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over a year ago
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now  "
We all deal with depression now and again. I suffer from it, so does hubby. Always hear if you ever want to bend an ear |
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now
We all deal with depression now and again. I suffer from it, so does hubby. Always hear if you ever want to bend an ear "
Thank you x |
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now "
It’s an awful time right now. I hope you find a friend, if you struggle my inbox is always open. And being from Yorkshire were the best! Xxx |
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"I think many people are in the same boat currently ... these times are hard
What's bothering you?
Too long to
Post on here x"
As others have said ... inbox is open ... as was said in older adverts ... it's good to talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aww OP sending you a virtual hug, I hope the sadness lifts soon for you.
The forum is full of awesome people to chat with and this thread will give you some great contacts to help you out when you need it.
Always happy to natter if you need someone 
Her x |
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"Aww OP sending you a virtual hug, I hope the sadness lifts soon for you.
The forum is full of awesome people to chat with and this thread will give you some great contacts to help you out when you need it.
Thank you so much x
Always happy to natter if you need someone
Her x"
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"Aww OP sending you a virtual hug, I hope the sadness lifts soon for you.
The forum is full of awesome people to chat with and this thread will give you some great contacts to help you out when you need it.
Thank you xx
Always happy to natter if you need someone
Her x"
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now
It’s an awful time right now. I hope you find a friend, if you struggle my inbox is always open. And being from Yorkshire were the best! Xxx"
Thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm feeling low but not talking tonight off to bed need a good sleep.... Fingers crossed... "
I really hope you get some rest.
If you ever want a chat my inbox is open to you. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK there seems to be a fair few people that are struggling on this thread right now.
Please reach out to someone whether it be on here or a friend.
The Samaritans or if you feel you need urgent help the 111. Xx |
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I am always happy to listen. I'm an admin in a mental health page and have a lot of resources at hand. Even if uts just to vent i will always listen. That goes for anyone who needs it. Stay safe Guys and Gals |
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These times are extremely hard..OP.. whatever it is your going through or anyone in this thread Im always a message away..
Like the tattoos i have on my arms
“Tough Times Dont last, But tough people do”
Sending massive bear hugs..Big G 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am always happy to listen. I'm an admin in a mental health page and have a lot of resources at hand. Even if uts just to vent i will always listen. That goes for anyone who needs it. Stay safe Guys and Gals"
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My mood is very up and down these days, a general sense of feeling isolated and a bit disconnected, its daunting when it suddenly happens.. I'm with you. Just know that hurtful and lonely feelings are occasionally unavoidable and try to think of ways you can make yourself feel better - they will usually pass 
Happy to talk also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My mood is very up and down these days, a general sense of feeling isolated and a bit disconnected, its daunting when it suddenly happens.. I'm with you. Just know that hurtful and lonely feelings are occasionally unavoidable and try to think of ways you can make yourself feel better - they will usually pass
Happy to talk also "
You know where I am lovely if you ever want a chat x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now "
Always happy to chat on or off here. Im on my own since know how difficult it can be xxx |
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"These times are extremely hard..OP.. whatever it is your going through or anyone in this thread Im always a message away..
Like the tattoos i have on my arms
“Tough Times Dont last, But tough people do”
Thank u made me cry x
Sending massive bear hugs..Big G
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"My mood is very up and down these days, a general sense of feeling isolated and a bit disconnected, its daunting when it suddenly happens.. I'm with you. Just know that hurtful and lonely feelings are occasionally unavoidable and try to think of ways you can make yourself feel better - they will usually pass
Thank you xx
Happy to talk also "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like the corn said to the potato....
I’m all ears
Is this from the other thread about silly jokes heheh 
I just tell bad jokes all the time  "
A sympathy laugh is still a laugh ay, doing ur bit xxx |
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"My mood is very up and down these days, a general sense of feeling isolated and a bit disconnected, its daunting when it suddenly happens.. I'm with you. Just know that hurtful and lonely feelings are occasionally unavoidable and try to think of ways you can make yourself feel better - they will usually pass
Happy to talk also "
Thank u so much x |
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"These times are extremely hard..OP.. whatever it is your going through or anyone in this thread Im always a message away..
Like the tattoos i have on my arms
“Tough Times Dont last, But tough people do”
Thank you x
Sending massive bear hugs..Big G
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now "
So sorry to hear this if I can help I will.
So many people are struggling right now. Please take care of yourself |
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now "
Sorry you're low. I know most of us get those days, and you know it will pass, but that's no comfort to you when you're in the middle of it.
