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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it just me or when you get a message like I got this morning no names mentioned even though he called me a dreamer is a huge turn off.
"To be honest I am fed up of ping pong messaging either we are going to meet or we aren't"
Should I not be turned off by a comment like this genuinely want to know if I'm being a bitch?
Not keen on complaints about not being able to meet anyone on the site either just because you spent 0 min on a profile and 0 pics doesn't make you entitled to get fuck because you sent a dic pic.
Ahhh rant over sorry if I have offended anyone was not the intention.  |
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over a year ago
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If I’m honest I’m not 100% sure exactly what you are asking.
But I think you’re saying is it ok to be turned off by someone making a comment that you don’t like. In which case, yes. You’re free to be turned off by anything you like. Furthermore you can’t actually control what turns you on or off someone.  |
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"If I’m honest I’m not 100% sure exactly what you are asking.
But I think you’re saying is it ok to be turned off by someone making a comment that you don’t like. In which case, yes. You’re free to be turned off by anything you like. Furthermore you can’t actually control what turns you on or off someone. "
To me a message like that says "I don't want to talk, just fuck"
I'm not fucking until I'm comfortable, so, if you don't want to talk, then fuck off. (In response to a message like that, if they push the point) |
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That's what I thought and I apologized for messaging to much and sed hope you find the quick fuck your looking for then I recieved received message calling me a dreamer and that he never once sed he would fuck me got all very defensive I was looking forward to the meet he seemed lovely before all that thought maybe I was being weird. |
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"That's what I thought and I apologized for messaging to much and sed hope you find the quick fuck your looking for then I recieved received message calling me a dreamer and that he never once sed he would fuck me got all very defensive I was looking forward to the meet he seemed lovely before all that thought maybe I was being weird."
In my experience (dangerous words) those who call you a dreamer because you won't immediately jump to, don't understand the scene and aren't worth your energy. |
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"That's what I thought and I apologized for messaging to much and sed hope you find the quick fuck your looking for then I recieved received message calling me a dreamer and that he never once sed he would fuck me got all very defensive I was looking forward to the meet he seemed lovely before all that thought maybe I was being weird.
In my experience (dangerous words) those who call you a dreamer because you won't immediately jump to, don't understand the scene and aren't worth your energy."
This, Is someone pushes me to meet I stop chatting (pre covid)
Go at your own pace op and don't let anyone tell you when /how to meet. |
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"If I’m honest I’m not 100% sure exactly what you are asking.
But I think you’re saying is it ok to be turned off by someone making a comment that you don’t like. In which case, yes. You’re free to be turned off by anything you like. Furthermore you can’t actually control what turns you on or off someone.
To me a message like that says "I don't want to talk, just fuck"
I'm not fucking until I'm comfortable, so, if you don't want to talk, then fuck off. (In response to a message like that, if they push the point)"
Got it. I was being dense and thought the op was saying they was sick of ping pong messages and wanted to meet. I can see now they received a message saying that
OP, forget that guy. Don’t be forced into meeting anyone until you’re ready. |
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