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Hi All
Just wanted to have a chat about age
I tend interact with younger guys , guys my age and guys a little bit older but no more than ten years or so.
What does everyone else do
do you prefer same age, younger or older or do you not really consider age.
Hoping to hear some interesting view points |
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"Hi All
Just wanted to have a chat about age
I tend interact with younger guys , guys my age and guys a little bit older but no more than ten years or so.
What does everyone else do
do you prefer same age, younger or older or do you not really consider age.
Hoping to hear some interesting view points "
Probably very similar to yourself, 10 years either way although I have been known to go older if somebody catches the eye. I don't think I have ever broken the 10 years younger window though. |
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I do similar. I mainly interact with people within 5 years either side of my own age.
There are occasions (or were I guess) where I meet someone at a club and find them attractive and don't find out their age until a few meets in - then it doesn't matter so much. |
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I’m fed up with finding out so many men who message me are at least ten years older than their profile says. I ask them because they look older than they say.  |
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I’m not looking for anyone at present but usually I prefer younger than me.
I just haven’t found anyone older that I’ve been particularly attracted to, and I find men older to be pretty crude when messaging me which also puts me off. |
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I tend to go for my age or younger. If I meet someone much younger though I’ll be honest and say it’s generally because they’re hot as fuck.
Similarly, if they’re closer to my own age I look for intelligence and the potential for great conversation when we’re not fucking.
I’d be curious to know if anyone else looks for different things in different age groups - but I guess that’s another thread!  |
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"I'm very close to 60 and for most of my years here (started in my 40,s) age was not an issue however, when I see men in their 20's, some look like boys, not men."
Lol. We’re getting old; police officers, ‘kids’ driving cars, doctors in a&e..... |
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"I’m not looking for anyone at present but usually I prefer younger than me.
I just haven’t found anyone older that I’ve been particularly attracted to, and I find men older to be pretty crude when messaging me which also puts me off."
I find that men of all ages put me off  |
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I go for women between 37-39, if you’re out of that range then I’m just not interested, just to clarify that’s 37-39, 36 or 40 is off limits, they’re just rules, although I’ve seen Some women who are 40 who look good, so I’m not sure why I stick to this Arbitrary system, but I think it’s a form of self Discipline. |
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"I’m not looking for anyone at present but usually I prefer younger than me.
I just haven’t found anyone older that I’ve been particularly attracted to, and I find men older to be pretty crude when messaging me which also puts me off.
I find that men of all ages put me off "
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"I’m not looking for anyone at present but usually I prefer younger than me.
I just haven’t found anyone older that I’ve been particularly attracted to, and I find men older to be pretty crude when messaging me which also puts me off.
I find that men of all ages put me off
This "
Go on; give it a try. You may find you like it 
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"I’m fed up with finding out so many men who message me are at least ten years older than their profile says. I ask them because they look older than they say. "
I think I look older than I am, which I'm sure is a curse in a place like this |
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we chat to anyone that grabs our attention but we have to draw the line at 50 tbh. Not because over 50's arent attractive! They most definitely are but age gap is just a little too big for us. |
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I’d prefer our ages or younger. Or people that don’t look their age .
We get a lot of people messaging us that clearly don’t read the profile as they are over the age range, and even then I’m not convinced it’s accurate. Nothing personal but I have young parents so it’s off putting as they are not far off their ages . |
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"Hi All
Just wanted to have a chat about age
I tend interact with younger guys , guys my age and guys a little bit older but no more than ten years or so.
What does everyone else do
do you prefer same age, younger or older or do you not really consider age.
Hoping to hear some interesting view points "
Damm op you’re a very sexy woman tbhx |
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I generally prefer older but not old, around 30-45. 25 is kind of my minimum, but I'll make an exception for young guys that are nice and mature. I'll also see over 50s if they're good looking xx |
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"I tend to go for my age or younger. If I meet someone much younger though I’ll be honest and say it’s generally because they’re hot as fuck.
Similarly, if they’re closer to my own age I look for intelligence and the potential for great conversation when we’re not fucking.
I’d be curious to know if anyone else looks for different things in different age groups - but I guess that’s another thread! "
I absolutely agree!
I work the same way. |
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"I'm very close to 60 and for most of my years here (started in my 40,s) age was not an issue however, when I see men in their 20's, some look like boys, not men.
Lol. We’re getting old; police officers, ‘kids’ driving cars, doctors in a&e....."
Some of them are shocking, I want to make them eat their greens and say things like "you have school in the morning!" |
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You've always got to remember since growing up at an early age when you're about 13 14 years old you always think that you're going to end up chatting to a 30 year old woman in your dreams soul to speak it's like me now at my age I still prefer the older woman to talk to |
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I can say with certainty that I don't speak to anyone more than 6 years younger than me
I don't really have that much of an upper age limit as long as I find them attractive but generally, I have better conversations with the "older" generation of Fab |
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We have our preferences set to 25-50 I think but they aren’t hard and fast rules, if someone younger came across as respectful and mature or someone older tickled our fancy then why wouldn’t we go for them. |
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"I don't go below 25, otherwise flexible. Preference probably slightly older but it's more about attitude than age."
