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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I'm a complete blubber (and I'm not talking about my waist) have got a dose of the wet eye at a manner of things John Lewis Xmas ads, DIY SOS, Up and don't get me started on Toy Story 3
No shame in it whatsoever |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve always been comfortable with it. It is an essential way of clearing distress emotions. Sobbing is cathartic and I often leak from the eyes when I am so moved during films or tv programmes or while watching a particularly moving performance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've always tried to hide feelings and I don't cry at films or anything like that but problem with hiding feelings and emotions is that they build up and bite you in the arse and then end up like a blubbering idiot my ex used to say it takes a real man to show emotion and cry were all human after all |
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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes.
Anyone who says no needs a clip around the ear.
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I'll say anything to get a clip round the arse 
But on a serious note it is definitely good for guys to be able to express their emotions the way they want to without crappy stereotyping  |
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"I prefer emotionally intelligent men, there is no shame in crying "
Absolutely. Men can and should experience the same range of emotions as anyone else.
Here the patriarchy hurts men too, and it needs to stop.
Cry if you need to cry. It's a healthy release. |
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Nothing wrong in it at all.
Some men tend to think that they have to always to show off a tough exterior but we all have our moments and only think of it as being a healthy way to let it out.
I cry over the stupidest things  |
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Nothing wrong with men crying at all.
Mr is terrible when it comes to kids or animals. We avoid Call the midwife and DIY SOS, he had to deliver a dead calf back last year and wasn’t himself for days afterwards. |
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"Nothing wrong in it at all.
Some men tend to think that they have to always to show off a tough exterior but we all have our moments and only think of it as being a healthy way to let it out.
I cry over the stupidest things "
I once cried because Asda didn't have the Extra Special mushroom risotto I had been looking forward to all day. Granted it had been a long, hard day but I definitely raised some eyebrows in the chilled aisle  |
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Anyone who thinks it's not ok for a guy or anyone else to cry needs their genitals burning with a red hot poker and lets see if its suddenly not OK for them to cry.
Crying releases tension, eases pain of all kinds and is generally good for the soul.
Cry me a damn river if it helps and I'll cry a river for you too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some films do it to me.
The lady that lost her dog on here the other night done it.
But are you OK with a guy that CRY'S
& guys do you feal you have to hide it....."
A guy that cries is an emotional being just like us women. I personally feel a lot of respect for men who are in touch with their emotions. It shows you have heart x respect |
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"Nothing wrong in it at all.
Some men tend to think that they have to always to show off a tough exterior but we all have our moments and only think of it as being a healthy way to let it out.
I cry over the stupidest things
I once cried because Asda didn't have the Extra Special mushroom risotto I had been looking forward to all day. Granted it had been a long, hard day but I definitely raised some eyebrows in the chilled aisle "
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"Anyone who thinks it's not ok for a guy or anyone else to cry needs their genitals burning with a red hot poker and lets see if its suddenly not OK for them to cry.
Crying releases tension, eases pain of all kinds and is generally good for the soul.
Cry me a damn river if it helps and I'll cry a river for you too. "
Got your back, offering you a shoulder, feel what you need to |
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"Anyone who thinks it's not ok for a guy or anyone else to cry needs their genitals burning with a red hot poker and lets see if its suddenly not OK for them to cry.
Crying releases tension, eases pain of all kinds and is generally good for the soul.
Cry me a damn river if it helps and I'll cry a river for you too.
Got your back, offering you a shoulder, feel what you need to"
Pain right now and was so bad i almost cried last night.....I just shook from head to toe instead  |
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"Anyone who thinks it's not ok for a guy or anyone else to cry needs their genitals burning with a red hot poker and lets see if its suddenly not OK for them to cry.
Crying releases tension, eases pain of all kinds and is generally good for the soul.
Cry me a damn river if it helps and I'll cry a river for you too.
Got your back, offering you a shoulder, feel what you need to
Pain right now and was so bad i almost cried last night.....I just shook from head to toe instead "
Hope you're feeling better. It's tough, and we all cope in our different ways. But better with a full range of emotions and in community x |
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It's very hard to cry when you have been emotionally scarred. It's not that a person doesn't want to cry....they just find extremely hard to physically show that type of emotion |
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"It's very hard to cry when you have been emotionally scarred. It's not that a person doesn't want to cry....they just find extremely hard to physically show that type of emotion "
Big hugs. I hope you find healing |
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In all my years not once did I ever see my father cry, not even when my brother was killed or when his parents died.
