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Should I let them
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"If everyone is ok with the scenario I'm not sure what the issue is? Unless you have doubts. You definitely all need to be on the same page or it's likely to blow up in your faces. Reality can be a whole lot different to the fantasy. "   This | |||
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 . I'd be telling him to give his head a very big wobble | |||
"She is very keen to fuck him alone then come back and fuck me" Would she ever let you fuck another woman | |||
"She is very keen to fuck him alone then come back and fuck me Would she ever let you fuck another woman " Also if she’s that keen on this guy will they be fucking without your consent or knowledge | |||
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"If in doubt, don’t do it. Your gut instinct is telling you something, so listen to it." Yeah very true | |||
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Sounds like there might be more to it and who is he to dictate terms if it's your gf ?
Is she actually a proper gf (you've got a singles profile) or more someone you occasionally meet for sex ?
Good luck either way | |||
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"Communication...communication...communication! (I’m doing my best Tony Blair impression whilst saying that and slapping the back of one hand into the other for emphasis) If after discussing the scenario in detail with your GF, if either of you have doubts, don’t do it. "  but also | |||
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"Literally need to talk out every detail with her so you have no doubts in your mind at all. Any little doubt will put your mind in overdrive and make you go crazy. We had a list of dos and donts and then relayed them to the guy and these were non negotiable. The first time i was at work and it drove me mad not knowing what was happening but i agreed to try again and it does get easier as you tend to build trust if its with the same person. I feel alot more comfortable with it these days and the reclaim sex is out this world "Thanks helps a lot | |||
"Literally need to talk out every detail with her so you have no doubts in your mind at all. Any little doubt will put your mind in overdrive and make you go crazy. We had a list of dos and donts and then relayed them to the guy and these were non negotiable. The first time i was at work and it drove me mad not knowing what was happening but i agreed to try again and it does get easier as you tend to build trust if its with the same person. I feel alot more comfortable with it these days and the reclaim sex is out this world "I agree with this, it is all about trust and communication. When the wife went on her first play meet alone there were rules and I had mixed feelings at the time. Gradually over time these rules have eased and brought new mixed emotions. But now it is at that stage of do what you're comfortable with but don't hide it, infact send as many pictures as you can. For us though it's never been with an ex, so I can imagine your situation can be a little bit different on the emotional front. K | |||
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"Of course what your wife says is crucial, but it sounds to me as this guy's making a standard power grab for your wife. He'll soon be wanting to dispense with the webcam, then you'll be asked to go out when he's around, then she'll be staying at his for the weekend etc. He'll be getting off on your humiliation. It's a standard progression that you can see on the web - Our Hot Wives etc. All that might turn you on right now, but you should know what's coming." | |||
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"I wouldn't be letting someone outside my relationship dictate to me. You say he's "even said I can watch via webcam" . I'd be telling him to give his head a very big wobble"Absolutely this | |||
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"It will blow ur mind. Haha. This is how myself and Mr P started out our solo play. It was only meant to be oral, giving and receiving but got rather hot and when Mr p asked would I like to fuck him while he watched, why would a girl have to think twice about that right?. Hehe xx. We have now done this many many times. With the same guy. We are all very comfortable with the dynamic and it's very natural now. If we can not cam because of timings then we send lots of video clips as well as record the whole thing x x x For us/me it is amazing. We are yet to meet as a 3sum as we live in spain, I travel regular to uk so this is how we enjoy our meets and Mr p joins when it's possible for him to take the trip over for meets. X x Set ur boundaries and talk about it before it happens. I can guarantee u will need a dry pair of shorts after wards. Lol.. Tip.... Make sure u know what u want to see before setting up the cam, it's not fun to keep stopping and starting. Mr p loves my face, my reactions, especially when I look at him and speak to him on cam while it's happening. Feeling involved is key. X x Hope u guys enjoy it as much as we do. X x x Mrs p. X x x " Great insight and many thanks for the advice very much appreciated xxx | |||
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