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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " At least have a picture people can see | |||
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"why whats so wrong with my profile" Seeing as you asked... No photos. Vague bio. Little information about yourself. No information about what you're looking for. You don't stand out at all...you could be any random guy. | |||
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"why whats so wrong with my profile" no pics, doesnt say alot, try looking at other male profiles, the ones that are getting meets, either that or get yourself to a social | |||
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"why whats so wrong with my profile" Princess peach? Can we get Princess peach over here? | |||
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"I did have photos on.. and changed my bio 100times still no luck though " what did you expect, knicker elastic snapping everywhere?????? be realistic, if you cant pull in real life, you wont find it any easyer on here tbh its not instashag but if you look at it with the right attitude, you will meet people | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " I was in Scunthorpe for the weekend two weeks ago, I got plenty of offers from bi guys, but no single females or couples were up for anything. The pandemic isn’t helping just now, and neither will a blank profile mate. Make your profile more appealing, get involved in the forums, and have a look in the chat rooms for some webcam fun. Things will improve (for all of us) in time | |||
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"why whats so wrong with my profile Princess peach? Can we get Princess peach over here?" Where is she when you need her. | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " that about sums up my time on here apart from a couple of messages from the same woman who is 450 miles away ! | |||
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"Neither gym fit not hung like a horse here OP, in fact distinctly average and have a cock that works when it wants to and how it wants to, so am hardly what you would call a "catch" and yet am more than happy with my experience of the site over the past four years. Often when guys on here say they are struggling it comes down to one, some or all of the following - all of which are within their own hands to put right: Profile - make sure yours is well written, tells the reader something about you and what you are looking for, and what you think you can offer. Make sure it helps you stand out from all the other generic single guy profiles on the site. It's your shop window, so dress it to appeal. Pics - put together a good collection of pics that show you, and your body off well, without necessarily showing off your cock. Attitude - keep a positive attitude at all times, treat others with respect and consideration and accept knock backs graciously. Expectations - make sure they're set low, then turn them down a notch - you don't get messages and and meets just for having a profile. You're also in a very big pool of people all looking for the same thing from a much smaller pool, so need to accept that you won't always get a response or what you're hoping for. Approach - find an approach to the site that works for you - don't just rely on sending cold messages to other users, there are many ways to approach and get to know other users including using the forums and chat rooms, both of which are a very good way to get to know people and them to get to know you. None of that will guarantee a thing, but will improve your experience and perception of the site. " Yep, all of that | |||
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"why whats so wrong with my profile Princess peach? Can we get Princess peach over here? Where is she when you need her. " She'll be asleep by now dreaming of her next photo shoot... | |||
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"why whats so wrong with my profile" It tells us nothing about you. There’s spelling mistakes, bad grammar/a lack of grammar etc. You have no public photos either. | |||
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"Neither gym fit not hung like a horse here OP, in fact distinctly average and have a cock that works when it wants to and how it wants to, so am hardly what you would call a "catch" and yet am more than happy with my experience of the site over the past four years. Often when guys on here say they are struggling it comes down to one, some or all of the following - all of which are within their own hands to put right: Profile - make sure yours is well written, tells the reader something about you and what you are looking for, and what you think you can offer. Make sure it helps you stand out from all the other generic single guy profiles on the site. It's your shop window, so dress it to appeal. Pics - put together a good collection of pics that show you, and your body off well, without necessarily showing off your cock. Attitude - keep a positive attitude at all times, treat others with respect and consideration and accept knock backs graciously. Expectations - make sure they're set low, then turn them down a notch - you don't get messages and and meets just for having a profile. You're also in a very big pool of people all looking for the same thing from a much smaller pool, so need to accept that you won't always get a response or what you're hoping for. Approach - find an approach to the site that works for you - don't just rely on sending cold messages to other users, there are many ways to approach and get to know other users including using the forums and chat rooms, both of which are a very good way to get to know people and them to get to know you. None of that will guarantee a thing, but will improve your experience and perception of the site. " ^ Unlikely to get any better advice than this. | |||
