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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Heeeeeelp me!
I have a date tomorrow, a proper one, not a Fab meet. As I met my most recent ex in a dark room at a club I have no idea how to act on a proper vanilla date....
Is there still a three date rule?
How slutty can I be and still be potential gf material???
Words of wisdom please before I cancel in a fit of anxiety  |
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If you want to test his worth then 3 date rule is no bad thing, I've had sex on a first date and gone on to have a relationship but I'm not most guys. Another way to approach it is if he clearly tries it on and makes suggestions about going back to your place etc then don't put out. If he is the perfect gent and you're feeling horny as then maybe at the very last invite him in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dating is fun.
Just concentrate on getting to know the person. Enjoy the meal/pub/whatever it is you're doing.
Make your own rules and have a nice time. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Ummm for me no nickers stockings and a nice outfit over the top  
Now that is just asking for trouble!"
Well ummm sorry I am like you - can’t remember the last time I went on a vanilla date - all I remember she was very very vanilla
Tbh give me a fab date even if it’s a fab social  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of flirty eye contact.. Good banter... Don't get d*unk or mention rimming
Ask him if he like your ankles and show him your wrists... Dead cert for date 2
You're welcome  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally on a date away from fab I'm completely different. Cause I dont want someone to date me cause hes just wanting sex. So if there permenantly talking and hinting about sex it makes me not interested in them.
I know this sounds bizarre with being on here, but a relationship in the real world has to be for the right reasons. So if you really like her , dont come over too pushy xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ummm for me no nickers stockings and a nice outfit over the top
Now that is just asking for trouble!
Well ummm sorry I am like you - can’t remember the last time I went on a vanilla date - all I remember she was very very vanilla
Tbh give me a fab date even if it’s a fab social "
We've had enough conversation for me to know he isn't vanilla...it's a deal breaker for me so wouldn't have got this far if he was! |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Ummm for me no nickers stockings and a nice outfit over the top
Now that is just asking for trouble!
Well ummm sorry I am like you - can’t remember the last time I went on a vanilla date - all I remember she was very very vanilla
Tbh give me a fab date even if it’s a fab social
We've had enough conversation for me to know he isn't vanilla...it's a deal breaker for me so wouldn't have got this far if he was!"
Oooo well I would take a small play bag just in case things get more than just a date - always be prepared
I would maintain eye contact, cheekily flirt with some innuendos obviously don’t talk about gangbangs, and bukakkes
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lots of flirty eye contact.. Good banter... Don't get d*unk or mention rimming
Ask him if he like your ankles and show him your wrists... Dead cert for date 2
You're welcome "
This is the advice I needed haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't cancel just go and enjoy.
If it is a "vanilla" date there should be no expectation on his part of sex, so just relax and see if he appeals to you enough for date number 2. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Date 1 flutter eyelashes and smile a lot.
Date 2 show a bit of leg and allow him to kiss your (face) cheek.
Date 3 hand holding but not in a public place.
Date 4 be naked when he arrives at your house and ride him like a woman possessed. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Date 1 flutter eyelashes and smile a lot.
Date 2 show a bit of leg and allow him to kiss your (face) cheek.
Date 3 hand holding but not in a public place.
Date 4 be naked when he arrives at your house and ride him like a woman possessed. "
No date 4 be dressed ins stockings and suspenders and heels then ride him like a woman possessed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Date 1 flutter eyelashes and smile a lot.
Date 2 show a bit of leg and allow him to kiss your (face) cheek.
Date 3 hand holding but not in a public place.
Date 4 be naked when he arrives at your house and ride him like a woman possessed.
No date 4 be dressed ins stockings and suspenders and heels then ride him like a woman possessed "
Something is telling me you like stockings....  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Date 1 flutter eyelashes and smile a lot.
Date 2 show a bit of leg and allow him to kiss your (face) cheek.
Date 3 hand holding but not in a public place.
Date 4 be naked when he arrives at your house and ride him like a woman possessed.
No date 4 be dressed ins stockings and suspenders and heels then ride him like a woman possessed
Something is telling me you like stockings.... "
That would be telling |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Surely it depends on the chats you've had on the lead up to the date.. you must have an idea of what he is like and what he will find acceptable?"
This is the thing - I know he is kinky and we have had a few chats but nothing overly saucy.
I think I'm preconditioned by Fab to expect copious amounts of dick pics!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I really don't want to have sex on the date but could be persuaded by him then I go unshaven its the only way I'm guaranteed not to take it to sexy times
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This is a very good idea! |
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