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Why should something be done? Aren't men and women both entitled to decide whether they want to be on her or not?
Maybe you are thinking of a promotional campaign to get more women to join? Away you go... |
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"match has 56% men and 44% women "
Match is a dating site. Fab is a swinging site which a whole lot of guys see as Insta-shag. The problem is largely men's attitudes.
I'm open to ideas though OP  |
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"just searched number of men looking for women -311
just search number of women looking for men -20
something needs to change to make it more female friendly 
what do you reckon?
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And how many of those 'women' are actually men?
Seriously, the best thing would be that all new members have their filters up automatically and in stealth mode, so ladies are not hit with an avalanche of dick pics and FAF messages as soon as they join, which probably doesn't encourage them to stay.
They can still message out to people who aren't filtering. |
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"just searched number of men looking for women -311
just search number of women looking for men -20
something needs to change to make it more female friendly
what do you reckon?
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The term, more pricks then a secondhand dart board comes to mind  |
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"match has 56% men and 44% women
Match is a dating site. Fab is a swinging site which a whole lot of guys see as Insta-shag. The problem is largely men's attitudes.
I'm open to ideas though OP
I agree , should men who act in an aggressive or bullying way be banned ? will that improve the site?"
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Yes they should but there's a whole lot of people on here and not all that many mods as far as I know. Imagine the amount of reports and tickets they get every day and have to work through. Also, what's to stop these people simply rejoining under a new account? The solution is for people to fix their attitudes, not for someone else to have to deal with a bad one. |
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For most women, regardless of how they look, they could on their step and wait till somebody walks past and ask "do you wanna have sex?" They'll get a yes eventually, and probably in most cases immediately.
For men, they're lucky (regardless of looks) if they didn't get arrested doing the same thing.
Very different expectations of what sex is as well, from an evolutionary pov.
So that ratio ain't fucking changing lmao. |
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Shouldn’t really matter how many guys are on here. You could have 1000 men in your inbox and out of those only 5 would be my type. So technically there’s only 5 men in my inbox, the other 995 are just surplus to requirements. |
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"Shouldn’t really matter how many guys are on here. You could have 1000 men in your inbox and out of those only 5 would be my type. So technically there’s only 5 men in my inbox, the other 995 are just surplus to requirements. "
totally correct, more women are needed so that there are more people that match each other  |
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"Why should something be done? Aren't men and women both entitled to decide whether they want to be on her or not?
Maybe you are thinking of a promotional campaign to get more women to join? Away you go... "
actually a lot of women get kicked off and banned from the site as do some men , so its not an open choice |
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Maybe it's me, but I've always associated swinging with being more of a couples thing to do.
Couples playing with other couples or with singles.
Singles looking for singles is not swinging in my opinion. Perhaps the vast majority of single guys are here for the wrong reasons if there only after single women...
Just my opinion, not looking to offend . Jay. |
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"Maybe it's me, but I've always associated swinging with being more of a couples thing to do.
Couples playing with other couples or with singles.
Singles looking for singles is not swinging in my opinion. Perhaps the vast majority of single guys are here for the wrong reasons if there only after single women...
Just my opinion, not looking to offend . Jay. "
There are a few of us who want more! |
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"if you work it out, women could have 15 men each without sharing any, that's why they can be very fussy "
Wouldn't say fussy any more than men would b! U have to fancy some one ? Or dont men have to do that? I know I do x |
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The thing is...if we're talking genuine swingers, the numbers are probably much more even. A lot of (and it is mostly guys, not all) guys sign up thinking it's instashag expecting an easy lay or use it as a hook up site.
If we could filter those out, the ratio would be much more even I think.
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"if you work it out, women could have 15 men each without sharing any, that's why they can be very fussy
Wouldn't say fussy any more than men would b! U have to fancy some one ? Or dont men have to do that? I know I do x"
Haha id say for some people any hole’s a goal ....... |
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"if you work it out, women could have 15 men each without sharing any, that's why they can be very fussy "
That's the solution then. Each woman is automatically assigned 15 men   |
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"The thing is...if we're talking genuine swingers, the numbers are probably much more even. A lot of (and it is mostly guys, not all) guys sign up thinking it's instashag expecting an easy lay or use it as a hook up site.
If we could filter those out, the ratio would be much more even I think.
Lu
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I disagree completely.... I thought they see it as dial a fuck |
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"if you work it out, women could have 15 men each without sharing any, that's why they can be very fussy
Wouldn't say fussy any more than men would b! U have to fancy some one ? Or dont men have to do that? I know I do x
Haha id say for some people any hole’s a goal ....... "
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Men are just like dogs - some are better trained and respond to commands especially if they are backed up with treats, and some go around in packs barking at the moon and shagging anything that they can - legs, cushions, other dogs. What can you do with them eh? |
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"if you work it out, women could have 15 men each without sharing any, that's why they can be very fussy
Wouldn't say fussy any more than men would b! U have to fancy some one ? Or dont men have to do that? I know I do x"
Fancying someone is tricky as I've had mediocre sex with some who physically I've really fancied (thus attraction diminishes) and fantastic sex with some who physically I don't fancy (attraction increases).
Nowadays attraction for me is much more of a mental thing. Tricky because if I've never spoken to someone then there has to be something which attracts me in the first place. |
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I posted similar last week... Something needs to change to spice things up a bit...
“What's going on in this world? Things aren't really moving forward and I know that suites some of us, but actually?
The forums are kept running by the great traditionalist - love you guys BTW.
The Hot list always shows the same hot women - never seen a man hit the top yet!
Couples would like to play but covid says no way!
Single women are messaged in the droves - true gents are deleted with the rest.