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"There was a guy complaining of the same last night that it was slowly chipping away at his confidence and affecting his work and personal life. Keep your chin up OP " Yeah it does get really annoying after a while just end up questioning what you need to change about yourself | |||
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"I did have photos on.. and changed my bio 100times still no luck though " That must be a slight exaggeration | |||
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"I did have photos on.. and changed my bio 100times still no luck though That must be a slight exaggeration " I tried alot of different approaches | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one" Do you not just want to give up sometimes | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one Do you not just want to give up sometimes" Yeah lol, it’s rare to come across a genuine women who can actually hold some sort of conversation and banter on here | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one Do you not just want to give up sometimes Yeah lol, it’s rare to come across a genuine women who can actually hold some sort of conversation and banter on here " I have most luck with couples | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one Do you not just want to give up sometimes Yeah lol, it’s rare to come across a genuine women who can actually hold some sort of conversation and banter on here " They exist. It’s the majority of women on here. They just aren’t interacting with you. Don’t stress it | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " If its not working for you here, you should pursue other avenues where it may be less frustrating for you. | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one Do you not just want to give up sometimes Yeah lol, it’s rare to come across a genuine women who can actually hold some sort of conversation and banter on here " Most arent even interested in single guys anyway | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet If its not working for you here, you should pursue other avenues where it may be less frustrating for you." What would you suggest | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one Do you not just want to give up sometimes Yeah lol, it’s rare to come across a genuine women who can actually hold some sort of conversation and banter on here " What is this "banter" of which you speak?! | |||
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"Yes I understand with whats been going on but nobody even gives me chance.. i just try have a polite conversation with people " You have an awful profile. People will take one look and walk away. | |||
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"_bt96 - I looked at your profile and the text seems to send a distinct message that you can't be bothered. If you say you're "not looking for anything in particular on here", well, you got it." I read that too.. Luckily I am particular. | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one Do you not just want to give up sometimes Yeah lol, it’s rare to come across a genuine women who can actually hold some sort of conversation and banter on here What is this "banter" of which you speak?! " Banter is for kids. | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one Do you not just want to give up sometimes Yeah lol, it’s rare to come across a genuine women who can actually hold some sort of conversation and banter on here " I'd disagree - have chatted to and met plenty of them, take a look at my post further up - not being bigheaded at all, nor am I saying it's simple, but all you need to get a better experience of the site is in your hands. | |||
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"Neither gym fit not hung like a horse here OP, in fact distinctly average and have a cock that works when it wants to and how it wants to, so am hardly what you would call a "catch" and yet am more than happy with my experience of the site over the past four years. Often when guys on here say they are struggling it comes down to one, some or all of the following - all of which are within their own hands to put right: Profile - make sure yours is well written, tells the reader something about you and what you are looking for, and what you think you can offer. Make sure it helps you stand out from all the other generic single guy profiles on the site. It's your shop window, so dress it to appeal. Pics - put together a good collection of pics that show you, and your body off well, without necessarily showing off your cock. Attitude - keep a positive attitude at all times, treat others with respect and consideration and accept knock backs graciously. Expectations - make sure they're set low, then turn them down a notch - you don't get messages and and meets just for having a profile. You're also in a very big pool of people all looking for the same thing from a much smaller pool, so need to accept that you won't always get a response or what you're hoping for. Approach - find an approach to the site that works for you - don't just rely on sending cold messages to other users, there are many ways to approach and get to know other users including using the forums and chat rooms, both of which are a very good way to get to know people and them to get to know you. None of that will guarantee a thing, but will improve your experience and perception of the site. " This Green arrow shows you’ve asked this question over and over and without giving any critique to your profile, it doesn’t really sell YOU. Would you meet you if you read your profile? If you aren’t getting anywhere then change it so the site works for you... Writing forum posts essentially moaning about not getting anywhere but then not doing anything to change that will only ever have the same outcome. The