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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there  I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever 
Be kind!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You post whenever you like and ignore anyone that suggests otherwise.
What I will say is the majority of messages I get are lazy and not thought out but not abusive or rude.
Iv had abuse of course but its its not the majority of men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You post whenever you like and ignore anyone that suggests otherwise.
What I will say is the majority of messages I get are lazy and not thought out but not abusive or rude.
Iv had abuse of course but its its not the majority of men. "
Good comment x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever
Be kind!!"
+1. Always spread love. Don’t spread hate or Covid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever
Be kind!!
+1. Always spread love. Don’t spread hate or Covid "
Always smile even when you don't want to. Spread love always  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These abusive males should be banned from site. They give gentleman a bad name and makes life harder for others"
I quite dis agree sir. It’s just they are weak in handling their reactional emotions. Best is to be blocked by individuals until they realise they should change and make them part of fab again. People deserve choices. Good ones always rewarded. And ladies knows them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Humans are supposed to love and be for eachother. Don’t know where we lost that idea in the long run.
Soon I hope it comes back. "
Well said,I could very easily love you ,after reading this  |
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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago
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"These abusive males should be banned from site. They give gentleman a bad name and makes life harder for others
I quite dis agree sir. It’s just they are weak in handling their reactional emotions. Best is to be blocked by individuals until they realise they should change and make them part of fab again. People deserve choices. Good ones always rewarded. And ladies knows them. "
The only reason I say banned is that they don't just do it once, why subject another person of the fairer sex to abuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever
Be kind!!"
Who said they hate you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I send a message to anyone
It’s always polite
I never assume anything from them
Some reply which is very rare
Most just ignore the message
Some even block
Just one of those things
Am never rude either
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Post when you want buddy, sod the haters
+1 , I dont understand where they think they will get by being bullies. Ladies, or anyone for that matter, can I suggest reporting the abusive ones ?
Love all around peeps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Humans are supposed to love and be for eachother. Don’t know where we lost that idea in the long run.
Soon I hope it comes back.
Well said,I could very easily love you ,after reading this "
Love you too. I believe that sarcasm is a sign of getting closer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever
Be kind!!"
Unfortunately OP I have been on the receiving end of someone creating a thread on the forum about me when I have turned them down. That wasn't a very nice experience for me as you can imagine.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have zero interest in what other men get up to on this site, it isn’t my concern, the men you are probably referring to are highly unlikely to do any more reading than they have to do, so I doubt they use the forums, but the tacticof moaning about others men’s behaviour to make yourself look better is as Cliched as a cock photo on here. |
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"I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever
Be kind!!"
Such a white knight comment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have zero interest in what other men get up to on this site, it isn’t my concern, the men you are probably referring to are highly unlikely to do any more reading than they have to do, so I doubt they use the forums, but the tacticof moaning about others men’s behaviour to make yourself look better is as Cliched as a cock photo on here. "
Whatever the reason, if no interest then y here. Go fishing . Nothing personal dude |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I have zero interest in what other men get up to on this site, it isn’t my concern, the men you are probably referring to are highly unlikely to do any more reading than they have to do, so I doubt they use the forums, but the tacticof moaning about others men’s behaviour to make yourself look better is as Cliched as a cock photo on here.
Whatever the reason, if no interest then y here. Go fishing . Nothing personal dude"
Because he is allowed an opinion like everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From what I hear, men are also subject to a lot f disrespect, these things are never gender specific. I'm with you on the respect thing for sure but it should be for all regardless of gender  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have zero interest in what other men get up to on this site, it isn’t my concern, the men you are probably referring to are highly unlikely to do any more reading than they have to do, so I doubt they use the forums, but the tacticof moaning about others men’s behaviour to make yourself look better is as Cliched as a cock photo on here.
Whatever the reason, if no interest then y here. Go fishing . Nothing personal dude"
Im here because it’s a thread in a public forum, I think you’re confusing having no interest to having an opinion on something that I find annoying when either sex does it, telling people to be kind to make yourself stand out like a beacon of light, is textbook fab behaviour, people just need to focus on what they’re doing. As for fishing I couldn’t think of anything worse, poor fish, leave them alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever
Be kind!!"
Just as a matter of interest are you referring to me as a hater? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever
Be kind!!
Just as a matter of interest are you referring to me as a hater?"
We still on this merry go round?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to get one thing straight this post is literally about guys not taking the word no seriously at the end of the day when a woman turns around and says that they're not interested in you leave it at that you don't pester them you just move on to your next person and if they say no you do it again you move on to the next person you don't just keep pestering them and pestering them and pestering them and then when the abusive words come out which they don't need like a guy doesn't need to hear it from a woman and a woman doesn't need to hear it from a man we all have our likes and dislikes that's What Makes Us humans if we both swiped the same stuff life would be pretty dull |
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"I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever
Be kind!!