Myself, I bottled up my emotions for many years, but in the last 4 years I must have cried over 1000 tears for various reasons, from losing a loved one, to something in a movie. I mean what kind of man cries watching 50 shades of grey?!?!... yep, I did!  |
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"Nothing wrong in it at all.
Some men tend to think that they have to always to show off a tough exterior but we all have our moments and only think of it as being a healthy way to let it out.
I cry over the stupidest things
I once cried because Asda didn't have the Extra Special mushroom risotto I had been looking forward to all day. Granted it had been a long, hard day but I definitely raised some eyebrows in the chilled aisle "
Awwww it must have been a tough long day.
I find that I feel a lot better when I have let it out.
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"In all my years not once did I ever see my father cry, not even when my brother was killed or when his parents died.
Myself, I bottled up my emotions for many years, but in the last 4 years I must have cried over 1000 tears for various reasons, from losing a loved one, to something in a movie. I mean what kind of man cries watching 50 shades of grey?!?!... yep, I did! "
My grandmother didn't live to see 60. She fell ill quite quickly, but her death was drawn out and hideously painful.
I still feel the pain radiating from my grandfather at her funeral. He wouldn't cry. After all of that. Because men didn't.
It is a massive injustice and I'm still angry for him that society did that to him. |
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"In all my years not once did I ever see my father cry, not even when my brother was killed or when his parents died.
Myself, I bottled up my emotions for many years, but in the last 4 years I must have cried over 1000 tears for various reasons, from losing a loved one, to something in a movie. I mean what kind of man cries watching 50 shades of grey?!?!... yep, I did!
My grandmother didn't live to see 60. She fell ill quite quickly, but her death was drawn out and hideously painful.
I still feel the pain radiating from my grandfather at her funeral. He wouldn't cry. After all of that. Because men didn't.
It is a massive injustice and I'm still angry for him that society did that to him."
For previous generations there was a stigma about men crying, not crying was a sign of strength even in the most heart breaking of circumstances. Fortunately today it is more acceptable for a man to show his emotions in front of others, hopefully for the next generation that stigma will disappear for good. |
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I’d say that the only thing that’s not okay is wanting to cry about anything and feeling that you can’t or that you’re somehow not allowed to.
If you want to cry then cry, nothing’s worse to me than holding it in, that solves nothing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong in it at all.
Some men tend to think that they have to always to show off a tough exterior but we all have our moments and only think of it as being a healthy way to let it out.
I cry over the stupidest things
I once cried because Asda didn't have the Extra Special mushroom risotto I had been looking forward to all day. Granted it had been a long, hard day but I definitely raised some eyebrows in the chilled aisle
Awwww it must have been a tough long day.
I find that I feel a lot better when I have let it out.
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Same, sometimes you just need a good cry to let go of built up emotions. The risotto thing was an example of not being able to deal with all the stress I had been through that day, ergo losing it over something so dumb. Crying is so therapeutic |
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"I'm a complete blubber (and I'm not talking about my waist) have got a dose of the wet eye at a manner of things John Lewis Xmas ads, DIY SOS, Up and don't get me started on Toy Story 3
No shame in it whatsoever "
For got DIY SOS wow moving |
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"In all my years not once did I ever see my father cry, not even when my brother was killed or when his parents died.
Myself, I bottled up my emotions for many years, but in the last 4 years I must have cried over 1000 tears for various reasons, from losing a loved one, to something in a movie. I mean what kind of man cries watching 50 shades of grey?!?!... yep, I did!
My grandmother didn't live to see 60. She fell ill quite quickly, but her death was drawn out and hideously painful.
I still feel the pain radiating from my grandfather at her funeral. He wouldn't cry. After all of that. Because men didn't.
It is a massive injustice and I'm still angry for him that society did that to him.
For previous generations there was a stigma about men crying, not crying was a sign of strength even in the most heart breaking of circumstances. Fortunately today it is more acceptable for a man to show his emotions in front of others, hopefully for the next generation that stigma will disappear for good."
I know. I didn't understand at the time, I was pretty young. All I wanted to do was comfort him.
But it angers me that he had to go through that because of stupid bullshit he was taught about how to be a man.
He didn't have to be "a man" in front of me. He was in pain. For bloody obvious reasons.
We owe our men and boys so much better. |
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I have discovered a few wonderful things being on my own, for a few years now.