I notice quite a few women have a lower age limit of 25. I'm a month off turning 25 so I'm wondering if that lower limit would also go up as the person gets a year older |
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"I don't go below 25, otherwise flexible. Preference probably slightly older but it's more about attitude than age.
I notice quite a few women have a lower age limit of 25. I'm a month off turning 25 so I'm wondering if that lower limit would also go up as the person gets a year older"
Lol, no. After 25 you're in the club 
25 just tends to be the age that most guys grow up. Of course this is a gross generalisation, I've slept with guys younger that were very mature, and also guys in their 40s with a mental age of 10. 25 is a law of average I guess. Xx |
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"I don't go below 25, otherwise flexible. Preference probably slightly older but it's more about attitude than age.
I notice quite a few women have a lower age limit of 25. I'm a month off turning 25 so I'm wondering if that lower limit would also go up as the person gets a year older
Lol, no. After 25 you're in the club
25 just tends to be the age that most guys grow up. Of course this is a gross generalisation, I've slept with guys younger that were very mature, and also guys in their 40s with a mental age of 10. 25 is a law of average I guess. Xx"
Yes! I mean... *ahem* cool, no biggie |
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My quoted age range is 30 to 65 and I think it says more about my insecurities than anything else. Why would someone in their 20s be interested in someone my age? What would we talk about? What shared cultural references would we have? And typing this I'm thinking fuck I should up that to 40. But there are interesting people of all ages and I like interesting, I like talking shite. |
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"My quoted age range is 30 to 65 and I think it says more about my insecurities than anything else. Why would someone in their 20s be interested in someone my age? What would we talk about? What shared cultural references would we have? And typing this I'm thinking fuck I should up that to 40. But there are interesting people of all ages and I like interesting, I like talking shite."
Try less talk and more action! |
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I don’t mind talking to either but I do seem to be attracted to the guys in their early to mid 30’s. It’s not a choice thing, I seem to get on with them better and they usually can keep my interest. |
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"Hi All
Just wanted to have a chat about age
I tend interact with younger guys , guys my age and guys a little bit older but no more than ten years or so.
What does everyone else do
do you prefer same age, younger or older or do you not really consider age.
Hoping to hear some interesting view points "
I prefer younger (Starting from 19-25 for me) but I have dated a 52 year old (plus considered a relationship) we got on so well and she was funny to be around plus our sexual chemistry was on point, but I prefer younger women |
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18 to 80. Cast your net as wide as you can
Prefer younger women, I find them to be less jaded and more open minded.
As for couples it's all about attitude and sexuality, rather than age.  |
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"My quoted age range is 30 to 65 and I think it says more about my insecurities than anything else. Why would someone in their 20s be interested in someone my age? What would we talk about? What shared cultural references would we have? And typing this I'm thinking fuck I should up that to 40. But there are interesting people of all ages and I like interesting, I like talking shite."
 Stop putting yourself down. |
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"Hi All
Just wanted to have a chat about age
I tend interact with younger guys , guys my age and guys a little bit older but no more than ten years or so.
What does everyone else do
do you prefer same age, younger or older or do you not really consider age.
Hoping to hear some interesting view points "
I prefer men in their 40s all the way. The oldest I’ve had sex with is a 50 year old. I gel with them more and they stimulate my mind and also the older is just more experienced. I find the older the better. |
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I prefer men in their 40s all the way. The oldest I’ve had sex with is a 50 year old. I gel with them more and they stimulate my mind and also the older is just more experienced. I find the older the better.
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"Similar age and older. I find younger guys really immature too much of them are fuck boys. That’s the issue
Oh there ain't an age limit on fuck boy  "
Very true. I know what you mean. But most fuck boys are around 20s 30s that’s just my personal opinion |
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I don't really have a set age as such but I'm very unlikely to meet anyone under 30.
Iv always seemed to be attracted to people older than me but I wouldn't rule someone out that I found attractive or had a connection with purely based on age alone. |
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"Similar age and older. I find younger guys really immature too much of them are fuck boys. That’s the issue
Oh there ain't an age limit on fuck boy
Very true. I know what you mean. But most fuck boys are around 20s 30s that’s just my personal opinion "
Definitely. But occasionally you find them in their 40s (or older) and hoo boy |
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"In my 20's I had an affair with a man of 55 
To this day it was the best sex I've ever had "
this sounds interesting. When I was 18 I lost my V to a man in his 40s I would never regret that. I tried loosing it to 3 different people around my age at the time all failed. |
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"Similar age and older. I find younger guys really immature too much of them are fuck boys. That’s the issue
Oh there ain't an age limit on fuck boy
Very true. I know what you mean. But most fuck boys are around 20s 30s that’s just my personal opinion
Definitely. But occasionally you find them in their 40s (or older) and hoo boy "
Yeah occasionally I agree but not as much. Glad someone understands this |
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40 upwards for me but I usually tend to go mid 50s to late 60s.
