Been pondering while I tell myself I never want a full blown relationship ever again! And I honestly never will have again but at back of mind I think as humans it's what we all crave for? I'm happy with my life and really wouldn't want to have to make allowances for a partner, suppose have become selfish over years! But it's like a peice of the puzzle is missing? Think I'm maudling as its 10 years today since my last partner died,I'm sure tomoz I will b back to normal whatever that is lol x |
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I know how you feel OP.
I can quite honestly say that I will probably never a conventional relationship again.
But I am lonely at times and miss some things about a relationship.
But the cons of a relationship outweigh the pros for me.
Some regular sex and intamacy would be nice though! |
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I understand what you're saying OP. My partner died 7 years ago. But i remember the cooking,cleaning,washing and watching the crap on the telly lol.
I think we're allowed to be selfish within our own 4 walls xxxx |
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"I know how you feel OP.
I can quite honestly say that I will probably never a conventional relationship again.
But I am lonely at times and miss some things about a relationship.
But the cons of a relationship outweigh the pros for me.
Some regular sex and intamacy would be nice though!"
Yes for sure! Watching soppy films dont help either ha ha x |
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Yes for sure! Watching soppy films dont help either ha ha x"
If I could have the soppy film, Hallmark Cards version of a relationship I'd be in 
The reality sadly isn't the same.
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"This is why I have a weekend relationship, I'm happy as my life is and don't want to have the constraints of a full time relationship "
Now a weekend relationship I could possibly get on board with, that sounds ideal! |
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"Been pondering while I tell myself I never want a full blown relationship ever again! And I honestly never will have again but at back of mind I think as humans it's what we all crave for? I'm happy with my life and really wouldn't want to have to make allowances for a partner, suppose have become selfish over years! But it's like a peice of the puzzle is missing? Think I'm maudling as its 10 years today since my last partner died,I'm sure tomoz I will b back to normal whatever that is lol x"
I can't lie here...met THE most amazing lady...amazing in everyway possible but my inner demons just swamped me .. totally unfair on her.. |
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"Been pondering while I tell myself I never want a full blown relationship ever again! And I honestly never will have again but at back of mind I think as humans it's what we all crave for? I'm happy with my life and really wouldn't want to have to make allowances for a partner, suppose have become selfish over years! But it's like a peice of the puzzle is missing? Think I'm maudling as its 10 years today since my last partner died,I'm sure tomoz I will b back to normal whatever that is lol x"
I hear you. I feel like this sometimes after always being adamant I don't want another relationship. Deep down, I know I don't want a full blown, conventional relationship but I miss certain things. And then someone does or says something that makes me realise why I'm happy being single and the feeling passes |
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I think we're allowed to be selfish within our own 4 walls xxxx"
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I don't think every human craves a full on relationship - it's more what society says we should be doing or wanting. Not all humans are sociable (and I think we are more a social species than sociable). I'm quite happy in my own company and people can irritate the hell out of me after awhile. I wouldn't mind something but not a 'traditional' relationship. |
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"I don't think every human craves a full on relationship - it's more what society says we should be doing or wanting. Not all humans are sociable (and I think we are more a social species than sociable). I'm quite happy in my own company and people can irritate the hell out of me after awhile. I wouldn't mind something but not a 'traditional' relationship."
Yes I love my own company for sure! But it is an inner thing for most people to want I'm deffo not one to comply to what society thinks is the norm x |
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