"Asking does others enjoy the TPE a D/s relationship holds or is it to old in tbis day and age? "
Personally, I'm not keen on TPE...but that is probably because I have a little too much brat in me  
Maybe with the right person I'd explore it more, but I've yet to find someone I'd trust enough for TPE  |
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"Totally agree it takes two consenting beings to live this life style, we are often frowned upon on this site, just reaching out if others are feeling this on here. "
Why would anyone frown upon it ? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
TPE is misunderstood and frankly hard to maintain long term, so if you can then good on you.
Having done the whole Master/slave thing before, we are happier now sticking to a combination of D/s or CG/l depending upon who we are meeting. |
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By *ecurekink OP Couple
over a year ago
Ballycarry |
"TPE is misunderstood and frankly hard to maintain long term, so if you can then good on you.
Having done the whole Master/slave thing before, we are happier now sticking to a combination of D/s or CG/l depending upon who we are meeting."
It does take a lot of understanding and time and that's what makes it worthwhile once connected and i personally speaking there is a Dom/Domme and sub in each of us....... Just saying |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
Sutton |
Over the last few years more and more people on the forum have identified themselves as being into bdsm. A significant self describing as being in or looking for one of the various kinds of D/S relationships.
Provided there is some form of power exchange it is D/S and does not need to be TPE. Even Gorean relationships are not 24/7 even though they are badged that way.
In my view kink has to work for both parties and the parties do not need to adhere to someone else's view of a D/S relationship. It is not competition to be domlyier or subbier than others. The relationship should be an expression of who the parties are and should be on the whole satisfying.
That does mean that Grand Master Tal UberDomlyDom and Subbiest SubslutSlave are wrong, but what works for them is not the hallmark of D/S.
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By *ecurekink OP Couple
over a year ago
Ballycarry |
Well that's an opinion of yours and i think that's why BDSM can be confussing. Unless expressed both parties know their role, and vanilla doesn't cut with eveyone.
As long as each other express there traits and desires it is sooo up lifting to find others that live the role they desire.
There is no lable, no right or wrong just great chemistry that longs to be prusued, just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soooo during lockdown at the end of March, had time to build a fuck up room for us built around my partner. Anyone else have a secret room that enhances playtime? "
Yes! I have converted my 2nd bedroom into a dungeon playroom!
Complete with new ceiling anchor points for a sex swing which is arriving next Wednesday! So excited.  |
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