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Would Fab benefit from a bumble style approach to messaging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You know, to help streamline communications, match compatible folks and cut down on women's inboxes overflowing?

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By *harAndBryCouple over a year ago

nr Stamford

I don't know what "bumble" is but if it's any kind of AI/auto-matching, then no. I know we'd miss out on a lot as Char is always surprising me by saying yes to people who wouldn't normally meet her selection criteria, and then turning down those that I thought might be perfect.

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By *irty desireWoman over a year ago

newcatle

Definitely not you guys would whinge even more for not receiving messages first!

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By *irty desireWoman over a year ago

newcatle

"I don't know what "bumble" is but if it's any kind of AI/auto-matching, then no. I know we'd miss out on a lot as Char is always surprising me by saying yes to people who wouldn't normally meet her selection criteria, and then turning down those that I thought might be perfect."

Its where if you match the woman can only send the 1st message x

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman over a year ago

Club Meets Only

What is bumbles approach?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yes, it's where you have to match first with a person before the woman can instigate the messaging!

The matching is by a tinder style swipe based on pics.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Ahh I guess for some it would be better but then would bugger folk who like to play forum games or get involved in discussions off post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally, I'd say no.

I wouldn't have had chats/meets with some of the guys I have had if it was a Bumble style approach simply because I'd have deemed them out of my league... I also hate sending first messages.

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By *layfulserfMan over a year ago

Northolt

Most of my meets have been with couples who are not seeking single guys.

If i understand the proposal, the same thing could be achieved by blocking single guys

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

If women want that they can have that by using their filters. I do.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

OK what’s bumble?

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"OK what’s bumble?

It's a clumsy bumhole.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

"OK what’s bumble?

It's a clumsy bumhole. "

Mine was very nearly clumsy this morning with ‘that’ little fart I did

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most men still wouldn't get any messages. Women wouldn't get adoring inboxes.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple over a year ago

Worcester

No, if I wanted a bumble style system then I’d be on there and not on here. Despite the odd loon, I enjoy my box being open to whoever wishes to grace it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You know, to help streamline communications, match compatible folks and cut down on women's inboxes overflowing?"

Do I have to write like Hugh Grant in a chick flick?

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

Filters do allow that option - some women don't like to send the first message, and some like the attention despite the "moaning" about overflowing inboxes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no idea what brumble is but it's a splendid word i may use it and often

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