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I'm fed up of going to bed alone every night.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it have to be an all or nothing choice? I’d like to share a couple of nights a week? 
Sounds ideal. Like a timeshare apartment  "
Not exactly as I’d like the same guy a couple of nights a week and the rest of the time the bed is for me alone  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it have to be an all or nothing choice? I’d like to share a couple of nights a week? "
That's exactly it. It's good to have your own space but sometimes........ |
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"Does it have to be an all or nothing choice? I’d like to share a couple of nights a week?
Sounds ideal. Like a timeshare apartment
Not exactly as I’d like the same guy a couple of nights a week and the rest of the time the bed is for me alone "
Typical that you’d be fucking awkward about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. My bed, my space. If I shared a bed with someone every night it would have to be seperate mattresses and duvets."
Separate rooms! Been there done that for 25 years! I can’t deal with snoring. I like hotels but nobody’s getting in this bed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I need a balance of spooning and sleeping alone. I've slept alone for nearly 12 years now. It's a hard habit to break.
I am however, very fed up of being woken by my alarm. I'd far rather the feeling of a gorgeous man snuggling in close, kissing my neck and sliding inside me.
A girl can but dream.
Sweet sleeps everyone xx |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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I visit my other half every weekend.
We go to bed together, snuggle up and fall asleep. Then I move out to the spare bedroom, so we both get a decent night's sleep.
In the morning, I wake up, freshen up and crawl back into her warm bed. Cold feet and hand alert! This is how I wake her up and snuggle up and rudely awake her by gentle touches...followed us upsetting the neighbours, ahem and finishing off by making breakfast.
Works just fine for us, the weekdays are for recovery, LOL. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. My bed, my space. If I shared a bed with someone every night it would have to be seperate mattresses and duvets.
Separate rooms! Been there done that for 25 years! I can’t deal with snoring. I like hotels but nobody’s getting in this bed! "
I've got ear plugs you can borrow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. My bed, my space. If I shared a bed with someone every night it would have to be seperate mattresses and duvets.
Separate rooms! Been there done that for 25 years! I can’t deal with snoring. I like hotels but nobody’s getting in this bed!
I've got ear plugs you can borrow "
To be fair I apparently make some horrendous noises in my sleep so I don’t think anyone would want to sleep with me either!  |
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"No. My bed, my space. If I shared a bed with someone every night it would have to be seperate mattresses and duvets.
Separate rooms! Been there done that for 25 years! I can’t deal with snoring. I like hotels but nobody’s getting in this bed!
I've got ear plugs you can borrow
To be fair I apparently make some horrendous noises in my sleep so I don’t think anyone would want to sleep with me either! "
I’ll take a chance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anybody else?
Me too 
Getting quite sad and lonely..I can fill my days but you notice it more at bedtime.. or having someone to cuddle with in the evening x"
Oh I agree completely it would be sooo nice to cuddle someone in the evening xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. My bed, my space. If I shared a bed with someone every night it would have to be seperate mattresses and duvets.
Separate rooms! Been there done that for 25 years! I can’t deal with snoring. I like hotels but nobody’s getting in this bed!
I've got ear plugs you can borrow
To be fair I apparently make some horrendous noises in my sleep so I don’t think anyone would want to sleep with me either! "
I've woken myself up shouting before and screaming once  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like having my bedroom and my bed to myself, but I also would love to be cuddled to sleep, or spooned sometimes
Yes and then they must leave
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Yes, but come back in the morning with breakfast |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. My bed, my space. If I shared a bed with someone every night it would have to be seperate mattresses and duvets.
Separate rooms! Been there done that for 25 years! I can’t deal with snoring. I like hotels but nobody’s getting in this bed!
I've got ear plugs you can borrow
To be fair I apparently make some horrendous noises in my sleep so I don’t think anyone would want to sleep with me either!
I've woken myself up shouting before and screaming once "
Me too. I’ve woken up all around the house! I sleep walk! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. My bed, my space. If I shared a bed with someone every night it would have to be seperate mattresses and duvets.
Separate rooms! Been there done that for 25 years! I can’t deal with snoring. I like hotels but nobody’s getting in this bed!
I've got ear plugs you can borrow
To be fair I apparently make some horrendous noises in my sleep so I don’t think anyone would want to sleep with me either!
I've woken myself up shouting before and screaming once
Me too. I’ve woken up all around the house! I sleep walk!"
Not woken up in Trev's house yet have you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I like my bed to myself too much! Fed up of not being able to snuggle with a man though "
I hear you on that... I like to have my bed space too, but itnis nice to share it sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it have to be an all or nothing choice? I’d like to share a couple of nights a week?
Sounds ideal. Like a timeshare apartment
Not exactly as I’d like the same guy a couple of nights a week and the rest of the time the bed is for me alone
Typical that you’d be fucking awkward about it "
Never claimed to be easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. My bed, my space. If I shared a bed with someone every night it would have to be seperate mattresses and duvets.
Separate rooms! Been there done that for 25 years! I can’t deal with snoring. I like hotels but nobody’s getting in this bed!
I've got ear plugs you can borrow
To be fair I apparently make some horrendous noises in my sleep so I don’t think anyone would want to sleep with me either!
I've woken myself up shouting before and screaming once
Me too. I’ve woken up all around the house! I sleep walk!
Not woken up in Trev's house yet have you?"
Haha not yet. He’s still safe! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I like having my bedroom and my bed to myself, but I also would love to be cuddled to sleep, or spooned sometimes
Yes and then they must leave
Yes, but come back in the morning with breakfast "
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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago
Deep in the New Forest |
I'm the same as many others have said.... Love being able to star fish and kick the covers off if to hot. Plus not waking up halfway through the night with a dead arm is always a bonus But there are some night when you need to feel flesh on flesh as you drift off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. My bed, my space. If I shared a bed with someone every night it would have to be seperate mattresses and duvets.