definition of madness is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result... Change things to make it work | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one Do you not just want to give up sometimes Yeah lol, it’s rare to come across a genuine women who can actually hold some sort of conversation and banter on here Most arent even interested in single guys anyway " well if thats what you think, why are you trying then????? i hate when guys come on here, make no effort, and then moan that the site is shit because they cant get a meet, go out and meet real people, make real friends, male or female, yes its not easy atm, but still possable, increase your group of friends, im sure you will find it easyer to meet people than on here, swingers are genaraly couples, thats how swinging started, wife swapping etc, singles looking for singles is very rare, well apart from the thousands of single men on here looking for a no strings shag, thats not swinging, never has been. anyway dont let it get you down, but i do think you are expecting to much from the site | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. " Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet If its not working for you here, you should pursue other avenues where it may be less frustrating for you. What would you suggest" We are all different what works for one person may not for for another. All I can suggest is if a place or situation makes you unhappy then its best to remove your self from there. | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " I feel your pain. But a 'sh!t site' is abit extreme, lol. | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ??" Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. " Because id like to get to know her she doesn't have to does she ? Im just saying id like to speak to her | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Because id like to get to know her she doesn't have to does she ? Im just saying id like to speak to her " Maybe the way you come access in messages is the problem. | |||
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"why whats so wrong with my profile" You joined 10 months but there's no profile pic. Most men have them so it would make a difference. Maybe put a couple of public pics too. It would really help. Just be yourself on here, don't take it personally if you find it difficult getting meets, it is difficult for single guys. Good luck OP x | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. " Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people " No one is trying to stop anything, but the reaction just there to a public forum comment from a lady contributor seems to suggest you feel somehow "owed" a conversation. No-one is owed anything here. | |||
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"All of the above is good advice already received on how to make your profile more appealing. For me and probably for quite a few others you are way out of our age ranges Good luck if you decide to stick around and make some changes " Thank you.. i might try once more | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people No one is trying to stop anything, but the reaction just there to a public forum comment from a lady contributor seems to suggest you feel somehow "owed" a conversation. No-one is owed anything here. " No not at all but just because I wanted to talk to someone your butting in saying "why should she talk to you" just uncalled for if you ask me | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people No one is trying to stop anything, but the reaction just there to a public forum comment from a lady contributor seems to suggest you feel somehow "owed" a conversation. No-one is owed anything here. No not at all but just because I wanted to talk to someone your butting in saying "why should she talk to you" just uncalled for if you ask me" to the op, you arent helping yourself here | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people No one is trying to stop anything, but the reaction just there to a public forum comment from a lady contributor seems to suggest you feel somehow "owed" a conversation. No-one is owed anything here. No not at all but just because I wanted to talk to someone your butting in saying "why should she talk to you" just uncalled for if you ask me" You misunderstand the question. A genuine question - what reason does a person who has commented in an open forum, offering advice which suggests that you leave, have to suddenly strike up a private conversation? It does rather put that person on the spot, don't you think? | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people No one is trying to stop anything, but the reaction just there to a public forum comment from a lady contributor seems to suggest you feel somehow "owed" a conversation. No-one is owed anything here. No not at all but just because I wanted to talk to someone your butting in saying "why should she talk to you" just uncalled for if you ask me to the op, you arent helping yourself here" Why should anyone say that though? Im nice to everyone.. i don't see what her problem is with me speaking to someone though i clearly just wanted to get to know her | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people No one is trying to stop anything, but the reaction just there to a public forum comment from a lady contributor seems to suggest you feel somehow "owed" a conversation. No-one is owed anything here. No not at all but just because I wanted to talk to someone your butting in saying "why should she talk to you" just uncalled for if you ask me You misunderstand the question. A genuine question - what reason does a person who has commented in an open forum, offering advice which suggests that you leave, have to suddenly strike up a private conversation? It does rather put that person on the spot, don't you think? " Not really