Happy to chat, listen or have a giggle. Xx |
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It can't be a nice time for so many at the moment, and for all sorts of reasons. I've no doubt we could all use a friendly chat every now and then, and it's not all about swinging, hooking up or filth. Sometimes a message or two can really brighten someone's day. |
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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now "
As someone who suffers with depression and is slowly clawing my way out of an 18 month deep ditch I would highly recommend you call your local NHS crisis line if you are feeling so low. You will be able to talk and even get help from highly qualified staff. Much love and take care x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make, female...anyone. Drop me a message if needing a chat. Life is. Or easy just now.
I know I could be doing with a good chat no and then to get things off my chest and feel better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sending you big hugs OP I'm up and down at the moment aswell, my mood changes like the wind. Talking can definitely help and there's a lot of really wonderful people on here. My inbox is also open xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First forum I’ve seen that I felt I wanted to contribute. To everyone on here, well done and thank you. We’re all here for the same reasons (I think) and the fact we can support each other is huge. Gives me new hope x
As others have said, happy to receive any messages from people needing a chat / support or otherwise. Important message is to talk.
Well done team x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just going to echo some of the nice posts on here and say that my inbox is open to anybody who is struggling and genuinely just wants somebody random to talk to about anything.
I’m a good listener and I’ve had times in my life when I’ve been really low so I know how it feels and I also know that things can get better even when it doesn’t seem possible. x
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Hope you're OK OP. My inbox is open for anyone who fancies a new face to msg.
1 thing that helped me was people ask are you ok? And general response is im ok etc...
But someone asked me if I was ok by asking "hows the weather today?" And my answer would be its dull, rainy, sunny etc as it helped me talk about my emotion rather than a generic answer. Give it a go x |
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I often need to talk as well, so if someone needs a sounding board then feel free to inbox me
After all, someone else's problems are always easier to solve than your own, and a different perspective often helps too |
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"Sending you big hugs OP I'm up and down at the moment aswell, my mood changes like the wind. Talking can definitely help and there's a lot of really wonderful people on here. My inbox is also open xx"
Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also happy to lend an ear if anybody wants to talk. Have suffered from depression and anxiety quite badly for the last three years now.
There are good days though and ghe bads ones pass. Just easy to forget that at your lowest.
Take care everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spend a lot of time on my own so I know how you feel OP some days I'm desperate to chat with someone "
Please make sure you reach out. Xx
Also the forums can be a good form of interaction and fun. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If people don't want to talk to us then please, please, please contact your doctor.
They will help.
We can be friends, but they are the professionals. "
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Mate, I feel for you, Liverpool has got it rough right now. And I know how helpful exercise can be in combating mental health. All I can say is, one day this will be over and there will be so many things that we took for granted that we will truly appreciate. Stay safe. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on nightshift so if anybody needs a chat or anything or just an ear to bend I'm around.
I was feeling pretty lousy myself a few weeks back and people from the forum some i'd never spoke to before offered to listen and it helped me a lot so thankyou to those that did. Things will get better and the forums here are a great place for advice and help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now "
I'm outside your range to pm you , you've a load of great people in this joint that care about you as you can see from all the replies so don't ever be stuck for someone to chat to and if you're ever feeling a bit low always remember one of ..if not.. the .. greatest pick you up things of all is only a touch away ..your favourite music ..best wishes to you always. |
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now
I'm outside your range to pm you , you've a load of great people in this joint that care about you as you can see from all the replies so don't ever be stuck for someone to chat to and if you're ever feeling a bit low always remember one of ..if not.. the .. greatest pick you up things of all is only a touch away ..your favourite music ..best wishes to you always."
Thank you |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I’m feeling so low n down n would love someone to chat to right now
I'm outside your range to pm you , you've a load of great people in this joint that care about you as you can see from all the replies so don't ever be stuck for someone to chat to and if you're ever feeling a bit low always remember one of ..if not.. the .. greatest pick you up things of all is only a touch away ..your favourite music ..best wishes to you always.
