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over a year ago
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"Is it just me or is it no matter how much effort and kindness u put into messaging woman they just randomly stop replying. Just seem very rude! "
If you don't interest them, what are you expecting them to do? |
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over a year ago
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"Is it just me or is it no matter how much effort and kindness u put into messaging woman they just randomly stop replying. Just seem very rude! "
Tbh womens inboxes get absolutely hounded so messages do certainly get lost in the mix.
I personally dont have the time to scroll through 300+ messages.... but normally if ive chatted to someone and they end up lost if they then message after that i know theyre more genuine and not particularly part of the 'any holes a goal' crew  |
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"Is it just me or is it no matter how much effort and kindness u put into messaging woman they just randomly stop replying. Just seem very rude! "
Would probably say what I always do and that is "don't take fab to heart or too seriously" otherwise, best case scenario you'll hate yourself, worst case you'll end up resenting all women (already been a few forum posts from guys who seem to fit the latter).
I think of it as if I were in a club, meet a woman at the bar and have a nice conversation, flirt a bit etc but then she goes off, toilet or friend etc, and I don't see her until later on when she's dancing with another guy... Disappointing? Sure. Something to stew on and get upset about? Absolutely not, man!
Fab is tough, but if you're patient and keep a considerate head on your shoulders - especially in the face of inconsideration - you'll see it's worth it.
Stay classy, mate. That's all you need to do  |
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Is it just me, but when I put minimum effort into my profile, with a fuck it this will mentality, I don’t seem to be getting the maximum gains I feel I’m entitled to, quite baffling. |
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"Is it just me or is it no matter how much effort and kindness u put into messaging woman they just randomly stop replying. Just seem very rude! "
Maybe you bore them who knows it would be far ruder to say why they really stopped talking maybe. |
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over a year ago
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I have far to many conversations (of all types) to maintain them all continually. Hopefully people that know me know they can just check in sporadically after quiet periods. |
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