Separate rooms! Been there done that for 25 years! I can’t deal with snoring. I like hotels but nobody’s getting in this bed!
I've got ear plugs you can borrow
To be fair I apparently make some horrendous noises in my sleep so I don’t think anyone would want to sleep with me either!
I've woken myself up shouting before and screaming once
Me too. I’ve woken up all around the house! I sleep walk!
Not woken up in Trev's house yet have you?
Haha not yet. He’s still safe! "
Good. Keeps me awake some nights worrying about him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I crave cuddles. All kinds.
It makes me sad to think I may never have that
Same here xx"
Why do either of you think it’s not going to happen? Ridiculous I say! Of course it will |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"I crave cuddles. All kinds.
It makes me sad to think I may never have that
Same here xx
Why do either of you think it’s not going to happen? Ridiculous I say! Of course it will "
My dad says I'm getting old and past it. And he knows everything.
Plus there's the fab curse.... everyone is a million miles away! |
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Yep. Been a year now divorced & the worst times of day are right now lying here on my own & then waking up the same in the morning. I know fab isn't the place to find somebody to fill the void really but I live in hope of chancing across an accepting lady.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could be worse you could be with someone but feel alone.
So, so correct. Worst feeling in the world. "
Absolutely this. Been sleeping alone for pretty much over 10 years and would do another 10 if the above was the only other option to go back to. |
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Just spent 2 nights in bed with my Tgirlfriend, we don't live together and not that close geographically, will be strange tonight on my own, not because of the sex which is great but the cuddles and tenderness. |
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"No. My bed, my space. If I shared a bed with someone every night it would have to be seperate mattresses and duvets.
Separate rooms! Been there done that for 25 years! I can’t deal with snoring. I like hotels but nobody’s getting in this bed!
I've got ear plugs you can borrow
To be fair I apparently make some horrendous noises in my sleep so I don’t think anyone would want to sleep with me either! "
It depends what end those noises come from!! Haha |
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"I'd have to have a super huge massive bed to share on a regular basis. I like snuggles but can't deal with the other person's weight tilting the mattress."
Happy to share with a cat or dog tho just need a job where I can work from home for that |
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"I'd have to have a super huge massive bed to share on a regular basis. I like snuggles but can't deal with the other person's weight tilting the mattress."
Probably time to get a bed rather than sleeping on a see-saw? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anybody else?
Me too
Getting quite sad and lonely..I can fill my days but you notice it more at bedtime.. or having someone to cuddle with in the evening x"
Sending a virtual cuddle |
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Yep. In a way its even worse when your in a relationship and live apart. We often go to sleep together over the phone but its not the same. Sometimes I find my self snuggling up to a spare pillow to fill the physical void she leaves but nothing compares to having My Girl in my arms or her head resting on my hairy chest as I drift off. Even better to wake up and find her next me and knowing I'm always free to slide myself inside. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I dont have company (which is half of the time) the cat that owns me comes and takes the bed over.
She begins by rubbing her head against any part of my body that is exposed (dont get wierd ideas). From there she decides where I can sleep by consistantly padding until she gets where she wishes to be which is usually the middle of the bed.
From this point I am usually balanced on the end of the bed with the quilt between my legs and covering around half my body. If I am lucky she will at this point settle down and sleep but if she feels like it she will then begin to clean herself.
This means I am now laid in the dark, usually cold and uncomfortable listening to the noises of her mouth and teeth as they systematically wash her all over mixed with the loud purr she likes to produce.
At this point I begin to wonder if there is anything on late night tv.  |
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I can’t sleep with another person in the bed, I fidget around too much and I like my arms n legs in certain positions (basically sprawled out) I can cuddle for about 5 mins then get too hot n flustered so have to move away  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can’t sleep with another person in the bed, I fidget around too much and I like my arms n legs in certain positions (basically sprawled out) I can cuddle for about 5 mins then get too hot n flustered so have to move away "
off to the sofa i go lol |
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"If I dont have company (which is half of the time) the cat that owns me comes and takes the bed over.
She begins by rubbing her head against any part of my body that is exposed (dont get wierd ideas). From there she decides where I can sleep by consistantly padding until she gets where she wishes to be which is usually the middle of the bed.
From this point I am usually balanced on the end of the bed with the quilt between my legs and covering around half my body. If I am lucky she will at this point settle down and sleep but if she feels like it she will then begin to clean herself.
This means I am now laid in the dark, usually cold and uncomfortable listening to the noises of her mouth and teeth as they systematically wash her all over mixed with the loud purr she likes to produce.
At this point I begin to wonder if there is anything on late night tv. "
Sounds like a scene from Simons Cat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I dont have company (which is half of the time) the cat that owns me comes and takes the bed over.
She begins by rubbing her head against any part of my body that is exposed (dont get wierd ideas). From there she decides where I can sleep by consistantly padding until she gets where she wishes to be which is usually the middle of the bed.
From this point I am usually balanced on the end of the bed with the quilt between my legs and covering around half my body. If I am lucky she will at this point settle down and sleep but if she feels like it she will then begin to clean herself.
This means I am now laid in the dark, usually cold and uncomfortable listening to the noises of her mouth and teeth as they systematically wash her all over mixed with the loud purr she likes to produce.
At this point I begin to wonder if there is anything on late night tv. "
Awww! I have 3 of the little buggers, so I feel ya! |
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