Thank you "
You can PM me if you'd still like to talk.  |
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By *bt96Man
over a year ago
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"Just want to say thank you so much for all the lovely messages and comments on my post really has made me feel a bit better your all amazing x"
Glad you've cheered up abit your never alone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My inbox is always open. Would be nice to talk to people too. I just feel drained. Ive worked through out and most of my friendship circles are cut off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Again I thank you all for your kind words n messages , my GP has rung me this aft and got me in to see him in the morning as he’s concerned about me so that’s a step forward x"
Happy to chat anytime... chin up beaut xx |
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"Again I thank you all for your kind words n messages , my GP has rung me this aft and got me in to see him in the morning as he’s concerned about me so that’s a step forward x"
Oh that's brilliant. Take care x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Again I thank you all for your kind words n messages , my GP has rung me this aft and got me in to see him in the morning as he’s concerned about me so that’s a step forward x"
Only just seen this thread, so glad you were able to access some support OP xx
Also happy to listen if anybody needs it x |
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"Again I thank you all for your kind words n messages , my GP has rung me this aft and got me in to see him in the morning as he’s concerned about me so that’s a step forward x"
That's good to hear and don't forget if you need someone I'll be here xx |
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"Again I thank you all for your kind words n messages , my GP has rung me this aft and got me in to see him in the morning as he’s concerned about me so that’s a step forward x"
Thank you for the update. I hope you can find a resolution.
I am sure I am not alone in saying the offer still stands if you ever need it in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Me too, people say talk to someone but it's hard when you don't know who you can trust. But I hope your GP can help you in some way, OP, and you are feeling a bit better soon x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Again I thank you all for your kind words n messages , my GP has rung me this aft and got me in to see him in the morning as he’s concerned about me so that’s a step forward x"
This is excellent news. Well done you. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling low but not talking tonight off to bed need a good sleep.... Fingers crossed...
I really hope you get some rest.
If you ever want a chat my inbox is open to you. Xx"
Thank you xx |
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"Again I thank you all for your kind words n messages , my GP has rung me this aft and got me in to see him in the morning as he’s concerned about me so that’s a step forward x"
Very pleased to hear this, I wish nothing but the best for you x |
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Had a bit of a down day today the tablets have kicked in I think as I’ve felt flat no emotion or anything g but about an hour ago I felt anxiety at an all time high n felt low n upset ... just wish this would go away now uurrhh .. hope everyone else is doing ok. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Had a bit of a down day today the tablets have kicked in I think as I’ve felt flat no emotion or anything g but about an hour ago I felt anxiety at an all time high n felt low n upset ... just wish this would go away now uurrhh .. hope everyone else is doing ok. "
PM me if you'd like to chat. (No ulterior motives). |
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"Had a bit of a down day today the tablets have kicked in I think as I’ve felt flat no emotion or anything g but about an hour ago I felt anxiety at an all time high n felt low n upset ... just wish this would go away now uurrhh .. hope everyone else is doing ok.
PM me if you'd like to chat. (No ulterior motives). "
Thanks x |
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"Had a bit of a down day today the tablets have kicked in I think as I’ve felt flat no emotion or anything g but about an hour ago I felt anxiety at an all time high n felt low n upset ... just wish this would go away now uurrhh .. hope everyone else is doing ok. "
Really really hope you're coping better. I'm sorry I can't pm you as I'm too old. xx |
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"Had a bit of a down day today the tablets have kicked in I think as I’ve felt flat no emotion or anything g but about an hour ago I felt anxiety at an all time high n felt low n upset ... just wish this would go away now uurrhh .. hope everyone else is doing ok. "
Woah i am totally flat this week too.. Struggling to muster enthusiasm to even interact with my team /colleagues 
A few people I've talked to have said they feel similar this week.. Perhaps it is the shortening days?
Hope you feel brighter soon OP xx |
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"Had a bit of a down day today the tablets have kicked in I think as I’ve felt flat no emotion or anything g but about an hour ago I felt anxiety at an all time high n felt low n upset ... just wish this would go away now uurrhh .. hope everyone else is doing ok. "
As, sorry you're still going through it. But the tablets will take a little time to work fully.
Chat to friend, us, anyone until the anxiety lessens, as that can be scary. Take care of yourself xx |
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"Had a bit of a down day today the tablets have kicked in I think as I’ve felt flat no emotion or anything g but about an hour ago I felt anxiety at an all time high n felt low n upset ... just wish this would go away now uurrhh .. hope everyone else is doing ok.
Woah i am totally flat this week too.. Struggling to muster enthusiasm to even interact with my team /colleagues
A few people I've talked to have said they feel similar this week.. Perhaps it is the shortening days?
Hope you feel brighter soon OP xx"
I think it could be the shorter days - everything feels so much worse in the dark. Hope it soon passed and you're bad to your normal self xx |
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