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OP. The word “fat” can only be used to describe “bulkier” people of the Male persuasion.
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
It’s a bold strategy, Cotton. Let’s see if it pays off for him
I've got some popcorn here if anybody needs some while we watch this."
Good man. Is it toffee? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
It’s a bold strategy, Cotton. Let’s see if it pays off for him
I've got some popcorn here if anybody needs some while we watch this.
Good man. Is it toffee? "
Yup.  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
It’s a bold strategy, Cotton. Let’s see if it pays off for him
I've got some popcorn here if anybody needs some while we watch this.
Good man. Is it toffee?
Yup. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After this thread, I bet Boom's gonna be spoiled for pussy soon.
Let's just remember the is new to the forums and not take the piss. "
Just gentle joking.
Boom, it was just your awkward phrasing. You could have simply sung the praises of a curvier lady and talked about your love for those curves. Then I reckon you'd have done fine here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat..."
Nothing wrong with the word fat.
Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.
If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
Nothing wrong with the word fat.
Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.
If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No. "
I disagree, for a lot of people the word fat has negative connotations.
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
Nothing wrong with the word fat.
Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.
If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No. "
Just like the word “Skinny”  . It’s never the word that hurts, it’s the venom that launches it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
Nothing wrong with the word fat.
Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.
If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.
I disagree, for a lot of people the word fat has negative connotations.
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Maybe it does. That doesn’t mean a person can’t use the word though.
Some have an issue with the word, some don’t. We can’t really police what words people use to describe others within reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
Nothing wrong with the word fat.
Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.
If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.
I disagree, for a lot of people the word fat has negative connotations.
Maybe it does. That doesn’t mean a person can’t use the word though.
Some have an issue with the word, some don’t. We can’t really police what words people use to describe others within reason. "
I wasn't policing anything, I was giving an opinion it just happens to different from yours and doesn't mean its wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
Nothing wrong with the word fat.
Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.
If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.
Just like the word “Skinny” . It’s never the word that hurts, it’s the venom that launches it. "
I’m a fat woman.
The word fat doesn’t bother me.
I’m sure there’s many fat women who aren’t bothered by the word fat, there’s no doubt some who will be bothered by it.
The same goes for skinny.
People will use what word they see fit.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
Nothing wrong with the word fat.
Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.
If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.
I disagree, for a lot of people the word fat has negative connotations.
Maybe it does. That doesn’t mean a person can’t use the word though.
Some have an issue with the word, some don’t. We can’t really police what words people use to describe others within reason.
I wasn't policing anything, I was giving an opinion it just happens to different from yours and doesn't mean its wrong. "
I said “We can’t really police what words people use” I didn’t say “you”. |
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
Nothing wrong with the word fat.
Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.
If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.
Just like the word “Skinny” . It’s never the word that hurts, it’s the venom that launches it.
I’m a fat woman.
The word fat doesn’t bother me.
I’m sure there’s many fat women who aren’t bothered by the word fat, there’s no doubt some who will be bothered by it.
The same goes for skinny.
People will use what word they see fit.
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If I got upset every time called me skinny I think I would still end everyday upset.
Words. If people allow them to have power they have power. Me? Meh. It’s a word... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I got upset every time called me skinny I think I would still end everyday upset.
Words. If people allow them to have power they have power. Me? Meh. It’s a word..."
Absolutely.
Words are words, how you take those words is all down to “you”.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some women don't mind that term and they'll be the only ones that might proposition him.
 I class myself as a Fabulous BBW with curves and cushions in all the right places. |
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
Nothing wrong with the word fat.
Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.
If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No. "
Not if he essentially cannot have sex and orgasm without a "fat woman" by definition it is a fetish for them |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t say fetishising fat women was weird. It’s just a kink.
There are lots of weird things in the world, this kink isn’t really one of them.
Welcome to the forums OP. If you use the forum search thingy and put in “BBW” you’ll find lots of recent threads started by folk admiring fuller figured ladies. That might help you in your search. |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"I've no issue with the word "fat".
I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.
I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.
Lu "
Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.
It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.