A nap listening to music in the early evening helps me get through Match of the Day later and not falling asleep (during Man Utd games  ).
Pay a few extra quid for a decent red wine but not more than £20 
But crying in private is a great way of dealing with pent up emotions. In a future relationship I’d still want to do it in private, for me it’s not something (sadly) I’d want to share, the napping and wine fine but the crying that’s for me alone.
(Yes Kids being hurt will always dampen my eyes) |
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"In all my years not once did I ever see my father cry, not even when my brother was killed or when his parents died.
Myself, I bottled up my emotions for many years, but in the last 4 years I must have cried over 1000 tears for various reasons, from losing a loved one, to something in a movie. I mean what kind of man cries watching 50 shades of grey?!?!... yep, I did! "
Mate don't watch THE FAULT IN OUR STARS....... |
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"I have discovered a few wonderful things being on my own, for a few years now.
A nap listening to music in the early evening helps me get through Match of the Day later and not falling asleep (during Man Utd games ).
Pay a few extra quid for a decent red wine but not more than £20
But crying in private is a great way of dealing with pent up emotions. In a future relationship I’d still want to do it in private, for me it’s not something (sadly) I’d want to share, the napping and wine fine but the crying that’s for me alone.
(Yes Kids being hurt will always dampen my eyes)"
're read from the top and I think it's Ok to let it out.... |
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Since I lost my son 3 months ago I've cried every day like a baby. I do it alone so nobody will see me. At work is best as I work nights alone on weekends.
I can only keep my mask on for so long... |
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"In all my years not once did I ever see my father cry, not even when my brother was killed or when his parents died.
Myself, I bottled up my emotions for many years, but in the last 4 years I must have cried over 1000 tears for various reasons, from losing a loved one, to something in a movie. I mean what kind of man cries watching 50 shades of grey?!?!... yep, I did!
My grandmother didn't live to see 60. She fell ill quite quickly, but her death was drawn out and hideously painful.
I still feel the pain radiating from my grandfather at her funeral. He wouldn't cry. After all of that. Because men didn't.
It is a massive injustice and I'm still angry for him that society did that to him.
For previous generations there was a stigma about men crying, not crying was a sign of strength even in the most heart breaking of circumstances. Fortunately today it is more acceptable for a man to show his emotions in front of others, hopefully for the next generation that stigma will disappear for good.
I know. I didn't understand at the time, I was pretty young. All I wanted to do was comfort him.
But it angers me that he had to go through that because of stupid bullshit he was taught about how to be a man.
He didn't have to be "a man" in front of me. He was in pain. For bloody obvious reasons.
We owe our men and boys so much better."
Maybe he cried when he was alone behind closed doors, maybe he wanted to be strong so he could support others who were grieving, but it is sad that he felt that he couldn't let others see him cry.
Yes, everybody should be able to show their emotions without the fear of being embarrassed or being judged. |
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"Since I lost my son 3 months ago I've cried every day like a baby. I do it alone so nobody will see me. At work is best as I work nights alone on weekends.
I can only keep my mask on for so long..."
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"In all my years not once did I ever see my father cry, not even when my brother was killed or when his parents died.
Myself, I bottled up my emotions for many years, but in the last 4 years I must have cried over 1000 tears for various reasons, from losing a loved one, to something in a movie. I mean what kind of man cries watching 50 shades of grey?!?!... yep, I did!
Mate don't watch THE FAULT IN OUR STARS......."
Too late... seen it twice. |
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"Since I lost my son 3 months ago I've cried every day like a baby. I do it alone so nobody will see me. At work is best as I work nights alone on weekends.
I can only keep my mask on for so long...
My girl do not be afraid to cry when you feel like that trust me.
And I'm sorry for your loss mwah keep your head up and if you want to just have a lil chat u can always holla
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"In all my years not once did I ever see my father cry, not even when my brother was killed or when his parents died.
Myself, I bottled up my emotions for many years, but in the last 4 years I must have cried over 1000 tears for various reasons, from losing a loved one, to something in a movie. I mean what kind of man cries watching 50 shades of grey?!?!... yep, I did!
My grandmother didn't live to see 60. She fell ill quite quickly, but her death was drawn out and hideously painful.
I still feel the pain radiating from my grandfather at her funeral. He wouldn't cry. After all of that. Because men didn't.
It is a massive injustice and I'm still angry for him that society did that to him.