I'm pretty body confident with a healthy dash of realism and I wonder sometimes why men in their 20s and 30's even 40s are interested in a woman of my age. |
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"In my 20's I had an affair with a man of 55
To this day it was the best sex I've ever had this sounds interesting. When I was 18 I lost my V to a man in his 40s I would never regret that. I tried loosing it to 3 different people around my age at the time all failed. "
Older men have skills |
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"In my 20's I had an affair with a man of 55
To this day it was the best sex I've ever had this sounds interesting. When I was 18 I lost my V to a man in his 40s I would never regret that. I tried loosing it to 3 different people around my age at the time all failed.
Older men have skills "
IM TELLING YOU!!! Girllll some people are missing out |
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"In my 20's I had an affair with a man of 55
To this day it was the best sex I've ever had this sounds interesting. When I was 18 I lost my V to a man in his 40s I would never regret that. I tried loosing it to 3 different people around my age at the time all failed.
Older men have skills IM TELLING YOU!!! Girllll some people are missing out"
Yeah I know ! I only fuck old men hmhmmm tastyyy |
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"In my 20's I had an affair with a man of 55
To this day it was the best sex I've ever had this sounds interesting. When I was 18 I lost my V to a man in his 40s I would never regret that. I tried loosing it to 3 different people around my age at the time all failed.
Older men have skills IM TELLING YOU!!! Girllll some people are missing out
Yeah I know ! I only fuck old men hmhmmm tastyyy"
LOL |
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I don't go that much younger than me, I've a tendency to stay 5 years either side. I would go early 30's at a push but I'd need to get to know them and their understanding of the world. I tend to put myself in the position of that persons parent and think how they'd feel if their son was banging someone 10 plus years their senior and as a parent I'd be concerned, I can't deny it.
Maybe the older my own child gets I'll feel differently, but for now that's how I feel about it. |
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"In my 20's I had an affair with a man of 55
To this day it was the best sex I've ever had this sounds interesting. When I was 18 I lost my V to a man in his 40s I would never regret that. I tried loosing it to 3 different people around my age at the time all failed.
Older men have skills IM TELLING YOU!!! Girllll some people are missing out"
I'm just going to take a moment to remember
He competed in the Ironman Hawaii shortly before I knew him. What a body |
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"Prefer a older guy over 40
Completely random and off topic but everytime I see your user name I think it says Asian couple elephants "
Haha, I see that now xx |
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I prefer younger guys with beautiful bodies. I've never met anybody on here older the me for a meet, only at large socials. I think the youngest on here was a 22 year old but he was very mature and very intelligent |
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"In my 20's I had an affair with a man of 55
To this day it was the best sex I've ever had this sounds interesting. When I was 18 I lost my V to a man in his 40s I would never regret that. I tried loosing it to 3 different people around my age at the time all failed.
Older men have skills IM TELLING YOU!!! Girllll some people are missing out
I'm just going to take a moment to remember
He competed in the Ironman Hawaii shortly before I knew him. What a body "
lol |
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I really want to experience an older black woman (40s-50s) I used to have the biggest crush on one of my moms friends she was a Nigerian woman, and i currently have my eyes set on this one lady in my local area, she has grey hair, locs, a very small frame, and has a beautiful face, she’s aged, and beautiful in the face and we’ve spoken and she says she lives my smile everytime |
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So 5 years ago I wouldn't meet men over 40.
I liked older men but not loads older.
Then I met Jeff, he was 45. Would be easily passed for 35. He is GORGEOUS. Incredible at all the sex and has more stamina than any man I've met. I don't notice our age gap really, unless he starts chatting about some old tv show that was before my time.
Age means nothing. If I find them attractive, game on 
Oh how things have changed
Lu |
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"So 5 years ago I wouldn't meet men over 40.
I liked older men but not loads older.
Then I met Jeff, he was 45. Would be easily passed for 35. He is GORGEOUS. Incredible at all the sex and has more stamina than any man I've met. I don't notice our age gap really, unless he starts chatting about some old tv show that was before my time.
Age means nothing. If I find them attractive, game on
Oh how things have changed
Lu "
I’m happy for you |
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"So 5 years ago I wouldn't meet men over 40.
I liked older men but not loads older.
Then I met Jeff, he was 45. Would be easily passed for 35. He is GORGEOUS. Incredible at all the sex and has more stamina than any man I've met. I don't notice our age gap really, unless he starts chatting about some old tv show that was before my time.