Some folk might like Irish accents...thats not a fetish. Some might like tall slim women...thats not a fetish. Some might like to whack idiots around the head with a slipper...still not a fetish. We are not a fetish.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why did you not say larger ladies..... Calling women fat is not the way to go "
Yet women who get called BBW complain because they’re fat and would rather just be called fat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no issue with the word "fat".
I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.
I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.
Lu
Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.
It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.
Some folk might like Irish accents...thats not a fetish. Some might like tall slim women...thats not a fetish. Some might like to whack idiots around the head with a slipper...still not a fetish. We are not a fetish.
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Could not agree more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've no issue with the word "fat".
I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.
I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.
Lu
Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.
It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.
Some folk might like Irish accents...thats not a fetish. Some might like tall slim women...thats not a fetish. Some might like to whack idiots around the head with a slipper...still not a fetish. We are not a fetish.
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I couldn't have put it better! Especially the thing about hot guys, but that is one of the reasons I love fab, I get to punch way above my (substantial) weight.
Ironically enough, I hate the term BBW but have it as my username just because if I put fat I get loads of messages with people saying 'you aren't fat, you're gorgeous' which does my head in as I blatantly am fat AND gorgeous
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gotta love big boobs and bums. Its not a fetish, just find them more attractive in my opinion. Different strokes and all that "
I like the way you spunk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It gave you all something to rant about and thank you to the ladies that didn't mind and put a nice e comment up xx"
This thread was always gonna get mixed feedback. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why did you not say larger ladies..... Calling women fat is not the way to go
Yet women who get called BBW complain because they’re fat and would rather just be called fat "
I think you mean some women complain ,,I actually dislike any label  |
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"I've no issue with the word "fat".
I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.
I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.
Lu
Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.
It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.
Some folk might like Irish accents...thats not a fetish. Some might like tall slim women...thats not a fetish. Some might like to whack idiots around the head with a slipper...still not a fetish. We are not a fetish.
I couldn't have put it better! Especially the thing about hot guys, but that is one of the reasons I love fab, I get to punch way above my (substantial) weight.
Ironically enough, I hate the term BBW but have it as my username just because if I put fat I get loads of messages with people saying 'you aren't fat, you're gorgeous' which does my head in as I blatantly am fat AND gorgeous
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I wanted to put fat but Mr KC wouldn't let me - he says I'm not (but I am) - I think he just loves me |
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"OP. The word “fat” can only be used to describe “bulkier” people of the Male persuasion.
Fab Rule # 17
It’s okay you weren’t to know.... Oh Gods, I care hear them..... they are coming...... I can feel the outrage.... can anyone stop this madness?
In other news apparently subway bread isn’t bread in Ireland "
Lmao!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is that people don't tend to like to be fetishized.
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This,it's a pet hate of mine hence why I don't like to be called a bbw I'm just a larger lady |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks |
"I've no issue with the word "fat".
I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.
I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.
Lu
Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.
It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.
Some folk might like Irish accents...thats not a fetish. Some might like tall slim women...thats not a fetish. Some might like to whack idiots around the head with a slipper...still not a fetish. We are not a fetish.
I couldn't have put it better! Especially the thing about hot guys, but that is one of the reasons I love fab, I get to punch way above my (substantial) weight.
Ironically enough, I hate the term BBW but have it as my username just because if I put fat I get loads of messages with people saying 'you aren't fat, you're gorgeous' which does my head in as I blatantly am fat AND gorgeous
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You absofuckinlutely are gorgeous Vixen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no objection someone saying fat. I have lots of fat on my body, but I’m more than a fat person and I do have problems being objectified or being someone’s fetish |
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"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...
Nothing wrong with the word fat.
Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.
If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.
Just like the word “Skinny” . It’s never the word that hurts, it’s the venom that launches it.
I’m a fat woman.
The word fat doesn’t bother me.
I’m sure there’s many fat women who aren’t bothered by the word fat, there’s no doubt some who will be bothered by it.
The same goes for skinny.
People will use what word they see fit.
