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Men can you be hard and not want sex??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So yapping with a friend on here and i confessed that i could be cuddled up with someone and whilst chilling (as I'm a tactile person) i'd often find myself playing and touching his cock
It would simply be something to do, i like making a cock hard, but doesn't mean i want sex. He seamed to enjoy it but equally it didn't always lead to sex.
So guys, Can you have an erection and not be horny?
Ladies, are you tactile and would just enjoy playing with a soft cock whilst being chilled? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. We get erections for all sorts of reasons, and sometimes no reason at all. Sometimes we're just happy. Sometimes we're too cold. Sometimes we really need to wee. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yeah, my partner gets hard when we're snuggling. It's not because my irresistible pheromones are driving him crazy with lust, it's more he's getting pleasure from relaxing with me but not in a want to fuck me way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep, it’s called sitting on the wrong part of the bus, especially if the seats over a wheel! Or waking up in the morning. It can happen for no reason at all and then you’re just wondering how the hell you’re gonna hide the stuffy till it’s gone (bloody awkward trying to walk with one when dressed)! |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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If the erection occurs whilst lying next to an attractive woman, it's impossible to not want sex if the possibility is there.
I mean, why let a good erection go to waste?  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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And yeah, sometimes I wish I could just have a cock to stroke and play with it. I like it when they're soft and squishy and that intimacy of playing with him when he's all well... exposed and just is. I'm all for being tactile.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"And yeah, sometimes I wish I could just have a cock to stroke and play with it. I like it when they're soft and squishy and that intimacy of playing with him when he's all well... exposed and just is. I'm all for being tactile. "
Love the term squishy.. i was going to use it but for some reason changed my mind. But its like a personal 'stress ball'.. just soft, squishy.. ah its so lush just to touch, rub, grope..
just a shame it doesnt stay squishy for long |
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Sadly no. If I’ve got the erection then I’m so horny . I can however be horny and not get an erection. I have in the past enjoyed. Asked chill time snuggling kissing and soft touching without it leading to sex . |
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I'm very tactile but have never played with a soft cock before, the feather light tracing of fingers on his body has always had an erection reaction, I suppose its because its only a weekend playtime opportunity,so sex is foremost in our brains |
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I wouldn't necessarily want sex every time
Even if I was hard, it's sometimes nice just having it held, or played with gently.
The feeling of it being someone else's hand is pleasurable enough on its own, especially if she's got cool hands  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I be played with and know it won't necessarily lead to sex? Yes.
Will I be horny if a woman is playing with my cock? Also yes.
But then there's definitely times when you might get a boner but not be horny. Spontaneously on the bus or morning glory perhaps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We snuggle every night and he always gets rock hard. He can have a hard on and not want sex. We always laugh when he makes it "twitch" between my bum cheeks. He says it's involuntary..... I love touching it and him.. We can't fall asleep unless there's some skin on skin contact, even if it's just touching feet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And yeah, sometimes I wish I could just have a cock to stroke and play with it. I like it when they're soft and squishy and that intimacy of playing with him when he's all well... exposed and just is. I'm all for being tactile.
Love the term squishy.. i was going to use it but for some reason changed my mind. But its like a personal 'stress ball'.. just soft, squishy.. ah its so lush just to touch, rub, grope..
just a shame it doesnt stay squishy for long "
K does exactly this too I just like having her that close and happy, and it's fun watching her play with my cock just to see what it does  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Often when I have a gentleman over and we’re watching television I’ll lay my head in his lap and just gently chew on his penis, not with my incisors, just my molars.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So yapping with a friend on here and i confessed that i could be cuddled up with someone and whilst chilling (as I'm a tactile person) i'd often find myself playing and touching his cock
It would simply be something to do, i like making a cock hard, but doesn't mean i want sex. He seamed to enjoy it but equally it didn't always lead to sex.
So guys, Can you have an erection and not be horny?
Ladies, are you tactile and would just enjoy playing with a soft cock whilst being chilled? "
It’s natural to think of sex whilst having an erection I can recall gaining an erection for no reason at all when I was younger but I always then thought about sex and feeling horny generally sometimes going for a masturbation to relieve “tension” if it was particularly strong It’s still a fantasy of mine to watch an erection grow whilst “her” wondering hands lips and tongue do their magic  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah man now i'm all frustrated with myself that i don't have a flacid cock to play with.. 
Neither do I  "
hugs lovely xx
Just perve over his pictures like the rest of us do... at least you've the ring on your finger and get him on tap (when he is finally in the country) x x
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"And yeah, sometimes I wish I could just have a cock to stroke and play with it. I like it when they're soft and squishy and that intimacy of playing with him when he's all well... exposed and just is. I'm all for being tactile.
Love the term squishy.. i was going to use it but for some reason changed my mind. But its like a personal 'stress ball'.. just soft, squishy.. ah its so lush just to touch, rub, grope..
just a shame it doesnt stay squishy for long "
Hit it on the head with a wooden spoon, it’ll soon go soft again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe it’s just me but I’d be ever so slightly P’d off if I was just sat there watching telly! Getting played with to a full blown rock on only to tuck it back in my pants  what a waste  "
But like what if you were there for the night and you need the sex was coming but just later on?
I like watching men have hard ons! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah man now i'm all frustrated with myself that i don't have a flacid cock to play with..
Neither do I
hugs lovely xx
Just perve over his pictures like the rest of us do... at least you've the ring on your finger and get him on tap (when he is finally in the country) x x
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I don't actually have the ring yet as Lorenzo's proposal happened when he was already away. He was planning to do a normal proposal once he's back, but at this rate the ring will arrive before him 
Also I don't always have him on tap...you would be surprised how much he needs to sleep  |
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"Maybe it’s just me but I’d be ever so slightly P’d off if I was just sat there watching telly! Getting played with to a full blown rock on only to tuck it back in my pants what a waste
But like what if you were there for the night and you need the sex was coming but just later on?
