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Vanity, validation and ego
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve noticed a lot of profiles, statuses and uploaded pics clamouring for ‘fabs’ on their images like teenage internet users beg for likes. Does it actually serve any purpose other than an ego boost? I fab pics because I want to revisit them - but I don’t know why I’d want to hype over other people fabbing my pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I totally agree. There seems to be a lot of begs for likes and please read our full profile EVERY WORD and you must send a face pic OR WE WONT REPLY OK.
All of that seems a bit arrogant and egotistical in a place where it should be about fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I totally agree. There seems to be a lot of begs for likes and please read our full profile EVERY WORD and you must send a face pic OR WE WONT REPLY OK.
All of that seems a bit arrogant and egotistical in a place where it should be about fun "
and there it is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't see any issue , everyone is free to manage their profiles as they want  "
As free as I am to try and understand a public behaviour. And there is no issue - as long as one behaves without malice or lack of consideration of others, then everyone can do what the fuck they like! |
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"Is wanting ones ego boosted a bad thing?
If one has to ask for it, then does it have real value? "
In my opinion we all ask for validation one way or another. It's just some of us are more subtle about it |
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I’m not bothered by fabs. I rarely check them. I completely understand why some people do enjoy that attention though.
I enjoy being sociable and cracking jokes to make people laugh. I enjoy the positive attention. To me, it’s the same thing.
How other people choose to boost their ego is a personal choice. We all do it, and I think it’s healthy to know what we can do to make ourselves feel good. |
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"Yes I totally agree. There seems to be a lot of begs for likes and please read our full profile EVERY WORD and you must send a face pic OR WE WONT REPLY OK.
All of that seems a bit arrogant and egotistical in a place where it should be about fun "
I like fun |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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I must admit I haven't really come across this unless it's alongside a forum thread about Fabbing pics. These are usually done 'tongue and cheek' style for fun and get people chatting. The silly threads are often the most fun and random to chat on to pass some time.
If it makes them happy then I don't see a problem, it's easy to pass it by if you don't like it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy getting up the Fabs coz I have a lovely natural body I like to showcase! It’s a nice way of people appreciating & thanking you For sharing your intimate body with them 
Well that’s what I think anyway!
Happy Fabbing  x |
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"Don't see any issue , everyone is free to manage their profiles as they want
As free as I am to try and understand a public behaviour. And there is no issue - as long as one behaves without malice or lack of consideration of others, then everyone can do what the fuck they like!"
I completely agree OP you are free to try to understand public behavior , like you said without malice or lack of consideration of others |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*
*goes and Fabs every photo against own will* 
See  "
I lied - I'd totally fab them all at once if it didn't make me look like a crazy stalker  |
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"I’ve noticed a lot of profiles, statuses and uploaded pics clamouring for ‘fabs’ on their images like teenage internet users beg for likes. Does it actually serve any purpose other than an ego boost? I fab pics because I want to revisit them - but I don’t know why I’d want to hype over other people fabbing my pics."
Everyone likes a ego boost surely? Human nature! I know I do! Get to my age and take what u can get lmao!!  |
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"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*
*goes and Fabs every photo against own will*
See
I lied - I'd totally fab them all at once if it didn't make me look like a crazy stalker "
Though spreading it out means more excuses to look |
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"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*
*goes and Fabs every photo against own will*
See
I lied - I'd totally fab them all at once if it didn't make me look like a crazy stalker "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed a lot of profiles, statuses and uploaded pics clamouring for ‘fabs’ on their images like teenage internet users beg for likes. Does it actually serve any purpose other than an ego boost? I fab pics because I want to revisit them - but I don’t know why I’d want to hype over other people fabbing my pics.
Everyone likes a ego boost surely? Human nature! I know I do! Get to my age and take what u can get lmao!! "
Behave, I’m sure you can take what you want, not what you get! You’re doing bloody well for any age, let alone yours!  |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"The fabs give me powers you could never imagine *evil laughs*
*goes and Fabs every photo against own will*
See
I lied - I'd totally fab them all at once if it didn't make me look like a crazy stalker
Though spreading it out means more excuses to look "
Maybe....  |
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I spend a lot of time trying to display nice pictures of myself.
A photo session does take a full afternoon from getting ready to choosing the right photos. So obviously a ‘fab’ or a message off a picture is the reward. But more importantly it will encourage you to upload more pictures.
So if there is a woman, couple, man or tv that you like their pictures, fab away as that encourages them to post more |
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"I spend a lot of time trying to display nice pictures of myself.
A photo session does take a full afternoon from getting ready to choosing the right photos. So obviously a ‘fab’ or a message off a picture is the reward. But more importantly it will encourage you to upload more pictures.
So if there is a woman, couple, man or tv that you like their pictures, fab away as that encourages them to post more "
We take a lot of time with our photos too and really enjoy fabs etc having exhibitionist tendencies . Recent events have made us put most of them in friends only though. So no more ego boosts or validation for us  |
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"I’ve noticed a lot of profiles, statuses and uploaded pics clamouring for ‘fabs’ on their images like teenage internet users beg for likes. Does it actually serve any purpose other than an ego boost? I fab pics because I want to revisit them - but I don’t know why I’d want to hype over other people fabbing my pics.
Everyone likes a ego boost surely? Human nature! I know I do! Get to my age and take what u can get lmao!!
Behave, I’m sure you can take what you want, not what you get! You’re doing bloody well for any age, let alone yours! "
Aww thank u! U kind x x |
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