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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!" losing a pet (a member of the family really)so hard to take. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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So sorry to read this OP.
It's one of the hardest things ever to handle but he's no longer in pain or discomfort or confused about either, and that's what you have to hold on to.
Sending huge hugs and I do hope that you can remember the joy without pain some day soon.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I still miss my lil beagle chum. Hugs coming your way"
Who would have thought it could affect us so much, but when you are on your own it kinda hits hard.. |
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"I still miss my lil beagle chum. Hugs coming your way
Who would have thought it could affect us so much, but when you are on your own it kinda hits hard.."
Trust me it hits just as hard when your not on your own it hurts |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!losing a pet (a member of the family really)so hard to take. "
Thank you, here’s me off loading to strangers but I kinda need the virtual hug atm. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I still miss my lil beagle chum. Hugs coming your way
Who would have thought it could affect us so much, but when you are on your own it kinda hits hard..
Trust me it hits just as hard when your not on your own it hurts "
Sorry didn’t mean to be rude/presumptuous. It’s hard for anyone losing our best buds. I just miss having anyone to hug & console me. |
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!losing a pet (a member of the family really)so hard to take.
Thank you, here’s me off loading to strangers but I kinda need the virtual hug atm."
If nothing else we have alot of love spare on here |
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!"
Sorry about this.
Some say "it's just a dog"
To which we say
"Have you ever actually had a pet?"
It feels crap. It will get better. Just remember the bizarre things they did that made you laugh, grieve, and be grateful.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!losing a pet (a member of the family really)so hard to take.
Thank you, here’s me off loading to strangers but I kinda need the virtual hug atm.
If nothing else we have alot of love spare on here"
I gathered you were all a loving kind bunch who would give me the virtual hug I need atm. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!
Sorry about this.
Some say "it's just a dog"
To which we say
"Have you ever actually had a pet?"
It feels crap. It will get better. Just remember the bizarre things they did that made you laugh, grieve, and be grateful.
"
He was a cocker spaniel and was a twat most of the time but he was my twat and I will miss his presence greatly. He was also more gorgeous than any man I’ve known and gave the best cuddles. |
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!
Sorry about this.
Some say "it's just a dog"
To which we say
"Have you ever actually had a pet?"
It feels crap. It will get better. Just remember the bizarre things they did that made you laugh, grieve, and be grateful.
He was a cocker spaniel and was a twat most of the time but he was my twat and I will miss his presence greatly. He was also more gorgeous than any man I’ve known and gave the best cuddles."
Ah yes. Lessons to men everywhere.
When your loved one walks through the door, you must be able to do a Full Body Wag and - with just one look - say with your eyes
HELLLOOOOImissedyouWherehaveyouBEEEN??NowcomeandsitdownsoIcansitonyouandlickyourface. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!
Sorry about this.
Some say "it's just a dog"
To which we say
"Have you ever actually had a pet?"
It feels crap. It will get better. Just remember the bizarre things they did that made you laugh, grieve, and be grateful.
He was a cocker spaniel and was a twat most of the time but he was my twat and I will miss his presence greatly. He was also more gorgeous than any man I’ve known and gave the best cuddles.
Ah yes. Lessons to men everywhere.
When your loved one walks through the door, you must be able to do a Full Body Wag and - with just one look - say with your eyes
HELLLOOOOImissedyouWherehaveyouBEEEN??NowcomeandsitdownsoIcansitonyouandlickyourface. "
Ha ha the boys could definitely learn a thing or two from our enthusiastic furry companions |
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!"
oh my goodness, this is heartbreaking, only 4? If you had to do that then, I know you must (as anyone would have) exhausted all options and this would be the reluctant last. As was with my golden retriever Hollie-nothing could be done, was the last thing I could do to love that pup, to not let her suffer anymore. Sounds to me like you looked after that little fella to the very very end. I might be wrong, but I think he might even have known that you would do everything for him, and that his Mum loved him forever. Please get a new Cocker in his honour, I suspect that your little fella would like that from the other side.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a dog sent to sleep 12 months ago who I'd had for 16yrs. My brave little traveller had followed me to Australia to live for 10yrs and back again.
I feel your pain OP. |
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!
Sorry about this.
Some say "it's just a dog"
To which we say
"Have you ever actually had a pet?"
It feels crap. It will get better. Just remember the bizarre things they did that made you laugh, grieve, and be grateful.
He was a cocker spaniel and was a twat most of the time but he was my twat and I will miss his presence greatly. He was also more gorgeous than any man I’ve known and gave the best cuddles.
Ah yes. Lessons to men everywhere.
When your loved one walks through the door, you must be able to do a Full Body Wag and - with just one look - say with your eyes
HELLLOOOOImissedyouWherehaveyouBEEEN??NowcomeandsitdownsoIcansitonyouandlickyourface.
Ha ha the boys could definitely learn a thing or two from our enthusiastic furry companions "
Indeed. One well-beloved collie would pass wind (silent but deadly). You just had to say her name and she would sheepishly slink from the room.
Not many men can say the same |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!
oh my goodness, this is heartbreaking, only 4? If you had to do that then, I know you must (as anyone would have) exhausted all options and this would be the reluctant last. As was with my golden retriever Hollie-nothing could be done, was the last thing I could do to love that pup, to not let her suffer anymore. Sounds to me like you looked after that little fella to the very very end. I might be wrong, but I think he might even have known that you would do everything for him, and that his Mum loved him forever. Please get a new Cocker in his honour, I suspect that your little fella would like that from the other side.. "
They think he had toxic poisoning, possibly from a garden mushroom, but not sure. He had drips, blood plasma, glucose, vit k and oxygen, scans etc.. But unfortunately had a brain bleed late tonight. The vets were fantastic and the nurse said he was the cutest and she would give him a cuddle and hold his paw and give him a kiss from me.. They called me straight afterwards to say it was peaceful. My heart is broken and have to break it to the kids tomorrow. |
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"Regular lurker, newbie & occasional poster.
However I’m not sleeping tonight as my darling baby boy cocker spaniel has just had to be put to sleep.
The most gorgeous & loyal boy I have ever known, he was only 4
Beats all the men hands down best companion ever!"
Sorry you have lost a great companion. Hugs x |
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I know everyone deals with grief in different ways but try to remember a funny thing about him everyday, it won't stop the pain but might make it slightly easier to bear x
Mines 12, with cancer so I know its not far off and tears well everytime I think of it but we make a good memory every single day together |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So sorry OP
We have a cocker too.
I really feel for you and the kiddies.
He knew he was loved and it sounds like he was cared for so much right to the end.
Sending big hugs to you all
Jo xx"
Thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you so much to you lovely lot especially the night owls on here who sent me so really lovely messages to get me through a very sad night on my own.
You fabbers really are a fabulous kind bunch
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So so sorry for your loss. I know how it feels and you feel like you ripped your heart out
Be kind to yourself and understand that letting them go is the ultimate act of true love |
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