Unfortunately OP I have been on the receiving end of someone creating a thread on the forum about me when I have turned them down. That wasn't a very nice experience for me as you can imagine.
Her x"
Sorry you had to put up with that. An abusive message is one thing but a thread on the forum is on an other level
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"Just to get one thing straight this post is literally about guys not taking the word no seriously at the end of the day when a woman turns around and says that they're not interested in you leave it at that you don't pester them you just move on to your next person and if they say no you do it again you move on to the next person you don't just keep pestering them and pestering them and pestering them and then when the abusive words come out which they don't need like a guy doesn't need to hear it from a woman and a woman doesn't need to hear it from a man we all have our likes and dislikes that's What Makes Us humans if we both swiped the same stuff life would be pretty dull"
Perhaps these type of men see the womans initial comment as abusive.
Woman was abusive but she thinks not etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dunno if these threads ever work for the man who starts them, women swooning in his inbox, saying so brave, my hero etc, thank you for being their for us. Let me know anyway OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I respect those that respect others
If I witness anyone exhibiting mean behaviour or dishing out snide comments on a consistent basis, then they will lose that respect
I have no issue calling out bullies, bitches or the downright rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think everyone should respect everyone on this site no matter who you are. If your going to message someone do it properly and also take 5 minutes out of your time to read profiles. I am very lucky touch wood I have been on this site on n off for the last 10 years and not had one bad comment or seen one. |
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Those who are spreading ‘hate’ on here, will no doubt carry on, no matter how many people tell them not to do it. The site is what it is, we’d all prefer a respectful bunch of open minded fellow souls, but that’s not going to happen. It’s available for all that seek it out and that means the detritus that the web dregs up, suddenly creating a profile on here.
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"What exactly is a white knight in this context..?
Is it a person who is a shining example to us all or is it a sneaky way to worm your way into the women's affections or something else ?"
It’s the latter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What exactly is a white knight in this context..?
Is it a person who is a shining example to us all or is it a sneaky way to worm your way into the women's affections or something else ?
It’s the latter"
And how can you possibly know that? |
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"What exactly is a white knight in this context..?
Is it a person who is a shining example to us all or is it a sneaky way to worm your way into the women's affections or something else ?
It’s the latter
And how can you possibly know that?"
You’ve misunderstood. The post I was replying to asked in what context the term ‘white knight’ was being used. So I answered him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What exactly is a white knight in this context..?
Is it a person who is a shining example to us all or is it a sneaky way to worm your way into the women's affections or something else ?
It’s the latter
And how can you possibly know that?
You’ve misunderstood. The post I was replying to asked in what context the term ‘white knight’ was being used. So I answered him. "
Yes but you still have absolutely no idea what the intention is. You are making an assumption. |
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I think 5hat has something to do with the fragile male ego. The owner of these expect who ever they look at, simply to have their clothes disappear And get on their knees ready for them.
When someone says 'no thank you', the person takes it as an insult, therefore needs to attack.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we all know the reason men start these threads, it’s fairly transparent and predictable
Please explain..
Don't talk in riddles"
I’ll talk how I like thanks |
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"I think we all know the reason men start these threads, it’s fairly transparent and predictable
Please explain..
Don't talk in riddles
I’ll talk how I like thanks "
Please do.. it matters not that nobody can understand your point... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we all know the reason men start these threads, it’s fairly transparent and predictable
Please explain..
Don't talk in riddles
I’ll talk how I like thanks
Please do.. it matters not that nobody can understand your point..."
Wake up Tom |
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"I think we all know the reason men start these threads, it’s fairly transparent and predictable
Please explain..
Don't talk in riddles
I’ll talk how I like thanks
Please do.. it matters not that nobody can understand your point...
Wake up Tom "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand you probably have good intentions, but you're most like preaching to the wrong crowd which will never go down well. Which only really leaves motivation on your behalf and I don’t think many people will really appreciate the message you're saying because of that.
I'm hoping you can understand what I'm saying without me being too forthright - you seem like a nice chap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we all know the reason men start these threads, it’s fairly transparent and predictable"
Cause they’re nice?
It’s possible, ya know. Men can be nice and have good intentions. Mental, I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we all know the reason men start these threads, it’s fairly transparent and predictable
Cause they’re nice?
It’s possible, ya know. Men can be nice and have good intentions. Mental, I know "
No they can't be. They have to trying to get into your knickers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we all know the reason men start these threads, it’s fairly transparent and predictable
Cause they’re nice?
It’s possible, ya know. Men can be nice and have good intentions. Mental, I know
No they can't be. They have to trying to get into your knickers. "
So, the OP doing this thread aimed at women and on another thread saying he sends messages to women saying they’re beautiful is just him being nice?