Single men, well there are frinkin loads of us.
Winks are ignored.
People are dropping out left right and centre.
What do you want out of this site and what would you change? “ |
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Ahh thing is traditional dating sites are totally skewed in the opposite direction. There is never going to be an equal amount of women interested in swinging than there is men- biology dictates that the way we view sex is totally different. Just a quick look at my local feed this morning has ‘local want to dump and run’ ‘hung looking to suck’ ... this is seriously no way to attract women and won’t interest a lot of women.
Men in the most part write their profiles to appeal to other men - the number of cock shots say it all.
My theory is couples are more likely to respond to cock shots and dump and run than single females. Based on the profiles I’ve looked at and female swinger friends. |
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A lot of women leave due to harassment, abuse, offers of money and general rudeness. Now those are only a few of the problems and the only people who can address that sort of thing is admin its their bag to monitor and action it to reduce it. Until then the unbalance probably will only get worse. |
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"So op you want to even things out? How about last in first out? Let the men who have put the ground work in stay? Topics like this have men slagging men off hows that helping ? "
You're right, us men need to stick together if we are to expel the women  |
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Probably just reflects the real world I’m afraid. There’s no magic site that’s like a porn mag come true. Manage your expectations, be natural, put the effort in, be polite, don’t rush and hang in there. |
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"Maybe it's me, but I've always associated swinging with being more of a couples thing to do.
Couples playing with other couples or with singles.
Singles looking for singles is not swinging in my opinion. Perhaps the vast majority of single guys are here for the wrong reasons if there only after single women...
Just my opinion, not looking to offend . Jay. "
perfect, hit the nail on the head |
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"if you work it out, women could have 15 men each without sharing any, that's why they can be very fussy
Wouldn't say fussy any more than men would b! U have to fancy some one ? Or dont men have to do that? I know I do x"
I don't reckon a lot of men are that bothered about fancying someone as tong as there's a wet hole to stick it in. When I first joined up I got offered sex and told that I look stunning before I added any pictures, so that kind of proves it really. |
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"Maybe it's me, but I've always associated swinging with being more of a couples thing to do.
Couples playing with other couples or with singles.
Singles looking for singles is not swinging in my opinion. Perhaps the vast majority of single guys are here for the wrong reasons if there only after single women...
Just my opinion, not looking to offend . Jay.
perfect, hit the nail on the head "
I used to think swinging was a thing older couples done I was honestly surprised when I found this site |
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"just searched number of men looking for women -311
just search number of women looking for men -20
something needs to change to make it more female friendly
what do you reckon?
And how many of those 'women' are actually men?
Seriously, the best thing would be that all new members have their filters up automatically and in stealth mode, so ladies are not hit with an avalanche of dick pics and FAF messages as soon as they join, which probably doesn't encourage them to stay.
They can still message out to people who aren't filtering. "
great idea |
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"if you work it out, women could have 15 men each without sharing any, that's why they can be very fussy
Wouldn't say fussy any more than men would b! U have to fancy some one ? Or dont men have to do that? I know I do x
I don't reckon a lot of men are that bothered about fancying someone as tong as there's a wet hole to stick it in. When I first joined up I got offered sex and told that I look stunning before I added any pictures, so that kind of proves it really."
sooo funny , |
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"Ahh thing is traditional dating sites are totally skewed in the opposite direction. There is never going to be an equal amount of women interested in swinging than there is men- biology dictates that the way we view sex is totally different. Just a quick look at my local feed this morning has ‘local want to dump and run’ ‘hung looking to suck’ ... this is seriously no way to attract women and won’t interest a lot of women.
Men in the most part write their profiles to appeal to other men - the number of cock shots say it all.
My theory is couples are more likely to respond to cock shots and dump and run than single females. Based on the profiles I’ve looked at and female swinger friends. "
really interesting , what can be done to attract more women? |
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"A lot of women leave due to harassment, abuse, offers of money and general rudeness. Now those are only a few of the problems and the only people who can address that sort of thing is admin its their bag to monitor and action it to reduce it. Until then the unbalance probably will only get worse. "
what about changing the settings on the site so guys cant copy n paste and also if a guy harasses is immediately banned ? a start? |
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"I posted similar last week... Something needs to change to spice things up a bit...
“What's going on in this world? Things aren't really moving forward and I know that suites some of us, but actually?
The forums are kept running by the great traditionalist - love you guys BTW.
The Hot list always shows the same hot women - never seen a man hit the top yet!
Couples would like to play but covid says no way!
Single women are messaged in the droves - true gents are deleted with the rest.
Single men, well there are frinkin loads of us.
Winks are ignored.
People are dropping out left right and centre.
What do you want out of this site and what would you change? “"
Im thinking that some rule changes might help, no copy and paste allowed, this can be down by the site settings, banning a guy who continuously messages the same person, not just a warning - |
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"Maybe it's me, but I've always associated swinging with being more of a couples thing to do.
Couples playing with other couples or with singles.
Singles looking for singles is not swinging in my opinion. Perhaps the vast majority of single guys are here for the wrong reasons if there only after single women...
Just my opinion, not looking to offend . Jay.
There are a few of us who want more! "
I think you speak the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe it's me, but I've always associated swinging with being more of a couples thing to do.
Couples playing with other couples or with singles.
Singles looking for singles is not swinging in my opinion. Perhaps the vast majority of single guys are here for the wrong reasons if there only after single women...
Just my opinion, not looking to offend . Jay.
There are a few of us who want more!
I think you speak the truth"
Ask any vanilla friends about swinging, they will always think of it as married couples wife swapping. Or couples having 3somes lol. Jay |
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