she has every right to say no i just don't see why you was trying to say no for her | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " I've met loads! Unlucky fella. | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people No one is trying to stop anything, but the reaction just there to a public forum comment from a lady contributor seems to suggest you feel somehow "owed" a conversation. No-one is owed anything here. No not at all but just because I wanted to talk to someone your butting in saying "why should she talk to you" just uncalled for if you ask me to the op, you arent helping yourself here Why should anyone say that though? Im nice to everyone.. i don't see what her problem is with me speaking to someone though i clearly just wanted to get to know her " Then its best to send a message. As above your response to the posts on here suggest were the issue may be. | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people No one is trying to stop anything, but the reaction just there to a public forum comment from a lady contributor seems to suggest you feel somehow "owed" a conversation. No-one is owed anything here. No not at all but just because I wanted to talk to someone your butting in saying "why should she talk to you" just uncalled for if you ask me" If you want to chat to her, message her And if you can’t because of her filters, then that’s that | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people No one is trying to stop anything, but the reaction just there to a public forum comment from a lady contributor seems to suggest you feel somehow "owed" a conversation. No-one is owed anything here. No not at all but just because I wanted to talk to someone your butting in saying "why should she talk to you" just uncalled for if you ask me If you want to chat to her, message her And if you can’t because of her filters, then that’s that " Its not letting me view alot of profiles tonight for some reason | |||
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"Its not letting me view alot of profiles tonight for some reason" That's odd, I wonder why | |||
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"Its not letting me view alot of profiles tonight for some reason That's odd, I wonder why " Just proving it is a shit site | |||
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"Its not letting me view alot of profiles tonight for some reason That's odd, I wonder why Just proving it is a shit site " But it's all your own doing | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet I've met loads! Unlucky fella. " Fancy a fuck? | |||
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"Its not letting me view alot of profiles tonight for some reason That's odd, I wonder why Just proving it is a shit site " Hidden profile pics are blocked by many.. So don't blame others before looking at your own actions | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Just because you have had luck on here doesn't mean you should try stop other people No one is trying to stop anything, but the reaction just there to a public forum comment from a lady contributor seems to suggest you feel somehow "owed" a conversation. No-one is owed anything here. No not at all but just because I wanted to talk to someone your butting in saying "why should she talk to you" just uncalled for if you ask me You misunderstand the question. A genuine question - what reason does a person who has commented in an open forum, offering advice which suggests that you leave, have to suddenly strike up a private conversation? It does rather put that person on the spot, don't you think? Not really she has every right to say no i just don't see why you was trying to say no for her " Never mind.......... | |||
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"Its not letting me view alot of profiles tonight for some reason That's odd, I wonder why Just proving it is a shit site " It almost certainly means you have blocked, thats the most common reason you wouldn't be able to view a profile. | |||
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"Neither gym fit not hung like a horse here OP, in fact distinctly average and have a cock that works when it wants to and how it wants to, so am hardly what you would call a "catch" and yet am more than happy with my experience of the site over the past four years. Often when guys on here say they are struggling it comes down to one, some or all of the following - all of which are within their own hands to put right: Profile - make sure yours is well written, tells the reader something about you and what you are looking for, and what you think you can offer. Make sure it helps you stand out from all the other generic single guy profiles on the site. It's your shop window, so dress it to appeal. Pics - put together a good collection of pics that show you, and your body off well, without necessarily showing off your cock. Attitude - keep a positive attitude at all times, treat others with respect and consideration and accept knock backs graciously. Expectations - make sure they're set low, then turn them down a notch - you don't get messages and and meets just for having a profile. You're also in a very big pool of people all looking for the same thing from a much smaller pool, so need to accept that you won't always get a response or what you're hoping for. Approach - find an approach to the site that works for you - don't just rely on sending cold messages to other users, there are many ways to approach and get to know other users including using the forums and chat rooms, both of which are a very good way to get to know people and them to get to know you. None of that will guarantee a thing, but will improve your experience and perception of the site. " This | |||
