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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Im a massive admirer of a women with a curvy looking figure with great thighs and hips, although most women (may I add ‘not all’) that I speak to don’t like to embrace it? I find curvy figures on women so much more attractive. Obviously each to their own and I respect your opinion if you agree or disagree. |
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I think many women struggle to accept their curves + more due to the fact society at large seems to promote an image of women that is the opposite of curves etc, on average. Basically, we spend our formative years seeing celebs being scrutinised in magazines if they gain a pound, supermodels who look immensely slim and adverts galore of incredibly thin women being held up as some sort of objective. Then, as older women, we're told by men that they prefer curves, bigger women, bigger boobs, round bums etc, but it's hard to undo the early exposure to a different sort of "ideal" sold to us.
And before anyone says, I'm sure men have similar issues with what society seems to think men should look like with the reality etc. It's not a gender thing. |
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By *rouble1998Woman
over a year ago
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Personally, i’m very accepting of my figure.
The only thing I dont like is when you turn someone down and the narrative completely changes. When they think you’re interested you’re ‘curvy’ and when decline you’re suddenly ‘fat’ ...does my head in  |
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"I think many women struggle to accept their curves + more due to the fact society at large seems to promote an image of women that is the opposite of curves etc, on average. Basically, we spend our formative years seeing celebs being scrutinised in magazines if they gain a pound, supermodels who look immensely slim and adverts galore of incredibly thin women being held up as some sort of objective. Then, as older women, we're told by men that they prefer curves, bigger women, bigger boobs, round bums etc, but it's hard to undo the early exposure to a different sort of "ideal" sold to us.
And before anyone says, I'm sure men have similar issues with what society seems to think men should look like with the reality etc. It's not a gender thing. "
I think magazines like heat etc are absolutely disgraceful they way they shame women because they have put on like a pound.
The problem is though they are made and read by women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a shame you feel the need to use someone else’s pics though OP. I happen to know the man who’s pics you’re using and he’s in Dublin and he’s called Jay. I’ve reported you, as I know this man for real, and so I know your profile is fake! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s a shame you feel the need to use someone else’s pics though OP. I happen to know the man who’s pics you’re using and he’s in Dublin and he’s called Jay. I’ve reported you, as I know this man for real, and so I know your profile is fake! "
makes you wonder how he got photo verified then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s a shame you feel the need to use someone else’s pics though OP. I happen to know the man who’s pics you’re using and he’s in Dublin and he’s called Jay. I’ve reported you, as I know this man for real, and so I know your profile is fake!
makes you wonder how he got photo verified then "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love my curves, my boobs, waist, hips and shapely legs.
I have a strong broad frame, I suppose amazonian or classic hourglass and I really like it.
Don't get me wrong I admire all ladies with different body shapes to myself and often would like to be more petite or athletic but I am not and I accept that.
Her x |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"Im a massive admirer of a women with a curvy looking figure with great thighs and hips, although most women (may I add ‘not all’) that I speak to don’t like to embrace it? I find curvy figures on women so much more attractive. Obviously each to their own and I respect your opinion if you agree or disagree. "
I love my curves. And I love that men are admirers of them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a shame you feel the need to use someone else’s pics though OP. I happen to know the man who’s pics you’re using and he’s in Dublin and he’s called Jay. I’ve reported you, as I know this man for real, and so I know your profile is fake! "
Brilliant!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a massive admirer of a women with a curvy looking figure with great thighs and hips, although most women (may I add ‘not all’) that I speak to don’t like to embrace it? I find curvy figures on women so much more attractive. Obviously each to their own and I respect your opinion if you agree or disagree.
I love my curves. And I love that men are admirers of them "
Beautiful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a shame you feel the need to use someone else’s pics though OP. I happen to know the man who’s pics you’re using and he’s in Dublin and he’s called Jay. I’ve reported you, as I know this man for real, and so I know your profile is fake!
makes you wonder how he got photo verified then "
You don’t have to show your face unfortunately....you can show your full body without a face, and get verified. It you can get verified as a man then add any pics you want...it’s a shame coz it spoils the site. But I 100 percent know this is fake, I’ve even chatted to the real person in the pics this morning to make sure he knows x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s a shame you feel the need to use someone else’s pics though OP. I happen to know the man who’s pics you’re using and he’s in Dublin and he’s called Jay. I’ve reported you, as I know this man for real, and so I know your profile is fake!
