for the same and feel the same as me?
Is there any dominant women that are reading this thinking I’d love to try ........ |
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"We're imaginary.
Are you dominant for your own pleasure? And do you have a chap? X
Yes and yes"
I find it so so rare, so many women all want to be submissive yet they could have even more fun been dominant, I suppose it comes down to what you want but does seem to be rare or just money induced |
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"We're imaginary.
Are you dominant for your own pleasure? And do you have a chap? X
Yes and yes
I find it so so rare, so many women all want to be submissive yet they could have even more fun been dominant, I suppose it comes down to what you want but does seem to be rare or just money induced "
You could say the same to submissive men that they would have more luck being Dominant but if it doesn't do it for you then it doesn't do it for you. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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There is a fallacy that the kink world is afloat with Doms and submissive women. My experience is that there are a larger number "submissive men" and a very small number of Dommes (comparatively).
Given that Generation Porn is on TV my take us that of the small number of Dommes a significant percentage are Pro-Dommes" who are skilled and expect to be paid and sex is normally not on the table. There are Fin-Dommes who expect to be paid or receive gifts. I have not met any to speak to but I believe again no sex and they may or may not be skilled in humiliation.
There are Dommes who dominate on the basis of a relationship and genuine connection.
However the male submissives tend to fall into those with lists of how they wish to be treated normally sexually serviced (under the guise of submission) which is really topping from the bottom. However, there are those submissives that understand they are there at their Domme's disposal.
The above is just my view from kicking around the London scene the last 6 years and I accept that I could be completely wrong.
I would say FL is not a magic bullet for meeting anyone kinky. I have met some lovely women who are subs and bottoms here on Fab.
However, with the pandemic most on the scene are not meeting new people.
But even before covid the biggest moan on the scene, no matter what role whether Dom, Domme, or sub, is finding and meeting the right person.
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"Well I’ve looked high and low and can honestly say I don’t think dominant women actually exist especially in the midlands area!
Any other men looking for the same and feel the same as me?
Is there any dominant women that are reading this thinking I’d love to try ........"
my ex wife would suit down to the ground lol |
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It also depends on what they’ve experienced J is dominant but together we’ve done lots of switch play and I’ve found I tend to fall into the more dominant side.
But at same time I get more of a kick thinking about domming another lady *drool* Though must say using a strapon on a guy gives me a real kick! But would I say a I’m a ‘domme’? Not at all, it takes practice and time so can see why those who are and do have the skills do use it to go ‘pro’. |
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"There is a fallacy that the kink world is afloat with Doms and submissive women. My experience is that there are a larger number "submissive men" and a very small number of Dommes (comparatively).
Given that Generation Porn is on TV my take us that of the small number of Dommes a significant percentage are Pro-Dommes" who are skilled and expect to be paid and sex is normally not on the table. There are Fin-Dommes who expect to be paid or receive gifts. I have not met any to speak to but I believe again no sex and they may or may not be skilled in humiliation.
There are Dommes who dominate on the basis of a relationship and genuine connection.
However the male submissives tend to fall into those with lists of how they wish to be treated normally sexually serviced (under the guise of submission) which is really topping from the bottom. However, there are those submissives that understand they are there at their Domme's disposal.
The above is just my view from kicking around the London scene the last 6 years and I accept that I could be completely wrong.
I would say FL is not a magic bullet for meeting anyone kinky. I have met some lovely women who are subs and bottoms here on Fab.
However, with the pandemic most on the scene are not meeting new people.
But even before covid the biggest moan on the scene, no matter what role whether Dom, Domme, or sub, is finding and meeting the right person.
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I’d say that’s a fair cover of the situation to be honest |
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