For previous generations there was a stigma about men crying, not crying was a sign of strength even in the most heart breaking of circumstances. Fortunately today it is more acceptable for a man to show his emotions in front of others, hopefully for the next generation that stigma will disappear for good.
I know. I didn't understand at the time, I was pretty young. All I wanted to do was comfort him.
But it angers me that he had to go through that because of stupid bullshit he was taught about how to be a man.
He didn't have to be "a man" in front of me. He was in pain. For bloody obvious reasons.
We owe our men and boys so much better.
Maybe he cried when he was alone behind closed doors, maybe he wanted to be strong so he could support others who were grieving, but it is sad that he felt that he couldn't let others see him cry.
Yes, everybody should be able to show their emotions without the fear of being embarrassed or being judged."
I don't and can't know, I was only a little girl. But it's stayed with me, you know? A need to do better for men and boys. |
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"Since I lost my son 3 months ago I've cried every day like a baby. I do it alone so nobody will see me. At work is best as I work nights alone on weekends.
I can only keep my mask on for so long...
My girl do not be afraid to cry when you feel like that trust me.
And I'm sorry for your loss mwah keep your head up and if you want to just have a lil chat u can always holla
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Thats very kind of you but I'm a man |
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"In all my years not once did I ever see my father cry, not even when my brother was killed or when his parents died.
Myself, I bottled up my emotions for many years, but in the last 4 years I must have cried over 1000 tears for various reasons, from losing a loved one, to something in a movie. I mean what kind of man cries watching 50 shades of grey?!?!... yep, I did!
Mate don't watch THE FAULT IN OUR STARS.......
Too late... seen it twice."
Have you read the book
I cried pool side on a holiday lol |
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"Since I lost my son 3 months ago I've cried every day like a baby. I do it alone so nobody will see me. At work is best as I work nights alone on weekends.
I can only keep my mask on for so long...
My girl do not be afraid to cry when you feel like that trust me.
And I'm sorry for your loss mwah keep your head up and if you want to just have a lil chat u can always holla
Thats very kind of you but I'm a man "
You ate and as meany men have contrabuted hear as Wemen we are all hear for you.... |
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Crying used to be frowned upon in the older generation and was a sign of being weak for a man. So glad that things have changed and men are able to show emotion and show they have a heart. Crying releases tension for me but I’m a sod for bottling things up then boom everything comes out all at once and it can be over the smallest thing |
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"Since I lost my son 3 months ago I've cried every day like a baby. I do it alone so nobody will see me. At work is best as I work nights alone on weekends.
I can only keep my mask on for so long...
My girl do not be afraid to cry when you feel like that trust me.
And I'm sorry for your loss mwah keep your head up and if you want to just have a lil chat u can always holla
Thats very kind of you but I'm a man
You ate and as meany men have contrabuted hear as Wemen we are all hear for you...."
I'm confused lol I contributed as a man. Maybe you thought _rincess peaches heart that she added meant it was her posting  |
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"Since I lost my son 3 months ago I've cried every day like a baby. I do it alone so nobody will see me. At work is best as I work nights alone on weekends.
I can only keep my mask on for so long...
Lol I sent you by mistake lol
My girl do not be afraid to cry when you feel like that trust me.
And I'm sorry for your loss mwah keep your head up and if you want to just have a lil chat u can always holla
Thats very kind of you but I'm a man "
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"Since I lost my son 3 months ago I've cried every day like a baby. I do it alone so nobody will see me. At work is best as I work nights alone on weekends.
I can only keep my mask on for so long...
My girl do not be afraid to cry when you feel like that trust me.
And I'm sorry for your loss mwah keep your head up and if you want to just have a lil chat u can always holla
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"Some films do it to me.
The lady that lost her dog on here the other night done it.
But are you OK with a guy that CRY'S
& guys do you feal you have to hide it....."
I do cry occasionally, but I am bi so what do you expect? |
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"Are guys not humans?"
Yes but I always throught I was on the soft side. But this thread it so enlightening. To meany I through it would be a strange thing to post but there is hope and love out there for all from all |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Are guys not humans?
Yes but I always throught I was on the soft side. But this thread it so enlightening. To meany I through it would be a strange thing to post but there is hope and love out there for all from all "
Crying is good I find it difficult to cry |
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"Are guys not humans?
Yes but I always throught I was on the soft side. But this thread it so enlightening. To meany I through it would be a strange thing to post but there is hope and love out there for all from all "
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"Are guys not humans?
