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Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
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By *oe_pr OP Man
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it "
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other |
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other "
And the mods are there to reprimand for posts that aren't worded politely...but it's very subjective and all too often I see people saying they upset by an opinion that I would say has been worded politely. I have been called nasty (and worse) before for things that I have posted, but I've never received so much as a warning for anything I've posted, so I'd surmise that they were nice posts but someone interpreted them differently to how they were intended. I cannot control how other people interpret my posts |
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other "
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here "
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here "
I haven't seen any personal comments today. What's gone on? |
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Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here
I haven't seen any personal comments today. What's gone on?"
I meant in general. I’ve hardly been on today. |
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here "
Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements  . |
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here
Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements . "
Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx |
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I'll be honest and say I often see people post similar threads, and I must be missing all the horrendous behaviour? Its just the forums, and no different to any other day unless you personally get involved? |
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
...such a pity"
I am holier though. I have three holes  |
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Well I for one always do a good deed and be nice to at least someone every day ..... not to make myself feel good ...... genuinely just the way I am . And it makes me feel good btw |
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
...such a pity
I am holier though. I have three holes "
What a virtue you've signalled! |
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
...such a pity
I am holier though. I have three holes "
  and so very beautiful too if I may say  |
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here
Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .
Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx"
God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting  . |
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here
Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .
Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx
God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting . "
Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!  |
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here
Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .
Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx
God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting .
Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things! "
Everyone has a right to their opinion and often it can lead to interesting deviations from our ways of thinking...what wracks me off is the nastiness that often accompanies it. My perfect tribe would be a bunch of people with different outlooks that would get together with drinks n munchies and debate everything n anything but with an open mind and understanding..then end the meet with perfect naughtyness lolol but alas |
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
...such a pity
I am holier though. I have three holes
What a virtue you've signalled!"
My holy vagina |
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
...such a pity
I am holier though. I have three holes
What a virtue you've signalled!
My holy vagina "
I'm now imagining the minister walking down the aisle at church to the amen refrain and I'm going to an even deeper circle of hell  |
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
...such a pity
I am holier though. I have three holes
and so very beautiful too if I may say "
Me or my holes? |
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
...such a pity
I am holier though. I have three holes
What a virtue you've signalled!
My holy vagina "
I would happily bow to your holyness...and anything else required |
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
...such a pity
I am holier though. I have three holes
and so very beautiful too if I may say
Me or my holes? "
The entire package....totally stunningly gorgeous xx |
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here
Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .
Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx
God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting .
Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things! "
That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information. |
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
...such a pity
I am holier though. I have three holes
What a virtue you've signalled!
My holy vagina
I'm now imagining the minister walking down the aisle at church to the amen refrain and I'm going to an even deeper circle of hell "
I've actually had my holes blessed with holy water |
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here
Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .
Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx
God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting .
Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!
That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information. "
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"Reason I ve not been on threads recently is that theres a lot of opinion bashing and character washing going on...it seems unfortunately that theres a whole pile of holier than thou going on
...such a pity
I am holier though. I have three holes
and so very beautiful too if I may say
Me or my holes?
The entire package....totally stunningly gorgeous xx "
You're very sweet, thank you |
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"Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!
That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information. "
When my information changes, I alter my conclusions. What do you do, sir?
- John Maynard Keynes
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it
I would say you should be able to have your own opinion and voice it. All l am saying it that opinion can be expressed in a nice way hence you can have differing views yet be nice to each other
Yes you should. And it is fine to have different opinions. Posh is a good friend and we maybe did on that thread, myself and Lorna have a lot of differing opinions and we are both very vocal. Same with myself and Estella. We can have this and still be friends though. Unfortunately a lot can’t and get personal. That’s when it becomes an issue and shows immaturity. Too much of it on here
Absolutely! We've had a lot of differences of opinion! But are united on our outlooks and choices of sex positions which I think are much more interesting than the disagreements .
Yes we have! But I think you’re bloody great! I just won’t agree with someone for the sake of it, like you won’t. That’s not “not being nice” xx
God no. And I wouldn’t want you to. Christ you should see the debates me and my dad get into! I love it when someone respectfully challenges me though. Even if I'm firm in my opinion it does make you think which is interesting .
Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!
That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information.
I’ll never eat marmite though . Even if my life depended on it! "
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"Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!
That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information.
When my information changes, I alter my conclusions. What do you do, sir?
- John Maynard Keynes
Who doesn't love a bit of Keynes around here? Dat economics... "
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By *hav02Man
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"Whilst it's an admirable sentiment, I always find these threads to be hypocritical to their actual intent...they're basically telling people that they shouldn't have an opinion that differs from the "hive mind", which is neither nice nor positive.
Just my thoughts on it "
.... But let's, breeeeeeathe.....
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Omg. I so agree. Covid has changed people. Some have turned as if the world is about to end. Its serious yes but lets fight the virious and not ourselves |
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"Omg. I so agree. Covid has changed people. Some have turned as if the world is about to end. Its serious yes but lets fight the virious and not ourselves"
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"Yes I like a good debate and believe it or not some of the ones on here have made me change my opinion on some things!
That's cool. I think it's a sign of a well rounded person to be able to change your views on things when presented with new information.
When my information changes, I alter my conclusions. What do you do, sir?
- John Maynard Keynes
Who doesn't love a bit of Keynes around here? Dat economics... "
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating
It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great "
If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me. |
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By *oe_pr OP Man
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating
It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great
If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me. "
You can choose to be nice or mean these are choices that we all can make so when voicing a different opinion you could choose to do that without adding a sprinkle of a dig at the next person would be one example while it might be simple or basic it can help make things a bit more civil |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer honest over nice
If I say it, I mean it. And not afraid to give my opinion or call someone out.
Always try to look out for people as well.
Let's have both honest and nice.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lately there seems to be a race on to moan the most or send an even worse response let's just all try to be nicer and more positive.
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating
It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great
If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me. "
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"This faux niceness ends up saccharine and Nauseating
It's not meant to be faux but rather genuine wouldn't it be great
If it’s genuine, it doesn’t need to be said it just is, we’ve elevated what should be normal and basic to something to strive for, it’s like people who film themselves doing good deeds and posting it on social media, it’s a level of Narcissism that baffles me.
You can choose to be nice or mean these are choices that we all can make so when voicing a different opinion you could choose to do that without adding a sprinkle of a dig at the next person would be one example while it might be simple or basic it can help make things a bit more civil"
There's something to be said for it. Because it should be expected, but it's so often no longer the norm. We see different priorities in communication for whatever reason. And so yes, it does feel like there's the need to return to basics. |
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