I like watching men have hard ons!"
Your in the right place for men with hard ons hah!
What’s wrong with having sex more then ounce ????? Doesn’t even have to lead to sex but I’d prefer to be finished off then sat in a tent on the sofa hahha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe it’s just me but I’d be ever so slightly P’d off if I was just sat there watching telly! Getting played with to a full blown rock on only to tuck it back in my pants what a waste
But like what if you were there for the night and you need the sex was coming but just later on?
I like watching men have hard ons!
Your in the right place for men with hard ons hah!
What’s wrong with having sex more then ounce ????? Doesn’t even have to lead to sex but I’d prefer to be finished off then sat in a tent on the sofa hahha "
I wouldn’t leave a guy hanging if it was me that touched his penis directly and caused the hard on.
But like if it wasn’t my fault then it’s not my responsibility, example being my window cleaner guy who I had ‘dealings’ with, I hugged him and felt his hard on pressing against me, now that ain’t my responsibility! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ah man now i'm all frustrated with myself that i don't have a flacid cock to play with..
Neither do I
hugs lovely xx
Just perve over his pictures like the rest of us do... at least you've the ring on your finger and get him on tap (when he is finally in the country) x x
I don't actually have the ring yet as Lorenzo's proposal happened when he was already away. He was planning to do a normal proposal once he's back, but at this rate the ring will arrive before him
Also I don't always have him on tap...you would be surprised how much he needs to sleep "
Mr LVM if you havent purchased a ring yet my friend, give me a inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mr LVM if you havent purchased a ring yet my friend, give me a inbox. "
It is already on the way, that's why I said it might arrive before him. Thank you though |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"Ah man now i'm all frustrated with myself that i don't have a flacid cock to play with..
Neither do I
hugs lovely xx
Just perve over his pictures like the rest of us do... at least you've the ring on your finger and get him on tap (when he is finally in the country) x x
I don't actually have the ring yet as Lorenzo's proposal happened when he was already away. He was planning to do a normal proposal once he's back, but at this rate the ring will arrive before him
Also I don't always have him on tap...you would be surprised how much he needs to sleep "
Poor guy doesn't have the same stamina as you! Hope you are qorking on that LVM while you are apart  |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"And yeah, sometimes I wish I could just have a cock to stroke and play with it. I like it when they're soft and squishy and that intimacy of playing with him when he's all well... exposed and just is. I'm all for being tactile.
Love the term squishy.. i was going to use it but for some reason changed my mind. But its like a personal 'stress ball'.. just soft, squishy.. ah its so lush just to touch, rub, grope..
just a shame it doesnt stay squishy for long "
I'm squishy and stay that way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I can have an erection and not be horny, for instance morning glory when I wake up in the morning boom there it is..but it doesn’t mean I need sex it’s just that the chap is up and saying good morning to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mr LVM if you havent purchased a ring yet my friend, give me a inbox.
It is already on the way, that's why I said it might arrive before him. Thank you though "
Ah sorry i thought it was just a joke its ok, when you want your wedding rings, give me a shout, happy to help and save you money |
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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
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My FwB is always playing with my cock as we sit watching Tv and I love it doesn't mean we are going to have sex. She enjoys playing I enjoy the hard on and cock n balls being stroked. Everyone is happy all round |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah, my partner gets hard when we're snuggling. It's not because my irresistible pheromones are driving him crazy with lust, it's more he's getting pleasure from relaxing with me but not in a want to fuck me way."
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So yapping with a friend on here and i confessed that i could be cuddled up with someone and whilst chilling (as I'm a tactile person) i'd often find myself playing and touching his cock
It would simply be something to do, i like making a cock hard, but doesn't mean i want sex. He seamed to enjoy it but equally it didn't always lead to sex.
So guys, Can you have an erection and not be horny?
Ladies, are you tactile and would just enjoy playing with a soft cock whilst being chilled? "
Happens every morning when I wake up... after a visit to the loo is subsides, so not always a sexual thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmm, I guess that's a possibility especially like sometimes for me, I'll cum and then 1 min or 2 I'm hard again because something or someone aroused me lol. |
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I do it all the time to Mr, cocks are just so tactile and it doesn’t take much to get him hard, a slight breeze will do it
Non-sexual boners are great, especially the spooning one where it’s just nestled between you bum cheeks without trying to nudge it’s way inside |
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"And yeah, sometimes I wish I could just have a cock to stroke and play with it. I like it when they're soft and squishy and that intimacy of playing with him when he's all well... exposed and just is. I'm all for being tactile.
Love the term squishy.. i was going to use it but for some reason changed my mind. But its like a personal 'stress ball'.. just soft, squishy.. ah its so lush just to touch, rub, grope..
just a shame it doesnt stay squishy for long
K does exactly this too I just like having her that close and happy, and it's fun watching her play with my cock just to see what it does "
We do the same quite often. I "stress ball" with S's cock too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And yeah, sometimes I wish I could just have a cock to stroke and play with it. I like it when they're soft and squishy and that intimacy of playing with him when he's all well... exposed and just is. I'm all for being tactile.
Love the term squishy.. i was going to use it but for some reason changed my mind. But its like a personal 'stress ball'.. just soft, squishy.. ah its so lush just to touch, rub, grope..
just a shame it doesnt stay squishy for long "
They remind of the water snake toys. |
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