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"Its not letting me view alot of profiles tonight for some reason That's odd, I wonder why Just proving it is a shit site It almost certainly means you have blocked, thats the most common reason you wouldn't be able to view a profile. " Or people have just hidden their profiles | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Because id like to get to know her she doesn't have to does she ? Im just saying id like to speak to her " That’s very nice of you but I’m 27, which means in my eyes you’re too young for me! But I hope you get what you’re seeking on here or elsewhere if you decide to! | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Because id like to get to know her she doesn't have to does she ? Im just saying id like to speak to her Maybe the way you come access in messages is the problem. " yep | |||
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"Maybe it’s time to leave then and try somewhere else. Or you could have a conversation with me ?? that would make the ten month wait worth it ?? Why should the lady above have a conversation with you, OP? People generally have a reason to converse. Because id like to get to know her she doesn't have to does she ? Im just saying id like to speak to her That’s very nice of you but I’m 27, which means in my eyes you’re too young for me! But I hope you get what you’re seeking on here or elsewhere if you decide to! " Aww thats a shame but okay.. wish i never started all the drama now lol | |||
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"Its not letting me view alot of profiles tonight for some reason That's odd, I wonder why Just proving it is a shit site " Wood /trees?? | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one Do you not just want to give up sometimes Yeah lol, it’s rare to come across a genuine women who can actually hold some sort of conversation and banter on here Most arent even interested in single guys anyway " Hopefully you are not trying to get something going with women who aren't interested in single men. You can expect to be rejected by them. If you are approaching people not looking for single men and it's those rejections that are upsetting you then you are setting yourself up for a fall. I don't know why you would expect anything different. What are your messages like? The vast majority of the ones we get are absolute rubbish and give us no reason to want to engage with the sender anyway. We reply to all respectful messages which have had a bit of thought put into them. Are your messages interesting and worth replying to? | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " Right? I'm sick of clicking on a gorgeous woman's profile and reading that she only meets "jacked centaurs" | |||
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"Mate trust me. You’re not the only one Do you not just want to give up sometimes Yeah lol, it’s rare to come across a genuine women who can actually hold some sort of conversation and banter on here " Maybe they don’t want to talk to you | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet Right? I'm sick of clicking on a gorgeous woman's profile and reading that she only meets "jacked centaurs" " Please do not kink shame those of us who love fantastic beasts | |||
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"I wonder why that could be OP? Love from, someone who doesn’t meet men who have huge cocks or are gym fit x" ..and l'm a multi millionaire..well that's not really true...but you started it | |||
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"There was a guy complaining of the same last night that it was slowly chipping away at his confidence and affecting his work and personal life. Keep your chin up OP Yeah it does get really annoying after a while just end up questioning what you need to change about yourself " It's not about changing yourself as a person, it's about changing your perceptive and approach. Some people will adore you just the way you are but you got to keep it real, not everyone you message will. Keep high value about yourself, choose women you think are more suitable to you (more local and interested in the same kinks etc), be positive in the messages and have tons of patience as she just won't appear only night. I know with covid, it's brought alot of negative emotions because it's such uncertain times as people are getting sick, losing their jobs and love ones. Give yourself a break from this site, work on yourself and see what you can do to make yourself feel better and happier then give this site another chance when covid situation gets better and you feel better. | |||
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"There was a guy complaining of the same last night that it was slowly chipping away at his confidence and affecting his work and personal life. Keep your chin up OP Yeah it does get really annoying after a while just end up questioning what you need to change about yourself It's not about changing yourself as a person, it's about changing your perceptive and approach. Some people will adore you just the way you are but you got to keep it real, not everyone you message will. Keep high value about yourself, choose women you think are more suitable to you (more local and interested in the same kinks etc), be positive in the messages and have tons of patience as she just won't appear only night. I know with covid, it's brought alot of negative emotions because it's such uncertain times as people are getting sick, losing their jobs and love ones. Give yourself a break from this site, work on yourself and see what you can do to make yourself feel better and happier then give this site another chance when covid situation gets better and you feel better. " | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " That's the jungle of fab.. BUT.. THE most important thing is NOT to let it get to you ..yes l fully know.. believe me ..that not getting replies etc etc could easily start to eat into your confidence ..but please don't let not getting replies to your messages dampen your fun in logging on ..l find that by jumping into the forums you get to read and reply to what ladies have written or posted and you can reply personally to their posts too once you're inside their age range and filters which is way better than trying to send individual messages to them as they see you've an interest in what they've posted or talked about. | |||