Age means nothing. If I find them attractive, game on
Oh how things have changed
Lu I’m happy for you "
I'm happy for me too
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"Similar age and older. I find younger guys really immature too much of them are fuck boys. That’s the issue
Oh there ain't an age limit on fuck boy "
I agree no age limit. Can a leopard change it's spots?
To OP: I will chat/socialise with anyone of any age but when it comes to playing I tend to keep a 10 year ish window either side of my own age. Just a preference in what I find attractive and opportunities I've had. |
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"Similar age and older. I find younger guys really immature too much of them are fuck boys. That’s the issue
Oh there ain't an age limit on fuck boy
I agree no age limit. Can a leopard change it's spots?
To OP: I will chat/socialise with anyone of any age but when it comes to playing I tend to keep a 10 year ish window either side of my own age. Just a preference in what I find attractive and opportunities I've had. "
Apparently not. Aging fuck boy is a bit sad though |
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"Prefer a older guy over 40
Completely random and off topic but everytime I see your user name I think it says Asian couple elephants "
Funny you should mention that.We was thinking of changing our username to a shorter version |
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"Similar age and older. I find younger guys really immature too much of them are fuck boys. That’s the issue
Oh there ain't an age limit on fuck boy
I agree no age limit. Can a leopard change it's spots?
To OP: I will chat/socialise with anyone of any age but when it comes to playing I tend to keep a 10 year ish window either side of my own age. Just a preference in what I find attractive and opportunities I've had.
Apparently not. Aging fuck boy is a bit sad though "
Haha it is really. Kind of makes me feel sorry for them, honestly.
Shame I don't do pity fucks haha |
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"Similar age and older. I find younger guys really immature too much of them are fuck boys. That’s the issue
Oh there ain't an age limit on fuck boy
I agree no age limit. Can a leopard change it's spots?
To OP: I will chat/socialise with anyone of any age but when it comes to playing I tend to keep a 10 year ish window either side of my own age. Just a preference in what I find attractive and opportunities I've had.
Apparently not. Aging fuck boy is a bit sad though
Haha it is really. Kind of makes me feel sorry for them, honestly.
Shame I don't do pity fucks haha"
I do though |
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"Similar age and older. I find younger guys really immature too much of them are fuck boys. That’s the issue
Oh there ain't an age limit on fuck boy
I agree no age limit. Can a leopard change it's spots?
To OP: I will chat/socialise with anyone of any age but when it comes to playing I tend to keep a 10 year ish window either side of my own age. Just a preference in what I find attractive and opportunities I've had.
Apparently not. Aging fuck boy is a bit sad though
Haha it is really. Kind of makes me feel sorry for them, honestly.
Shame I don't do pity fucks haha"
I'm a bit low on the pity, let alone giving a fuck. |
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"Similar age and older. I find younger guys really immature too much of them are fuck boys. That’s the issue
Oh there ain't an age limit on fuck boy
I agree no age limit. Can a leopard change it's spots?
To OP: I will chat/socialise with anyone of any age but when it comes to playing I tend to keep a 10 year ish window either side of my own age. Just a preference in what I find attractive and opportunities I've had.
Apparently not. Aging fuck boy is a bit sad though
Haha it is really. Kind of makes me feel sorry for them, honestly.
Shame I don't do pity fucks haha
I'm a bit low on the pity, let alone giving a fuck."
Best way to live life haha |
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I'm 36 and the age thing isn't much of a big deal. After all this is a swinging site we're not looking for the loves of our lives. I'd entertain women from 18-55 I'd say but the older women tend to want older men which I find weird |
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I honestly don't care. It's all about individual compatibility.
I've known student-age people with the heart and soul of a pensioner, and middle-aged people who've apparently never made it out of high school.
I set my upper limit to whatever age Helen Mirren is at the moment. |
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"sexually I prefer alot younger, for mental stimulation and if they're in great health for their age, I go for similar age. Never been with anyone over 40 though"
Everyone falls to bits after 40 |
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"sexually I prefer alot younger, for mental stimulation and if they're in great health for their age, I go for similar age. Never been with anyone over 40 though
Everyone falls to bits after 40"
This is clearly a joke, as I’m mid 40’s, I mean take a look. |
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"sexually I prefer alot younger, for mental stimulation and if they're in great health for their age, I go for similar age. Never been with anyone over 40 though
Everyone falls to bits after 40
This is clearly a joke, as I’m mid 40’s, I mean take a look. "
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Hi Everyone
Thanks for your contribution on the topic.
I often adjust my age criteria as I get older.
For example when I was in my mid twenties,a guy in this mid thirties would be my limit.
But I do think it might be possible that we could miss out on opportunities by having strict criteria on age. |
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