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By *inkyguy12Man
over a year ago
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Never knew there was a fat woman fetish but count me in I love the curvy lady “seems more politically correct these days” and the last thing we should all want to do on here is offend the person we message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is that people don't tend to like to be fetishized.
Say that to all the men with bbc on their profile"
The men who have BBC on their profile choose to call themselves that.
There’s a difference.
If you choose to label yourself as something you can’t be made if people describe you as such.
Some black men like to be fetishised, so do some fat women. Not all. |
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"I've no issue with the word "fat".
I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.
I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.
Lu
Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.
It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.
Some folk might like Irish accents...thats not a fetish. Some might like tall slim women...thats not a fetish. Some might like to whack idiots around the head with a slipper...still not a fetish. We are not a fetish.
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Absolutely this! Thank you for putting it better words than I could. |
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"I have no objection someone saying fat. I have lots of fat on my body, but I’m more than a fat person and I do have problems being objectified or being someone’s fetish "
Well that's the important bit - always remember that those physical attributes you lust after are part of a person. |
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over a year ago
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I got fat after an operation. It took a meet to make me realise that I had to get back to my normal weight. My boyfriend at the time would not go near me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As Freddie said
Fat bottomed girls make the rocking world go round.
Mines fat
I'm fat
So what.
We all carry fat on us.
If we didn't have fat on us we would freeze to oblivion.
Just eating a fat bowl of porridge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually
I am going to have a fat loving life.
Full of fatty foods
One thing this tory government don't control is what I eat.
You notice how fat most of the mps are good fatty foods. Beer drinking in their own bars.
My birds enjoy fat balls. |
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I am going to have a fat loving life.
Full of fatty foods
One thing this tory government don't control is what I eat.
You notice how fat most of the mps are good fatty foods. Beer drinking in their own bars.
My birds enjoy fat balls. "
I love this.
I actively lead a life of Gluttony and indulgence and Im loving it |
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Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them. |
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them. "
I'm pretty much the exact opposite of this  |
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"I got fat after an operation. It took a meet to make me realise that I had to get back to my normal weight. My boyfriend at the time would not go near me x"
Sounds like you should've lost the boyfriend, rather than the weight.
Far worse things to be than fat! |
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them. "
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...". |
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them. "
This place never ceases to amaze |
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"I got fat after an operation. It took a meet to make me realise that I had to get back to my normal weight. My boyfriend at the time would not go near me x
Sounds like you should've lost the boyfriend, rather than the weight.
Far worse things to be than fat! "
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace..."."
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to. |
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to."
Jesus!
NOT ALL FAT PEOPLE ARE FAT BEACUSE THEY EAT TOO MUCH AND/OR LAZY!!!!
Fucking educate yourself if you're gonna spout bullshit online people!
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to."
Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.
Thing is we then begin to turn on each other. |
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to."
Jesus
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to.
Jesus!
NOT ALL FAT PEOPLE ARE FAT BEACUSE THEY EAT TOO MUCH AND/OR LAZY!!!!
Fucking educate yourself if you're gonna spout bullshit online people!
Lu "
Weight gain is the calories eaten are greater than burnt off its a simple fact any moderately intelligent person can understand maybe its you who needs to get an education and some manners at the same time. |
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to.
Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.
Thing is we then begin to turn on each other. "
Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.
If you hadn't noticed there are calls for money to be spent on school meals for children that are going without do you not think that public finances would not be better diverted to these children who go without? |
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to.
Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.
Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.
Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.
If you hadn't noticed there are calls for money to be spent on school meals for children that are going without do you not think that public finances would not be better diverted to these children who go without? "
I'm fairly sure that not everyone woman (person)who is a bit bigger,doesn't work. |
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to.
Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.
Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.
Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.
If you hadn't noticed there are calls for money to be spent on school meals for children that are going without do you not think that public finances would not be better diverted to these children who go without?
I'm fairly sure that not everyone woman (person)who is a bit bigger,doesn't work."
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to.
Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.
Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.
Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.
If you hadn't noticed there are calls for money to be spent on school meals for children that are going without do you not think that public finances would not be better diverted to these children who go without?
