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"Not seen one of these for ages. Well, at least a day or two!
I shall get the ball rolling:
How many lovers / sexual partners in my life?
More than Cliff, fewer than Mick. "
More that Cliff Michelmore and less than Mick Hucknall? That's an interesting way of describing it.
I'd say more than Mary Whitehouse, less than the 13th Duke of Wybourne (with his reputation!) |
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"Not seen one of these for ages. Well, at least a day or two!
I shall get the ball rolling:
How many lovers / sexual partners in my life?
More than Cliff, fewer than Mick.
More that Cliff Michelmore and less than Mick Hucknall? That's an interesting way of describing it.
I'd say more than Mary Whitehouse, less than the 13th Duke of Wybourne (with his reputation!) "
You know who I mean! |
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The last full time relationship I had in 2012 I was asked this question. Afterwards I was single again. Apparently being number 82 was not a sexy number.
Since then I don’t count. It would be a bit like counting how many times I have been fishing or been on a picnic, activities I like to do, when I have the time |
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over a year ago
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"I've honestly never kept track. Not because it's some obsceme number or anything like that - I've just never been the 'notches on the bed post' type."
And that’s just another reason you’re my hero. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 lovers. Sexual partners??? If I thought about it I could probably come up with a ball park figure but I cant be bothered  "
That’s an excellent point. Lovers and sexual partners are completely different....sexual partners, I reckon in the 20’s but I haven’t exactly kept track x |
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lover
noun
a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship outside marriage.
In that case there have been eight, as I write eight I remember two more. This is quickly becoming a list of how many failed relationships have I had.   I don't like this list.  |
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"lover
noun
a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship outside marriage.
In that case there have been eight, as I write eight I remember two more. This is quickly becoming a list of how many failed relationships have I had. I don't like this list. "
They're not failed if they made you happy at the time. |
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"lover
noun
a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship outside marriage.
In that case there have been eight, as I write eight I remember two more. This is quickly becoming a list of how many failed relationships have I had. I don't like this list.
They're not failed if they made you happy at the time. "
Yes, but they all ended, just the same. And the only common denominator in each one is me  |
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"lover
noun
a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship outside marriage.
In that case there have been eight, as I write eight I remember two more. This is quickly becoming a list of how many failed relationships have I had. I don't like this list.
They're not failed if they made you happy at the time.
Yes, but they all ended, just the same. And the only common denominator in each one is me "
If you think you're doing something that sabotages relationships you wanted to continue then sure, make changes. However, it's also entirely possible that it was just a case of incompatibility and that isn't necessarily a failure on either side. It's also entirely possible to find someone you're incredibly compatible with but for you to grow and change as people over time and come to a point where you aren't compatible anymore. There isn't really anything wrong with having many relationships, as long as you're not damaging people in the process and it's not making you miserable. |
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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago
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I think I've had sex with around 20 ladies and the men is very much higher, haven't a clue how many though.
And for sucking cock, average 3-5 a night at Saunas and cruising spots x lots of times over the years plus lots of suck and go meets  |
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"lover
noun
a partner in a sexual or romantic relationship outside marriage.
In that case there have been eight, as I write eight I remember two more. This is quickly becoming a list of how many failed relationships have I had. I don't like this list.
They're not failed if they made you happy at the time.
Yes, but they all ended, just the same. And the only common denominator in each one is me
If you think you're doing something that sabotages relationships you wanted to continue then sure, make changes. However, it's also entirely possible that it was just a case of incompatibility and that isn't necessarily a failure on either side. It's also entirely possible to find someone you're incredibly compatible with but for you to grow and change as people over time and come to a point where you aren't compatible anymore. There isn't really anything wrong with having many relationships, as long as you're not damaging people in the process and it's not making you miserable. "
Unfortunately, with the last one I'm fairly certain I damaged her, and it's sure as hell made me miserable
I need to take a long, hard look at myself |
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