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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
Fabville |
"I'm sure you're not, OP.
Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.
Far as I know there are none where I live "
So you may have to travel a bit. Stay over at a cheap hotel.
Do some research. |
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By *lappyMan
over a year ago
Manchester |
I havent either my friend but I wouldn’t feel comfortable at the minute either , time wasn’t built in a day, get chatting to people and find out what / clubs are happening in the future where you will have built up a circle of friends / connections whom you will likely meet at the club / event |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all start somewhere"
Yeah well I probably won't start getting into that unless I meet someone to attend one with. However I don't feel like there is much of a chance to meet someone through this app without going to clubs and socials. |
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"We all start somewhere
Yeah well I probably won't start getting into that unless I meet someone to attend one with. However I don't feel like there is much of a chance to meet someone through this app without going to clubs and socials. "
When the pandemic is over clubs will hopefully resume. You can go on your own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We all start somewhere
Yeah well I probably won't start getting into that unless I meet someone to attend one with. However I don't feel like there is much of a chance to meet someone through this app without going to clubs and socials.
When the pandemic is over clubs will hopefully resume. You can go on your own."
At this rate a lot will be gone we just lost one up here in scotland |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We all start somewhere
Yeah well I probably won't start getting into that unless I meet someone to attend one with. However I don't feel like there is much of a chance to meet someone through this app without going to clubs and socials.
When the pandemic is over clubs will hopefully resume. You can go on your own."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sure you're not, OP.
Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.
Far as I know there are none where I live There are a few that are local to Swansea."
Clubs or socials |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're not alone I've not been either, not sure if it's out of my comfort zone or if my ugly mug would even be allowed in "
It feels out of my comfort zone as well. Once a lady asked me to meet her in a club and I just thought nah that's not the way I want to meet someone. |
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"I'm sure you're not, OP.
Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.
Far as I know there are none where I live There are a few that are local to Swansea.
Clubs or socials "
Socials ..There is only the 1 club in wales and that’s in Newport..Once everything gets back to normal just keep checking in the welsh forum.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sure you're not, OP.
Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.
Far as I know there are none where I live There are a few that are local to Swansea.
Clubs or socials Socials ..There is only the 1 club in wales and that’s in Newport..Once everything gets back to normal just keep checking in the welsh forum.."
Oh, yes |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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I've not been to any either OP. Unfortunately clubs are few and far between up here. This year I was planning venturing down south but obviously not happening! Next year it is!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been to a club which had to shut (pre covid) and I’ve organised a couple of socials in the past.
The socials I went to that I didn’t organise were boring as hell.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm sure you're not, OP.
Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.
Far as I know there are none where I live "
Why do you need to go to one where you live. People from as far as America come to the MLS |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interestingly I went to a ‘local’ social with a friend but it was quite intimidating. Not their fault, the tiny venue was full, but it was obviously quite clicky. We sat outside (in a different part of the venue) but despite having tried to walk into the ‘social’, and then checking for free seats a couple of times, we weren’t approached so had 1 drink and left.
It was a shame, as I get that this is the best way to make friends.
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"a swingers club or an organised social event. Judging by some of the threads I feel like the only one. "
I've never been to a swingers club or party either and I feel a bit left out. You can tell it's a community. Looking forward to going to one but would like to go in a couple instead of alone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm sure you're not, OP.
Try to be patient, and wait until it's safe to start going.
Far as I know there are none where I live
Why do you need to go to one where you live. People from as far as America come to the MLS"
I don't need to go to one where I live but it would of been nice to know. Maybe I will visit one on my travels someday.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Been to both........ but not my scene really, always felt uncomfortable...... prefer 1on1"
This is the thing I know that I would feel uncomfortable going to one as a single man. I'm uncomfortable when I meet stranger to one lol so I guess a club would be a different level. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a Club or Social kind of gal. Was just here for one to one fun."
Same for me.
I definitely wouldn't go to a club after seeing that cringey channel 4 doc.
It's my idea of hell  |
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