Yes but I always throught I was on the soft side. But this thread it so enlightening. To meany I through it would be a strange thing to post but there is hope and love out there for all from all
Crying is good I find it difficult to cry "
I find it easy like meny now opening up |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
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"Are guys not humans?
Yes but I always throught I was on the soft side. But this thread it so enlightening. To meany I through it would be a strange thing to post but there is hope and love out there for all from all
Crying is good I find it difficult to cry
I find it easy like meny now opening up "
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"In all my years not once did I ever see my father cry, not even when my brother was killed or when his parents died.
Myself, I bottled up my emotions for many years, but in the last 4 years I must have cried over 1000 tears for various reasons, from losing a loved one, to something in a movie. I mean what kind of man cries watching 50 shades of grey?!?!... yep, I did!
My grandmother didn't live to see 60. She fell ill quite quickly, but her death was drawn out and hideously painful.
I still feel the pain radiating from my grandfather at her funeral. He wouldn't cry. After all of that. Because men didn't.
It is a massive injustice and I'm still angry for him that society did that to him."
Its not your grandfather you should be angry with. He can no more change his history and those indoctrinations that went with his generation than many others who lived similar lives with all their social and emotional constraints.
Who of us knows what others do in private they are unable to express in public, including crying at the losses in our lives. Be gentle with him, not angry, when tears are shed often the world does not see them. x
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It probably depends on context tbh? You don't really want a tear in your eye trying to get past Customs do ya?
In all fairness though, my Nanny passed last July and there was nothing I could do but cry.
Crying is as natural an instinct as taking a pee. It's ourselves who have made something more out of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think it's been said , but ofcourse it's ok for guys to cry - more than that, guys should be encouraged to express emotions. Read a study on mental health , and it's estimated that I only 5% of males that require some level of counciling actually seek help - so guys it's good to talk about stuff and cry if that's what you need
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By (user no longer on site)
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They re your tears...own them..let no one stop there flow if thats how one feels. Its natural to all so why should it be ok for some and not for others. Society could do with a major re think on many of its ideas....cry away fella..it shows your strength not your weakness.  |
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Yes it is okay for men to cry.
I find it odd though. I don’t cry at many things in my real life (occasionally do if I am really stressed) but I can cry easily at any movie, song, book etc! Especially stories where someone has pushed through major struggle and it works out in the end. |
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"They re your tears...own them..let no one stop there flow if thats how one feels. Its natural to all so why should it be ok for some and not for others. Society could do with a major re think on many of its ideas....cry away fella..it shows your strength not your weakness. "
There is profound strength in confronting your vulnerability. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes it's ok for men to cry. Personnally I rarely cry and have never cried over a song, film/TV show or book. The only times I've cried is when I've had a breakdown. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nothing wrong with a guy crying. Lots of things get me going. Films that hit a nerve. Things my daughter says and does. Tears of pride and happiness not tears of sadness |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong with a guy crying. Lots of things get me going. Films that hit a nerve. Things my daughter says and does. Tears of pride and happiness not tears of sadness "
Love this. |
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"They re your tears...own them..let no one stop there flow if thats how one feels. Its natural to all so why should it be ok for some and not for others. Society could do with a major re think on many of its ideas....cry away fella..it shows your strength not your weakness. "
Looks like we all have the go-ahead to cry if we need to
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dude if its something that you do naturally and without agenda or coercion then ofc it's fine. How could it not be? Emotions are there for a reason. They're clues as to what you need to be right with the world.
If you feel sad then you need a hug. Is that weird? Shouldn't be. |
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"Some films do it to me.
The lady that lost her dog on here the other night done it.
But are you OK with a guy that CRY'S
& guys do you feal you have to hide it....."
It's fine..
Probably not so fine at a swingers party where a lady won't play with your cock.  |
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"Some films do it to me.
The lady that lost her dog on here the other night done it.
But are you OK with a guy that CRY'S
& guys do you feal you have to hide it.....
It's fine..
Probably not so fine at a swingers party where a lady won't play with your cock. "
No then I hug and puff stamp my feet...
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"Yes. It's a sign of strength for anyone to be able to show their emotion."
Very well said. I do agree.
The old saying of "keep a stiff upper lip" and encouraging men to not show their emotions is very bad advice. |
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Oh, yes, yes, of course it's ok
I actually think it can take a lot of courage for some men to show their emotions. So it's definitely a sign of strength, not weakness.
I'm sure plenty people have already said this but I couldn't be arsed reading the whole thread
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