makes you wonder how he got photo verified then
You don’t have to show your face unfortunately....you can show your full body without a face, and get verified. It you can get verified as a man then add any pics you want...it’s a shame coz it spoils the site. But I 100 percent know this is fake, I’ve even chatted to the real person in the pics this morning to make sure he knows x"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jaydublin123 if anyone is doubting me x
He’s definitely nicked them. And Jaydublin123 is well fit  "
He’s lovely isn’t he...and a nice man too. No doubt admin will do absolutely fuck all about it...as per. |
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"Im a massive admirer of a women with a curvy looking figure with great thighs and hips, although most women (may I add ‘not all’) that I speak to don’t like to embrace it? I find curvy figures on women so much more attractive. Obviously each to their own and I respect your opinion if you agree or disagree. "
How curvy are talking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jaydublin123 if anyone is doubting me x
He’s definitely nicked them. And Jaydublin123 is well fit
He’s lovely isn’t he...and a nice man too. No doubt admin will do absolutely fuck all about it...as per. "
Gutted, this guy messaged me last night n I thought oh hello, my lucks changed lolol
Bloody twat he is, why do that??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jaydublin123 if anyone is doubting me x
He’s definitely nicked them. And Jaydublin123 is well fit
He’s lovely isn’t he...and a nice man too. No doubt admin will do absolutely fuck all about it...as per.
Gutted, this guy messaged me last night n I thought oh hello, my lucks changed lolol
Bloody twat he is, why do that??? "
Same...but he’s gone quiet now. All I can assume is he lives a sad sad life. And a stupid one too....to think people wouldn’t realise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I describe myself "Rubenesque". Since my breast cancer scare (all turned good thankfully) 2 years ago, I've since embraced my shape though admittedly have the occasional down day about it. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I find it so sad when people have to pretend to be someone else, I can only think it's because they don't feel they would arouse interest if people saw their true appearance.
Upsetting for those who chat to them, but a very sad situation for somebody to want to behave like that. |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
the abyss |
I suppose the question is what is the definition of curvy? Everyone has their own takes some say they like curvy but its only in the 'right' places, some like larger with 'extra' curves. At the end of the day its about trying to accept yourself and finding the person that likes you for you and the body to go with it - this is something which I have not managed yet but I'll get there   |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"I find it so sad when people have to pretend to be someone else, I can only think it's because they don't feel they would arouse interest if people saw their true appearance.
Upsetting for those who chat to them, but a very sad situation for somebody to want to behave like that."
I do feel sad for them in one sense but on the otherhand I assume they are just messaging for personal gain and never planning on meeting as I'm sure it would be noticeable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think many women struggle to accept their curves + more due to the fact society at large seems to promote an image of women that is the opposite of curves etc, on average. Basically, we spend our formative years seeing celebs being scrutinised in magazines if they gain a pound, supermodels who look immensely slim and adverts galore of incredibly thin women being held up as some sort of objective. Then, as older women, we're told by men that they prefer curves, bigger women, bigger boobs, round bums etc, but it's hard to undo the early exposure to a different sort of "ideal" sold to us.
And before anyone says, I'm sure men have similar issues with what society seems to think men should look like with the reality etc. It's not a gender thing. "
Rightly said I think I can speak for men as well
Hair, Packs,Size by race. All are Homo sapiens lol 
Now to the curvy thing, I like what that person thinks about her own curves. Person inside is more important than the couple of burgers hanging around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find it so sad when people have to pretend to be someone else, I can only think it's because they don't feel they would arouse interest if people saw their true appearance.
Upsetting for those who chat to them, but a very sad situation for somebody to want to behave like that.
I do feel sad for them in one sense but on the otherhand I assume they are just messaging for personal gain and never planning on meeting as I'm sure it would be noticeable "
He’s out to exploit people. He’s not here for friendship. Otherwise he wouldn’t be pestering people for pictures via inbox. Friendship I understand....but to deceive people for sexual gratification....he’s shameful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, i’m very accepting of my figure.
The only thing I dont like is when you turn someone down and the narrative completely changes. When they think you’re interested you’re ‘curvy’ and when decline you’re suddenly ‘fat’ ...does my head in "
Just angry they have no chance of getting there hands on your curves |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"I find it so sad when people have to pretend to be someone else, I can only think it's because they don't feel they would arouse interest if people saw their true appearance.
Upsetting for those who chat to them, but a very sad situation for somebody to want to behave like that.
I do feel sad for them in one sense but on the otherhand I assume they are just messaging for personal gain and never planning on meeting as I'm sure it would be noticeable
He’s out to exploit people. He’s not here for friendship. Otherwise he wouldn’t be pestering people for pictures via inbox. Friendship I understand....but to deceive people for sexual gratification....he’s shameful. "
You are right, but also a friendship under false pretences is still sad and potentially hurtful.
Years ago somebody was messaging me for a while from here, and sent me lots of pictures that he said were him, that were not.
In the end he himself decided to tell me the truth and explain t was because he didn't feel I would chat to him otherwise.
he sent me pictures of what he really looked like in the end.
I was so disappointed in his behaviour. I probably would have chatted to him either which way but there was no way I was happy to consider continuing a develop a friendship after feeling betrayed.
Now I have learnt and I don't trust anything at all in cyberspace.
I don't chat to people online, unless I already know them in person.
I go along to clubs and chat to people in person right there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suspect he has no remorse and will continue to try and deceive people.....admin should be banning these people and making sure people aren’t duplicating pics on here. I’m sure there’s a way x |
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"I find it so sad when people have to pretend to be someone else, I can only think it's because they don't feel they would arouse interest if people saw their true appearance.
