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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure if I actually had a ghosting experience recently but here goes:
A guy who'd contacted me a few months ago got back in touch and invited me to his place for fun. I went over and we got naked. He became aroused quickly and attempted to arouse me too but I wasn't feeling it and so asked him to stop. I dressed and made for the door when he tried to block my path, calling me "selfish". I felt empty afterwards and disliked myself for what had taken place. He blocked me and I've no desire to see him again. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"I'm not sure if I actually had a ghosting experience recently but here goes:
A guy who'd contacted me a few months ago got back in touch and invited me to his place for fun. I went over and we got naked. He became aroused quickly and attempted to arouse me too but I wasn't feeling it and so asked him to stop. I dressed and made for the door when he tried to block my path, calling me "selfish". I felt empty afterwards and disliked myself for what had taken place. He blocked me and I've no desire to see him again. "
yeah that's how I feel at the moment and I know i shouldn't feel like that but I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure if I actually had a ghosting experience recently but here goes:
A guy who'd contacted me a few months ago got back in touch and invited me to his place for fun. I went over and we got naked. He became aroused quickly and attempted to arouse me too but I wasn't feeling it and so asked him to stop. I dressed and made for the door when he tried to block my path, calling me "selfish". I felt empty afterwards and disliked myself for what had taken place. He blocked me and I've no desire to see him again. yeah that's how I feel at the moment and I know i shouldn't feel like that but I do "
well it’s called consent and you had your reasons don’t feel bad, you would feel a whole lot worst if you had done anything |
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It depends on how its done.
If its something that's been months in the planning and then when a date is offered or set and they just dissappear then I'm out, they had their chance and blew it and unless their reason is totally genuine and justified then they won't be getting a second chance.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As horrible as it is, unfortunately its a case of chalk it down as experience and move on. It's happened to me fairly recently, said persons number is now blocked so even if they wanted the chance to come back, they can't. I'm worth more than that. |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"As horrible as it is, unfortunately its a case of chalk it down as experience and move on. It's happened to me fairly recently, said persons number is now blocked so even if they wanted the chance to come back, they can't. I'm worth more than that. "
yes indeed we are worth so much more but it does hurt because we actually got on really well and the sex was amazing and out of now where he is gone
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As horrible as it is, unfortunately its a case of chalk it down as experience and move on. It's happened to me fairly recently, said persons number is now blocked so even if they wanted the chance to come back, they can't. I'm worth more than that. yes indeed we are worth so much more but it does hurt because we actually got on really well and the sex was amazing and out of now where he is gone "
I get that. I was "friends" with the guy that's just done it to me for over a year, fucked off out the blue.
Huge hugs lovely  as I've been told by someone who isn't a dickhead
"Good, genuine people do exist, don't give up looking" xx |
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"How would you deal with getting ghosted "
Sometimes OP. People aren’t what they seem and tell you things that aren’t true. If it’s on here, block and move on. In the outside world just don’t engage with them. They truly aren’t worth your time or worry |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"As horrible as it is, unfortunately its a case of chalk it down as experience and move on. It's happened to me fairly recently, said persons number is now blocked so even if they wanted the chance to come back, they can't. I'm worth more than that. yes indeed we are worth so much more but it does hurt because we actually got on really well and the sex was amazing and out of now where he is gone
I get that. I was "friends" with the guy that's just done it to me for over a year, fucked off out the blue.
Huge hugs lovely as I've been told by someone who isn't a dickhead
"Good, genuine people do exist, don't give up looking" xx"
I hope so because I'm starting to think I'm not the worth it |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"How would you deal with getting ghosted
Sometimes OP. People aren’t what they seem and tell you things that aren’t true. If it’s on here, block and move on. In the outside world just don’t engage with them. They truly aren’t worth your time or worry "
thank you and that helps |
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"How would you deal with getting ghosted
Sometimes OP. People aren’t what they seem and tell you things that aren’t true. If it’s on here, block and move on. In the outside world just don’t engage with them. They truly aren’t worth your time or worry thank you and that helps "
 . There is always a brighter tomorrow (we can hope!  ) To engage with them or try will flatter their ego, it is essentially what they want. I don’t think you signed up for that, did you?
Be well |
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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"How would you deal with getting ghosted
Sometimes OP. People aren’t what they seem and tell you things that aren’t true. If it’s on here, block and move on. In the outside world just don’t engage with them. They truly aren’t worth your time or worry thank you and that helps
. There is always a brighter tomorrow (we can hope! ) To engage with them or try will flatter their ego, it is essentially what they want. I don’t think you signed up for that, did you?
Be well "
I really didn't I just wanna be respected etc |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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I've experienced it with so many people over the years, and a few women on Fab too... usually see it as they luv the attention and so move on when they find a new friend to massage their ego.
Nonetheless, it's a part of modern society now. So get used it, get used to being let down  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"How would you deal with getting ghosted
Wait until they come back to you ( and they will)
And then tell them to fuck right off"
Was gonna say this, but you put it so much better 
When they message expecting to pick up where you left off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll drive yourself mad trying to work out what goes on in other people's heads OP. The problem isn't you, it's them, remember that and go live your best life xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Move on. There's 100x as many guys on here as ladies. Some are fakes some find other options, some have partners who aren't aware, so sadly it'll happen again too.
Why waste any time replying to someone who isn't going to be there. If you haven't the time to reply to all the genuine guys why would you even consider responding to a ghoster? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How would you deal with getting ghosted
Wait until they come back to you ( and they will)
And then tell them to fuck right off"
This!
Same guy has done it to me 3 times now (more the fool me!). Just gotta move on. Fuckers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got ghosted after knowing someone 4 months. That was rough. Left me wondering what was so wrong with me. Then I realised that there was nothing wrong with me he wasn’t man enough. I eventually managed to contact him - as I was worried something had happened to him and wished I hadn’t bothered as he was vile.
Live and learn some people have no scruples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How would you deal with getting ghosted
As a single guy who has used regular dating sites and obviously fab something that I've rather gotten used to x"
This. |
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Move on and forget. I’ve had it twice from guys I really liked, one still not a clue why, other found himself a girlfriend but took a month of ignoring me to tell me.
I’ve put it down as experience and to move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How would you deal with getting ghosted
Wait until they come back to you ( and they will)
And then tell them to fuck right off"
It’s hilarious when they do. |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
"How would you deal with getting ghosted
Wait until they come back to you ( and they will)
And then tell them to fuck right off"
I wouldnt waste my time telling them to f off I just wouldnt answer them x |
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