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"only just took them down because I was going to come off.. everyone I have messaged has seen me" You posted 11 weeks ago, with the same question, the advice then was to put pictures up, so I think someone is telling porkies here | |||
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"only just took them down because I was going to come off.. everyone I have messaged has seen me You posted 11 weeks ago, with the same question, the advice then was to put pictures up, so I think someone is telling porkies here" Busted | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky" Picky because they won't sleep with you or...? | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky" All....too....picky Why would you choose someone you don't fancy when there are plenty there that you do? That would just be silly | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky Picky because they won't sleep with you or...?" chat or reply | |||
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"Oh.....I thought this thread was discussing a new different kind of site......." just made me spit my tea out | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky All....too....picky Why would you choose someone you don't fancy when there are plenty there that you do? That would just be silly" Because they're on Fab so must be desperate for a shag right? | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky All....too....picky Why would you choose someone you don't fancy when there are plenty there that you do? That would just be silly" is that an offer then | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky All....too....picky Why would you choose someone you don't fancy when there are plenty there that you do? That would just be silly Because they're on Fab so must be desperate for a shag right? " no not desperate mate | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky All....too....picky Why would you choose someone you don't fancy when there are plenty there that you do? That would just be silly Because they're on Fab so must be desperate for a shag right? No not desperate mate" I meant the ladies. They all want it really, they're just playing hard ball | |||
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"just end up questioning what you need to change about yourself " Expectation? | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky All....too....picky Why would you choose someone you don't fancy when there are plenty there that you do? That would just be sillyis that an offer then" In what way would you think that is an offer. I will send you my generic reply "Sorry, you are not for me, happy fabbing" | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky All....too....picky Why would you choose someone you don't fancy when there are plenty there that you do? That would just be silly Because they're on Fab so must be desperate for a shag right? " Gagging, you free now? Im in the area for work and got a quick hour | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky All....too....picky Why would you choose someone you don't fancy when there are plenty there that you do? That would just be sillyis that an offer then In what way would you think that is an offer. I will send you my generic reply "Sorry, you are not for me, happy fabbing"" you gotten try right?? | |||
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"Love this place Always a laugh to be had a party to be invited to and a club to visit . When this is all over it will come back but doubt it will ever be the same . Time will tell But pics on profile always help . Stay safe peeps " and dont do the "look at me" thread in the forums it never ends well. | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky All....too....picky Why would you choose someone you don't fancy when there are plenty there that you do? That would just be silly Because they're on Fab so must be desperate for a shag right? Gagging, you free now? Im in the area for work and got a quick hour" Oh how could I possibly resist? *swoon* | |||
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"Love this place Always a laugh to be had a party to be invited to and a club to visit . When this is all over it will come back but doubt it will ever be the same . Time will tell But pics on profile always help . Stay safe peeps and dont do the "look at me" thread in the forums it never ends well." Ah, you have to do the "Look at me" threads in *just* the right way | |||
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"Love this place Always a laugh to be had a party to be invited to and a club to visit . When this is all over it will come back but doubt it will ever be the same . Time will tell But pics on profile always help . Stay safe peeps and dont do the "look at me" thread in the forums it never ends well. Ah, you have to do the "Look at me" threads in *just* the right way " ok so now I'm curious, what is the right way, just asking for a friend... | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " You bave no pictures and not much in your write up to make mw want to contact you. | |||
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"no just expected someone to at least say hi after 10months ?? I think alot of people on here would actually like me if they give me chance im quite a easy person to get on with" But you've got to have a better profile to spark interest x | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " The site ain't shit but some profiles are op. If it ain't working for YOU then there lays the issue. The end. | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " You've had plenty of replies now. | |||