Upsetting for those who chat to them, but a very sad situation for somebody to want to behave like that.
I do feel sad for them in one sense but on the otherhand I assume they are just messaging for personal gain and never planning on meeting as I'm sure it would be noticeable
He’s out to exploit people. He’s not here for friendship. Otherwise he wouldn’t be pestering people for pictures via inbox. Friendship I understand....but to deceive people for sexual gratification....he’s shameful.
You are right, but also a friendship under false pretences is still sad and potentially hurtful.
Years ago somebody was messaging me for a while from here, and sent me lots of pictures that he said were him, that were not.
In the end he himself decided to tell me the truth and explain t was because he didn't feel I would chat to him otherwise.
he sent me pictures of what he really looked like in the end.
I was so disappointed in his behaviour. I probably would have chatted to him either which way but there was no way I was happy to consider continuing a develop a friendship after feeling betrayed.
Now I have learnt and I don't trust anything at all in cyberspace.
I don't chat to people online, unless I already know them in person.
I go along to clubs and chat to people in person right there."
This is why I like to have a whatsapp vid call b 4 meeting! Only has to b a hiya x |
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Deleted my previous post due to me being too lazy to spell check and having numerous errors *facepalm*
I feel curvy has become an acceptable term for carrying a bit of weight.
Sadly so in my mind.
You don't drive along discussing the merits in the curvature of the road.
You will encounter curves and they can be long, short, tight, flowing or any other term you put to it so I feel labelling someone as too fat or thin to be curvy is a disservice to the many beautiful shapes of a woman's body.
I accept this may not fit into everyone's viewpoint and wasn't posted to encourage anyone to have a tantrum and throw your dummy out unless of course that fits your kink then by all means throw away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have always hated my figure but this lifestyle has lessened that as so many lovely men seem to love my figure and compliment it x"
You have an amazing figure xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel more confident with a few curves than I did when was was much smaller and very straight up and down
Jo x "
Wow you are a fine lady
Absolutely nothing wrong with your body
Proper woman
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Deleted my previous post due to me being too lazy to spell check and having numerous errors *facepalm*
I feel curvy has become an acceptable term for carrying a bit of weight.
Sadly so in my mind.
You don't drive along discussing the merits in the curvature of the road.
You will encounter curves and they can be long, short, tight, flowing or any other term you put to it so I feel labelling someone as too fat or thin to be curvy is a disservice to the many beautiful shapes of a woman's body.
I accept this may not fit into everyone's viewpoint and wasn't posted to encourage anyone to have a tantrum and throw your dummy out unless of course that fits your kink then by all means throw away "
I agree.
People forget curvy is a shape not a size.
A size 0 can have curves and so can a size 20. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shock....the OP has blocked me coz he’s been outed! But yet admin still allow his profile. Fundamental failure with the site."
He doesn't have any pics now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shock....the OP has blocked me coz he’s been outed! But yet admin still allow his profile. Fundamental failure with the site."
Or maybe admin hasn’t got around to the reports yet.
There are likely thousands of reports every single day. Give them time. |
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By *ickseyMan
over a year ago
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I love a big woman.
Skinny girls, as pretty as they may be, just haven’t got the same appeal. A bigger girl looks more womanly and inviting.
I just wish that they would all accept their size and curves and make the most of them.
Too many feel embarrassed or too self conscious and really shouldn’t because there are a lot of men, and women, out there that love a bigger lady. |
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We are both bigger and Rhiannon is simply stunning. Her eyes and smile attracted my in the first place, the phisique is an added bonus. She takes my breath away every single day.
Doesn't go the same for guys tho. I've lost 4 stone this year so we can appeal to more couples as most (not all) ladies don't seem to like us chunky guys. Lol.
Thankfully Rhiannon loves me as I am. I still want to be better for her tho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a BBW and thanks to an previous Dom/sub relationship I had, I now embrace every inch of wobbly curve that I have. My Dom helped me to feel really good about myself and I still do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people should be able to feel how they want about their bodies. If they love their body that's great, if they want to change something for health and/or confidence reasons then more power to them.
While the appreciation of curvier bodies is nice, often these kinds of threads turn into slim-bashing. In my opinion nobody should give a shit about what a stranger on the Internet thinks about their body. If someone on here likes my body and I'm also attracted to them then great, let's fuck. If not then I don't really care. But I wouldn't want to be told to just "embrace" something if I have the desire, willpower and capacity to change it - not for any shag in the world. |
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"Personally, i’m very accepting of my figure.
The only thing I dont like is when you turn someone down and the narrative completely changes. When they think you’re interested you’re ‘curvy’ and when decline you’re suddenly ‘fat’ ...does my head in "
I will never understand how interest turns into insults. Can men just not be gracious when they receive a refusal. One thing I am sure of is that a slim chance of a change of heart becomes no chance of a change of heart, if all a man can do is be rude to a prospective partner that has turned him down. |
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