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Fab is like job hunting -_- smh
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Need varifications to get a meet..
Need to get meets for varifications..
(Yes im aware of lockdown restrictions, dont need any of that babble about meets during a pandemic.. fab has always been like this before and after corona)
In this day and age youd think it was easier to connect with ppl online.. nvm hooking up. Nope.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's verifications.
You know you can get a cam veri, right?
And socially distanced meets are still allowed."
Yeah nobody cams... at least nobody ive connected with.. besides its actually getting a convo going in the first place thats the problem.. too many ppl shut the door before a convo is even started based on 'no varifications'  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I repeat. It's verifications.
Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not."
Yeeeaaah thats my point... its paradoxical |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"cam veris will not get you meets from most people they prove nothing apart from you went on cam..."
They will give him the green tick.. which lot of people are after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I repeat. It's verifications.
Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not."
Plus as many threads on here have said before, single men make up a huge part of the population on here so it's hard for a man to get passed the first message, and it's been said before women and couples get loads of messages off guys so unfortunately it's just hard work, I personally dont take anything seriously on here,I just enjoy the forums and the cam chat and if I make a friend or two along the way bonus plus again covid is messing everything up at the momment, I wish you all the luck in the world mate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I repeat. It's verifications.
Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not.
Yeeeaaah thats my point... its paradoxical"
It's paradoxical at Leeds Pandora. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Op you’re bi sexual......
You should have no problems on here because the world is your oyster........"
Yeah well i only meet guys if im in that kinda mood and its rare, and im very picky with who i meet. When it comes to women, on fab at least anyway, its like job hunting.. but i at least talk to ppl first before i make judgements |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I repeat. It's verifications.
Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not.
Plus as many threads on here have said before, single men make up a huge part of the population on here so it's hard for a man to get passed the first message, and it's been said before women and couples get loads of messages off guys so unfortunately it's just hard work, I personally dont take anything seriously on here,I just enjoy the forums and the cam chat and if I make a friend or two along the way bonus plus again covid is messing everything up at the momment, I wish you all the luck in the world mate"
Sadly thats very true.. i dont blame women for having defences as ive been on the receiving end of douche men too and my inbox being rammed, pun intended.. though sometimes those who are genuine and make somewhat of an effort get overlooked.. and enjoyable experiences missed out on.. thx anyway |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, you say fab has been like this before corona.. you've been on fab before then?"
A few times on and off over the years.. though i just straight up delete my account rather than hide it and sometimes havent used it for a couple years.. though in hindsight i realise i shoulda just hid it and kept my previous varifications |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP, you say fab has been like this before corona.. you've been on fab before then?
A few times on and off over the years.. though i just straight up delete my account rather than hide it and sometimes havent used it for a couple years.. though in hindsight i realise i shoulda just hid it and kept my previous varifications "
Yeah you should have kept your vErifications  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I repeat. It's verifications.
Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not.
Yeeeaaah thats my point... its paradoxical
It's paradoxical at Leeds Pandora. "
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By *escplCouple
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Sadly thats very true.. i dont blame women for having defences as ive been on the receiving end of douche men too and my inbox being rammed, pun intended.. though sometimes those who are genuine and make somewhat of an effort get overlooked.. and enjoyable experiences missed out on.. thx anyway"
Dan here. I think as single male it is very difficult, not only here but in general on online dating sites. Very hard to stick out from the crowd.
I’m not a pushy alpha male type, I’m shy and do not approach women, but whenever I go to night clubs I can find someone. Online as single male, never. |
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I have some comments on your profile which may help you get those varifications OP. I don't want to wind up on the naughty step though so if you want the pointers you'll have to specifically ask for it in here  |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"OP, you say fab has been like this before corona.. you've been on fab before then?
A few times on and off over the years.. though i just straight up delete my account rather than hide it and sometimes havent used it for a couple years.. though in hindsight i realise i shoulda just hid it and kept my previous varifications
Yeah you should have kept your vErifications "
Pmsl he's not getting it is he flower! Perhaps hes added the wrong spelling to his phones dictionary!
OP will you spell it right before this poor lady has an aneurysm!
vErification, not vAryfication! |
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And to liken it even more to job hunting seeing as you used that in the first place.
250 people apply for a job.
249 email their C.V.
1 makes the effort to hand it in personally.
That 1 usually gets the job for the fact they got off their arse and made that extra effort.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair if it was like jump hunting, your lack of bio may put people off? People read that more often than not and putting effort into that and getting your personality goes a long way i’ve found  |
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