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"I'm neither and I don't have the best profile but I've managed to meet some lovely people on here. Perhaps it's your approach that needs modifying? " Or dare we say, attitude. | |||
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"Added to the fact that this is your 4th or 5th post complaining about lack of contact and have done nothing to change your approach, oh and a post bedding for sex.... Yep real turn on" OMG I literally just spat my coffee out then reading this | |||
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"Added to the fact that this is your 4th or 5th post complaining about lack of contact and have done nothing to change your approach, oh and a post bedding for sex.... Yep real turn on OMG I literally just spat my coffee out then reading this " Well we haven't had any direct meets from here, we've had met lovely people in clubs but we haven't once complained about this site being shit lol Plus if you wanted to send us a message because we can't send one to you because of your filters we would love the site more | |||
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"Yes I have the same problem mate there isnt alot with in a 30 mile radius and there all to picky All....too....picky Why would you choose someone you don't fancy when there are plenty there that you do? That would just be silly Because they're on Fab so must be desperate for a shag right? Gagging, you free now? Im in the area for work and got a quick hour Oh how could I possibly resist? *swoon*" Pmsl | |||
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"Added to the fact that this is your 4th or 5th post complaining about lack of contact and have done nothing to change your approach, oh and a post bedding for sex.... Yep real turn on" Thank fab for that green arrow | |||
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"Added to the fact that this is your 4th or 5th post complaining about lack of contact and have done nothing to change your approach, oh and a post bedding for sex.... Yep real turn on Thank fab for that green arrow " I just down a bit of a rabbit hole with green arrow. | |||
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"Added to the fact that this is your 4th or 5th post complaining about lack of contact and have done nothing to change your approach, oh and a post bedding for sex.... Yep real turn on Thank fab for that green arrow I just down a bit of a rabbit hole with green arrow. " Tell the queen of hearts I said hi and il call into her later | |||
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"You have no pics available, puts me off straight away x" Exactly what the lovely lady said!its not blind date and those who have no pics on,personally to me, scream desperation..... | |||
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"Added to the fact that this is your 4th or 5th post complaining about lack of contact and have done nothing to change your approach, oh and a post bedding for sex.... Yep real turn on OMG I literally just spat my coffee out then reading this Well we haven't had any direct meets from here, we've had met lovely people in clubs but we haven't once complained about this site being shit lol Plus if you wanted to send us a message because we can't send one to you because of your filters we would love the site more " This just made me smile!!! | |||
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"Added to the fact that this is your 4th or 5th post complaining about lack of contact and have done nothing to change your approach, oh and a post bedding for sex.... Yep real turn on Thank fab for that green arrow I just down a bit of a rabbit hole with green arrow. " Lol oh my is it that entertaining ha I may save it to read later on tonight | |||
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"Added to the fact that this is your 4th or 5th post complaining about lack of contact and have done nothing to change your approach, oh and a post bedding for sex.... Yep real turn on Thank fab for that green arrow I just down a bit of a rabbit hole with green arrow. Lol oh my is it that entertaining ha I may save it to read later on tonight " No not really but then I started to green arrow other OP's I came across. Thats an hour of my life im not getting back. | |||
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"Added to the fact that this is your 4th or 5th post complaining about lack of contact and have done nothing to change your approach, oh and a post bedding for sex.... Yep real turn on Thank fab for that green arrow I just down a bit of a rabbit hole with green arrow. Lol oh my is it that entertaining ha I may save it to read later on tonight No not really but then I started to green arrow other OP's I came across. Thats an hour of my life im not getting back. " What if I said I had a time machine | |||
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"any other lads find it hard on here unless your a gym freak or hung like a horse.. been on here ages and can't even get a message back let alone a meet " Almost every week there are posts in this forum about dick size and body tyes. Yes there are plenty of Women seeking hung guys, but equal numbers post saying they prefer average sized dick. The same with gym bod vs dad bods. You dick is your dick, you cant change that but your body you can if you really want to. But reading these forums shows time and time again personal connection seems to be the most important thing. You are a single guy in a sea of single guys, so your profile and message game need to be on point. | |||
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