If that was the case, why didn’t he say he sends messages to men too, as mental health is a bigger problem for men on the whole than women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we all know the reason men start these threads, it’s fairly transparent and predictable
Cause they’re nice?
It’s possible, ya know. Men can be nice and have good intentions. Mental, I know
No they can't be. They have to trying to get into your knickers.
So, the OP doing this thread aimed at women and on another thread saying he sends messages to women saying they’re beautiful is just him being nice?
If that was the case, why didn’t he say he sends messages to men too, as mental health is a bigger problem for men on the whole than women."
That doesn't make sense and not relevant to this thread. |
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"I think we all know the reason men start these threads, it’s fairly transparent and predictable
Cause they’re nice?
It’s possible, ya know. Men can be nice and have good intentions. Mental, I know
No they can't be. They have to trying to get into your knickers.
So, the OP doing this thread aimed at women and on another thread saying he sends messages to women saying they’re beautiful is just him being nice?
If that was the case, why didn’t he say he sends messages to men too, as mental health is a bigger problem for men on the whole than women."
Jesus... why is everything so overthought on here?!? Some folk are nice. Just nice. No biggie. It’s not hurting anyone. He likes women and says so. I really don’t get this great debate.. |
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"I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever
Be kind!!"
What a lovely thread x |
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"I know that I said I will not post for a month unfortunately sorry to all of the haters out there I've noticed on some statuses that a lot of women do get hate messages if they decide that the woman is not for them. I think we as gentlemen need to respect their decision instead of actually giving them a pure hate when nobody deserves hate whatsoever
Be kind!!
What a lovely thread x"
It sure is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get what's going on here recently, It seems to have gone from 'Fuck you?' to 'Fuck you!'
People try to be nice, but then no good deed goes unpunished  "
People seem to think there is Alteria motives for every post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get what's going on here recently, It seems to have gone from 'Fuck you?' to 'Fuck you!'
People try to be nice, but then no good deed goes unpunished
People seem to think there is Alteria motives for every post. "
To be fair - you can't blame people for being cynical, especially given the environment. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I don't get what's going on here recently, It seems to have gone from 'Fuck you?' to 'Fuck you!'
People try to be nice, but then no good deed goes unpunished "
All we can do is be ourselves.
We can't please all the people all of the time. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I don't get what's going on here recently, It seems to have gone from 'Fuck you?' to 'Fuck you!'
People try to be nice, but then no good deed goes unpunished
People seem to think there is Alteria motives for every post. "
They do sadly - and not denying that sometimes there are, but it's usually quite transparent if you know what you're looking for - but a lot of the time people see hidden agendas and snipes where all that actually has happened is someone has posted an opposing opinion. |
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"I don't get what's going on here recently, It seems to have gone from 'Fuck you?' to 'Fuck you!'
People try to be nice, but then no good deed goes unpunished "
It depends who is doing the good intention post unfortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get what's going on here recently, It seems to have gone from 'Fuck you?' to 'Fuck you!'
People try to be nice, but then no good deed goes unpunished
People seem to think there is Alteria motives for every post.
To be fair - you can't blame people for being cynical, especially given the environment."
Yes you can. You can cynical but you don't have to ripe apart a person for trying to be nice.
If a woman had posted this and iv seen similar the response has been much more pleasant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get what's going on here recently, It seems to have gone from 'Fuck you?' to 'Fuck you!'
People try to be nice, but then no good deed goes unpunished
It depends who is doing the good intention post unfortunately "
I agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get what's going on here recently, It seems to have gone from 'Fuck you?' to 'Fuck you!'
People try to be nice, but then no good deed goes unpunished
People seem to think there is Alteria motives for every post.
They do sadly - and not denying that sometimes there are, but it's usually quite transparent if you know what you're looking for - but a lot of the time people see hidden agendas and snipes where all that actually has happened is someone has posted an opposing opinion."
Oh of course there is but I dont see that with OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get what's going on here recently, It seems to have gone from 'Fuck you?' to 'Fuck you!'
People try to be nice, but then no good deed goes unpunished
People seem to think there is Alteria motives for every post.
To be fair - you can't blame people for being cynical, especially given the environment.
Yes you can. You can cynical but you don't have to ripe apart a person for trying to be nice.
If a woman had posted this and iv seen similar the response has been much more pleasant. "
Nah, my cynicism is gender neutral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get what's going on here recently, It seems to have gone from 'Fuck you?' to 'Fuck you!'
People try to be nice, but then no good deed goes unpunished
People seem to think there is Alteria motives for every post.
They do sadly - and not denying that sometimes there are, but it's usually quite transparent if you know what you're looking for - but a lot of the time people see hidden agendas and snipes where all that actually has happened is someone has posted an opposing opinion."
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