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Why are there so many fakes
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It depends what you mean by messers. You may have found people people who are pretending to be something they are not (which is what I would class as a fake) or you may be talking about people who aren't as into you as you would hope. I can't tell from here. Luke |
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
from the womb and tryout to get back |
Op there all fake nothing to do with the fact your maybe not what there looking for or the fact that most are not meeting due to this virus if its that bad why not just leave and try another site where there all real  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Came on this site to meet and have a bit of fun but seems to be a lot of messers I don’t get it ? "
Just because someone doesn’t want to meet you in the middle of a pandemic or otherwise really doesn’t make them messers or fake!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mate it’s only me and you on this site. Everyone else is just me on alternate accounts. Even the people that messaged in this thread. All me. Sorry to burst the bubble |
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
from the womb and tryout to get back |
"Mate it’s only me and you on this site. Everyone else is just me on alternate accounts. Even the people that messaged in this thread. All me. Sorry to burst the bubble "
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By *ljamMan
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Not really come across many fakes. Once in a blue moon a brand new "couple" profile will message asking for pics, and I'll instantly suspect it's some guy with a paper thin idea of subterfuge. Happens very rarely though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Came on this site to meet and have a bit of fun but seems to be a lot of messers I don’t get it ?
Just because someone doesn’t want to meet you in the middle of a pandemic or otherwise really doesn’t make them messers or fake!!!
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
If someone isn't meeting, doesn't make them fake op
Many people are not meeting during this pandemic (Inc me)
There are fakes yes, sadly its the Internet and people can pretend to be anyone behind a screen. |
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What do you mean by messers?
Those that aren't up for it?
Or is it just that they aren't up for it with you?
Or maybe not up for it with you during unprecedented times where they could be fined for meeting?
Or maybe not up for it during unprecedented times where not only could they get fined but also get dead?
Yes there are blokes who pose as women to get attention, and couples who've split where the guy keeps the couple profile instead of a new single male profile, but other than that, well.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, we would be put off by someone who’s been on here for over a year and has no veri’s even though their profile they say they’ve had meets off the site.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here here Op ,
Any woman that doesn’t want to meet you , is definitely fake and if they are actually real.....
It’s their loss..... I’m sending forum hugs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Amazing the people on here who can’t get a meet and blame everyone else. Pleased to see this thread supporting the no meets during Covid, we aren’t that desperate to meet but we are real people.
Next thing there will be a message ‘thinking of leaving fab’ the door is open |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Came on this site to meet and have a bit of fun but seems to be a lot of messers I don’t get it ? "
We feel the same way about single guys.
Just live with it, we have to. |
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It's practical and reasonable to assume that most people won't find most other people attractive enough or to share similar reciprocal needs mutually. It takes some time for people to get to know others enough to be able to decide if they would share enough satisfaction. They can't just look at a few pics and profile text and be able to decide. If it's more than 1 person to meet you, that involves other people to be sure to be satisfied too. It's not instashag. And it's not messing to take all the time that you need to be able to feel safe and trusting of another. It's the right thing to do.
Fakes, timewasters etc are labels thrown out too readily by people who frequently need to adjust their expectations, as it's often not the others but themselves who are out of step.
Focus on what you can control |
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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago
telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton |
There are full on fakes on here i got asked by a couple (well made out to be a couple) to come round and join them after chatting with them for a few days i knocked the door at 9.30 at night for the people there to say thy didnt live there as soon as i came back on herr to find out what was going on they blocked me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are full on fakes on here i got asked by a couple (well made out to be a couple) to come round and join them after chatting with them for a few days i knocked the door at 9.30 at night for the people there to say thy didnt live there as soon as i came back on herr to find out what was going on they blocked me "
What vetting process did you use before agreeing to meet this couple? |
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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago
telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton |
I had only been on here a couple of days i asked them for a few pics which i was sent a few but no verification pics. I suppose it was all part of a learning curve, i reported them about it and theyve since been removed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"An early phone call or chat clothed on cam is the best option but then the fake singles don't like to do that it seems lol.  "
Very true, they would rather you waste your time and have you meet them in public...
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