I'm fairly sure that not everyone woman (person)who is a bit bigger,doesn't work.
Who said they all are? Can you read? Quote it point it out there's a good lad. "
You are a little charmer arent you?
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to.
Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.
Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.
Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.
If you hadn't noticed there are calls for money to be spent on school meals for children that are going without do you not think that public finances would not be better diverted to these children who go without?
I'm fairly sure that not everyone woman (person)who is a bit bigger,doesn't work.
Who said they all are? Can you read? Quote it point it out there's a good lad.
You are a little charmer arent you?
Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent?"
Can't quote it? What a surprise! If you are going to lie lie about someone else there's a good boy.
If you cared to read the thread I pointed out funds would be better diverted to kids who are going without food in the school holidays though that point you strangely missed. So do you think this money wouldn't be better diverted to children in need? Well? |
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to.
Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.
Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.
Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.
If you hadn't noticed there are calls for money to be spent on school meals for children that are going without do you not think that public finances would not be better diverted to these children who go without?
I'm fairly sure that not everyone woman (person)who is a bit bigger,doesn't work.
Who said they all are? Can you read? Quote it point it out there's a good lad.
You are a little charmer arent you?
Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent?
Can't quote it? What a surprise! If you are going to lie lie about someone else there's a good boy.
If you cared to read the thread I pointed out funds would be better diverted to kids who are going without food in the school holidays though that point you strangely missed. So do you think this money wouldn't be better diverted to children in need? Well? "
So when you said..there Is nothing wrong with being fat as you are financially independent..who were you referring too exactly? |
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
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Im FIAF Financially Independent and Fat, and its becsuse I eat too much and dont excercise, can i get a medal? Make it from Sheffield steel though so i dont eat it by accident
My sister is also FIAF but is fat due to a thyroid deficiency.
My friend, another FIAF but has a neurological condition that causes her to be unsteady on her feet causing her to fall a lot, injury after injury means she cant do any physical activity without risking injury.
I could go on. You see not every fat person is an over-eater. |
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"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.
You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.
Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".
No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to.
Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.
Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.
Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.
If you hadn't noticed there are calls for money to be spent on school meals for children that are going without do you not think that public finances would not be better diverted to these children who go without? "
Again you miss my point and not making yours.
I'm fat and not poor. I was sterilized at 30 because I knew we could only afford to give three children the quality of life we wanted them to have.
My husband and I were ships in the night for five years: I worked days he worked nights so there was always a parent at home for the children.
If I thought like you I should resent the parents who pop out kids without the means to feed them: their life choice, especially as I shop at Lidl and can produce from scratch, nutritional meals on a budget without a chip pan in sight.
Thing is there will always be things we champion and those we don't. Fat is an easy target: no government is going to target the growing financial demands due to gender reassignment, ivf, large families low/No income families though. |
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I really hate stereotypes. I've spent my whole life trying to prove I'm not one.
I'm a child of two alcoholic parents, now both dead.
I had my first child at 17 so I'm a teenage mum. I'm also a school drop out so you know I must be thick as mince.
I'm single with 3 sons so I've got the single parent one hanging over me too. And there's a big age gap between my sons so it's often assumed they must be to different dads. They aren't.
Oh and I'm also fat.
However, I also have a good job and have always worked hard to support my boys alone. Often two jobs. I have a nice house and and I'm independent. Their dad doesn't pay me a penny and has had no part part of their lives for 11 years.
I can cook and often do, however I also refuse to feel guilty for also throwing together frozen chicken nuggets and chips or a pizza because I'm too tired to do anything else.
I'm fat because I comfort eat and it becomes a vicious cycle.
Anyway, this is a bit off of the OP topic so I'll get off my soapbox.
I'm glad there are men out there who like bigger women however I don't wish to be someomes fettish.
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I will always refer to someone as bigger or larger than average rather than fat. I've always considered the word fat associated with negativity.
If anyone chooses to call themselves fat then that's their choice. However I still wouldn't refer to them as fat, that's my choice.
Tbh it's not for me to judge who considers themselves on the larger side and who doesn't.
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